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Remembering Lalith Senanayake
by Vijaya Chandrasoma
(Written in February 2019)
My old friend, Lalith ended his brief journey on this planet last week. He has, over the past 70+ years, been a part of my life, and my only regret, and I am sure the regret of many colleagues who had the good fortune to call him a friend, is that I was too busy with the petty struggles I faced in my life to take full advantage of this friendship.
Lalith had been a friend longer than I care to remember. Together with his brother, Nanda, our bonds began in our childhood, when we were neighbours, classmates, tennis partners and fellow cricketers. We enjoyed the many relatively innocent delights that childhood offered in those days. We used to play very serious cricket matches in the then bare land between our house adjacent to the “drain” (27th Lane) and Ranil Wickremasinghe’s house on Fifth Lane. Many were our victories and defeats, many the bitter arguments we shared.
We also had sequels to these matches on the bare land near the house of another classmate and old friend, Sarath Samarasinghe, on Reid Avenue, near the Dutch Burgher Union on New Bullers Road. These matches were also fiercely contested, and sometimes suspended, when Sarath was, in his opinion, given out LBW falsely. He insisted that he was not out (he was plumb), and if the decision was not immediately reversed, he threatened to take his ball and bat and go home.
Sarath was a fine wielder of the willow, and it was difficult enough to get him out at the best of times. We soon learnt then that the only way, acceptable to Sarath, to persuade him to walk without disrupting the game was to break his wickets. Sarath turned out to one of the finest school batsmen of our generation, and he scored his runs in spite of impartial umpires.
I left Royal at an early age, not because, as has been snidely suggested, I had been expelled for a variety of crimes, but because my father got a work assignment in England and decided to move his family to those colder and less hospitable climes. On a personal note, I wish I could go back to those days and start my life again. I have subsequently discovered so many more pleasurable and exciting ways I could have ruined my life.
My brief school career ended without much fanfare or achievement, and my association with many of my schoolmates also ended temporarily, much to the relief of many. Lalith went on to represent College in tennis, and I believe he won the singles championship in the Public School Tennis Championships. He was a member of the Royal College First Cricket XI for many years. He was primarily a feared medium pace bowler; I still remember his distinctive little “hop” just before delivery. He was also a fine batsman, scoring a brilliant 69 in a big match, an innings still talked of with admiration.
We lost touch for some time. Then Lalith married the lady whose sister married my brother, so we had a tenuous family relationship for a time. He had a love for wild life, and would drop everything and leave for the wilds if a white leopard (or was it black? It was a matter of no interest to me) had been spotted, anytime, anywhere. Please forgive me for any discrepancies and disrespect about leopards, elephants or other animals so loved by enthusiasts. Wild life at Yala and Wilpattu left me cold. I have never endured the doubtful pleasures of visiting either of those famous sanctuaries.
We used to entertain Lalith and Devayani at our little flat on Sulaiman Terrace when we were both newlyweds. Lalith used to wax eloquently about his encounters with various species of exotic wild animals, when, where and frequency, in minute detail, ad nauseam. Details which left me so bored that not even copious applications of the golden elixir of life could assuage the pain. Many evenings, which turned into mornings, I had to change into a sarong to hint to Lalith that the time was ripe to say good night, but he was so absorbed with his own love for these animals that the torture continued.
I know I’ll be chastised for these irreverent comments by other wild life enthusiasts, but I offer no apology. As I said, I never could understand the love of many of my otherwise sane friends for the need for the live sighting of these animals, which entailed arduous treks to the jungles, living in primitive accommodations and getting up at the crack of dawn. All for the sighting of animals which could be seen on TV or at the zoo, in comfort. The only animals which caught my fancy, then and now, which have reduced me to relative but cheerful penury, were slow horses.
Lalith went on to marry Inge, a lovely German lady. As Inge told me at the funeral yesterday, they were blessed with 43 years of happiness. They were also blessed with three lovely daughters, whose love for their father was patently obvious, who will cherish his memory forever. What more could a man ask for?
I had the great pleasure of meeting and talking with Lalith’s eldest daughter, Janine, who described to me with loving gratitude how her father had intervened, with the wisest and most compassionate counsel, at a difficult time in her life. That was the quintessential Lalith. Always ready to help, always loath to criticize.
Lalith was also a deep adherent of the Dhamma. He lived much of his life according to the gentle teachings of the Buddha, and his devotion showed in all his actions. He was detached when detachment was appropriate, but most of all, he was always compassionate and kind.
