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The tragedy of Afghanistan. Is there a way forward?
by Anoja Wijesekera
The desperate scenes at Kabul airport of Afghans trying to flee and the image of the US Airforce flight taxi-ing down the runway while people were trying to board it, and hundreds running alongside, is an image that will be etched in our minds forever.
The tragedy of Afghanistan is that the same saga of desperation and suffering has been repeatedly endured by ordinary Afghans who have been at the receiving end of war, throughout their lives. They have suffered death, loss of limbs, loss of breadwinners, loss of livelihoods, the destruction of their homes, the trauma of displacement, the horrors of seeing their loved ones killed before their very eyes, squalor, pain, hunger and cold, for over four decades.
At a human level, the Afghans feel betrayed by the Western Alliance and the US. This is not the first time but the second. When the Russians invaded Afghanistan in 1979, there was no overt resistance from the West. However, the Afghan warlords and their supporters who provided some resistance were armed and funded by the CIA, via the ISI of Pakistan, in order to defeat the Russians. The Afghans paid a heavy price; an estimated two million died another two million lost their limbs and approximately 800,000 women became widows. The entire infrastructure of the country was destroyed.
Once the Russians left, the US turned its back on Afghanistan and paid no heed to help in the reconstruction and development of that battered land. This was the first experience of betrayal and it was also at that time, that Osama Bin Laden who was an ally of the US and a part of the Mujahideen, became its sworn enemy.
The second episode took place after 9/11. In order to get at Osama Bin Laden, the mastermind of the 9/11 attacks, the US invaded Afghanistan. Although Osama Bin Laden had already left Afghanistan, many bombs were dropped, followed by drone attacks. Large numbers of civilians including women and children were killed as a result, throughout this 20-year period. Now in August 2021, with no proper system in place to ensure peace and stability, the US forces simply left. Even General David Petraeus, former Commander of the US forces in Afghanistan and former Director of the CIA, expressed his shock when interviewed on TV. For the Afghans, in their hour of need, the sudden and inexplicable departure of their President, Ashraf Ghani, is an even greater disappointment that they find hard to bear.
It is difficult to think that President Ghani left because he wanted to save his own skin. It is possible that this was part of a hasty deal worked out with the Taliban that went hand in hand with the sudden withdrawal of American troops. By paving the way for the Taliban to enter Kabul unhindered, and with no resistance offered by the Afghan army, a blood bath was averted. The destruction of the infrastructure and livelihoods in Kabul was also prevented. In turn, it is possible that the Taliban agreed to all the concessions that they announced during their press conference in Kabul, on 17.8.21.
The Taliban spokesman declared that an amnesty has been granted to all those who opposed them and that all citizens should remain in Afghanistan and help in re-building the country. They announced that all would be safe and that they forgive those who fought against them, and in turn that they should be forgiven. The Taliban stated that women would be allowed education and the right to work, as per the dictates of Sharia Law. It was also announced that no one will be allowed to use Afghanistan to attack other countries and that opium cultivation and its trading would be stopped. There was an indication that an inclusive government would be formed, but under their command.
The inevitable takeover of the country by the Taliban should come as no surprise to anyone, as it was evident right from the start. There is a popular Taliban saying “You have the watches, we have the time. We were born here and will die here. We are not going anywhere”.
A look at the map of Afghanistan, showing the areas under Taliban control indicates clearly how the Taliban gradually and surely increased the areas under their control over these 20 years. The take over of Kabul on August 16, 2021, was just the last lap of the race and was a parting gift offered on a platter by the US, when it hurriedly withdrew its troops out of Bagram airport, with no apparent handover and no declared plan for governance.
The Western misadventure is but a repetition of the history of Afghanistan. No foreign invader has ever been able to hold Afghanistan for long or maintain governments of their liking for any length of time. In the 13th Century the mighty army of Genghis Khan was massacred by the Afghans. In the 19th century, in the heyday of the Empire, the British sent a garrison to Kabul and each and every soldier except one, was slaughtered. In the 20th Century, the USSR invaded Afghanistan and were defeated in no uncertain terms, despite their weaponry and might.
