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BE KIND!
Be Kind was the watchword of the successful handling of the Covid-19 onslaught on Aotearoa – NZ and the lockdown that contributed in no small measure to that success. The people of this society had to be reminded to be kind as they are (particularly the Pakeha or white people) largely disconnected from their families and live self-centred and even selfish lives. They don’t really stay in touch with their “Whanau” or extended family as in the Maori word for it. Thinking out this in a Sri Lankan context brought back first-hand experiences of what I had seen and done in the Pearl, in the past.
I know of people who took their workmates from the Tamil community home in their personal vehicles (the bosses’ were not willing to risk the company vehicles!) through rampaging mobs, during that terrible day in July 1983. Others visited refugee camps a few days later and took their Tamil friends home to their houses and sheltered them. Of course, so many people simply took affected people in during the riots and when the mobs were looting their houses. During the 1989 JVP uprising, a person I know risked life limb and his precious 4wd vehicle to transport food and salaries to a national park that would have ceased to exist if that trip
had not happened. All those of you who enjoy (what is left of) Yala National park, take heed! Some of those people have passed on and others departed the land, they have no “Desha” titles to show for what they did and if they could see some holders of these state awards, I am sure they would reject them, should they have even been offered!
Lending spare vehicles to friends in need during family bereavements and other difficult circumstances. “Lending” money with absolutely no intention of ever getting it back to friends in need even though the lender was not that rich either but simply because the friend’s need was greater, was all “par for the course” in those days. One tended to anticipate a friend’s need and offer help before it was actually asked for and thereby spare his friend the embarrassment of having to ask. I wonder if that happens now. Think about it esteemed reader, have you ever done such a thing? If you have, kudos to you, if you haven’t why not? Surely there have been friends who needed help. Surely those extra cars parked in your garages and gathering dust can help someone to get to a course and develop some new skills or take someone’s child or parent to the hospital. Or earn some redundant worker a living by serving as an Uber cab.
I have benefited from holidays in five-star resorts, trips abroad and memorable experiences (with air tickets thrown in) by friends and relations who wanted to help me through difficult times or had the generosity to invite me to join them for family celebrations. They have got nothing in return, this I admit with embarrassment!! I am eternally grateful and above all I thank them for opening my mind to a way of thinking that encompassed helping others in need.
One point I wish to make is, all the people I know who have done these things, are from the BOOMER generation, born in the 1950s and ’60s. Not from the younger generations who seem to think that they have the right to rule the country now. This is one of the reasons why I think they are not fit to rule. They have not made personal sacrifices and gone out of their way to help people in need. I’m sure some of them have but I have yet to meet one! They haven’t been KIND from a position of being in want for themselves. Certainly, some sons of millionaires may have done some philanthropy, but has it been spontaneous, has it been before they were asked or told to do it? If so “good on them” and it would be nice to hear of it. Just think of it if you ever read this piece and have done such things, simply thinking of it gives you a warm glow all over, doesn’t it? That is the true reward of kindness!
One of the reasons why I left my beloved Pearl, was that I got sick of listening to “businessmen” at cocktail parties boasting on how they exploit their workers and get them to work horrendous hours for less and less money! This type of conversation together with the latest racket and plan to break the law had taken over from the “intelligent” conversation and friendly banter that I had grown up with within the houses of my parent’s and their friends. I am glad to say that those standards have been reintroduced into our lives in Aotearoa and “talking shop” (which incidentally means talking business and not talking nonsense as it is now construed to mean in SL) is banned. In fact, I know parents who have had to stop their children who try to put business deals through during gathering of their friends! I guess most of you younger generation would wonder what was wrong with that….I rest my case.
Even in Aotearoa- NZ, I know of Sri Lankans who make up food parcels, cooked at home, and walk the cold, dreary, and not too safe streets of the inner city, in winter, to distribute them to homeless people who are sheltering in doorways and abandoned buildings. These people are not rich by any means, but they feel for their fellow beings, and they do what they can to help. These are not habits and behaviour’s learned in NZ, these are brought from our own land and inculcated in us by our culture and heritage. Are we still doing those things in the land that was once the Pearl of the Indian Ocean? I know we are at least some of us but shouldn’t more of us teach ourselves to be kind.
