Opinion
A tribute to one of the greatest singers ever on her birth anniversary
By Sunil Dharmabandhu
Retired visiting Mental Health Act Commissioner
UK
sunilrajdharm@yahoo.co.uk
Karen Anne Carpenter was an American singer and drummer who, along with her elder brother Richard, was part of the duo the Carpenters. Supremely talented and blessed with a distinctive three-octave contralto range, she was praised by her peers as one of the greatest singers ever. Her struggle with and eventual death from anorexia later raised awareness of eating disorders and body dysmorphia.
I am a regular ardent listener to Sri Lanka’s Gold FM in the U.K. and often get emotional when it plays Karen’s beautiful “Sing, sing a song”! This has its roots through a stage in my career working under the then medical director, Dr Mark Tattersall, a specialist in Eating Disorders at a private hospital in the U.K. where I learned first-hand how difficult and challenging it is to treat and look after adolescents, predominantly females suffering from typical and atypical eating disorders, some even having to be detained under Section 3 of the Mental Health Act which legally allowed force feeding through nasogastric tubes as such interventions are deemed to be lifesaving!
Background information
Karen was born on 02 March 1950 in New Haven, Connecticut and moved to Downey, in California, in 1963, with her family and died on Sri Lanka’s Independence Day in 1983. She began to study the drums in high school and joined the Long Beach State choir after graduating. After several years of touring and recording, Carpenters were signed to A & M Records in 1969, achieving enormous commercial and critical success throughout the 1970s. Initially, Karen Carpenter was the band’s full-time drummer, but gradually took the role of frontwoman as drumming was reduced to a handful of live showcases or tracks on albums. While the Carpenters were on hiatus in the late 1970s, she recorded a solo album, which was released years after her death.
At the age of 32, Carpenter died of heart failure due to complications from anorexia nervosa which was sadly little-known at the time even in the States and her death led to increased visibility and awareness of eating disorders. Interest in her life and death has spawned numerous documentaries and movies. Her work continues to attract praise, including appearing on Rolling Stones 2010 list of the 100 greatest singers of all time!
Karen was the daughter of Agnes Reuwer (née Tatum, March 5, 1915 – November 10, 1996) and Harold Bertram Carpenter (November 8, 1908 – October 15, 1988). Harold was born in Wuzhou in China, where his parents were missionaries. He was educated at boarding schools in England before finding work in the printing business.
Karen’s only sibling, Richard, the elder by three years, developed an interest in music at an early age, becoming a piano prodigy. Karen’s first words were “bye-bye” and “stop it”, the latter spoken in response to Richard. She enjoyed dancing and by age four was enrolled in tap dancing and ballet classes.
Family moves
The family moved in June 1963 to the Los Angeles suburb of Downey after Harold was offered a job there by a former business associate. Karen entered Downey High School in 1964 at age 14 and was a year younger than her classmates. She joined the school band, initially to avoid gym classes. Earliest symptom of an eating disorder? She graduated from Downey High School in the spring of 1967, receiving the John Philip Sousa Band Award, and enrolled as a music major at Long Beach State where she performed in the college choir with Richard. The choir’s director, Frank Pooler said that Karen had a good voice that was particularly suited to pop and gave her lessons in order for her to develop a three-octave range.
Karen Carpenter had a complicated relationship with her parents. They had hoped that Richard’s musical talents would be recognied and that he would enter the music business, but were not prepared for Karen’s success. She continued to live with them until 1974. In 1976, Carpenter bought two Century City apartments that she combined into one; the doorbell chimed the opening notes of “We’ve Only Just Begun”. She collected Disney Memorabilia and liked to play softball and baseball! Growing up, she played baseball with other children on the street and was picked before her brother for games. She studied baseball statistics carefully and became a fan of the New York Yankees. In the early 1970s she became the pitcher on a celebrity all-star softball team.
Petula Clark, Olivia Newton-John and Dionne Warwick were her close friends. While she was enjoying success as a female drummer in what was primarily an all-male occupation, Carpenter was not supportive of the women’s liberation movement, saying she believed a wife should cook for her husband and that when married, this was what she planned to do.
