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Chandi works for the unheard voice of innocent children

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Chandi Aluwihare has come a long way since coming into the top ten at the Mrs. International pageant in 2016. She was recognized with the ‘Silpathom’ medal in Bangkok. for her war against child prostitution. A beauty queen with beauty and brains, she is highly involved working for the unheard voice of innocent children. Recognised as the global goodwill ambassador, she has a vociferous voice to make a positive impact in society ensuring social justice, social equity and human dignity. For those who have no parents, street children, war victims, and abused kids. “My focus is to protect the love and care of underprivilged chidren. A woman with courage, strength and commitment, Chandi Aluwihare believes in the axiom ‘Beauty is not skin deep’

by Zanita Careem

An introduction to your career

To say the least, at my younger days, I was floating between what I want and what I have. Like many college students I was utterly confused on what I want in life. This made me experiment in many different fields. Fashion, management, customer relation, travel and tourism, hospitality and service, publication were few. I don’t think I will ever be satisfied with what I do, as challengers excites me and if what I do is not challenging enough I am unable to remain interested. This put me in the threshold of the next paradigm of my career, to explore and execute new ideas that are ‘business disrupters’ to find that space to leverage my diverse yet interlocked experiences.

Your emowering single mothers is a very touching concept when did yous tart and why?

We all know that extreme poverty and lack of opportunities or of serious underlining problems, women are driven to the very edge of humane existence. The QUESTION is what is the future of their children?

I was passionate about empowering children, and spent many years with less privileged children, abused children, young mothers’ etc. one thing I learnt through my involvement with children was, that most of them came from broken families and the sole breadwinner is either the mother or it is a family with a single mother. On top of that the impact of financial hardship has a strong impact on psychological wellbeing of them as well as the children.

Being a mother myself, I can very well relate to the difficulties of being a single mother. This in fact was the reason I decided to find ways to strengthen their income sources, their abilities, their mindset, and last but not least their personality to stand on their own.

At this tragic moment where women are thrown out of employment sometimes they are the sole the bread winners. They juggle betweenhome and work. How can we overcome these problems?

This has being a social distress throughout that has no permanent solution. Unemployment with dependents can lead to isolation, anxiety, depression, paranoia, and even suicidal thoughts. When a woman become the primary financial provider, they feel the financial pressure in an undermining husband’s masculinity and in deepening conflicts between employment and mothering.

Having said that, the COVID-19 pandemic has a major threat to the working women. Social distancing, lockdowns sent unemployment rates skyrocketing and millions of jobs disappearing, economy is especially hard on working mothers. COVID-19 massive disruption to employment, childcare, and school routine has crippled the economy and pushed millions of women and families to the financial brink.

This moment provides an important opening to rethink how policy supports women’s roles as financial providers and parents.

Solutions should do more than provide temporary support to working mothers. While the role of women in our economy has shifted over the last 100 years, our systems have not similarly support them. The solutions should not exclusively focus on short term recovery, but long-lasting changes aim to close the wage gap, improve working conditions and family level options, better childcare system to the needs of the working mothers.

However, temporary fixes such as make work more accessible to woman, fund predictable work scheduling, guaranteed number of work hours, extended school-day or after school programs etc.

Your mode of success and your own moment

‘Success’ is a very powerful word, many of us. run behind it, most of us want to conquer it. While this is true, success includes all kinds of wealth.

For me, success is much more than the richer, power or fame, success is simply the satisfaction and happiness I get from leading a particular way of life.

I have always define my own concept of success rather than following someone else’s footsteps. Passion is where my heart and soul follows. The path to success is always challenging. We should build confidence and the last most important factor is discipline.

Success is a journey which continues even after the goal is achieved.

Do you think your mission of empowering women and children will goa long way? Will it be a challenge or a success?

Parenting is too important responsibility to bear alone, yet all too often single mothers are forced to do just that, but those living in poverty face plenty more. I believe that effective parenting leads to successful, well-adjusted children, we scaffolds families facing income loss, emotional trauma, and social deterioration as the result of divorce, abandonment, or widowhood. With a mission to “empower single mothers and their children by providing hope, support, and resources so families can become self-sustaining and thrive.”

“Financial independence is what single mothers struggle to achieve,” these women have virtually no savings and carry a heavy burden on their shoulder. We were working on a project to provide overall holistic development to these single mothers. The aim is to help achieve the concerns such as reduction of malnutrition and sicknesses, improvement of the living conditions, improvement in dressing, reduction of early marriages, improvement of school enrolment, skills development, and reduction of violence and strengthen their personalities.

