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Goodbye to you, our trusted friend

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It is hard to say goodbye to a childhood friend and classmate – someone of your age, who knew what you meant when you talk about the old school days, school mates, teachers and all the old stories. It is very hard when a death is unexpected – a cruel blow of the global pandemic and a death which took place when no-one no one expected it.

We knew Tharanganie Weerasena when we were all students at Ladies College, starting from the age of 5 years old. “Tharanganie was known to many people, and she helped many – selflessly, often without anyone knowing any thing about it. And she had done so all her life – her kindness and empathy were part of her personality from school days,” remembers Shalini.

Another friend remembers her kindness when she was ill, foretelling Tharanganie’s eventual calling. “When I was in the hostel, I was terribly anaemic and fainting all the time. I would meet Tharanganie at the tuck shop when I was just hanging around, eyeing the eclairs and sausage rolls; certainly, truckloads more edible than the gourmet hostel delights that were dished out to us. Every time I bumped into her, she would insist on buying me something – not just one thing but many things: ‘You need to eat properly,’ she would say. She never let me feel awkward or embarrassed about any of this. She only asked one thing of me – that I would not talk about it. The smile on her face when she did this is something I will never forget. I haven’t met her for many years, but she kept in touch with me on Facebook and never failed to wish me on my birthday- or comment on my posts. I will miss her.’

Anupa remembers that both Tharanganie and she were foodies and almost all her memories of Tharanganie are intertwined with food. “She loved my grandmother’s cooking. After we left school, she would reminisce about how she waited for me to share my lunch with her. I am deeply saddened and shocked by your untimely departure, dear friend. Your caring, cheerful spirit was an inspiration and will continue to live with us.”

Friends remember Tharanganie being very unpretentious – she did not care about status or wealth or class. She was also very comfortable in her skin – from her childhood she was a strong, confident person and never seemed to doubt anything about herself. She had a great sense of humour and while she could be blunt, she would also take a joke really well or sometimes put some of the rowdier among us, in our place. She never seemed to hold a grudge or angry thought – her heart was pure and true, and it was reflected in her friendships and relationships.

She was a high achiever – something we never really had time to acknowledge or celebrate fully. What we didn’t know (and what she didn’t really publicise) is that when she graduated from the Medical Faculty, University of Colombo as a qualified pharmacist in 1995 – she came first in the island and her pass mark has still not been surpassed since. She also lectured at the Medical Faculty Colombo as a visiting lecturer but did not continue because of her desire to concentrate on the pharmacy and help people.

Tharanganie had a 25-year career as a pharmacist, a career that started when she established Colpetty Pharmacy, making Tharanganie the youngest person to own a pharmacy in Sri Lanka. She had said how hard in the beginning, with 12-hour days being the norm. “Being a young female in this business, it was difficult when I started out. I had to deal with men all the time – if they could, they would have tried to push me around, but I had to learn early to stand firm,” she said.

From the start, her ambition had always been to help people in this country lead a healthy and a happy life,” she told me. “I always put patients’ health before money and seeing a smile on my customer is more than what money can buy.”

Sharmila remembers her as being the best pharmacist for her. “Someone who cared for my well-being, supplying me with only the genuine medicine, to whom I would call for any guidance and following her instructions meticulously. Taking an antihistamine and Panadein after my covid vaccine, just because Tharanganie said to do so. Trust in someone doesn’t just come, it has to be earned and she earned that from me, because I knew she cared for me, and I just trusted her. Even in the crazy oversupplied world of multi vitamins, I could just ask her what’s the best, and trusted her answer. Before traveling on long trips, I used to ask her to pack all the medicines I might need. And she did, with instructions on what medicine, how much and for what illness. With a prescription written if I am ever stopped abroad and questioned. Who will look after me now?”

Tharanganie’s passion for helping others is seen in the work that she, her late father and her husband, Dr Asela Anthony, did – running over 545 health camps throughout the country in the last 25 years. Medical camps have been held from Point Pedro to Dondra Head, from Colombo to Batticoloa. Tharanganie was the chief pharmacist at these free camps helped by her staff of the Colpetty Pharmacy and others. The first camp for 2016 was held in Pudukuduirippu, which at one time was the main battle area, and more than 1,250 patients were helped.

Tharanganie’s life in medicine started with her father, Dr. Lakshman Weerasena – she grew up around his practice in Colpetty and started work in his dispensary before branching out on her own. Sadly, Tharanganie lost her father 10 days before she passed away, a double blow to their small and close family. She leaves behind her beloved husband Asela – they had been married for 24 years and she referred to him as a blessing and a strength in her life.

Tharanganie’s motto in life was to provide a healthier and a happy future for all people who seek help. She did that and she also gave of her time and her expertise to all those who needed it. As her friends, we benefitted and so did countless others who needed help.