No interest in marriage
In early interviews, Carpenter showed no interest in marriage or dating, believing that a relationship would not survive constant touring, adding “as long as we’re on the road most of the time, I will never marry”. In 1976, she said the music business made it hard to meet people and that she refused to just marry someone for the sake of it. Carpenter admitted to Olivia Newton-John that she longed for a happy marriage and family. She later dated several notable men of the day.
After a whirlwind romance, she married real-estate developer Thomas James Burris on August 31, 1980, in the Crystal Room of The Beverly Hills Hotel. Burris, divorced with an 18-year-old son, was nine years her senior. A few days prior to the ceremony, Karen was taped singing a new song, “Because We Are in Love”, and the tape was played for guests during the wedding ceremony. The song, written by her brother and John Bettis, was released in 1981. The couple settled in Newport Beach. Carpenter desperately wanted children, but Burris had undergone a vasectomy and refused to undergo an operation to reverse it. Their marriage did not survive this disagreement and ended after 14 months. Burris was living beyond his means, borrowing up to $50,000 (the equivalent of $142,000 in 2020) at a time from his wife, to the point where reportedly she had only stocks and bonds left. Karen’s friends also indicated he was impatient.
A close friend, recounted an incident in which she and Karen went to their normal hangout, Hamburger Hamlet and Carpenter appeared to be distant emotionally, sitting not at their regular table but in the dark, wearing large dark sunglasses, unable to eat and crying. According to Kamon, the marriage was “the straw that broke the camel’s back. It was absolutely the worst thing that could have ever happened to her.”
In September 1981, Karen revised her will and left her marital home and its contents to Burris, but left everything else to her brother and parents, including her fortune estimated at $ 5 to 10 million (between $14,000,000 and $28,000,000 in 2020). Two months later, following an argument after a family dinner in a restaurant, Karen and Burris broke up. Carpenter filed for divorce on October 28, 1982, while she was in Lenox Hill Hospital.
Carpenter begins dieting
Karen began dieting while in high school. Under a doctor’s guidance, she began the Stillman diet eating lean foods, drinking eight glasses of water a day, (tantamount to water loading, a common tactic in eating disorders) and avoiding fatty foods. She reduced her weight to 120 pounds (54 kg) and stayed approximately at that weight until around 1973, when the Karens’ career reached its peak.That year, she saw a concert photo of herself in which her outfit made her appear heavy. She hired a personal trainer, who advised her to change her diet. The new diet caused her to build muscle, which made her feel heavier instead of slimmer. Carpenter fired the trainer and began her own weight-loss programme using exercise equipment and counting calories. She lost about 20 pounds (9 kg) and intended to lose another five pounds. Her eating habits also changed around this time; she would try to remove food from her plate by offering tastes to others with whom she was dining, typical tactics anorexics adopt in a sly manner!
By September 1975, Karen weighed 91 pounds (41 kg). At live performances, fans reacted with gasps to her gaunt appearance, and many wrote to the pair to ask what was wrong. She refused to declare publicly that she was in ill health; on her 1981 Nationwide appearance, she simply said she was “pooped”. Richard later stated that he and his parents did not know how to help Karen.
In 1981, she told Richard that there was a problem and that she needed help with it. Karen spoke with Cherry Boone who had recovered from anorexia, and contacted Boone’s doctor for help. She was hoping to find a quick solution to her problem, as she had performing and recording obligations, but the doctor told her treatment could take from one to three years.
