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Our attention has been refocussed on the LGBTQI + issue in recent times, and more so after the unambiguous and categorical statement made by the Archbishop of Colombo, Macolm Cardinal Ranjith a few days ago.

In The Sunday Island lead news item on 17 August, he is quoted as saying among other things, “A group of psychologists are issuing certificates that allow children to change their gender identity”. And then he has gone on to homosexuality – as “a danger to our younger generation”. He has further claimed that certain political parties and their leaders were involved in promoting this agenda.

As a medical academic, I have advocated that any human sexual activity is acceptable between consenting adults – with absolute emphasis on ‘consenting’, the issues of same gender sex is not at issue where I am concerned. It is a matter of private personal preference and choice between consenting adults.

But I am very much concerned about an emerging trend that to me, to say the least, is highly alarming. That is, the strong emerging trends of transsexualism pervading the West and the pharma-politico-financial backing it is receiving in recent times. There is now a backlash on men trying to be women and taking advantage of the situation in invading ‘private places’ previously dedicated to women, and legal encroachment in individual and team sports. The worst aspect of it is the encroachment of these powerful corporate social segments on the Rights of the Child.

In this narrative, what I will attempt to do is make a few random ‘brush strokes’ on the large canvas of the current scenery on the ‘Child as a Person’ that may paint an abstract picture of this subject. You may see a pattern, or you may not. It will be in the eyes of the beholder.

“The child is the father of the man.”

Wrote William Wordsworth – in his 1802 poem, “My Heart Leaps Up”.

On first reading of this old aphorism, it seems a confounding paradoxical statement. What did the poet mean when he used this confusing idea? It is said that he meant that the foundation of our adult personalities is laid during our childhood. But is it really so? As a child grows into adulthood, he/she will gradually lose the curiosity and the sense of wonder about the world. The child gradually begins to conform to the dictates of society, beginning with the dictates of parents. Then comes the restraining confines of school discipline about which Ivan Illych wrote in his path-breaking book “Deschooling Society” in 1970 – 55 years ago! Schools as mass collective education catering to the lowest common denominator. But, on the other hand, it is my view, that the basic core attitudes of an individual are first formed at home. It is from the home that one will learn the rudiments of ‘good’ and ‘bad’ or of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’. That is often why, some children who come from dysfunctional family backgrounds, whatever later attempts are made, end up in anti-social circumstances.

What we can learn from this thought from Wordsworth is that even as early as the beginning of the 19th century, the importance of childhood in the future development of the adult had been appreciated. What it certainly does is to put our topic of the day – “The child is a person” in perspective. In other words, Wordsworth’s idea, enhances our topic of the day.

The recognition that ‘the child is a person’ is a necessary precondition to accept that the child is the future.

This saying attributed to Abraham Lincoln:

“A child is a person who is going to carry on what you have started … the fate of humanity is in his hands.”

Perhaps he was the first to use the title of this article. When I chose it, I did not know that Abraham Lincoln had use the phrase before. There is another proverb that is more telling – and perhaps for that reason, remains anonymous:

“He who takes a child by the hand, takes the future by the scruff of its neck!”

This leaves us with little doubt about the importance of the child as a person. But before that, let us ask another question, rhetorically: ‘When does a child become an individual?’. ‘When does a child become a person?

Here, we get into serious controversy. The multiple issues of ‘the embryo, the foetus and the unborn child’, reproductive rights, women’s rights and their socio-religious implications fall upon us like a ton of bricks. For example, are the words ‘foetus’, ‘unborn child’ and ‘unborn baby’ interchangeable? Are there any differences between these words and their usage? Are they mere semantics that no subtle importance need be attached to them? Does it depend only on the perspective of the person who uses them? Let us leave aside such complexities for our purpose of this article. Let us be aware that there are areas that “even angels fear to tread”. But we will bear those issues in mind, nevertheless.

Capacity of children to make legal decisions.

I wouldn’t want to delve into ‘foetal rights’ at this point as it is voluminous enough for books and volumes by itself. Therefore, we plunge straight into ‘child rights’ though ‘foetal rights’ is necessarily and conceptually the basis of ‘Child Rights’.

The child’s wishes and decisions in the family courts, for example. It was long thought that a child lacked legal capacity to give valid consent in law regarding decisions such as consenting to medical procedures. Therefore, the capacity to make decisions and act in the child’s best interest was vested in their parent or guardian. These parental powers existed until the child attained legal adulthood.

The current approach views parental powers in a different way: they establish that these are effective only so long as they are needed for the protection of the person and property of the child. Therefore, it is no longer the accepted rule that children remain under parental control until they are of a certain age. At some point of the child’s life, the parental right yields to the child’s right to decide for him or herself. However, this is increasingly seen by the courts as an incremental process, in the course of which, the child’s independence and ability to make decisions grow, while the extent of the parental responsibilities and right to decision-making gradually diminish.

