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The unusual, traditional First Lady
The First Lady has largely steered clear of the political fray
Melania Trump addressed the second night of the 2020 Republican National Convention on Tuesday, calling on the US to think to reflect on “racial unrest in our country”. It was a rare – and possibly reluctant – step into the spotlight for the First Lady.
In 1998, Donald Trump, already fabulously wealthy and charismatic but possessed of a still ordinary-looking head of hair, was probably used to getting a phone number when he asked.
But when the property mogul tried it on that year with a young model, at a party in New York, he couldn’t quite close the deal. “I am not giving you my number,” countered 28-year-old Melania Knavs. “You give me yours, and I will call you.”
Fast-forward seven years and the pair tied the knot in a star-studded bash at his Florida estate. Fast-forward again and Mrs Trump is now the First Lady of the United States. But who is she?
A ‘traditional’ First Lady
Glamorous and entirely devoted to her husband and his success, Mrs Trump, 50, has been cast as a kind of retro presidential spouse, a modern-day Jackie Kennedy.
When Mr Trump first hinted at tilting for the top office, in 1999, she told reporters: “I would be very traditional, like Betty Ford or Jackie Kennedy.”
But there are ways in which she has been a less-than-traditional First Lady: she is the first to have previously posed nude for a magazine.
During the last presidential race, supporters of Ted Cruz – Mr Trump’s rival for the Republican nomination in 2016 – seized on her work as a model, overlaying an image of her posing naked with the warning: “Meet Melania Trump, your next First Lady. Or you could vote for Ted Cruz”.
Early in 2016, a lewd phone interview with Mr and Mrs Trump by shock-jock radio presenter Howard Stern resurfaced, in which Mr Stern quizzed Mrs Trump about what she was wearing (“almost nothing”) and how often she had sex with Mr Trump (“every night, sometimes more”), and described her to Mr Trump as “that broad in your bed”. The interview prompted accusations of misogyny.
Mrs Trump has also sued the Daily Mail over an article she claims implies that she was a sex worker in the 1990s. The newspaper agreed to pay damages and apologised to the First Lady in April 2017.
Her treatment has been compared by some commentators to “slut-shaming” – the practice of attacking women over certain ways of dressing or acting.
From Slovenia to New York
Mrs Trump was born Melanija Knavs in Sevnica, a small town about an hour’s drive from Slovenia’s capital Ljubljana, to a relatively well-off family. Her father Viktor worked for the mayor of nearby Hrastnik before becoming a successful car salesman. Her mother, Amalija, designed prints for a fashion brand.
Melania studied design and architecture in Ljubljana. It was claimed on her professional website that she held a degree, but it later emerged that she dropped out during her first year. The website was eventually scrubbed entirely and redirected to Mr Trump’s business site.
What was Melania Trump like in Slovenia?
At 18, she signed with a modelling agency in Milan and began flying around Europe and the US, appearing in high-profile ad campaigns. It was at a party at New York Fashion week that she met Mr Trump.
Like her husband, she never drinks, according to reports, and shies away from late-night parties. She had her own branded jewellery business and was reportedly involved in the design process.
The pair married in 2005 and had a son, Barron, in 2006.
She did not initially move in to the White House with her husband after his election victory, remaining in New York until the end of Barron’s school term before joining the president in Washington in 2017.
Since moving in she has helped out with the annual White House Christmas decorations.
First Lady Melania Trump reveals White House Christmas decorations
Mrs Trump has apparently squared her background with her husband’s attacks on immigration – declaring that she did everything by the book.
“It never crossed my mind to stay here without papers,” she told Harpers Bazaar. “You follow the rules. You follow the law. Every few months you need to fly back to Europe and stamp your visa.”
In July 2020, a statue of the First Lady in her native Slovenia – which some compared to a character from The Smurfs – was set alight, prompting a police investigation.
‘Policies are my husband’s job’
Mrs Trump has largely steered clear of the political fray, confining her appearances to standing by her husband’s side. “I chose not to go into politics and policy,” she said in a 2016 interview with GQ. “Those policies are my husband’s job.”
Her one big moment of the 2016 campaign came when she took centre stage on the first day of the Republican National Convention in July for the traditional spousal speech, and it did not go well.
Commentators quickly noticed remarkable similarities with Michelle Obama’s convention speech in 2008, and the ensuing plagiarism scandal overshadowed what she had to say.
In 2018 she generated huge controversy after wearing a jacket with the words “I really don’t care, do you?” written on the back on a trip to a migrant child detention centre.
There was intense media speculation about why Melania Trump chose to wear the jacket after her trip
“It was for the people and for the left-wing media who are criticising me,” she later told ABC news. “I want to show them I don’t care.”
Despite these incidents she remains something of an unknown quantity compared with her predecessors. According to GQ, she does advise her husband, but is tight-lipped about what that consists in.