Visit to psychotherapist
She then chose to be treated in New York City by a psychotherapist. By late 1981, Karen was using thyroid replacement medication, which she obtained using the name of Karen Burris, to increase her metabolism. She used the medication in conjunction with increased consumption of the laxatives (up to 80–90 tablets per night) upon which she had long relied, which caused food to pass quickly through her digestive tract. Despite Psychotherapist Levenkron’s treatment, including confiscation of medications that Karen had misused, her condition continued to deteriorate, and she lost more weight. Karen told Levenkron that she felt dizzy and that her heart was beating irregularly. Finally, in September 1982, she was admitted to Lenox Hill Hospital in New York, where she was placed on intravenous parenteral nutrition. The procedure was successful, and she gained some weight in a relatively short time, but this put a strain on her heart, which was already weak from years of improper diet. How different treatment approaches are today when patients are prescribed strictly controlled diets, starting with the lowest at A gradually increasing to B, C etc., with weekly weight charts and physical exercise programmes too gradually increased after multidisciplinary team meetings involving nursing staff, dietitian, art therapist, psychologist, key worker and chaired by the Consultant. I recall the fiasco when the private hospital I was working at recruited an Australian chef who had worked at the Sydney Opera House: he prepared tasty dishes rich in calories which created an immediate uproar amongst the patients! Dietitian got involved quickly to diffuse the situation teaching him how to prepare prescribed calorie-controlled diets! The clinical practice was all the multidisciplinary team sit with patients at lunch time playing a supportive role and giving them set times to finish their meals under close supervision to stop “smearing, hiding, dropping bits of food etc.!
Determination to reinvigorate career
In Karen’s case, she was not able to receive such individual care plans though she maintained a relatively stable weight for the rest of her life and returned to California in November 1982, determined to reinvigorate her career, finalise her divorce and begin a new album with Richard. On December 17, 1982, she gave her last singing performance in the multi-purpose room of the Buckley School in Sherman Oaks in California, singing Christmas carols for her godchildren, their classmates and other friends. On January 11, 1983, she made her last public appearance at a gathering of past Grammy Award winners, who were commemorating the awards show’s 25th anniversary. She seemed somewhat frail and worn out, but according to Dionne Warwick was vibrant and outgoing, exclaiming, “Look at me! I’ve got an ass!” She had also begun to write songs after returning to California and told Warwick that she had “a lot of living left to do”.
Plans for resuming tour
On February 1, 1983, Karen saw her brother for the last time and discussed new plans for the Carpenters and resuming touring. Three days later, on February 4, Karen was scheduled to sign final papers making her divorce official. Shortly after waking up on that day, she collapsed in her bedroom at her parents’ home in Downey. Paramedics found her heart beating once every 10 seconds (6 bpm). She was pronounced dead at Downey Community Hospital at 9.41 am.
Carpenter’s funeral was held on February 8, 1983, at Downey United Methodist Church. Approximately one thousand mourners attended, including her friends. Her estranged husband, Thomas Burris, also attended and placed his wedding ring into her casket. Carpenter was buried at the Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Cypress, California. In 2003 her body was moved along with her parents to a private mausoleum at the Pierce Brothers Valley Oaks Memorial Park in Westlake Village in California.
An autopsy released on March 11, 1983, ruled out drug overdose, attributing death to “emetine cardio toxicity due to or as a consequence of anorexia nervosa. Karen was discovered to have abnormal blood sugar levels. Two years later, the coroner told colleagues that Carpenter’s heart failure was caused by repeated use of ipecac syrup, an over the counter emetic often used to induce vomiting in cases of overdosing or poisoning. This was disputed by Levenkron, who said that he had never known her to use ipecac and that he had not seen evidence that she had been vomiting. Karen’s friends were convinced that she had abused laxatives and thyroid medication to maintain her low body weight and thought this had started after her marriage began to crumble.
Eating disorders common
Eating disorders are one of the most common issues experienced by people all over the world, but often the least talked about. An estimated 30 million people are currently in the throes of an eating disorder, in the United States alone. Anorexia is one of many eating disorders, affecting people of all ages, backgrounds, and genders. But with the proper knowledge of the statistics behind anorexia, early intervention, and treatment, people with anorexia can get back to leading healthy and happy lives.