In England and Wales, the term ‘Gillick competence’ is used in medical law to decide whether a child under the age of 16 is able to consent to their own medical treatment, without the need for parental permission or knowledge.

By the way, ‘The Gillick case’ involved a UK health departmental (NHS) circular advising doctors on the contraception of minors (for this purpose, under sixteens). The circular stated that the prescription of contraception was a matter for the doctor’s discretion and that they could be prescribed to under sixteens without parental consent. This matter was litigated because an activist, Victoria Gillick, ran an active campaign against the policy. Gillick sought a declaration that prescribing contraception was illegal because the doctor would commit an offence of encouraging sex with a minor (which in Sri Lanka, is statutory rape) and that it would be treatment without consent as consent in this aspect should be vested in the parent; she was unsuccessful before the High Court but succeeded in the Court of Appeal.)

It means that the legal authority for parents to make medical decisions on behalf of their children is revoked when the child reaches sufficient maturity to make their own decisions. There is no hard-and-fast age at which a child can be considered ‘Gillick competent’, and it is something decided on a case-by-case basis.

Gender Dysphoria

This is an area in which I want to invest some extra time during this narrative; on what I believe is an issue that is heavily laden with controversy. Serious current controversy. Here, whether the child is a person, and what decision-making role they can play, at what age, which is critical for their future personal identity, come into serious contention.

Specialist paediatricians in Sri Lanka should be very much aware of this relatively new phenomenon. Which to my mind, is a frightening development where paediatricians and child psychiatrists are at the epicentre of this global controversy. Perhaps, it is not quite correct for me to call it global. Perhaps, not yet.

It is still very much a subject of medical controversy in the West including Australia. But the fall out may not be too far in coming to our shores. And paediatricians, must be fully cognisant of all issues concerned and policy decisions taken in this regard at the level of professional bodies as well as at the Ministry of Health.

Where should I begin?

I wouldn’t want to get into the debatable area of biological sex. Whether there are six of them (as is now classified) or less. But we can simplify by making them three. Male, female and all others lumped into the category – intersex. Intersex being individuals born with any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones or genitals that, according to the Office of the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, “do not fit the typical definitions for male or female bodies“.

One of the most famous intersex personalities of recent times was Caster Semenya, the South African middle-distance runner and 2016 Olympic gold medalist in the 800 metres, who was assigned as a female at birth with naturally elevated testosterone levels due to an enzyme (5α-Reductase) deficiency. In a landmark case for athletes’ rights, Caster Semenya, the star South African runner, won her case at the European Court of Human Rights (ECtHR) on July 10, 2025. “Caster Semenya’s victory is a victory for all women and all athletes because the European Court found that the Court of Arbitration for Sport and Swiss Federal Tribunal had failed to uphold human rights norms despite credible claims of discrimination.” reported Human Rights Watch. But our issue here today, is not about intersex.

But I am digressing.

From biological sex, we get into “gender assignment”. Gender assignment is the discernment (subjective judgement) of an infant’s sex at birth. Assignment may be done prior to birth through prenatal sex discernment – as is commonly done now by obstetricians by ultra sound scans. In the majority of births, it is a relative, a midwife, a nurse or a physician who inspects the genitalia when the baby is delivered, and sex or gender is assigned without any expectation of ambiguity. The global number of births with ambiguous genitals is in the range of 0.02% to 0.05%.

If it was only such cases of ‘intersex’, that has aroused controversy, that would be a non-issue. As we come to understand, it goes far beyond that. For instance, a whimsical comment by a female child “I am a boy” would be enough to register her in a gender dysphoria clinic to be kept under observation for later interventions to change her ‘birth gender’.

In consequence, what was once straight forward biological sex determined on a biological construct has changed to a very fluid ‘social construct’. A child’s sex or gender is increasingly being determined by societal imperatives and not biological analysis.

Gender dysphoria has been broadly stated as ‘the sense of unease arising from one’s physical sexual characteristics which are not aligning with one’s gender identity’.

Today, increasingly, gender identity is the personal sense of one’s own gender. Gender identity can correlate with a person’s assigned sex at birth or can differ from it. ‘Gender expression’ typically reflects a person’s gender identity. New terminology is coming into this gender lexicon – for instance, “body-ownership networks”. The factors that determine gender is no longer chromosomes or genes. There are many determinants. Here is the least complex interpretation of what is now termed the ‘Sense of Gender’ – diagrammatically. (See diagram)

As can be seen, gender identity is becoming highly complex in today’s world.