“Nobody knows and nobody will ever know,” she said. “Because that’s between me and my husband.”–BBC
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India’s Republic Day
India’s Republic Day was celebrated in a spirit of unity and pride, as guests gathered to mark India’s democratic journey and its enduring commitment to freedom, diversity and progress.
India House came alive in hues of saffron, white and green as the 77th Republic Day of India was celebrated with stately elegance and heartfelt pride Set against the manicure lawns of the High Commissioner’s official residence, the annual ceremony unfolded as a graceful reminder of India’s enduring democratic spirit and its close time honoured ties with Sri Lanka.
The morning ceremony commenced with the ceremonial unfurling of the Indian Tricolour. As the anthem echoed across the grounds, dignitaries, diplomats and members of the Indian Community stood united reflective on the ideals enshrined in the constitution of India, Justice, liberty, equality and fraternity. Adding cultural depths to the occasion was patriotic and classical performances thoughtfully curated to reflect India’s rich artistic heritage.
The evening reception had invited guests, diplomats, members of Parliament and many other distinguished guests. From traditional silk saris and sherwanis to chic evening gowns and tailored suits embodying a seamless blend of culture and continue.
The reception also offered a taste of India’s culinary artistry, with meticulously curated cuisine by Taj Samudra Colombo reflecting regional flavours with a modern twist.
Among the distinguished guests were the Prime Minister, Former Presidents, Ambassadors whose presence underscored the evening diplomatic and cultural significance.
The chief guests was the Minister of Health and Mass Media Dr. Nalinda Jayatissa. The evening reach a memorable cresendo as the High Commissioner of India to Sri Lanka and Maldives delivered a speech emphasising India’s journey, its democratic value and its role on the global stage. He also spoke about the close ties between India and Sri Lanka, cultural exchanges and growing economic and strategic partnerships, reinforcing the special friendship between the two nations.
Pix by Thushara Attapathu
By Zanita Careem
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Once a Heartian always a Heartian: Celebrating 130 glorious years
This year, Sacred Heart Convent Galle celebrated 130 years of excellence, and the occasion was nothing short of spectacular. Alumnae, fondly called the old girls, walked the corridors of memory, reliving the elegance, discipline and camaraderie that shaped their youth. Founded by visionary Belgian nuns over a century ago, Sacred Heart Convent began with a clear mission of nurturing not only intellect, but also character, compassion and confidence. Today it stands as a timeless symbol of holistic education, blending its rich heritage with a modern vision.
There’s a magic in returning to the place where your story began – the echo of footsteps in old halls, the chatter of friends, the quiet thrill before assembly and the sense of belonging that never fades. This year as Sacred Heart Convent Galle celebrates 130 years of excellence. I found myself walking through memories that shaped not only my education but my outlook in life.
Founded over a century age by dedicated Belgian nuns, Sacred Heart Convent began as a humble institution with a bold vision to nurture intellect, character and compassion in equal measure. Set against the picturesque backdrop of Galle, with its charm and timeless beauty, the Convent became more than a place of learning, it was a sanctuary of discipline, creativity and grace.
My earliest memories of the school are vivid. I remember the feel of my uniform on the first day, the nervous excitement, as we walked into classrooms that I will always remember Sister Adrian’s warmth, guidance and encouragement . Her presence made every lesson meaningful and every Heartian feel truly cared for.
Galle itself added a special charm to the celebrations. The gentle sea breeze, the sunlit ramparts and the serene landscape created a perfect backdrop for a day filled with memories and nostalgia.
The 130 years of celebrations were a tribute to this legacy – an ode to the school’s enduring influence and the generations it has inspired.
The familiar bell at Sacred Heart Convent rang with a deeper resonance this year, calling together generations bound by faith, discipline and shared memory. As the institution marked 130 years of distinguished service in education, the celebrations unfolded not merely as an anniversary, but as a heart felt homecoming- a return to corridors where values were shaped and lifelong friendships were born. The alumnae returned in style, sharing laughter and stories of classroom adventures, chapel recitals and play ground friendships.
The highlights of the event this year was made memorable by a much loved Back to School theme that turned time gently backwards, Old girls arrived dressed in thier school day best, laughter filling the quadrangle as familiar bells , laughter, memories marked the back to school scene .
At the heart of the foundation of the school was Sister Adrian ,the devoted Belgian nun who served as principal, she had vision, discipline and unwavering dedication that was the the cornerstone of Sacred Heart’s legacy. Generations of students carry forward her values and spirit she instilled over a century ago.
I found myself reminiscing about my own journey within its storied walls – the classrooms, the assemblies, the playground games and shared seats with friends that still bring a smile today. I remember the guidance of teachers who inspired curiosity and the gentle discipline of mentors who shaped our values.
The ‘Back to School’ feeling during the 130th celebrations was magical seeing Alumnae return, glowing with nostalgia reminded me how the spirit of Sacred Heart stay with us and remains etched in our hearts.