This is indeed a challenge as we faced many obstacles down the road. We need the community to dedicate a few minutes, flex a few muscles and shed a few hundreds to be a part of the change. The change that these mothers and children stand next with pride and dignity as they too will hold financial independence.

What are your greatest strength and weaknesses?

I like to believe myself as a blessed and empowered woman thanks to my parents, my son and my partner. That has being my primary source of inspiration and confidence to look at this world with empathy and force of purpose.

My greatest strength is my desire and natural ability to create connections, to build strong relationships and bring together people to make a piercing impact for the betterment of the causes that I mentioned above.

My biggest weakness is also my greatest strength. I embrace my every dimple and curve with two scoops of ice cream and be the cherry on top. I will never call myself a survivor…. I am a warrior.

What are the challenges the single mothers face in our society and comparethem with women around the world

Compared to many other countries that has developed systematic support systems from social services for single parents and their children, countries like ours has minimum to none existing.

We required a National Action Plan so the single mothers in Sri Lanka will be better empowered to face their many challenges. The single mothers will definitely benefit from policies to fit their requirements in areas such as provision of adequate child care facilities, should they choose to work, and skills training to make them employable, just to name a few. The corporate and business establishments as well as the government organizations has a major leap of faith to come together.

Give a list of your achievements or titles you hold

Received the Women’s Excellence Award for the Women’s Day 2017

Presented the ‘Goodwill Ambassador for Child Rights’ 2016

Presented with the ‘Global Goodwill Ambassador’ 2018

100 Successful Women in Business Honorees – Global Trade Chamber

Top 10 at the Mrs. International Pageant 2011. She was a member of the Sri Lanka National Basket Ball team winning National Colors for Basketball

The mantra you live by

Work hard, play hard and love hard.



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Five Exciting New Categories from Mackly and SEDA

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Sharmila Srikumar , Founder Mackly and SEDA

Mackly, sleep and loungewear brand that caters to both kids and moms, is synonymous with passion, vision, and dedication. It has quickly become a powerhouse in the industry, opened its flagship retail store at the One Galle Face Mall in 2021 recently.

Sharmila Srikumar, the founder, is a visionary entrepreneur and devoted mother of three daughters. Mackly originated from Sharmila’s personal quest for the perfect pajamas for her children. Baby Clan, a sub-brand at Mackly, offers newborn essentials extending up to the age of two. Renowned for its 100% breathable cotton material, Mackly Sleepwear undergoes meticulous testing for safety, comfort, and style. Srikumar emphasizes, “We run world-class quality checks on our products related to wearability factors and root out the presence of harmful chemicals such as phthalates.”

Mackly was initially conceived as a mother and child sleepwear brand, but due to overwhelming consumer demand, the brand evolved to include exciting new collections for teens, women, and men.

Today, Mackly and SEDA stand as a testament to Sharmila’s creative focus, entrepreneurial spirit, and unwavering commitment to quality.

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Sheraton Colombo Hotel celebrates International Women’s Day with empowering insights

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Sheraton Colombo Hotel, part of Marriott Bonvoy’s portfolio of over 30 extraordinary brands, marked International Women’s Day with a powerful event themed ‘Women at the Workplace,’ bringing together influential women leaders to inspire and empower attendees.

Sheraton Colombo’s International Women’s Day celebration reaffirmed the hotel’s commitment to promoting gender equality, empowerment, and creating an inclusive environment that nurtures and uplifts women professionals.

The celebration featured keynote speeches’ from Amanthi Perera, Head of Social Sustainability at MAS Holdings, Sharnila Henry, Partner at Deloitte Sri Lanka, and Roshanie Jayasundera Moraes, CEO of Link Natural Products Pvt Ltd. They shared their inspiring journeys and invaluable insights.

The event also provided a platform for women to connect, share experiences, and gain valuable insights from trailblazers who have excelled in their respective fields. The speakers’ stories of perseverance, dedication, and unwavering determination served as a powerful reminder of the incredible potential women possess.

Female associates of Sheraton Colombo Hotel had the opportunity to participate in interactive activities, attend a women’s health session, and capture cherished moments during a photoshoot session. The celebration also incorporated uplifting elements, such as a dance warm-up and high tea, fostering an atmosphere of camaraderie and joy.

Amanthi Perera, a sustainability champion, shared her journey advocating for environmental and social issues while navigating the challenges women face in balancing multiple roles. She encouraged women to celebrate their achievements, seek help when needed, and embrace small steps that drive meaningful change.