Puberty Blockers

The mainstay of conservative management of, and treatment for, gender dysphoria is puberty blockers. I am not sure how many of our paediatricians are into this, as of now.

You know that the so-called puberty blockers, known formally as gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) antagonists, are medications that cause the body to stop producing sex hormones. They are delivered either as injections (also used in breast and prostate cancer treatment), which are administered by a healthcare worker every three months, or via an implant, which needs to be replaced annually.

For ‘transgender children’, taking these drugs will prevent breast tissue development and menstruation, or the growth of facial hair and a deepening voice. The effects of drugs are completely reversible, and if a person stops taking them their body will resume sex hormone production as it had done before they started.

Why might a child want puberty blockers? Because the child is unsure of its gender preference. The monitoring of such children has begun, in some instances, when they were as young as 4 years old. Puberty blockers are commenced sometimes soon after puberty (ages 12-14) when they have begun producing sperms and ova (when, they can be frozen for future fertility) or even before when they lose their fertility options! The controversial issue in this is who will be the decision-maker in this process? The child or the parents?

Dianna Kenny, Professor of Psychology, consulting psychologist, psychotherapist University of Sydney who has collected data on children enrolled in gender dysphoria clinics has discovered the emergence of a ‘new pandemic’. The statistics are alarming. There has been a dramatic increase in the number of children enrolled in gender dysphoria clinics since 2019.

Social Contagion

Diana Kenny in an article titled “Is gender dysphoria socially contagious?” explores the influence of ‘social contagion’ on what she calls “the disquieting upsurge in the number of children and young people whose parents are presenting to gender clinics around the world for advice regarding social transition, puberty blocking agents, cross sex hormones, and ultimately surgery in an attempt to change their gender.”

Evidence has been quoted of children prompted into what is now termed “rapid-onset gender dysphoria” by peer pressures. After the article on the subject by Dr. Lisa Littman of Brown University was first published, there was a ‘mob reaction’ by transgender activists who denounced the paper calling it hate speech and transphobic. The gender dysphoria issue has turned not only political, but disquietingly aggressive. Increasingly, younger and younger children are not just being given, but driven, to ‘radical surgical treatment’ for gender dysphoria.

In this context, let me digress a bit to relieve the monotony.

Lisa Marchiano, a Yungian psychoanalyst in Philadelphia, in her article titled “Outbreak: On Transgender Teens and Psychic Epidemics” published in ‘Psychological Perspectives’ – a Quarterly Journal of Yungian Thought in 2017 (Carl Yung) – writes this interesting historical aside:

“The earliest written record from the town of Hamelin in Lower Saxony is from 1384. It states simply, “It is 100 years since our children left.” Historical accounts indicate that sometime in the 13th century, a large number of the town’s children disappeared or perished, though the details of the event remain a mystery. “The Pied Piper of Hamelin”, as far I as have been able to determine, is the only Grimm’s fairy tale that is based substantially on a historical event. Both the actual event and the Grimm’s tale suggest an archetypal situation in which adults have allowed children to be seduced away into peril. This tale is a disconcertingly apt metaphor for various social contagions that have overtaken collective life throughout the centuries.”

William Manchester’s ‘A World Lit Only by Fire’ places the events in 1484, 100 years after the written mention in the town chronicles that “It is 100 years since our children left”, and further proposes that the Pied Piper was a psychopathic paedophile.

Now that is an interesting perspective on the children who followed the pied piper into oblivion. Is this what today’s adults are doing to our children. Taking decisions for them and taking them away into a “gender land of no return”? Decisions that could often irreversibly disturb their lives – psychologically? As some have said – ‘Seduce them into peril’??

The case against Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust

A UK News report dated Oct 7, 2020, describes a landmark case that will be heard in High Court about whether children who wish to undergo gender reassignment should be prescribed “experimental” puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones.

Kiera Bell, a 23-year-old woman who began taking puberty blockers when she was 16 before “detransitioning” last year – i.e., going back to being a girl, is suing the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust, which runs the UK’s only gender identity development service (GIDS) for children.

The legal challenge is also being brought by Mrs A, the mother of a 16-year-old autistic girl who is currently on the waiting list for treatment.

In January 2021, the pair were given the go-ahead to bring the action against the trust after claiming that the way informed consent is obtained from children is “materially misleading”.

At the hearing in London, Ms Bell and Mrs A’s lawyers will argue that children under the age of 18 cannot give “informed consent” to treatment which has “irreversible, lifelong consequences”.