The answer to the terrible woes we face in the Pearl has no solutions except within ourselves. We need to be KIND to those around us and to ourselves. We need to empower the people around us and teach them to think for themselves and to grow themselves and our beloved motherland. Grow beyond petty party politics and out of the clutches of corrupt politicians. Learn to choose leaders from KIND, educated, and cultured people, who we can look up to for guidance. People who have proper motives and long-term objectives for the betterment of the country. Can you think of five current politicians who can fit this bill?
If so, I would like to hear those names, because I am sorry, but I cannot!
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The challenge of keeping value-based politics alive
The current outbreak of anti-immigrant protests in Durban, South Africa is bound to have taken many a subscriber to value-based politics or political idealism quite by surprise. After all, this is evidence that despite the historic accomplishments of nation-builders of the stature of the late President Nelson Mandela it cannot be taken for granted that identity politics, including racism in its worst forms, is no more in South Africa.
At the time of this writing details are scarce on the substantive root causes of the protests but it could very well be that economic grievances, particularly on the part of the majority community in South Africa, are contributing considerably to the disaffection. Shrinking employment and material prospects are likely to figure majorly among the factors igniting the unrest.
Fortunately, the local authorities in Durban are losing no time in calling for peaceful co-existence among the relevant communities and are pointing to the vital importance of stepping-up national integration processes. Apparently, immigrants in sizable numbers from neighbouring countries are present in Durban. However, international TV footage of the protests quoted some local authorities as saying that the majority of the immigrants in some centres that housed them were not illegal migrants and had the documents that entitle them to be in Durban.
In the Durban protests the world has fresh proof of the socially divisive consequences of the gathering globe-wide economic disaffection, touched off particularly by the continuing crisis in West Asia. Going ahead, the world would need to brace for increasing identity-based unrest of the kind it is just witnessing in South Africa.
Considering that the material lot of ordinary people everywhere could only aggravate progressively, with the US and Iran showing no signs of negotiating an end to their confrontation any time soon, it will be left to the more democratic and progressive sections of the world community to initiate positive measures collectively to bring a measure of relief to the discontented.
The swiftness with which such relief will be provided would depend crucially on the importance those sections taking up these undertakings attach to value-based politics as opposed to Realpolitik of power politics.
Going by these yardsticks, Italy could be considered to be moving in the right direction. Recently Italy came to the fore in initiating the collective named, ‘Rome Coalition for Food Security and Access to Fertilizer’, which has as one of its aims the swift provision of fertilizer to economically weak African countries.
In a recent statement Italian Minister of Foreign Affairs and International Cooperation, Antonio Tajani, said that a principal aim of the project was to ensure that the farmers of Africa gained easy access to fertilizer, considering that food security is a growing concern among some of Africa’s economically vulnerable countries.
The statement went on to mention that some 30 countries hailing from the Mediterranean region, the Middle East, the Balkans as well as the FAO had been invited to join the coalition. The venture is far-seeing in that food security is main among the reasons for social discontent which in turn could degenerate into endemic political turmoil and bloodshed. Separatist violence and geographical fragmentation of countries wouldn’t be too far behind these developments, as Africa itself has often proved.
It is hoped that more G7 countries would take the cue from Italy and do what they could to ease the hardships of economically distressed countries, particularly of the global South. In these efforts they would need to break rank with the US, which is today brutally indifferent to the consequences of its policy of making ‘America First’, come what may.
Going by current developments, the Trump administration seems to be blithely oblivious to the wider, deleterious effects of its policy course in West Asia. Besides rendering Iran militarily and otherwise impotent nothing else seems to matter to Washington, as regards West Asia. This is policy short-sightedness of an extreme kind. After all, right now West Asia could be said to be sitting on the proverbial powder keg.
On the other hand, Iran is not giving the world the impression that it is doing anything constructive to get out of the policy straitjacket that it wove for itself decades ago. Rather than enter into a policy of ‘live and let live’ in relation to Israel in particular and initiate a process of reconciliation with the latter, it has chosen to operate within policy parameters that continue to damn Israel. This has put Israel always on the ‘defensive’ so to speak and prevented the opening up of space for meaningful dialogue.