I, and all those who had the good fortune to come into contact with Lalith, will miss him. I have felt only affection for Lalith in our enduring friendship, and affection will be the primary emotion I’ll feel in the memories of my friend.
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Acid test emerges for US-EU ties
European Commission President Ursula von der Leyen addressing the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland on Tuesday put forward the EU’s viewpoint on current questions in international politics with a clarity, coherence and eloquence that was noteworthy. Essentially, she aimed to leave no one in doubt that a ‘new form of European independence’ had emerged and that European solidarity was at a peak.
These comments emerge against the backdrop of speculation in some international quarters that the Post-World War Two global political and economic order is unraveling. For example, if there was a general tacit presumption that US- Western European ties in particular were more or less rock-solid, that proposition apparently could no longer be taken for granted.
For instance, while US President Donald Trump is on record that he would bring Greenland under US administrative control even by using force against any opposition, if necessary, the EU Commission President was forthright that the EU stood for Greenland’s continued sovereignty and independence.
In fact at the time of writing, small military contingents from France, Germany, Sweden, Norway and the Netherlands are reportedly already in Greenland’s capital of Nook for what are described as limited reconnaissance operations. Such moves acquire added importance in view of a further comment by von der Leyen to the effect that the EU would be acting ‘in full solidarity with Greenland and Denmark’; the latter being the current governing entity of Greenland.
It is also of note that the EU Commission President went on to say that the ‘EU has an unwavering commitment to UK’s independence.’ The immediate backdrop to this observation was a UK decision to hand over administrative control over the strategically important Indian Ocean island of Diego Garcia to Mauritius in the face of opposition by the Trump administration. That is, European unity in the face of present controversial moves by the US with regard to Greenland and other matters of contention is an unshakable ‘given’.
It is probably the fact that some prominent EU members, who also hold membership of NATO, are firmly behind the EU in its current stand-offs with the US that is prompting the view that the Post-World War Two order is beginning to unravel. This is, however, a matter for the future. It will be in the interests of the contending quarters concerned and probably the world to ensure that the present tensions do not degenerate into an armed confrontation which would have implications for world peace.
However, it is quite some time since the Post-World War Two order began to face challenges. Observers need to take their minds back to the Balkan crisis and the subsequent US invasions of Afghanistan and Iraq in the immediate Post-Cold War years, for example, to trace the basic historic contours of how the challenges emerged. In the above developments the seeds of global ‘disorder’ were sown.
Such ‘disorder’ was further aggravated by the Russian invasion of Ukraine four years ago. Now it may seem that the world is reaping the proverbial whirlwind. It is relevant to also note that the EU Commission President was on record as pledging to extend material and financial support to Ukraine in its travails.
Currently, the international law and order situation is such that sections of the world cannot be faulted for seeing the Post World War Two international order as relentlessly unraveling, as it were. It will be in the interests of all concerned for negotiated solutions to be found to these global tangles. In fact von der Leyen has committed the EU to finding diplomatic solutions to the issues at hand, including the US-inspired tariff-related squabbles.
Given the apparent helplessness of the UN system, a pre-World War Two situation seems to be unfolding, with those states wielding the most armed might trying to mould international power relations in their favour. In the lead-up to the Second World War, the Hitlerian regime in Germany invaded unopposed one Eastern European country after another as the League of Nations stood idly by. World War Two was the result of the Allied Powers finally jerking themselves out of their complacency and taking on Germany and its allies in a full-blown world war.
However, unlike in the late thirties of the last century, the seeming number one aggressor, which is the US this time around, is not going unchallenged. The EU which has within its fold the foremost of Western democracies has done well to indicate to the US that its power games in Europe are not going unmonitored and unchecked. If the US’ designs to take control of Greenland and Denmark, for instance, are not defeated the world could very well be having on its hands, sooner rather than later, a pre-World War Two type situation.
Ironically, it is the ‘World’s Mightiest Democracy’ which is today allowing itself to be seen as the prime aggressor in the present round of global tensions. In the current confrontations, democratic opinion the world over is obliged to back the EU, since it has emerged as the principal opponent of the US, which is allowing itself to be seen as a fascist power.
Hopefully sane counsel would prevail among the chief antagonists in the present standoff growing, once again, out of uncontainable territorial ambitions. The EU is obliged to lead from the front in resolving the current crisis by diplomatic means since a region-wide armed conflict, for instance, could lead to unbearable ill-consequences for the world.