Professor Carl James Heneghan, a clinical epidemiologist and a Fellow of Kellogg College, Oxford and the Director of the University of Oxford’s Centre for Evidence-Based Medicine and Editor-in-Chief of BMJ Evidence-Based Medicine has called the use of puberty blockers to treat transgender children an “unregulated live experiment on children.”

It was reported that in 2019 five clinicians working at the Gender Identity Development Service (GIDS) at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust in London in the United Kingdom (UK) resigned, and one of the governors of the Trust also resigned. Among other reasons, they adduced that puberty ‘blockers’ are prescribed experimentally to gender diverse youth, without sufficiently robust evidence around efficacy and safety, and without sufficiently robust diagnosis.

Other countries….

Under some of the proposed new laws across the United States, doctors could be barred from prescribing puberty-blocking drugs to children. A measure introduced in South Carolina last year would revoke the licenses of doctors who treat transgender children.

Meanwhile, the South Dakota legislature voted down a bill that will see doctors charged with a misdemeanour if they prescribe puberty blockers. The Republican state representative Fred Deutsch, who sponsored the bill, said on Twitter ahead of the vote on Feb. 10, 2020: “The world is upside-down; protecting children from sterilization and mutilation is causing a firestorm,”

The issue has spilled beyond the borders of the United States, with many countries mulling new laws preventing poorly discriminated decisions on prescribing puberty blockers for children.

On the other hand, Brazil lowered the age at which young people can access gender reassignment surgery from 21 to 18 and dropped the age requirement for hormone therapy from 18 to 16 – although those under 18 must have the consent of a parent or guardian.

There are other connected and important issues. One is:

The gender dysphoria epidemic and the vested interests of the medico-pharma-insurance industry is quite similar to the ADHD medication controversy, of the recent past.

The debates and controversies go on. The paediatric endocrinologists, child psychologists and transgender surgeons are teeming on either side of the barricades – where, and on what side would you stand? The ‘child as a person’ seems to have been lost in this medical / legal battle ground.

I hope with these ‘brush strokes’ of information, I have adequately covered the topic that I ventured to write on, mainly due to the emergence of discussions on transgenderism and gender dysphoria that seems to be slowly, but surreptitiously, creeping into our legal system under the coercive influence of multiple Western agencies such as the UNHRC and the IMF. The complexities of this developing socio-political-legalistic phenomenon is both bewildering and frightening.

Are there conditions and constraints to ‘The child being a person’? Here are some concluding thoughts, not as conclusions, but as questions.

· When would a child be considered ‘Gillick competent’ in Sri Lanka?

· Will adults allow a child to decide on its own gender identity?

· Should adults decide that their child is a male or female before the child can decide for itself?

· Is it ethical to offer a child the option of gender surgery against the will of their parents as is being done in some centres in the West now?

· Where does society draw the line on when a child becomes a person?

· When does a child become a person?

· When will adults allow a child to be a person?

· When should adults allow a child to be a person?

I am not sure what kind of reaction I will have from Paediatricians and Child Psychiatrists in Sri Lanka to this narrative as there are strongly contrary positions taken by them the world over. Will the outcome of these controversies determine the future of humans as a thriving species?

Questions and more questions for both the legal and medical professionals. In the final analysis, I am leaving you with more questions than answers. In a world that has, in many ways, turned itself upside down, that would not be too surprising, would it?

(I have taken extensive extracts for this article from my presentation for the Dr. BJC Perera Research Prize Oration 2020, Sri Lanka College of Paediatricians.)

by Dr. Susirith Mendis ✍️
Emeritus Professor
University of Ruhuna
(susmend2610@gmail.com)



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The NPP’s Dilemma: Arresting Politics and Unarresting Progress

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The New Parody: NPP and its Lilliputians

by Rajan Philips

The 22nd Amendment has given the government’s critics a convenient cudgel to beat up the government. But there has been no crushing blow by any effective opponent. Too many people have been taking too many turns and striking too many blows, but no one has landed anything to shake the government in any way. The whole drama is the new Sri Lankan parody of Lilliputians taking on Gulliver. Nonetheless, the critics have found an opening to keep haranguing the government. There are two prongs to their exertions.

One is the pre-NPP past of the old JVP. In political years, the chasm is as wide as that between the Old Testament and the New Testament. This provides the basis for claiming that 22A is the NPP government’s first step towards ending parliamentary democracy. The hilarity of this accusation is matched by its hypocrisy inasmuch as the current chief accuser was also the high priest of the 18th Amendment that was set up to envision a third term for Mahinda Rajapaksa. Who else – but GL Pieris. One good thing the Bar Association did was to keep GL Pieris entirely out of its entourages.

