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Concluding chapter of the Lalith de Mel autobiography achieving a main board place at Reckit and Colman

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Served on boards of 27 companies abroad and 11 in Sri Lanka

(Excerpted from the autobiography of Lalith de Mel)

Q: You have had a fascinating career. Tell me something about it?

A:“It was fascinating because I constantly moved to doing things that I had not done before. From an undergraduate to working in a petroleum company to working for a multinational, in personal care and pharmaceuticals, both of which were new to me. Then working in Portuguese in Brazil. Coping with being a managing director at 32. Then posted to working in England which was new experience. And finally, the daunting experience of working with the board of directors of a top 100 company in the UK.

If I reflect on how I survived successfully, I would say that it was by understanding the external emotional environment that affected me and then successfully responding and reacting to it. In other words, having good emotional intelligence.”

Q: What are your thoughts now when you look back in reflection?

A: “Reckitt & Colman was a job. You got fired if you did not perform and promoted if you did. What was achieved in profits, brandshare, acquisitions, etc. are not retained in the mind and have faded away. What remains in the mind are people. It was the people who made my job of earning a living a pleasant and happy experience. I still think warmly of those who helped me along on my corporate journey. They remain friends, and I shed a tear and say a prayer when one passes away. My great good fortune right through my journey is that I worked with very nice people. The exceptions were very, very few.”

Q: When you look back, how do you view your S ri Lankan experience after returning upon retirement from your roles in the UK?

A : “I wanted to help both the State sector and the private sector by using my experience. I wanted to be a catalyst for change, where change was better for the organization. I worked for President Chandrika Bandaranaike Kumaratunga, and for six different ministers in various roles in the State sector. Without exception they were all polite and nice people who appreciated my work. The senior Government servants were equally nice people and appreciated my contribution. It was a good experience and I have absolutely no regrets.”

Q: What do you mean by nice people?

A: “There are two parts to being nice. Being friendly and being appreciative of what one did. If I perceive both, I say they are nice people.”

Q: What was your experience with the private sector?

A: “In the same catalyst mode, creating better governance invariably meant making change. That often affected people due to transferring authority and decision-making from the individual to the board or its committees, and creating accountability. This could be a difficult experience and was a pleasant experience only if one worked with nice people. I was on the Delmege Board, a private company for many years; they, JKH and First Capital and Serendib Hotels all had very nice people and embraced change in the best interests of the organization. They put the organization before self”

Q. You did not mention Hemas, where you were on the Board for a long time?

A: “It was at times difficult and at the end not a very pleasant experience.”

Retirement

Q: You have been on the boards of 27 companies abroad and 11 companies in Sri Lanka; do you find yourself feeling restless at times and wanting to rush back to work again?

A : “I have not felt any need to resort to the prescription of a mistress, a dog who loves you unconditionally, and the spirits that give you euphoria.

I had neglected my family for years. Whilst working in the UK I was traveling incessantly. When I started the new innings in Sri Lanka, it was a month in Sri Lanka and a month in the UK. I have missed so many birthdays and anniversaries and missed the grandchildren’s special days at school. I am now doing all of that, spending quality time with my wife, and slowly collecting my brownie points and enjoying it immensely.

It is a busy life in a gentle way. I enjoy racing and owning a leg in a racehorse for many years was fun. I play golf both in Sri Lanka and the UK. I enjoy a nice bottle of wine in the UK with my daughter and son-in-law, a wine connoisseur. I drank Petrus on my birthday and Sassicaia on his.

In Sri Lanka I enjoy my elder sister Charmaine’s special Sunday lunches. My younger sister Assunta is married to Derek Wijeyaratne, the Chairman of Rockland, who is a connoisseur of good spirits, so we have some excellent evenings together. I also have exceptional company in some of my old school and university mates when I am in Sri Lanka.

My regret is that I did not retire much earlier. My only concern is whether, when the bell is rung and I get to the other side, they will have a golf course and the wines and spirits will be as good. I guess they will!”