It does not follow that the UN has no role to play currently. Given the existing power realities within the UN Security Council, the UN cannot be faulted for coming to be seen as helpless in the face of the present tensions. However, it will need to continue with and build on its worldwide development activities since the global South in particular needs them very badly.
The UN needs to strive in the latter directions more than ever before since multi-billionaires are now in the seats of power in the principle state of the global North, the US. As the charity Oxfam has pointed out, such financially all-powerful persons and allied institutions are multiplying virtually incalculably. It follows from these realities that the poor of the world would suffer continuous neglect. The UN would need to redouble its efforts to help these needy sections before widespread poverty leads to hemispheric discontent.
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Brighten up your skin …
Hi! This week I’ve come up with tips to brighten up your skin.
* Turmeric and Yoghurt Face Pack:
You will need 01 teaspoon of turmeric powder and 02 tablespoons of fresh yoghurt.
Mix the turmeric and yoghurt into a smooth paste and apply evenly on clean skin. Leave it for 15–20 minutes and then rinse with lukewarm water
Benefits:
Reduces pigmentation, brightens dull skin and fights acne-causing bacteria.
* Lemon and Honey Glow Pack:
Mix 01teaspoon lemon juice and 01 tablespoon honey and apply it gently to the face. Leave for 10–15 minutes and then wash off with cool water.
Benefits:
Lightens dark spots, improves skin tone and deeply moisturises. By the way, use only 01–02 times a week and avoid sun exposure after use.
* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:
All you need is fresh aloe vera gel which you can extract from an aloe leaf. Apply a thin layer, before bedtime, leave it overnight, and then wash face in the morning.
Benefits:
Repairs damaged skin, lightens pigmentation and adds natural glow.
* Rice Flour and Milk Scrub:
You will need 01 tablespoon rice flour and 02 tablespoons fresh milk.
Mix the rice flour and milk into a thick paste and then massage gently in circular motions. Leave for 10 minutes and then rinse with water.
Benefits:
Removes dead skin cells, improves complexion, and smoothens skin.
* Tomato Pulp Mask:
Apply the tomato pulp directly, leave for 15 minutes, and then rinse with cool water
Benefits:
Controls excess oil, reduces tan, and brightens skin naturally.
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Shooting for the stars …
That’s precisely what 25-year-old Hansana Balasuriya has in mind – shooting for the stars – when she was selected to represent Sri Lanka on the international stage at Miss Intercontinental 2025, in Sahl Hasheesh, Egypt.
The grand finale is next Thursday, 29th January, and Hansana is all geared up to make her presence felt in a big way.
Her journey is a testament to her fearless spirit and multifaceted talents … yes, her life is a whirlwind of passion, purpose, and pageantry.
Raised in a family of water babies (Director of The Deep End and Glory Swim Shop), Hansana’s love affair with swimming began in childhood and then she branched out to master the “art of 8 limbs” as a Muay Thai fighter, nailed Karate and Kickboxing (3-time black belt holder), and even threw herself into athletics (literally!), especially throwing events, and netball, as well.
A proud Bishop’s College alumna, Hansana’s leadership skills also shone bright as Senior Choir Leader.
She earned a BA (Hons) in Business Administration from Esoft Metropolitan University, and then the world became her playground.
Before long, modelling and pageantry also came into her scene.
She says she took to part-time modelling, as a hobby, and that led to pageants, grabbing 2nd Runner-up titles at Miss Nature Queen and Miss World Sri Lanka 2025.
When she’s not ruling the stage, or pool, Hansana’s belting tunes with Soul Sounds, Sri Lanka’s largest female ensemble.
What’s more, her artistry extends to drawing, and she loves hitting the open road for long drives, she says.
This water warrior is also on a mission – as Founder of Wave of Safety,
Hansana happens to be the youngest Executive Committee Member of the Sri Lanka Aquatic Sports Union (SLASU) and, as founder of Wave of Safety, she’s spreading water safety awareness and saving lives.
Today is Hansana’s ninth day in Egypt and the itinerary for today, says National Director for Sri Lanka, Brian Kerkoven, is ‘Jeep Safari and Sunset at the Desert.’
And … the all-important day at Miss Intercontinental 2025 is next Thursday, 29th January.
Well, good luck to Hansana.
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