The second front of attacks on the government is based on the JVP-NPP’s cohabitation in the Yahapalanaya diarchy of Sirisena and Wickremesinghe. Indeed, the question has been asked: Is Malimawa heading to be the second Yahapalanaya? If that were so, GL Peiris and others should be able to feign a sigh of relief that parliamentary democracy is indeed safe owing to the NPP’s incompetence. But the absurdity of the Malimawa – Yahapalanaya allusion is a different laugh. Perhaps, more than one laugh.

One is in the table-talk suggestion that “due to the misdeeds of Pohottuwa that followed Yahapalanaya, voters gave an overwhelming mandate to Malimawa…” Sanitizing the disaster that was Gotabaya presidency as misdeed is quite a feat. A more serious look is about the voters who gave the “overwhelming mandate to Malimawa.” Most of the Malimawa voters were peeled off the Pohottuwa vote block, while Yahapalanaya voters were left to choose between Sajith Premadasa and Ranil Wickremesinghe. Namal Rajapaksa who was supposed to stand down in support of Ranil Wickremasinghe in the hope of diverting Pohottuwa votes to RW. Instead, the Rajapaksa scion decided to get big race experience, fared badly in the race and caused another serial defeat for RW.

Arresting Politics

Now the political wheels are turning differently. Namal Rajapaksa has become the latest martyr of the government’s arresting politics. Illusorily or not, the young Rajapaksa believes that he’s finding political traction in the country and that the government is putting him behind bars to slow him down. Coming to his defence is of course the inscrutable (even to himself) Ranil Wickremesinghe.

Sajith Premadasa has apparently remained quiet so far, and so has the SJB. Neither has made any statement or expressed concern over the arrest of Namal Rajapaksa on Friday, September 4. It is not that Mr. Premadasa is becoming what Ranil Wickremesinghe was to Mahinda Rajapaksa – the government’s Minister of the Opposition, but the man has no political fire in his belly. If his passion is for wildlife, he should ask the government to put him in charge of running the Yala National Park. He can have a better animal farm there than what he seems to be suffering within his Party and in parliament.

Mr. Rajapaksa has been arrested over the Airbus purchase scandal that goes back to 2012 and 2013. The details of the scandal are known, and allegations of payoffs have been rumoured for quite a while. Yet it is the of pattern of Friday morning questioning, evening arrest and arraignment, and weekend incarceration – that has become all too familiar and fodder for cynical misgivings. There have been too many arrests but too few trials, let alone convictions. All arrests and no trials not only erodes public confidence in the process, but also let the criminals and their beneficiaries go Scot-free.

For his part, Namal Rajapaksa is claiming that the government timed his arrest to scuttle the political rally that he and the SLPP have scheduled for Saturday, September 12, in Anuradhapura. Their claim seems to that the Anuradhapura rally will mark the scion’s coming of age as a viable presidential candidate. The claim gets some credence in the context of the government’s own political planning for holding a series of pro-government public rallies where President Dissanayake will be both the show and substance. The first of the NPP rallies is coincidentally scheduled for Sunday, September 13, and also in Anuradhapura.

Next week, we will have all the commentaries and comparisons about the two rival rallies in Anuradhapura. Future rallies will show whether Mr. Rajapaksa is actually surging in the public recognition of his political abilities, and whether the government is actually concerned about this apparent surge and mounting a counter surge of its own. If all this were true, the irrelevance of Sajith Premadasa will become even more entrenched, and the personal relevance of Ranil Wickremesinghe will become even more real.

For the pundit theory is that while the NPP might view Namal Rajapaksa as a growing threat in popular politics, its more substantive fear is about Ranil Wickremesinghe and what he says about the economy. To wit, the government’s full throttled response to Mr. Wickremasinghe’s casual remark at a political book launch that the government may not be having enough forex reserves when foreign creditors come collecting in 2028.

The Real Question

The real question is apart from the show and tell of political rallies there is still not much to write home about government performance on the substance of the economy. The government has so far been quite good at keeping the economic house in order. Keeping order is not too difficult a task once you start keeping corruption out of the door. But there are no signs of the government doing anything substantial on the economic front, especially the export sector for without significantly increasing export earnings it will be impossible to carry out debt repayment.

The government has been commended for identifying 33 State-Owned-Enterprises (SOEs) for closure or restructuring. Yet there are a few biggies left, including the debt burdened Sri Lankan Airlines with about $ 2 billion estimated to be its accumulated losses. The government has also announced a slew of mega projects in highways and the energy sector. At the same time, there are ethno-economic criticisms that the government is delaying work on the KKS Harbour and the Palaly Airport projects that have Indian funding.