Addressing the participants, she said “My passion was for the environment and sustainability. My journey has been one of continuous growth as a woman wearing multiple hats. When doors closed, I found new opportunities. Moving away from home for my studies taught me independence and perseverance. While striving for dreams, ask graciously, accept rejections, and let go. Small changes make a big difference, so speak up about achievements with pride. Give selflessly, seek help, and find your unique life-work balance. Most importantly, choose a fulfilling career path.”

Sharnila Henry, a leader in the auditing and accounting field, emphasized the importance of financial independence and mindful decision-making. She inspired attendees with lessons learned from her parents on being a ‘people’s leader’ and maintaining a healthy work-life balance through trust and commitment.

Recalling her journey she said, “Workplace challenges taught me to embrace multitasking and manage change positively as a learning opportunity. I am grateful to my parents for instilling the values of being a ‘people’s leader’, loving yet firm – lessons I pass to my own children. Financial independence brings security, so strive for it before long-term commitments. Be mindful in decisions, considering others’ perspectives. Do not stress over perfection; focus on doing your best work. Prioritize quality family time, be there for milestones. Gain your employer’s trust through commitment to maintain work-life balance. Set your heart on goals, taking small steps with perseverance to achieve them.”

Roshanie Jayasundera Moraes, a seasoned corporate leader, celebrated the strength of womanhood and the resilience to handle difficult situations. She highlighted the power of building relationships, continual learning, and the importance of saving and investing for financial stability and independence.

She advised, “Career paths can move laterally or even downwards before moving up again, therefore embrace the journey. As women, we are blessed with inner strength to handle difficulties. Prioritize saving and investing to secure financial stability. Build relationships through hard work; others will support your growth. Prove your worth by outworking everyone. Continuous learning elevates your ascent up the ladder. Let your skill and performance speak for you”

Sheraton Colombo Hotel’s International Women’s Day celebration served as a powerful catalyst. Through inspiring stories shared by distinguished speakers, the participants were inspired with a collective determination to break barriers and uplift one another on the journey towards empowerment and equality.

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Creating the looks for CFW

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By Zanita Careem

The Colombo Fashion Week has been a major event in the World of style and fashion.

Although most eyes are on the models on the runaway and the applause is directed towards the designers, but who are the major players behind the scene. We spoke to Ramani Fernando of Ramani Fernando salons who has been part of Colombo Fashion Week from inception. She talks about the pressures of being backstage . Theres plenty to look forward to each day ,from inspiring fashion to avant garde hairstyles,to dazzling make-up She believes Colombo Fashion week is a dazzling spectacular platform of style and creativity.

In Sri Lanka fashion week is the time honoured and highly anticipated tradition presented by Ajay Vir Singh ,founder and president of Colombo Fashion Week. Ramani’s whose career spans decades in the beauty and fashion industry and her name garners the highest praise throughout the fashion week and beyond. The iconic looks of models created by Ramani and her team are far reaching. Each style she crafts comes from deep inspiration and influences the most notable trend of the season.

Ramani’s work at the CFW is highly sought after by the designers. There is always a mixture of excitement, tension, adrenaline time restraints, and it becomes more and more challenging every year Ramani explains.

CFW has been an important event in the fashion calendar and you have been part of it from inception your comments?

For 21 years, I’ve been honored to be a part of Colombo Fashion Week, contributing to the vibrant tapestry of Sri Lanka’s fashion landscape.

I believe that hair and makeup are integral parts of CFW, playing a huge role in elevating the overall aesthetic of the event while also contributing to the seamless execution of each designer’s vision. As a trusted partner, my team and I have worked closely with designers and models to create stunning looks that captivate audiences and embody the essence of fashion.

If you could go back to your first year of the fashion week. What things have changed since then?

Looking back at my first year at Colombo Fashion Week, several significant changes have occurred. The event has grown in scale and diversity, with increased international participation and a broader embrace of styles. Advancements in technology have transformed how the event is experienced, with a greater emphasis on sustainability and ethical fashion.

In essence, while much has changed since my first year at Colombo Fashion Week, what remains constant is the event’s dedication to celebrating Sri Lankan fashion, fostering creativity and giving the best.

What distinguishes fashion week for you from other shows. Does it bring anything new or particularly influence your style ?