However, for teenagers and young adults, anorexia and other eating disorders can increase the odds of suicide by up to 32 times. Many anorexics feel hopeless and as the number one fatal mental illness in young people, eating disorders maintain a mortality rate that is 12 times higher than the mortality rate of all other causes of death within that age group. Regardless of age, every 1 in 5 anorexia deaths is a result of suicide. Without treatment, up to 20 percent of all eating disorder cases result in death. Ironically, it’s similar in prognosis to alcoholism- once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic, though one is an addiction and the other far more complicated. In addition to having an eating disorder, some patients have:
Underlying anxiety
Depression
Mood disorders
Personality disorders
Even self-harm issues
The prevalence of eating disorders in non-Western countries is lower than that of the Western countries but appears to be increasing, according to Maria Makino, MD, PhD and Lorriaine Dennerstein, MBBS, PhD in her thesis “Prevalence of Eating Disorders: A comparison of Western and Non-Western Countries
Opinion
Dr. WIMAL HETTIARACHCHI
Dr Wimal Hettiarachchi was a distinguished economist, central banker, and scholar who made major contributions to public finance, monetary policy, and economic development in Sri Lanka. The sad news of his passing did not come as a shock to me as we were both nonagenarians, and I a year older than Wimal who we always called “Hetti”, my chidren referring to him as “Uncle Hetti”!
Our friendship began over 70 years ago as fellow students at the four year Diploma in Commerce at the Ceylon Technical College. The course began with about 30 students, most of whom dropped out along the way leaving the three of us i.e. Hetti, Sinniah Ramanathan, and myself to carry the baton through the fourth year last lap.
Hetti and I did not complete the fourth year, leaving Rama to do the honours. An exemplary student Rama not only secured the BSc. (Econ) degree but upon graduation proceeded to do Accountancy and qualified as a Chartered Accountant in England, and was appointed Financial Controller of the Singer Co. where he was promoted to its International Board of Directors, holding the number two position in Singer worldwide, when he passed away in South America.
Hetti joined the Central Bank in the days when it was located in the Hemas Building in York Street. He lost no time in registering as an external student of the then Vidyodaya University (now Sri Jayawardene University) for the Bachelor of Business Administration degree which he passed with First Class Honours, the first to do so through a period of six years. This achievement promoted his position within the Central Bank where he was appointed an Executive in the Economic Research Department.
From then onward Hetti’s career saw a meteoric rise within the Central Bank, and he occupied such commanding positions as Director of Economic Research, Acting Governor of the Central Bank, and member of the Monetary Board.
Hetti was awarded a scholarship to Oxford University where he was a student under Lady Ursula Hicks wife of the world renowned economist Sir John Hicks. Her belief in distributive justice, and her views in favour of equitable wealth distribution as an important outcome of monetary policy seemed to have rubbed off on Hetti who emerged from Oxford University with a D Phil. His thesis for the D.Phil was on “The growth of Central Banking and Monetary Policy in Ceylon”.
I am happy to note that upon returning to Ceylon, he lent me his luxuriously bound thesis to read and digest. I marvelled at his prodigious attempt at mastering all the available views on Central Banking and its role in guiding the national economy.
My friendship with Hetti lasted 70 years and we were very close socially too. When he romanced and sought the hand of his wife to be, Damayanthi, he foresaw some trouble ahead and being a close friend sought my assistance. It was decided that I should visit Damayanthi’s home together with Hetti and approach Damayanthi’s father in a more acceptable manner than Hetti would have thought possible by himself alone.
On the appointed evening, we were received most cordially by Mr Weerasooria (Damayanthi’s dad) who however mistook me to be the suitor! I was doing everything possible to ensure a victory for Hetti, and did my best in politeness and civility only to find that dear old Mr Weerasooria mistook me to be the suitor. When things were explained later on that evening, Mr W could not resist firing a barb at me over dinner by saying “so you brought your advocate with you?”
Our friendship was such that when I was posted to Bhutan on a two year assignment by the UNICEF funded Save the Children, USA, in 1981, Hetti who was in USA doing a secondment with the World Bank worked out a scheme for himself to be posted to Bhutan by the World Bank. Hetti arrived in Bhutan only to find me back in Colombo temporarily prior to migrating to Australia. He was a rare jewel of a friend and was deeply disappointed.
I chose to migrate to Australia as my two sons were on the cusp of secondary education for which there were no good facilities in Bhutan, the better educational facilities being 500 km away in Darjeeling. The prospect of boarding my sons at the age of 10 to 12 frightened the daylights out of me and my wife. Fortunately the option of permanent migration cropped up and we grabbed it with both hands.