There is a saying that those who don’t learn the lessons of history are doomed to repeat them. The US did not learn from what happened to the Russians or from their own experience in Vietnam. At a time when the TV footage is showing the desperation of the Afghans, the efforts made by the US government to justify their hasty departure and declare to the world that their mission in Afghanistan was a success rings hollow and indicates a cynical disregard for the horrific ground situation. Subsequently the US announced that it would help Afghans who worked for them, to seek refuge in the US.
Now, as things evolve, whatever working arrangements are agreed with the previous administration and other stakeholders, the reality is that the Taliban is back in power and seem to be determined to recreate their “Emirate”, characterised by the strict imposition of Sharia Law. The Taliban has declared repeatedly that they would allow female education this time round, indicating a softening of their stance. However, the news from the areas under their control, indicate that their rhetoric is at variance with the ground realities in some places. When questioned on this, the Taliban spokesman said that all such incidents would be investigated.
I served with UNICEF in Afghanistan, in the years 1997 to 2001, both in Jalalabad and Kabul and am therefore very familiar with the draconian regulations of the Taliban.
The Taliban brand of Sharia Law imposed during their time in office, which was from 1996 to 2001, was particularly geared towards the ruthless limitation of women’s freedom and rights. Women were debarred from working and girls’ education was banned. Women were restricted to domestic work in their own compounds. When going out, they were forced to wear a “burka” that covered them from head to foot. At the time I was there, they passed the Maharam Edict, which dictated that women could not walk alone on the streets. A woman had to be accompanied by a “Maharam” meaning husband, brother or son or a very close male relative.
Failure to do so resulted in getting beaten on the roadside. The Beard Law, meant that all men had to grow beards. Men were prohibited from even trimming their beards. Both men and women were beaten in public if they flouted these regulations. Even some of our own staff members were flogged in public for trimming their beards. The Taliban brand of justice was meted out on the streets, by their vice squads, who beat you first and asked questions later.
Music was prohibited. All musical instruments were destroyed. Music playing in vehicles was banned. TV, films, entertainment, gatherings of men and women together were prohibited.
Under the Taliban regime, at the time, people had to pray five times a day regardless of any consideration. At prayer time people had to stop whatever they were doing and turn towards Mecca and go down on their knees or be beaten even on the road-side. The penalty for theft was the amputation of limbs and the punishment for adultery was stoning to death. The football stadium in Kabul was an arena where these horrific acts were performed in front of an audience. There was no judicial system and no due process. An accusation was regarded as sufficient evidence of having committed a crime.
Games including card games and board games were prohibited. Iconography, art, photographs and images were destroyed. Priceless artefacts in the Kabul Museum were smashed to smithereens and we are all too aware of what happened to the Bamiyan Buddha statues, which were priceless treasures and a wonder of the ancient world.
When I first went to Afghanistan in 1997, as the UNICEF Resident Project Officer in Jalalabad, the Taliban refused to look at me, as I happened to belong to the female gender. At meetings, which were all male events, they would look away from me with an expression of total disgust and would keep their heads turned away from me, when speaking to me. They clearly indicated that meeting with a woman was abhorrent to them. One Mullah even went to the extent of covering his own face when he had to pass by me. I found this utterly amusing and did not let it bother me.
After a couple of months of this icy reception, which I considered to be a farcical comedy, they gradually thawed and even shook my hand and became friendly. The Mayor of Jalalabad, who earlier covered his face, became particularly friendly and had many conversations with me, in English, declaring that he did not oppose girls’ education. I learned that he was educated to degree level. I said to my staff that I thought that perhaps the Taliban thought that I had turned into a man! As time passed, many Taliban officials and heads of departments, said that they regarded me as a sister.
After the closure of girls’ schools when female teachers lost their jobs, Home Schools were started by them in their own compounds, which UNICEF supported. As the Home Schools progressed, and grew by the day, I began to think that perhaps even the Taliban sent their daughters to those schools.