It’s not just about showcasing individual designers or brands but represents a comprehensive overview of the latest trends and styles within the industry. The dynamic atmosphere of Fashion Week, with its multitude of runway shows, presentations, and events, creates an immersive experience that continuously inspires and challenges my own sense of style. Fashion Week serves as a hub for creativity and experimentation, often introducing new concepts, materials, and techniques that influence my personal style.

You as a veteran stylist do a variety of hair styles and make up on different models. How does your process change with each and every model?

As a veteran stylist, I adapt my approach to each model’s unique characteristics and preferences. I assess their hair texture, facial features, and skin type to customize the hair and makeup accordingly. Communication is key to aligning with their vision, and flexibility allows me to address any challenges or last-minute changes. Problem-solving skills come into play when dealing with diverse hair and skin types, ensuring a flawless final look tailored to each individual.

From the first inception of CFW event has styles changed?

Since the inception of Colombo Fashion Week, styles have undoubtedly evolved but over time, the event has embraced a more diverse range of styles and influences. Global fashion trends, as well as the evolving tastes of designers and consumers, have contributed to this shift. Additionally, there has been a growing emphasis on sustainability and ethical fashion, reflecting broader societal concerns within the industry. Overall, the styles showcased at Colombo Fashion Week have become more dynamic, inclusive, and reflective of the global fashion landscape.

How did you find inspiration to create new looks for every event?

Keeping abreast of the latest fashion trends and attending runway shows provides valuable inspiration. Observing how designers interpret trends and push boundaries can spark creative ideas for new looks.

Can you tell us more about the creative process, how do you create new styles, make up for each model?

The process begins with gathering inspiration from various sources such as fashion magazines, social media, art, nature, and cultural influences.

Once inspired, the next step is to conceptualize the overall theme or vision for the styling.

Each model is unique, with different facial features, skin tones, hair textures, and personal styles. Assessing the models individually helps determine the most flattering and cohesive hair and makeup looks

What do you look for when assessing the new styles on the runaway every year?

Keeping abreast of current fashion trends is essential. I observe how designers interpret and incorporate trends into their collections, whether it’s through color palettes, prints, or design details. Styles that reflect a contemporary aesthetic while also offering a fresh perspective on current trends tend to resonate with audiences.

What can we expect to see from you next?

Overall, you can expect to see my team and myself continue to innovate and inspire, with a dedication to creativity, sustainability, diversity, and personalized styling, we are committed to delivering unforgettable fashion experiences.

Can you describe a typical day during fashion week. What are the best things about fashion week?

Early morning preparation The day often starts early with preparations for the day’s events. This may involve reviewing schedules, coordinating with the team, and gathering necessary equipment and supplies.

Backstage areas are buzzing with energy as stylists, makeup artists, and hairdressers work diligently to transform models into the vision of the designer. This involves quick changes between shows, ensuring that each model looks flawless before hitting the runway.

Fashion week is a prime opportunity for capturing content for social media?

The fast-paced nature of fashion week and the anticipation of seeing new collections and designs create an atmosphere of excitement and energy that is truly exhilarating.

Overall, fashion week is a thrilling and immersive experience that celebrates the artistry, craftsmanship, and innovation of the fashion industry.

The worst things?

Fashion week can be incredibly demanding, with long hours, tight deadlines, and high-pressure situations. The fast-paced nature of the event can lead to stress and exhaustion, especially for those working behind the scenes.

How do you describe a typical day of hairdressing during fashion week? How do you translate your design and creative ideas into reality?

The day often starts early with preparations at the backstage area. This involves setting up workstations, organizing tools and products, and reviewing the day’s schedule with the styling team.

Before the shows begin, hairdressers assess each model’s hair texture, length, and condition. This helps determine the most suitable hairstyles and any necessary prepping or treatments required.

Hairdressers collaborate closely with designers, makeup artists, and stylists to understand the creative vision for each show. This involves reviewing mood boards, discussing inspirations, and aligning on the desired hair looks for the runway.

Has anything changed, like hairstyles, make up, designer wear, style ?

Yes, indeed, fashion is an ever-evolving industry, and changes are constantly observed in hairstyles, makeup trends, designer wear, and overall style.

Are you proud of your advertisements?

I take pride in long-standing collaborations and successful advertisements, particularly when they represent a commitment to excellence and a positive reputation within the industry. Ramani Fernando salons long-standing partnerships and contributions to events like Colombo fashion wee k and, Ramani Fernando Salons’ 21-year involvement with fashion week has been a strong commitment to the fashion industry and a successful track record of providing hairstyling and makeup services for the event.


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