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Rugby offers valuable lessons on empathy
By A Special Sports Correspondent
Rugby union is a sport that has blended well with the Sri Lankan sports community for over 145 years. From the days when the first international rugby match was played in a 1907 (Between Ceylon and the visiting All Blacks) the game has spread its tentacles; thanks to the untiring efforts of many dedicated rugby administrators.
When that first rugby international was played in Colombo, the All Blacks were reprimanded for playing against a nation which wasn’t affiliated with the world rugby governing body. That was when Ceylon knew that they had to enter the larger rugby world. For that purpose the Ceylon Rugby Football Union was formed in 1908.
Whenever Sri Lanka has entertained thoughts of engaging the world its performances have been great. From the time the British represented us in sport to the times when rugby’s elite from Colombo did the honours in wearing the national jersey, Sri Lanka’s rugby was taken seriously by the world rugby fraternity. But this is not the case in present times where Sri Lanka is fighting hard to earn a promotion to the Asia Rugby Championship.
Back during the good times of rugby in Sri Lanka the Annual General Meeting of Sri Lanka Rugby (SLR) was held in an atmosphere of camaraderie. There was no such campaigning for votes and the next man in line for the presidency was pushed up automatically to head this sports body, governing the interest of rugby in Sri Lanka. That changed in later years and the ‘games’ played to become president of SLR became ugly as political matters are discussed and deals are struck in the island’s election scene.
Rugby too spread laterally and the game was embraced by parties, clubs and schools which couldn’t maintain the glorified standards of the sport played with the oval shaped ball. One of the unwritten laws of the game that’s often broken is players and officials being unable to shake hands and make up after a dispute.
Rugby matches are played in hostile atmospheres. The win at any cost rule is promoted akin to how ambition is embedded in the minds of A’ Level students, who strive to enter university. We’ve seen this hostility being present in school matches and that’s not a place where we should see this kind of behavior spreading its roots. For the record, Kandy has been a hotspot for rugby violence in the schools scene during the last couple years. This elbows out attitude can then be seen continuing to club rugby as well. During the past two seasons Kandy SC pulled out of the knockout tournament citing differences in the choice of venue by SLR for that stage of the domestic tournament.
Strangely rugby is introduced to schoolchildren at a young stage, but one wonders whether sportsmanship is also embedded into them. Most schools start rugby for kids at age 10 or below that. Children are naturally friendly and like to mingle with the opposing team members. But we’ve seen coaches who are under pressure channeling some that negative energies to their chargers; often the boys in one team told to be unfriendly to the other team well before the game starts. We saw this kind of behavior out in the open before the year 2022 schools’ knockout final began.
Kids must be taught to take up victory and defeat in the same spirit. Rugby is evenly spread these days in terms of setting up fixtures for teams. There were times in the good old days when lesser known schools could only dream of having a fixture against teams like Royal, Trinity, St. Thomas’ and Isipatana. Now these popular rugby playing schools are forced to accommodate games against less popular schools in their fixture list; largely to be entitled to the label ‘Division 1’ rugby playing school. This ‘label’ is given to schools by the Sri Lanka Schools Rugby Football Association; a sports organization which is run by a bunch of schoolmasters who don’t really know the length and breadth of a rugby field.
Despite all that, school rugby is cherished for all its ‘colors’ and different cultures. School rugby is a ‘stage’ where great lessons in empathy are taught. We saw last season, how a referee officiating in a school game was quick enough to hold on to a player, who was about to collapse. This incident took place when the game was to be restarted with a scrum. It was a great lesson on empathy because the players of both teams were focused on the scrum that was going to take place and if not for the referee that player would have had a nasty fall.
SLR must also conduct programmes for schools and be involved in the inter-school rugby scene. People with a rugby background and knowledge of the game must be roped into serve the game at school level. There was a time when younger school players emulated their older ‘big brothers’ who played rugby at school. Now that emulating ‘thing’ is out of fashion; because every individual wants to be the best version of himself and there are enough tools around to achieve that goal. But still, rugby’s past heroes can have an influence on the players, referees, coaches and administrators. Rugby, overall, has potential to influence a community and remind everyone that ‘no one is bigger than the game’.
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Australia great Alyssa Healy to retire from cricket
Australia captain Alyssa Healy will retire from all forms of cricket following the upcoming series against India.
The 35-year-old wicket-keeper has more than 7,000 runs and 275 dismissals to her name in all formats of the game and led Australia to a historic 16-0 whitewash of England 8n the Ashes in 2025.
She has won the World Cup twice, with the highest individual score of 170 in a World Cup final coming against England in 2022, and the T20 World Cup on six occasions.
Healy said: “I’m still passionate about playing for Australia, but I’ve somewhat lost that competitive edge that’s kept me driven since the start, so the time feels right to call it a day.