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The challenge of keeping value-based politics alive

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Anti-migrant protests in Durban, South Africa. BBC

The current outbreak of anti-immigrant protests in Durban, South Africa is bound to have taken many a subscriber to value-based politics or political idealism quite by surprise. After all, this is evidence that despite the historic accomplishments of nation-builders of the stature of the late President Nelson Mandela it cannot be taken for granted that identity politics, including racism in its worst forms, is no more in South Africa.

At the time of this writing details are scarce on the substantive root causes of the protests but it could very well be that economic grievances, particularly on the part of the majority community in South Africa, are contributing considerably to the disaffection. Shrinking employment and material prospects are likely to figure majorly among the factors igniting the unrest.

Fortunately, the local authorities in Durban are losing no time in calling for peaceful co-existence among the relevant communities and are pointing to the vital importance of stepping-up national integration processes. Apparently, immigrants in sizable numbers from neighbouring countries are present in Durban. However, international TV footage of the protests quoted some local authorities as saying that the majority of the immigrants in some centres that housed them were not illegal migrants and had the documents that entitle them to be in Durban.

In the Durban protests the world has fresh proof of the socially divisive consequences of the gathering globe-wide economic disaffection, touched off particularly by the continuing crisis in West Asia. Going ahead, the world would need to brace for increasing identity-based unrest of the kind it is just witnessing in South Africa.

Considering that the material lot of ordinary people everywhere could only aggravate progressively, with the US and Iran showing no signs of negotiating an end to their confrontation any time soon, it will be left to the more democratic and progressive sections of the world community to initiate positive measures collectively to bring a measure of relief to the discontented.

The swiftness with which such relief will be provided would depend crucially on the importance those sections taking up these undertakings attach to value-based politics as opposed to Realpolitik of power politics.

Going by these yardsticks, Italy could be considered to be moving in the right direction. Recently Italy came to the fore in initiating the collective named, ‘Rome Coalition for Food Security and Access to Fertilizer’, which has as one of its aims the swift provision of fertilizer to economically weak African countries.

In a recent statement Italian Minister of Foreign Affairs and International Cooperation, Antonio Tajani, said that a principal aim of the project was to ensure that the farmers of Africa gained easy access to fertilizer, considering that food security is a growing concern among some of Africa’s economically vulnerable countries.

The statement went on to mention that some 30 countries hailing from the Mediterranean region, the Middle East, the Balkans as well as the FAO had been invited to join the coalition. The venture is far-seeing in that food security is main among the reasons for social discontent which in turn could degenerate into endemic political turmoil and bloodshed. Separatist violence and geographical fragmentation of countries wouldn’t be too far behind these developments, as Africa itself has often proved.

It is hoped that more G7 countries would take the cue from Italy and do what they could to ease the hardships of economically distressed countries, particularly of the global South. In these efforts they would need to break rank with the US, which is today brutally indifferent to the consequences of its policy of making ‘America First’, come what may.

Going by current developments, the Trump administration seems to be blithely oblivious to the wider, deleterious effects of its policy course in West Asia. Besides rendering Iran militarily and otherwise impotent nothing else seems to matter to Washington, as regards West Asia. This is policy short-sightedness of an extreme kind. After all, right now West Asia could be said to be sitting on the proverbial powder keg.

On the other hand, Iran is not giving the world the impression that it is doing anything constructive to get out of the policy straitjacket that it wove for itself decades ago. Rather than enter into a policy of ‘live and let live’ in relation to Israel in particular and initiate a process of reconciliation with the latter, it has chosen to operate within policy parameters that continue to damn Israel. This has put Israel always on the ‘defensive’ so to speak and prevented the opening up of space for meaningful dialogue.

That said, Israel is obliged to explore the possibilities of entering into a negotiatory process with the Arab-Islamic world that could lead to a de-escalation of tensions and bloodshed. It cannot continue to look at its neighbours through lenses that distort them as archetypal enemies who should be ‘wiped off completely from the face of the earth.’