Highway projects can be a curse dressed up as blessing, and they are coming out of the same Rajapaksa economic playbook. There are rumours that would be corporate beneficiaries of mega highway projects have found an inside track to government decision makers. It is up to the government to prove that such allegations are untrue and to demonstrate that it will not be bought over in contract awards. Highway construction is also import heavy even with local contractors. The economic worry should be that with too many highway projects, all going on at the same time, there will be a drain on the limited forex reserves to bring in equipment and materials. That was the experience of the highway robberies under the Rajapaksas and the NPP government can forget the lessons from that era only at its peril.

On a positive note, there is commendable activity in the renewable energy sector, amidst warnings by the Public Utilities Commission (PUSCL) about new power cuts under El Niño weather conditions. The PUSCL recently approved new feed-in tariffs for electricity from renewable energy sources and has directed the newly minted National System Operator (NSO) to expedite the implementation of Battery Energy Storage System with sufficient capacity to accommodate solar energy. There is some and back-and-forth between the two agencies about implementation details, but that is a good disagreement to have as opposed to the prolonged agreement about doing nothing on renewable energy.

There is a new green light for the once controversial 350 MW LNG power project in Kerawalapitiya. The project is being undertaken by Sahasdhanavi Limited on a Build-Own-Operate-Transfer (BOOT) basis, and will be implemented in two phases. The unfortunate snag is that in both phases, initial operations will be based on diesel with expectation to switch to Regasified Liquefied Natural Gas (RLNG) which will require additional infrastructure and supply arrangements. One would hope that diesel generation will not become a permanent feature in Kerawalapitiya.

To its credit, the government launched Sri Lanka’s largest renewable energy project, the ‘Rividanavi’ Solar Power Park project, in September 2025, in the Monaragala District, as part of the target to generate 70% of the country’s electricity from renewable energy sources by 2030. Sooner the country reduces its reliance on thermal energy, the better for its economy and the environment.

The government seems to be wanting in messaging its achievements, big or small, to the public in consistent and convincing ways. The mode of messaging through presidential rallies may not have much benefit except during an election campaign. At the same time, the government is getting caught up in controversies of its own making. The exertions on all sides over the 22nd Amendment is a case in point. In the upshot, it is the judiciary that has been badmouthed and diminished. The lure of arresting politics could be appealing in the short term, but can come back to haunt one if no one gets convicted.

For all intent and purpose, the government has missed the bus on constitutional reforms. I would be the first to applaud if my prediction turns out to be incorrect. But the government cannot walk away from the economy the way it seems to have abandoned its promise on the constitution. And the challenge of managing even a small national economy is not getting any easier with all the havoc that the Trump Administration is wreaking on America and the world.

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Remembering Nihal Rodrigo: A friendship extending over 50 years

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Anila Bandaranaike as a graduate student at Cornel in the US (right) eating ice cream at Central Park with Nihal and Chitra Rodrigo and their twins

Nihal Passed away on 14th August, a few days after his 86th birthday. Nandi, Raffi and Anouk, his granddaughter, had been with him from New York till just a week before he died. In the weeks after he passed away, there have been glowing tributes to Nihal by his professional colleagues and from organisations in which he served. My tribute is personal, of friendship over decades with a multi-talented and kind-hearted gentleman, with a delightful sense of humour, who wore his talents so lightly.

I cannot speak of Nihal without talking of his wife Chitra. To me, they were an ideal union. They shared the same values of kindness, generosity, commitment, professionalism, humility and unquestionable integrity. They also shared many interests – in art, theatre, film, classical music (both oriental and western), literature and world affairs, to name a few. They were equal partners, each respecting the other’s views and looking out for the other. They had their arguments, but with never a loud, rude, harsh or unpleasant word.

I first met Nihal and his family nearly 50 years ago in Manhattan, New York. I had moved to Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, as a graduate student in January 1978. I had an introduction to them from my close friend Radhika Coomaraswamy, who had known them since her student days in New York. Nihal was Counsellor at the Sri Lanka Mission to the UN. He and Chitra, together with their 6-year old twins, Nandi and Satya, graciously opened their home to me. From the beginning, I was made to feel a part of this delightful family and I considered their apartment in Manhattan as my “home away from home”. I regularly dislodged one of the twins from a bed to a sleeping bag on the floor, whenever I turned up in the “Big Apple” on the six-hour greyhound bus ride from Ithaca, comfortable enough to occasionally bring a friend along as well!

I have such happy memories of walking in Central Park eating ice-cream with the foursome, or going to movies and Broadway shows with Chitra. Our friendship never wavered over the next several decades and geographical distances, as they moved from one diplomatic post to another. I remain ever-grateful to Radhika for that initial introduction.