It was evident that some of the educated Taliban knew the value of education. Most of their foot soldiers however have only been to a Madrassa [Islamic school], where the curriculum consists of memorising the Quran, studying Arabic and learning the art of guerrilla warfare. However, the educated Taliban realise that it is important to address economic, social, health and educational issues, in addition to implementing their draconian version of Sharia Law.
Since I had to work with the Taliban government on a daily basis, I thought to myself that the Taliban are after all human beings and I decided even before I took up my assignment, that I will simply deal with them as one human being to another. Therefore, I accorded them the due respect they were entitled to on account of the office they held and regarded them as fellow citizens of the world. I followed the dictum that one has to give respect to get respect. This formula was effective and very soon they cooperated with me and my colleagues on all the programmes UNICEF had to implement, including our efforts to promote maternal and child health, and the inclusion of women in some of the activities.
However, each activity which involved the participation of women, was implemented with due consideration and in a very low-key manner. I was guided by my Afghan colleagues who knew exactly how to approach this problem. The Taliban departmental heads also gave tacit approval for the participation of women in our programmes, as the women had to be paid through a government department, as per UN regulations.
Towards the end of my tenure, when the Bamiyan Buddha statues were blown up, and I was devastated, one senior Taliban minister apologised to me, as he knew that I was a Buddhist. He said to me that many people in the Taliban government opposed this action, implying that the Bamiyan Buddhas were a part of their own heritage, which they respected. The Afghans reported that the Buddha statues were not destroyed by the Taliban, but by the Al Qaeda, who were Arabs. They cried and said to me, “the Taliban has destroyed our future and now they have destroyed our past, we have nothing left”.
In the present context, following the fall of Kabul, the only hope for the future is that the Taliban will take a more enlightened approach and modify their agenda. This will be important for them, in gaining international recognition and much-needed aid.
In my opinion it would be a mistake on the part of the international community to impose sanctions as that would only hurt the poor and vulnerable. To regard the Taliban regime as a pariah state would also not be fruitful as that will only make them even more adamant in pursing inhuman practices. It is only through engagement and genuine dialogue that the international community will be able to help Afghanistan and influence the Taliban to be more responsible and mature in their approach.
At the time of writing this article, following the press conference and interview given by their spokesman in Kabul, all indications are that the Taliban have indeed changed and matured and wish to form an inclusive government and have softened their stance on the rights of women. The spokesman repeated that everything will be done within the bounds of Sharia Law. I hope that since they were last in power, which was 20 years ago, that they have gained greater wisdom in their interpretation of Sharia Law.
It is imperative upon the international community to now step up on their humanitarian assistance and ensure that starvation, destitution and a colossal human tragedy is averted and that the displaced are assisted to return to their homes. Already more than 50% of Afghans are in need of food aid, on account of the severe drought that has hit the country. Childhood malnutrition has increased and Covid is on the rise. UNCEF, WFP and the other UN humanitarian agencies are in place and are working round the clock.
The UN Secretary General has already made an appeal to donor countries to increase their assistance. The US and its allies who spent billions in weaponry and military hardware, need to now genuinely engage with the Taliban and help in developing and funding a workable plan for the development of Afghanistan, with the participation of the UN agencies, so that a sincere attempt is made at long last, to improve the lives of all Afghans. This is the best safeguard against the country descending once again into civil war and becoming a breeding ground for terrorism.
On reflection, the famous saying that “In wars there are no winners, there are only losers” is indeed true. The Taliban has lost thousands of fighters: no statistics are available. There would be hundreds with severe wounds and injuries. In fact, some of the Taliban leaders during the time I was there had serious war injuries and suffered from the resulting disabilities. On the side of the Western Alliance, large numbers of soldiers have died and some are left with lifelong injuries and disabilities and are suffering every day.
Many American and British soldiers who served in Afghanistan experienced severe forms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorders [PTSD], that led to a number of suicides, after their return home. The BBC quoted in a Panorama programme that in 2012, more British soldiers took their own lives after their return from combat duty in Afghanistan, than the number killed on the battle field. These suicides were caused by PTSD and depression. Taliban soldiers who are the poorest of the poor, too have suffered enormously. What support is there for them? Do we even know how many of them were killed or injured?