As the celebrations came to a close, I felt a profound gratitude for the school, for the Belgian nuns who laid its foundation For the present Principal Sister Sandya Fernando and Sister Mihiri Perera, Deputy Principal and Head of the Primary School and the teachers who carry forward this century old tradition with dedication and warmth. Their commitment to keeping the school’s spirit vibrant, bridging the gap between the history and the present. From Sister Adrian’s vision to the care of today’s dedicated sisters, Sacred Heart Convent has spent 130 shaping minds, nurturing values and inspiring generations.
For me, Sacred Heart Convent was never merely a place of learning; it was a canvas, a stage and a sanctuary, a place that taught me education is as much character as it is about knowledge.
As the school celebrated 130 glorious years, we salute Sister Adrian, and the visionary leadership of the current principal and Vice principle Thier dedication have shaped generations of Heartians, instilling values, courage and compassion For me this celebrations stirred cherished memories and a reminder that the heart of Sacred Heart beats strong, carrying its legacy forward with pride and love
By Zanita Careem
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Fathuma Marleen on style, strength and grace
Threads of influence
From the buzz of a busy salon chair to the delicate precision of couture hand work, Fathuma Marleen carved a space where style,skill and sophistication intertwine.
Her signature lies in the subtle artistry of her embroidery and handwork. Every stitch, every embellishments reflect a dedication to precision and an eye for detail cultivated from her earliest days A guiding force for women she touches human lives with generosity,empathy and unwavering commitment
Fathuma Marleen’s story begins not on a runway,but behind a salon chair,scissors in hand,hair falling softly to the floor,and dreams quietly taking shape .As a young hairdresser,trained by Janet Balasuriya , she learned early the art of transformation:how confidence blooms when a woman feels seen,styled and celebrated. That intimate understanding of beauty,personal,emotional and deeply human later became the backbone of her creative journey.
But her creative spirit couldn’t be confined to hair alone In a world driven by fast fashion and fleeting trends,Fathuma Marleen’s work caught the attention of established names in the couture world. Driven by an eye for fashion, she transitioned into stitching, turn ing fabric into statements of sophistication and glamour.She went on to sew for top designers and Colombo’s fashion conscious women, contributing behind the scenes to collections that demanded excellence, consistency and technical mastery. Though her role was discreet, her impact was unmistakable among the landscape of fashion,each of her designer clothing had her signature precision. Her signature touch soon became popular among top designers ,whether it’s a flowing gown, or an Indian Shalwar or a flowing abaya, her intricate,embroidery or her sleek cut had a story . Yet at the height of her creative journey, Marleen made a personal sacrifice,she moved away from her burgeoning fashion career to join her husband in his ambassadorial role to Riyadh.
A defining chapter in Fathuma Marleen’s professional journey has been her close alliance with the Women’s Chamber of Commerce and Industry WCIS, a platform that champions entrepreneurship, creativity and leadership among women. It was Nayana Karunaratne,her close friend with whom she co-created spectacular fashion shows stood firmly by her side encouraging,guiding and gently nudging her back towards her creative calling.
Her work gained particular prominence under the guidance and encouragement of Nayana, this partnership proved transformative, and Fathuma Marleen designs stepped into the spot
Notably her creations featured at the Chamber of Commerce, fashion show led initiatives, including high profile Abaya presentation showcased at the Hilton, which left the audiences mesmerised. Her creations unveiled marked a defining movement in her journey. Modern silhouettes,rich hues and intricate embroidery,
clear lines, thoughtful detailing, appealed to modern woman who values both tradition and contemporary style. The collection resonated strongly with the audience. This show was a celebration of Marleen’s return to the spotlight The Hilton shows stood as a turning point-proof that Marleen’s design journey had depth,direction and a story still unfolding.
When her husband’s diplomatic posting took the family to Riyadh. Fathuma Marleen embraced a new chapter, one that required poise, adaptability and cultural awareness.
As an Ambassador’s wife she navigated formal responsibilities with elegance, balancing public engagements, all while maintaining her creative pursuits but limited due to new responsibilities ,yet she remained a quiet force in style and women’s empowerment,balancing diplomacy and creativity
Through it all, she remained committed to family. Her three daughters each now accomplished doctors and son Banker in the US were nurtured in an environment of discipline.
She says ‘ my family remains my cornerstone a source of pride and inspiration’. She cherishes her children and grandchildren, who continue to inspire her with thier own passions and achievements Beyond fashion, she is a dedicated social worker and champion of women,turning every endeavour into a celebration of creativity,sophistication and style. Beyond glamour, Fathuma is a woman driven by compassion. She devotes herself to running an orphanage established by her husband,carrying forward his vision and touching countless lives.
- Every stich tells a story of elegance
- Where elegance meets modesty
- Fathuma turned runways into celebrations of women and style
- Flow,flair and finesse
By Zanita Careem
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