My father (Sam Wijesinha) had befriended them before me, when he had accompanied a Parliamentary delegation to Australia in 1970, in his capacity as Secretary General of Parliament, and he was a great fan. Nihal was then acting High Commissioner and they had brought him to their home for a chat and informal dinner after an official party they had all three attended. When they got home, both Nihal and Chitra realized that neither had taken their keys with them and they were locked outside their own home with their guest! Undeterred, Nihal managed to prise open the kitchen window and climb into the house to let the other two in. My father remained a great admirer of Nihal and Chitra forever after!

From Counsellor in New York, Nihal rose to Ambassador status, SAARC Secretary-General and Foreign Secretary, and finally as our Ambassador in China. They were such fun and gracious hosts when my husband and I visited them in both Kathmandu and Beijing and made their home our base while travelling in Nepal and China. They were the perfect diplomatic couple, able to converse with, and entertain royalty, presidents, the literary, arts and business communities and regular citizens, with equal ease, grace and dignity. It certainly did not harm the Sri Lankan image that they were also an extraordinarily good-looking couple!

Nihal and Chitra met as students at Peradeniya University in its golden years. They enjoyed Ediriweera Sarachchandra’s plays at the famous open-air theatre, while Nihal was also President of the English Drama Society. On my return to Sri Lanka in the mid-‘80s, it was Chitra who introduced me to Sinhabahu and Maname, as well as all the glorious ballets performed by the Chitrasena and Vajira dance troupe.

As mentioned by others, Nihal was an authority on art and a painter himself. Nihal, Chitra and fellow students were befriended by George Keyt, then living in Kandy. Canvasses in their home showcase Nihal’s artistic talents, as well as early Keyt paintings, gifts from the artist himself. Later, Nihal served on and supported the George Keyt Foundation in many ways. He was also a lover of, and an authority on film. I remember especially the Audrey Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart classics. If one wished to watch, one had only to visit the Rodrigos and ask- Nihal had an entire collection of those DVDs.

Nihal could speak with authority, in language a lay person could understand, on geopolitics, especially the power changes taking place in an increasingly volatile world. His astuteness on Sri Lanka’s diplomatic relations was ahead of his time.

In the early 1990s, Nihal was Secretary to a high-level Foreign Affairs Study Group (FASG) appointed by President Premadasa and chaired by Dr. Gamani Corea, with Mervyn de Silva, Lakshman Kadirgamar and S.K. Wickremesinghe among its members.

As the Cold War had ended and Asia began emerging as an economic force, Nihal saw that, along with two economically awakening giants China and India, fast developing countries in East and South East Asia would become increasingly important to Sri Lanka for its own future development. He therefore officially co-opted me, from the Central Bank’s Economic Research Department, to provide the FASG with regular statistical updates of Sri Lanka’s economic and trade links with those very countries.

His thinking has proved correct, although I do not think successive Sri Lankan governments gave such astuteness the importance it warranted.

His final diplomatic posting, as Ambassador to China, reflected the enormous respect in which he was held. His time there was invaluable to Sri Lanka. Since his return to Sri Lanka in 2007, he was one of the most sought-after authorities on China in the region. He lectured in academic institutions and was a popular speaker on Sri Lanka’s foreign policy for well over a decade after his retirement.When his health began to deteriorate, he led a quieter life, meeting friends and family in their home, ably cared for by his devoted wife through the years that followed.

Nihal’s and Chitra’s interest in world issues and the arts have been inherited by, and nurtured in both Nandi and Satya, and most likely, Anouk too. Today, where are those delightful six-year olds whose beds I took over all those years ago?

Nandi is Head of Research at the New York Times Magazine, married to Raffi, a senior writer for the New Yorker, and Satya, a senior diplomat in Sri Lanka’s Foreign Service, currently serves as our Ambassador in Rome, with the same charm and professionalism as his father. So, to me, Nihal and Chitra were also role-model parents, giving their twins space to grow and develop their own individual personalities.

Nihal had many admirable qualities, but what I admired most was how his intellect and creative abilities sat so lightly on him. He shared of his knowledge, experience and wisdom without ever acting superior or talking down to anyone; he could turn a tense moment in a discussion and lighten the mood in a wink, with a delightfully witty remark or joke, and always had time to chat and joke with us younger adults, however busy his work schedule.

But Nihal was not all-perfect! It was Chitra, his soul-mate, he relied on so completely for all matters practical and financial, including hosting, entertaining and maintaining their homes all over the world, and for companionship, comfort, peace and harmony, in their own home in Colombo, in the final years of his life.

He will be missed by all who knew him, but we will all treasure memories of a talented, humane individual who made this world a better place. May he rest in peace.