It is up to the world to now help Afghanistan, and not turn its back on it. The Afghans need maximum help and support to recover from this unspeakable tragedy. The Islamic countries in particular, that helped the Taliban to wage war, now need to come to their aid, to build peace. ‘Islam’ in Arabic means peace. Therefore, the Islamic world needs to exert influence on the Taliban and support them to evolve from ruthless fighters into a group of leaders, who can govern with compassion and wisdom and bring about long-lasting peace and stability to that beautiful country – Afghanistan.
Anoja Wijeyesekera
[former UNICEF Resident Project Officer, Kabul from 1999 – 2001
and former UNICEF Resident Project Officer, Jalalabad from 1997 – 1999]
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Celebrate the Festive Spirit at Sheraton Kosgoda Turtle Beach Resort
By Zanita Careem
As the days come closer and a cold air filled the air, Sheraton Kosgoda Turtle Beach Resort began its festive celebrations with its annual tree lighting event. This enchanting evening marked the beginning of the joyous season. The centrepiece of the evening – a magnificent white Christmas tree standing tall as a beacon of joy. This year, the hotel embraced a sustainable approach turning the festive occasion into a celebration of eco- consciousness and community spirit. As the most global brand within the Mariott Bonvoy portfolio, Sheraton has always stood for community and played a special role in serving people
In keeping with this philosphy, Sheraton Kosgoda Turtle Beach Resort unveiled its unique Christmas tree, crafted entirely from tea branches sourced from the Puwakdola Estate in Pinikahana, Elpitiya. This initiative celebrates the festive spirit while underscoring the resort’s commitment to sustainability and community collaboration.
Nestled in the Southern Galle District, the Puwakdola Estate spans ten acres, with eight acres dedicated to the cultivation of the unique tea variety, 20/23. This year, branches from an acre of the estate were pruned, cleaned, painted, and transformed into a stunning Christmas centre piece by thier dedicated staff.
This project exemplifies Sheraton Kosgoda’s philosophy of fostering community partnerships and responsible resource use. The tree stands as a testament to how sustainability and festive celebrations can harmoniously coexist, bringing joy to guests while supporting local agriculture and artisans.
This year the unique tree created from tea branches stood as a symbol of Sheraton’s Kosgoda’s commitment to sustainability Sheraton Kosgoda General Manager said. This year resort’s Christmas tree is a testament to the hotel’s philosophy of giving back, by utilising local resources responsibility, supporting and fostering partnerships that empower communities is a trailblazer in reducing environment impact extending from design and amenities to its tasty cuisine.
As dusk approached, the twnkling lights o f the tree illuminated the lobby casting a warm glow and creating a spectacular winter wonderland. The guests were welcomed with the harmonious melodies of Chro Calibre performing classic carols, setting a magical tone for the evening. GM shared his thoughts “Our Christmas is not just about ushering. This towering Christmas tree curated by the hotel staff stood as a symbol of Sheraton Kosgoda’s commitment to sustainability.” As evening fell, the crowd gathered at the lobby to soak in the festive cheer and feel the magic of the season..
Festive Dining and Entertainment
Lavish Christmas Buffet: Indulge in an extraordinary culinary journey featuring an extensive Christmas buffet with traditional favourites and innovative creations by our Executive Chef Ramesh Kularutnam and his team. Savour the essence of the season with dishes prepared from the freshest, locally sourced ingredients. The evening will be set to the enchanting tunes of the ECHO Live Band, ensuring a festive atmosphere by the poolside under the starry night sky from 7pm onwards.
Christmas Day Brunch: Celebrate Christmas Day with a delightful brunch at S-Kitchen, where an array of international and Sri Lankan dishes awaits you. From hearty breakfast favourite to gourmet mains and decadent desserts, the brunch is designed to bring families and friends together for a joyous holiday feast. Immerse yourself in the vibrant ambiance of S-Kitchen and create cherished memories as you relish the festive offerings.