“I’ll genuinely miss my team-mates, singing the team song and walking out to open the batting for Australia. Representing my country has been an incredible honour and I’m grateful for one last series in the green and gold.”
Healy is married to Australia fast bowler Mitchell Starc and is the niece of another Australian great in wicket keeper Ian Healy. She also already has a successful broadcasting career as a pundit and commentator.
Todd Greenberg, Cricket Australia CEO said: “Alyssa is one of the all-time greats of the game and has made an immeasurable contribution both on and off the field over her 15-year career.
“We look forward to celebrating her achievements throughout the series against India.”
Australia host India in a Test match, three one-day internationals and three T20 matches in February and March
(BBC Sports)
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They began with a scrappy last-ball win to kick off WPL 2026, but there was nothing scrappy about Royal Challengers Bengaluru’s (RCB) second win, over UP Warriorz, on Monday night.
Grace Harris tore into her former franchise with a breathtaking assault, sending the ball to all parts of the DY Patil Stadium. By the time she was out for a 40-ball 85, RCB needed just seven runs to win with 50 deliveries remaining.
In an effort similar to her opening-night honours, Lauren Bell swung the new ball and troubled Warriorz’s openers in her first two overs. In trying to break the stranglehold, Harleen Deol attempted to jailbreak in her third, but could only spoon a catch to Smriti Mandhana at mid-off for a 14-ball 11. And just like that, UP Warriorz had seen two different opening pairs come and go without giving them the start they were after.
She was denied a wicket in her first over – the sixth of the innings – when Meg Lanning’s swipe landed agonisingly short of Arundhati Reddy at backward square leg, but Shreyanka Patil had Lanning hack uncharacteristically to Radha Yadav at deep midwicket off her next.
In the same over, she also had a second wicket when Phoebe Litchfield flat-batted a short ball straight to Mandhana at mid-on, shortly after having reverse-swept her for six
Coming off a four-for and an unbeaten half-century against Mumbai Indians, de Klerk began with two wickets off her first two deliveries. Kiran Navgire fell first when she heaved a length ball to cow corner, while Shweta Sehrawat was brilliantly caught at backward point by Reddy. Warriorz were in all sorts of trouble at 50 for 5.
This was the perfect fire-and-ice combination on paper. But on Monday, they were both mellower and batted risk-free for much of their unbeaten 93-run partnership. Deandra Dottin signalled a change of intent when she went after Patil in her third over – the 15th – by muscling a length ball for six over long-on. That galvanised both batters to break free; Deepti Sharma gave the perfect finish by going after Patil in a 15-run final over that helped them finish with 143.
With two rookies in their top four, RCB could’ve chosen to play safe by having Gautami Naik partner Mandhana. But they took the aggressive route, and Harris justified that decision by muscling a 22-ball half-century as RCB wiped out 78 in the powerplay alone.
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The Confederation of African Football (CAF) has opened an investigation and warned of possible disciplinary action for “unacceptable behaviour of players and officials” as they clashed on the pitch on Saturday at the end of the Africa Cup of Nations (AFCON) quarterfinal between Algeria and Nigeria.
“CAF has referred the matters to the disciplinary board for investigation and has called for appropriate action to be taken if the identified persons were to be found guilty of any wrongdoing,” said African football’s governing body in a statement on Monday.
Tensions spilled over on the pitch at the end of the January 10 game in Marrakesh, Morocco, which Nigeria won 2-0 thanks to second-half goals by Victor Osimhen and Akor Adams.
Referee Issa Sy was shielded from irate Algeria team staff and was escorted off the field. Video clips showed Sy was still being pursued in the mixed zone for media and broadcasters as he made his way to his cabin.
Any disciplinary action could have an impact on the Super Eagles as they prepare for their semifinal showdown on Wednesday against Morocco.
“CAF strongly condemns any inappropriate behaviour which occurs during matches, especially those targeting the refereeing team or match organisers,” CAF said.
Video showed accredited media fighting in the mixed zone as they waited for players to pass through for interviews after the match.

Algeria’s federation also confirmed it had filed a complaint with CAF over Sy’s performance
“The Algerian Football Federation cannot ignore the refereeing performance observed during the last match, which raised numerous questions and caused considerable confusion,” it said in a statement.
“Certain decisions have damaged the credibility of African refereeing and do nothing to enhance the value of continental football on the international stage.”
CAF said it was also investigating incidents in Friday’s last-eight tie between the hosts and Cameroon.
Morocco won that game 2-0 in Rabat, Morocco, and the Indomitable Lions were notably unhappy at the officiating in particular the refusal to award them a penalty for a challenge on Manchester United’s Bryan Mbeumo in the second half.
(BBC Sports)
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