Hetti and Damayanthi visited us in Melbourne around 2004 and later as Chairman of the Securities and Exchange Commission when they stayed in a five star hotel to attend a conference. He hosted us to a magnificent dinner. There were other occasions too in Sri Lanka where the two families spent holidays together.
One occasion I will never forget when our two families were spending a fortnight’s holiday in the Central Bank staff bungalow in Bandarawela. Our children were playing on a side yard when our elder son Harsha, then just four years old, slipped and fell down a ravine. Hetti, without the slightest regard for his own safety, rushed down and picked up the child while I, the coward, was thinking what to do! That was typical Hetti in action! Unforgettable.
At the Central Bank, he rose to be Director of Economic Research, and was later appointed Executive Director. He served as Sri Lanka’s Alternative Executive Director of the International Monetary Fund. Following his retirement from the Central Bank, he was appointed Chairman of the Securities and Exchange Commission of Sri Lanka, and a member of the Institute of Policy Studies.
My dear friend Hetti has left us. Gone are the days when we would return from a Royal Thomian match, both of us looking the worse for wear by liquor and both supporting opposite camps. Hetti’s sons, Manjula, and Mangala, both attended S. Thomas, Mount Lavinia while our elder son, Harsha, is a fourth generation Royalist. Our younger boy, Sumal, attended Primary School and beyond in Australia.
May you be rewarded with eternal peace my dear friend, and my heartfelt sympathies go to Manjula, Mangala, Syamani and their families.
Hugh Karunanayake
Melbourne Australia
Opinion
Another big farce!
“Suresh Sallay is the mastermind behind the Easter Sunday attack”: For argument’s sake, let us assume this to be true even though it is far from being proved ‘beyond reasonable doubt’ by a court of law. Minister Ananda Wijepala, however, in his statement to the parliament painted a picture of absolute certainty of Sallay’s guilt. The unfairness and the implications of this callous statement was well analysed in the editorial “Probes and politics” (The Island, 12 June). International media picked up Minister Wijepala’s statement, making Sallay guilty in the eyes of the world. Perhaps, they are not aware that what is stated in the parliament of Sri Lanka is not necessarily the truth! The more important question is how the reputational damage done to Sallay can be reversed.
Shortly after concluding his statement, Minister Wijepala referred to what he called ‘unexplained’ deaths including that of Rajeewa Jayaweera, in 2020. The fact that Rajeewa, unfortunately, took his own life has been confirmed, repeatedly, by his family. When rumours started circulating after the death of Kapila Chandrasena, Rajeewa’s brother Sanjeewa wrote an article titled, “Sri Lanka Airlines Airbus Scandal and the Death of Kapila Chandrasena and my Brother Rajeewa” (The Island, 17 May), wherein he stated:
“On behalf of my sisters and myself, I wish to state unequivocally that my brother, Rajeewa Jayaweera, took his own life in June 2020 due to personal circumstances. His death had absolutely no connection whatsoever to his writings regarding the Airbus scandal. Neither the Rajapaksa’s, nor any political actor, nor any state agency was involved in his death. The magisterial inquiry into the matter returned a verdict of suicide. Those who know me personally are aware of my forthright and combative nature. Had there been even the slightest credible suspicion surrounding my brother’s death I would never have rested until justice was pursued. Since this was established clearly as a case of suicide, I sincerely hope that those who continue to circulate unfounded theories will finally allow the matter to rest with dignity.”
In spite of this heartfelt appeal, Wijepala’s mention makes it very insensitive, adding to the agony of Sanjeeva and his sisters. Further, this inaccuracy casts doubts on the entire statement, as the minister seems ill-informed. Going by his statement, the CID seems to think it has evidence for a successful prosecution. If so, why is it allegedly ill-treating Sallay? Is this punishment before conviction or is there a more sinister motive?
Even if details of torture mentioned in some quarters could be disregarded as exaggerations, there is no doubt that Sallay has been subjected to ill-treatment, which resulted in his admission to hospital. It is noteworthy that Wijepala mentioned that Sallay became uncooperative the moment Gota was prevented from leaving the country. Perhaps, it is in an attempt to implicate the Rajapaksas that the Minister mentioned Rajeewa’s death, quite unjustifiably and insensitively.