New Year’s Eve Gala Dinner: Bid farewell to 2024 in grand style at our New Year’s Eve Gala Dinner. Treat yourself to an opulent buffet featuring an eclectic mix of cuisines, including gourmet delicacies, live cooking stations, and indulgent desserts. As the clock counts down to midnight, enjoy exhilarating performances by live DJs and dynamic dance acts. Cap off the night with a breathtaking fireworks display, illuminating the sky to mark the beginning of a bright and prosperous 2025.
As part of the celebrations, there will be a party for children of the hotel staff with a festive programme of music,food,games and other forms of entertainment
Celebrate the season with Sheraton Kosgoda Turtle Beach Resort, where thoughtful sustainability, vibrant celebrations, and unmatched hospitality come together to create magical memories said Demi Hewa Marketing and Communication Manager.
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Cinnamon Colombo hotels light up with festive elegance
Colombo, December 5 Cinnamon Colombo Hotels officially welcomed the festive season with a trio of spectacular Christmas lighting ceremonies across Cinnamon Lakeside Cinnamon Red , and Cinnamon Grand Colombo. Each event was a unique celebration of tradition, innovation, and holiday cheer, drawing guests and the local community into the warmth and magic of the season.
Cinnamon Lakeside Colombo: A Waterfront Wonderland
On November 29th, Cinnamon Lakeside Colombo hosted its highly anticipated Christmas tree lighting ceremony, marking the start of the holiday season with grandeur and joy. The annual event, a cherished tradition at the waterfront hotel, brought together guests and the community for a memorable evening of lights, music, and festive cheer.
The evening’s centerpiece was the lighting of the majestic Christmas tree, a symbolic moment that illuminated the hotel in a spectacular array of colors. As the tree came alive, the front façade of the hotel was bathed in a warm, elegant glow, enhancing the festive ambiance. Guests were captivated by the dazzling display, with the joy and awe of the crowd echoing throughout the venue.
Adding to the enchantment, the junior choir from the British School in Colombo delivered a heartwarming performance of classic carols. Dressed in festive attire, the young singers created an atmosphere that resonated across generations, their harmonies a perfect complement to the evening’s celebrations.
The hotel’s décor masterfully blended traditional Christmas elements with contemporary word art, creating a visually stunning environment. This fusion of classic and modern styles transformed the space into an Instagram-worthy haven that appealed to all ages.
A highlight for families was the Goodies Counter inspired by European Christmas markets. This charming wooden stall, brimming with festive treats like gingerbread cookies, mince pies, and handcrafted chocolates, became a favorite destination, especially for children.
Under the guidance of General Manager of Cinnamon Lakeside Nazoomi Azhar, the event brought together tradition, elegance, and community spirit. The Christmas lighting ceremony at Cinnamon Lakeside not only celebrated the season but also created a shared moment of magic and joy that guests will cherish for years to come.
Cinnamon Red Colombo: A Sky-high celebration
On the same evening, Cinnamon Red added a bold, urban twist to its Christmas celebration. The highlight of the night was Santa Claus’s dramatic descent from the 26th floor of the hotel, thrilling guests with an unforgettable entrance high above Colombo’s skyline.
And there, waiting at the base, was none other than his jolly counterpart, Mrs. Claus, adding her charm to the celebration. Together, they turned the wet and cloudy November evening into an unforgettable urban Christmas tale, delighting everyone with their festive cheer and warm smiles.
The General Manager of Cinnamon Red Colombo, Terrence Fernando unveiled a dazzling 20-foot Christmas tree at the hotel’s entrance canopy, using a swipe of his iPad to light up the tree and the building in a cascade of vibrant colors. Guests indulged in homemade mince pies, mulled wine, and sweet cashews, enjoying a cozy and contemporary take on Christmas traditions.
As Cinnamon Red celebrated its 10th year of redefining Colombo’s skyline, the event epitomized its spirit of creativity and boldness, proving once again that urban Christmases can be both modern and magical.
Cinnamon Grand Colombo: A grand celebration
Cinnamon Grand Colombo hosted its enchanting Christmas Tree lighting ceremony on December 2nd, transforming the hotel lobby into a magical winter wonderland. The arrival of Santa and Santarina on a Harley-Davidson motorcycle set an exciting tone for the evening, blending modern flair with festive tradition.