Anila Dias Bandaranaike

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The Essence of the Notion of ‘Father’: A short review of Piyasara Gedara by Liyanage Amarakeerthi

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By Ashanthi Ekanayake

There has been a trend in social media in inquiring of its users what their favourite literary works are and I took some time to explore which poem I might single out as the best of its kind written in English which is of personal significance. I immediately thought of the poem “Daddy” by Sylvia Plath. I made the choice quickly because I had been thinking of it since I began to read Amarakeerthi’s latest novel. The notion of the father and the larger metaphor of the patriarch or the arch patriarch has been something all societies have grappled with since the beginning. Plath declares in the second verse Daddy, “I have had to kill you.” This act of parricide has been a strong metaphor in many literary works and also in the etiological myths of many peoples.

I was initiated to the history of our race and nation as a young child and I remember that I had no qualms about accepting that I came from a lineage which had a certain “lion” in the beginning and that the lion had two children and that they “married” to start our race. Firstly, I heard this story as a young child and “marriage” did not mean much to me, secondly, I was from a generation which was not allowed to question and challenge my “elders and betters.” I was also a somewhat passive and placid child. When it was (unfortunately) my turn to do the honours in initiating my own offspring they were not so gullible. They were appalled and not impressed. They said in one voice “what ignominy to trace one’s beginning to parricide, bestiality and incest.” Fortunately for me I know some “Classics.’ So, my rejoinder was that even the Greeks and Romans have similar accounts and reminded them of Oedipus. Oedipus and Sinhabahu both have to kill their fathers to come into their own, regardless of the fact that Oedipus meets with tragedy. The notion of the patriarch and succession through parricide has been a historical reality and a literary strategy explored by many and has an etiological function.

In this sense the narrative of Piyăsara Gedara by Amarakeerthi Liyanage makes the reader question this accepted notion of the patriarch and also the role of the father/father figure by their presence and absence in the novel itself. Not stopping there Amarakeerthi uses the shadowy and unnamed yet unmistakable character of “sir,” in the novel as a parasitic dramaturge who has a rather overbearing personality. This shadowy figure is mirrored by the introduction of fathers who are not quite fathers in the later chapters. Amarakeerthi has been committed to writing novels experimenting with different styles while touching on themes which are current and relevant. His unhurried creative exercise has always managed to keep the reader engaged in questioning social norms and accepted values and exploring the very politics of the creative enterprise and also recent events. The metaphor borrowed from a renowned stylized stage play is an extended metaphor with the heart room of the Dias home gaining an importance as a significant space. (I refrain from exploring the obvious nationalist aspect because the readers will come to these assumptions on their own.)

Just as there are many fathers, Dias appears to be just like the youngsters in the narrative, lost in the ruminations of what his father might have achieved had he not been in the shadow of the dramaturge who himself remains a shadowy figure in the narrative rather like the murder instrument which is not one. His realisation that his father was not unique and not deserving of many of the accolades that Dias had wanted as a son for his father gives the novel a certain bildungsroman/coming of age quality even though Dias appears to be relatively old. A rather late coming of age for Dias because he has to see that his father was not all that he believed him to be. This aspect of the novel also resonates with the notions of anxiety of influence/anxiety of authorship because Dias whom the playwright wants to rename is in fact doing much of the groundwork in research for the work the person referred only as “sir.” The other fathers are of a variety of types that we encounter in our everyday relationships. The absence of one father encourages one character to become vigilante like. The introduction of the manikin/mannequin or “womannequin” provides an alter-ego to one of the characters who is also described as doll-like.

As always Amarkeerthi’s latest creation is packed with metaphors which keep the reader alert in piecing together the story. He opens the novel using a technique resonant with the ultra-performativity of the current day and age. His narrative has a cinematic quality which is in keeping with the modern experience of a drone capturing the action as it takes place. This makes the novelist appear very powerful, even godlike and the experience makes the reader a viewer in a sense. He ties this narrative strategy in the final few pages and carries it on to the acknowledgement which is rather like watching movie credits roll at the end where he names the cast and crew.

In addition to the dramatic/cinematic quality, the novelist also uses onomatopoeia as a narrative strategy which I will not spoil for those who are yet to read the novel. Among the many themes explored are the

There is an irony in the notion of the patriarch because the very patriarch we challenge literally or figuratively is the one who gives us our name and our being and makes us into who we are, and ultimately renders himself a figure we have to destroy in order to come into our own. All the characters in the novel, main and the relatively insignificant are all used in exploring this metaphor of the father.

Plath says at the end of the poem “Daddy, daddy, you bastard, I’m through.” The irony of the presence or absence of the father and the notion of bastardy and the stigma involved and the social necessity of the presence of a father, is an aspect of our lives we will continue to explore in our creative enterprise.

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