We learned so much of what she had done after she is no more – it is sad we couldn’t let her know how much her kind words and deeds meant to us and how she was remembered by these acts.

Gone too soon and remembered with love and gratitude. “A friend in spirit, indeed. Let us remember you as you were in life.”

Batchmates of C.M.S Ladies College



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US’ drastic aid cut to UN poses moral challenge to world

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An UN humanitarian mission in the Gaza. [File: Ashraf Amra/Anadolu Agency]

‘Adapt, shrink or die’ – thus runs the warning issued by the Trump administration to UN humanitarian agencies with brute insensitivity in the wake of its recent decision to drastically reduce to $2bn its humanitarian aid to the UN system. This is a substantial climb down from the $17bn the US usually provided to the UN for its humanitarian operations.

Considering that the US has hitherto been the UN’s biggest aid provider, it need hardly be said that the US decision would pose a daunting challenge to the UN’s humanitarian operations around the world. This would indeed mean that, among other things, people living in poverty and stifling material hardships, in particularly the Southern hemisphere, could dramatically increase. Coming on top of the US decision to bring to an end USAID operations, the poor of the world could be said to have been left to their devices as a consequence of these morally insensitive policy rethinks of the Trump administration.

Earlier, the UN had warned that it would be compelled to reduce its aid programs in the face of ‘the deepest funding cuts ever.’ In fact the UN is on record as requesting the world for $23bn for its 2026 aid operations.

If this UN appeal happens to go unheeded, the possibilities are that the UN would not be in a position to uphold the status it has hitherto held as the world’s foremost humanitarian aid provider. It would not be incorrect to state that a substantial part of the rationale for the UN’s existence could come in for questioning if its humanitarian identity is thus eroded.

Inherent in these developments is a challenge for those sections of the international community that wish to stand up and be counted as humanists and the ‘Conscience of the World.’ A responsibility is cast on them to not only keep the UN system going but to also ensure its increased efficiency as a humanitarian aid provider to particularly the poorest of the poor.

It is unfortunate that the US is increasingly opting for a position of international isolation. Such a policy position was adopted by it in the decades leading to World War Two and the consequences for the world as a result for this policy posture were most disquieting. For instance, it opened the door to the flourishing of dictatorial regimes in the West, such as that led by Adolph Hitler in Germany, which nearly paved the way for the subjugation of a good part of Europe by the Nazis.

If the US had not intervened militarily in the war on the side of the Allies, the West would have faced the distressing prospect of coming under the sway of the Nazis and as a result earned indefinite political and military repression. By entering World War Two the US helped to ward off these bleak outcomes and indeed helped the major democracies of Western Europe to hold their own and thrive against fascism and dictatorial rule.

Republican administrations in the US in particular have not proved the greatest defenders of democratic rule the world over, but by helping to keep the international power balance in favour of democracy and fundamental human rights they could keep under a tight leash fascism and linked anti-democratic forces even in contemporary times. Russia’s invasion and continued occupation of parts of Ukraine reminds us starkly that the democracy versus fascism battle is far from over.

Right now, the US needs to remain on the side of the rest of the West very firmly, lest fascism enjoys another unfettered lease of life through the absence of countervailing and substantial military and political power.

However, by reducing its financial support for the UN and backing away from sustaining its humanitarian programs the world over the US could be laying the ground work for an aggravation of poverty in the South in particular and its accompaniments, such as, political repression, runaway social discontent and anarchy.

What should not go unnoticed by the US is the fact that peace and social stability in the South and the flourishing of the same conditions in the global North are symbiotically linked, although not so apparent at first blush. For instance, if illegal migration from the South to the US is a major problem for the US today, it is because poor countries are not receiving development assistance from the UN system to the required degree. Such deprivation on the part of the South leads to aggravating social discontent in the latter and consequences such as illegal migratory movements from South to North.

Accordingly, it will be in the North’s best interests to ensure that the South is not deprived of sustained development assistance since the latter is an essential condition for social contentment and stable governance, which factors in turn would guard against the emergence of phenomena such as illegal migration.

Meanwhile, democratic sections of the rest of the world in particular need to consider it a matter of conscience to ensure the sustenance and flourishing of the UN system. To be sure, the UN system is considerably flawed but at present it could be called the most equitable and fair among international development organizations and the most far-flung one. Without it world poverty would have proved unmanageable along with the ills that come along with it.

Dehumanizing poverty is an indictment on humanity. It stands to reason that the world community should rally round the UN and ensure its survival lest the abomination which is poverty flourishes. In this undertaking the world needs to stand united. Ambiguities on this score could be self-defeating for the world community.

For example, all groupings of countries that could demonstrate economic muscle need to figure prominently in this initiative. One such grouping is BRICS. Inasmuch as the US and the West should shrug aside Realpolitik considerations in this enterprise, the same goes for organizations such as BRICS.