That said, Israel is obliged to explore the possibilities of entering into a negotiatory process with the Arab-Islamic world that could lead to a de-escalation of tensions and bloodshed. It cannot continue to look at its neighbours through lenses that distort them as archetypal enemies who should be ‘wiped off completely from the face of the earth.’
In other words, the need is urgent for Realpolitik to give way to value-based politicks. Italy is beginning to prove that the latter approach could be pursued with some success. May be the EU and the UK could throw their weight behind these initiatives as well and establish that international politics could be refashioned on the basis of humane, civilized norms. The UN would need to be fully supportive of these moves and prove an organizational nucleus of the operations that follow.
In fact the time is ripe for people of conscience to collectively stand up on the side of peace and say ‘No’ to war and violence. Organizations such as the ICRC, the WHO and Medicines Sans Frontiers have already taken up this call. Referring to the widespread destruction of health facilities and their dehumanizing results these organizations have said, among other things, that ‘This is not a failure of the law. It is a failure of political will.’
True, ‘failure of political will’ among those powers that matter accounts for the runaway, uncontrollable nature of war and destruction in contemporary times, but more fundamentally it is a failure of the human conscience. It could very well be that the phenomenal levels to which violence and war have been unleashed today have had the effect of deadening consciences. This is a matter for urgent study and wide discussion.
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Vesak celebrations … with Cuteefly
I would describe Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka as innovative and creative, and she operates under the name of Cuteefly.
Indunil always comes up with something novel to celebrate special occasions, and she does it with candles … and that’s her profession.
She was in the spotlight when she created a happening scene, with candles, for Christmas, Sinhala and Tamil New Year, and Valentine’s Day.
As lanterns light up Sri Lanka for Vesak, the Colombo-based candle maker is quietly turning wax and wick into little pieces of the festival.

Candles reflecting Vesak themes
Her candles reflect Vesak themes – light, peace, remembrance, giving, etc., to enable you to fill your Vesak celebration with devotion and beauty.
Among her Vesak creations is a lotus-shaped soy candle, scented with sandalwood, lavender, etc., meant to burn during this Vesak Poya Day.

Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka: Customers
praise her for her creativity
These handcrafted Vesak candles are perfect for offering at the temple, she says.
What makes her creations so novel is that they come in different shapes, scents, themes, and all are handmade.
What’s more, her customers have heaped praise on her for her creativity.
According to Indunil, her creations are perfect as a thoughtful gift … to bring beauty, unity, and light into every moment.
Says Indunil: “Our beautifully handcrafted Unity candles are designed with premium detail and love, making them perfect for celebrations, gifts, and meaningful occasions.”
Cuteefly, says Indunil, is available online.
Readers could contact Indunil on 0778506066 for more details.
He Facebook Page is: Cuteefly.

Handmade with love
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Dark Spots …
Yes, dark spots do crop up on the skin, especially with sun exposure and, of course, as the skin ages.
However, these tips should be of immense benefit to those who are faced with dark spots.
* Lemon and Honey Glow Mask:
You will need 01 teaspoon lemon juice and 01 teaspoon honey.
Mix the lemon juice and honey well and then apply this mixture, only on the dark spots.
Leave for 10–15 minutes and then rinse with cool water.
Benefits:
Lemon helps brighten pigmentation.
Honey moisturises and heals skin.
Gives a natural glow.
* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:
All you need is fresh aloe vera gel.
Apply the gel apply on dark spots, before going to bed.
Leave overnight and wash in the morning.
Benefits:
Reduces acne marks and pigmentation.
Soothes irritated skin.
Helps skin repair naturally.
* Turmeric and Yoghurt Paste:
You will need 01 teaspoon yoghurt and a pinch of turmeric
Mix the yoghurt and turmeric into a smooth paste and apply on affected areas.
Leave for 15 minutes and then wash gently with lukewarm water.
Benefits:
Turmeric brightens skin naturally.
Yoghurt removes dead skin cells.
Helps fade dark spots gradually.
Use these packs 02-03 times a week as results are generally seen over time.
You can also try this out: Mix a ripe papaya into a smooth paste and apply to the face, or directly on to the dark spots. Leave for 15-20 minutes and then wash with lukewarm water.
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