The most important question is whether the CID’s confidence is misplaced and biased. The fact that it is biased is obvious as the director of the CID is Shani Abeysekara. He and his superior, Ravi Seneviratne, both, have an ulterior motive. They are accused of failure to prevent the Easter Sunday attacks in spite of the information furnished by many agencies including the one headed by Sallay. They are apparently trying to find a scapegoat. It was bad enough for the NPP government to pull these two out of retirement and instal them in high posts of law-enforcement, without clearing their names, but allowing them to be in charge of this investigation illustrates that they are clueless of the dictum that “Not only must Justice be done; it must also be seen to be done.” This dictum, derived from the principle of natural justice and is followed the world over, clearly shows that mere appearance of conflict of interest is sufficient ground for a conviction to be quashed.
The working hypothesis of the CID seems to be that Sallay masterminded the Easter Sunday terror attacks to ensure Gotabaya Rajapaksa’s election as President. It was obvious that Gota had an easy ride and there was absolutely no need for Sallay or anyone else to resort to terrorism to enable him to win.
It is surprising that the Director of the CID went to Paris to record a statement from Azad Moulana, who fled Sri Lanka to avoid arrest, to get confirmation of what the latter stated to Channel 4. By the way, expenses incurred by the team that went to the UK regarding Ranil’s expenses are kept under wraps in spite of an RTI request. Perhaps, the team spent more public money than Ranil did!
Those driven by a vested interest must be hoping that Sallay will continue his fast and perish. This would be a better outcome for them given the farcical manner in which investigations are being conducted. It is hoped that their dream will not come true.
by Dr Upul Wijayawardhana ✍️
Opinion
A triumph for Pakistan’s skilled diplomacy at Iran-US talks
“Thanks to the tireless mediation efforts of Pakistan and Qatar, significant progress has been made in ending the war in Lebanon…”
–Iran’s Foreign Minister Abbas Araghchi on X
The recent Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) between Iran and the United States which resulted in a high-level meeting in Lucerne, Switzerland, is a testament to the highly skilled diplomacy of the South Asian nation, Pakistan, and is admirable for the very difficult task they undertook and achieved with panache. They remained unruffled throughout and continue to do so, despite the unpredictable nature of the relationship between the parties to the conflict, the US and Iran, at times turning publicly hostile, and subject to an influential spoiler in Israel determined to sabotage a positive outcome, making the process as delicate as defusing an explosive device with seconds to detonate.
Pakistan remained engaged steadfastly, even when the parties walked out of negotiations, refused to attend them, or seemed to give up any hope of a diplomatic endgame and returned to the Strait of Hormuz for actual and verbal wars. In the meantime, Lebanon was clearly being turned into the new Gaza, which was a red line for the Iranians.
The Pakistanis kept talking, visiting not only the two main belligerents USA and Iran, but the regional actors paying the price of an escalating conflict; perfecting the draft agreements while broadening the stakeholders who were invested in a peaceful diplomatic outcome, and aiming to do so as fast as was possible. It seemed like a long shot, especially with X messaging playing its now indispensable, often colorful role. The Pakistani team’s faith in the process was magnificently rewarded in the news coming out of Lucerne after the first day of negotiations of encouraging progress, with Qatar supporting Pakistan as joint mediator in the important venture.
This stage in the negotiations was described by Pakistani Prime Minister Shehbaz Sharif as “make or break”, which was also echoed by some analysts and mainstream media. The expectations were cautious but positive, and the world watched with renewed hope, if somewhat muted, as Pakistan presided over the opening media conference with confidence.
It wasn’t a perfect pitch to play on by any means: the Israelis had escalated their bombing of Lebanon, a million Lebanese were displaced and the Iranians had closed the Strait, yet again, with a day to go for the talks. As the teams were about to start negotiations, X swooped over Lake Lucerne dropping President Trump’s message about the Iranians being unable to return to “their f…..g country” if they didn’t open the Strait, the unprintable language no longer shocking through regular usage.