The arrival at the above international consensus would be greatly facilitated by stepped up dialogue among states on the continued importance of the UN system. Fresh efforts to speed-up UN reform would prove major catalysts in bringing about these positive changes as well. Also requiring to be shunned is the blind pursuit of narrow national interests.

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Egg white scene …

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Hi! Great to be back after my Christmas break.

Thought of starting this week with egg white.

Yes, eggs are brimming with nutrients beneficial for your overall health and wellness, but did you know that eggs, especially the whites, are excellent for your complexion?

OK, if you have no idea about how to use egg whites for your face, read on.

Egg White, Lemon, Honey:

Separate the yolk from the egg white and add about a teaspoon of freshly squeezed lemon juice and about one and a half teaspoons of organic honey. Whisk all the ingredients together until they are mixed well.

Apply this mixture to your face and allow it to rest for about 15 minutes before cleansing your face with a gentle face wash.

Don’t forget to apply your favourite moisturiser, after using this face mask, to help seal in all the goodness.

Egg White, Avocado:

In a clean mixing bowl, start by mashing the avocado, until it turns into a soft, lump-free paste, and then add the whites of one egg, a teaspoon of yoghurt and mix everything together until it looks like a creamy paste.

Apply this mixture all over your face and neck area, and leave it on for about 20 to 30 minutes before washing it off with cold water and a gentle face wash.

Egg White, Cucumber, Yoghurt:

In a bowl, add one egg white, one teaspoon each of yoghurt, fresh cucumber juice and organic honey. Mix all the ingredients together until it forms a thick paste.

Apply this paste all over your face and neck area and leave it on for at least 20 minutes and then gently rinse off this face mask with lukewarm water and immediately follow it up with a gentle and nourishing moisturiser.

Egg White, Aloe Vera, Castor Oil:

To the egg white, add about a teaspoon each of aloe vera gel and castor oil and then mix all the ingredients together and apply it all over your face and neck area in a thin, even layer.

Leave it on for about 20 minutes and wash it off with a gentle face wash and some cold water. Follow it up with your favourite moisturiser.

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Confusion cropping up with Ne-Yo in the spotlight

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Ne-Yo: His management should clarify the last-minute cancellation

Superlatives galore were used, especially on social media, to highlight R&B singer Ne-Yo’s trip to Sri Lanka: Global superstar Ne-Yo to perform live in Colombo this December; Ne-Yo concert puts Sri Lanka back on the global entertainment map; A global music sensation is coming to Sri Lanka … and there were lots more!

At an official press conference, held at a five-star venue, in Colombo, it was indicated that the gathering marked a defining moment for Sri Lanka’s entertainment industry as international R&B powerhouse and three-time Grammy Award winner Ne-Yo prepares to take the stage in Colombo this December.

What’s more, the occasion was graced by the presence of Sunil Kumara Gamage, Minister of Sports & Youth Affairs of Sri Lanka, and Professor Ruwan Ranasinghe, Deputy Minister of Tourism, alongside distinguished dignitaries, sponsors, and members of the media.

Shah Rukh Khan: Disappointed his fans in Sri Lanka

According to reports, the concert had received the official endorsement of the Sri Lanka Tourism Promotion Bureau, recognising it as a flagship initiative in developing the country’s concert economy by attracting fans, and media, from all over South Asia.

Nick Carter: His concert, too, was cancelled due to “Unforeseen circumstances

However, I had that strange feeling that this concert would not become a reality, keeping in mind what happened to Nick Carter’s Colombo concert – cancelled at the very last moment.

Carter issued a video message announcing he had to return to the USA due to “unforeseen circumstances” and a “family emergency”.

Though “unforeseen circumstances” was the official reason provided by Carter and the local organisers, there was speculation that low ticket sales may also have been a factor in the cancellation.

Well, “Unforeseen Circumstances” has cropped up again!

In a brief statement, via social media, the organisers of the Ne-Yo concert said the decision was taken due to “unforeseen circumstances and factors beyond their control.”

Ne-Yo, too, subsequently made an announcement, citing “Unforeseen circumstances.”

The public has a right to know what these “unforeseen circumstances” are, and who is to be blamed – the organisers or Ne-Yo!

Ne-Yo’s management certainly need to come out with the truth.

However, those who are aware of some of the happenings in the setup here put it down to poor ticket sales, mentioning that the tickets for the concert, and a meet-and-greet event, were exorbitantly high, considering that Ne-Yo is not a current mega star.

We also had a cancellation coming our way from Shah Rukh Khan, who was scheduled to visit Sri Lanka for the City of Dreams resort launch, and then this was received: “Unfortunately due to unforeseen personal reasons beyond his control, Mr. Khan is no longer able to attend.”

Referring to this kind of mess up, a leading showbiz personality said that it will only make people reluctant to buy their tickets, online.

“Tickets will go mostly at the gate and it will be very bad for the industry,” he added.

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