In other words, the need is urgent for Realpolitik to give way to value-based politicks. Italy is beginning to prove that the latter approach could be pursued with some success. May be the EU and the UK could throw their weight behind these initiatives as well and establish that international politics could be refashioned on the basis of humane, civilized norms. The UN would need to be fully supportive of these moves and prove an organizational nucleus of the operations that follow.

In fact the time is ripe for people of conscience to collectively stand up on the side of peace and say ‘No’ to war and violence. Organizations such as the ICRC, the WHO and Medicines Sans Frontiers have already taken up this call. Referring to the widespread destruction of health facilities and their dehumanizing results these organizations have said, among other things, that ‘This is not a failure of the law. It is a failure of political will.’

True, ‘failure of political will’ among those powers that matter accounts for the runaway, uncontrollable nature of war and destruction in contemporary times, but more fundamentally it is a failure of the human conscience. It could very well be that the phenomenal levels to which violence and war have been unleashed today have had the effect of deadening consciences. This is a matter for urgent study and wide discussion.

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Vesak celebrations … with Cuteefly

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Perfect for celebrations, gifts, and meaningful occasions // Gift pack

I would describe Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka as innovative and creative, and she operates under the name of Cuteefly.

Indunil always comes up with something novel to celebrate special occasions, and she does it with candles … and that’s her profession.

She was in the spotlight when she created a happening scene, with candles, for Christmas, Sinhala and Tamil New Year, and Valentine’s Day.

As lanterns light up Sri Lanka for Vesak, the Colombo-based candle maker is quietly turning wax and wick into little pieces of the festival.

Candles reflecting Vesak themes

Her candles reflect Vesak themes – light, peace, remembrance, giving, etc., to enable you to fill your Vesak celebration with devotion and beauty.

Among her Vesak creations is a lotus-shaped soy candle, scented with sandalwood, lavender, etc., meant to burn during this Vesak Poya Day.

Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka: Customers
praise her for her creativity

These handcrafted Vesak candles are perfect for offering at the temple, she says.

What makes her creations so novel is that they come in different shapes, scents, themes, and all are handmade.

What’s more, her customers have heaped praise on her for her creativity.

According to Indunil, her creations are perfect as a thoughtful gift … to bring beauty, unity, and light into every moment.

Says Indunil: “Our beautifully handcrafted Unity candles are designed with premium detail and love, making them perfect for celebrations, gifts, and meaningful occasions.”

Cuteefly, says Indunil, is available online.

Readers could contact Indunil on 0778506066 for more details.

He Facebook Page is: Cuteefly.

Handmade with love

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Dark Spots …

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Yes, dark spots do crop up on the skin, especially with sun exposure and, of course, as the skin ages.

However, these tips should be of immense benefit to those who are faced with dark spots.

Lemon and Honey Glow Mask:

You will need 01 teaspoon lemon juice and 01 teaspoon honey.

Mix the lemon juice and honey well and then apply this mixture, only on the dark spots.

Leave for 10–15 minutes and then rinse with cool water.

Benefits:

Lemon helps brighten pigmentation.

Honey moisturises and heals skin.

Gives a natural glow.

* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:

All you need is fresh aloe vera gel.

Apply the gel apply on dark spots, before going to bed.

Leave overnight and wash in the morning.

Benefits:

Reduces acne marks and pigmentation.

Soothes irritated skin.

Helps skin repair naturally.

Turmeric and Yoghurt Paste:

You will need 01 teaspoon yoghurt and a pinch of turmeric

Mix the yoghurt and turmeric into a smooth paste and apply on affected areas.

Leave for 15 minutes and then wash gently with lukewarm water.

Benefits:

Turmeric brightens skin naturally.

Yoghurt removes dead skin cells.

Helps fade dark spots gradually.

Use these packs 02-03 times a week as results are generally seen over time.

You can also try this out: Mix a ripe papaya into a smooth paste and apply to the face, or directly on to the dark spots. Leave for 15-20 minutes and then wash with lukewarm water.

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