The highlight of the evening was the moment the grand Christmas tree lit up, accompanied by a magical snowfall that began to cascade gently from above. Guests were captivated as the lobby was filled with the enchanting sight of snow falling, creating a truly mesmerizing and festive atmosphere. The event drew a large crowd to the hotel lobby, with families, couples, and friends gathered to witness the grand celebration. Guests enjoyed an array of eight delightful cold snacks as the atmosphere buzzed with anticipation for the tree lighting moment.
The General Manager of Cinnamon Grand and the Area Vice President of Cinnamon Colombo Hotels, Kamal Munasinghe took center stage, holding the remote to illuminate the majestic Christmas tree. As the lights sparkled to life, accompanied by a live performance from Soundarie David’s Junior Choir singing beloved Christmas carols, the lobby resonated with festive cheer and joy.
Cinnamon Grand Colombo’s Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony was a heartwarming celebration that brought the community together, creating memories that will be cherished long after the holiday season. The event’s blend of tradition, innovation, and festive spirit underscored the hotel’s commitment to making the season magical for all who visit.
A Season to Remember
From waterfront splendor to sky-high spectacles and grand festive elegance, the Christmas lighting ceremonies at Cinnamon Colombo Hotels reflected the unique character of each property. As the lights sparkled and the carols resonated, the celebrations served as a reminder of the joy of togetherness and the spirit of giving. With these memorable events, Cinnamon Colombo Hotels have set the stage for a festive season filled with magic, tradition, and community.
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Mount Lavinia Hotel presents “Moulin Rouge – Une Nuit à Paris”
Celebrate the dawn of 2025 in true Parisian flair as Mount Lavinia Hotel hosts “Moulin Rouge – Une Nuit à Paris”, a glamorous New Year’s Eve dinner dance set against the enchanting backdrop of the hotel’s iconic terrace. Known for crafting unique, unforgettable experiences, Mount Lavinia Hotel invites guests to revel in an evening of elegance, indulgence, and celebration that promises to be unlike any other in the city.
Unparalleled Fireworks Display
This year’s celebration comes with a breathtaking 30-minute fireworks display, offering guests an unparalleled view of the midnight spectacle from the terrace. As the sky comes alive with dazzling colors, guests will welcome the New Year in a setting of true Parisian romance and grandeur.
An exquisite Parisian feast
The evening begins with a welcome cocktail at the hotel’s charming courtyard, accompanied by the soulful melodies of live French jazz. Guests will then enjoy a grand dinner and dessert buffet, featuring Parisian-inspired culinary delights and ending with a special midnight breakfast, ensuring the festivities continue into the early hours of 2025.
For those booking tables of 10, enjoy a complimentary bottle of premium imported beverage complete with chasers and a selection of bites, ensuring your celebration is truly elevated.
Entertainment Like Never Before
The event will feature high-energy performances by Can-Can dancers, live music by the renowned band X-IT featuring Kevin Almeida, and DJ Kosala to keep the party alive all night long. Combining vibrant music and dazzling performances, Mount Lavinia Hotel promises to transport guests straight to the streets of Paris.
Mount Lavinia Hotel – Pioneers of Memorable and unique celebrations
Building on the success of last year’s “A Night in Copacabana,” this year’s “Moulin Rouge – Une Nuit à Paris” reaffirms Mount Lavinia Hotel’s reputation as Colombo’s premier destination for iconic celebrations.
The hotel is committed to creating unforgettable moments for our guests, and this New Year’s Eve, we’re bringing the magic of Paris to Colombo. From spectacular fireworks to exquisite cuisine and world-class entertainment, the hotel promises an evening you’ll cherish forever,” said Anura Dewapura, Chief Operating Officer of Mount Lavinia Hotel.
Don’t miss your chance to experience the allure of Paris at Mount Lavinia Hotel. Reserve your tickets today and get ready to toast to a spectacular New Year in unparalleled style!
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