It was reported that the Iranians had included psychologists in their communications team in Teheran to comprehend the cultural idiosyncrasies of the President of the United States, which clearly helped them to remain engaged with the process in Lucerne despite the provocation. Iran’s response that the US should choose their words carefully because their weapons were at the ready to strike at Israel, had the media rushing to report that the talks had broken down. In a secondary issue, according to the Tasnim news agency, the US had wanted International Atomic Energy Agency (IAEA) Director General Rafael Grossi who was on site in Lucerne to be present at the talks, but Iran wouldn’t have it.
Great Innings
It is on this unenviable wicket that Pakistan, supported now by Qatar as mediators, seem to have played a beautiful innings.
The process was flawless. According to reports, the mediators met separately with the two teams to discuss the draft, before the main negotiations began. This would have minimised the points of disagreements which may have soured the atmosphere between the two signatories, while the mediators did the work to accommodate those views. The results announced after 12 hours of negotiations showed that all concerned stayed engaged with the process and were persuaded to sign on to a viable diplomatic roadmap.
According to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of Qatar, which released the statement on the 22nd of June 2026 from Lucerne, they agreed to establish several creative mechanisms which have every chance of keeping things on track:
* A High Level Committee, which will provide political oversight on the mediation.
* Chief negotiators will report regularly to the High Level Committee
* Working groups on nuclear issues
* Working group on sanctions
* Working group for monitoring, and dispute resolution group to ensure the effective implementation of the MoU and on other matters.
* A communication line between the parties to avoid incidents and miscommunication with the aim of safe passage for commercial vessels through the Strait of Hormuz.
· A de-confliction cell between the parties, the Lebanese Republic and facilitated by the Mediators, to ensure the adherence of the termination of military operations in Lebanon.
Pakistan has always had well-trained, sophisticated diplomats. I was lucky to have met several and see their outstanding performances at the United Nations in Geneva, Paris, Lisbon and Singapore. They played a role well above the size of their economy or weight in world affairs. My first encounters with Pakistani diplomats were in Islamabad, where my father was Chargé d’Affaires at the Sri Lankan High Commission, and I made lifelong friends at the Institute of Modern Languages where trainee diplomats and military officers studied, and which I too attended.
Their diplomats were always well-spoken, well-versed in diplomatic practice and were often the first to protest if procedure was violated in those forums. They worked tirelessly, were no strangers to long hours, and were motivated to keep going until a result was reached. Their language skills, especially in the most widely used global language English, which they retained, as did India, as the language of higher education and administration, served them very well.
Pakistan and Sri Lanka
From what I have seen, Pakistan was impressive in their solidarity with their regional partners, often taking the lead to resolve issues, being regularly elected to speak for the OIC (Organization of the Islamic Conference), for example. Sri Lanka could unhesitatingly rely on their firm friendship and support, and played a leading role during my husband, Dr Dayan Jayatilleka’s tenure as Ambassador/PR in Geneva during the decisive last years of Sri Lanka’s war and in the immediate aftermath, when Sri Lanka was under severe pressure at the UN Human Rights Council.
As trusted supporters, my husband invited them to be part of a mechanism that he proposed to the EU of a “Quad” which would represent Sri Lanka’s interest, together with him as Sri Lanka’s Permanent Representative to the UNHRC, in all further negotiations with the EU which had 12 members in the Human Rights Council. The EU was exerting pressure on him to meet with the 12 of them for further talks on the draft resolution into which they meant to insert accountability for war crimes and to remove any reference to Sri Lanka’s sovereignty which Dayan had refused to countenance.
Pakistan readily agreed, as did India, as well as Cuba as the current chair of the NAM and Egypt as the incoming Chair of NAM, to form the Quad. As it happened, while the Quad was more than ready to debate any issues, the EU decided not to continue with the meeting after that show of regional and Global South solidarity and strength. The Quad however continued to operate as a unit and played a critical role at a moment in the proceedings when unexpected negotiations were called by the President of the Human Rights Council in the middle of the Special Session, and stood solidly together refusing to budge on the agreed draft. In this instant, India and Pakistan worked closely together in support of Sri Lanka, earning our eternal gratitude.
Pakistan’s emergence as a global player navigating complex international issues with such sophistication and facility, was no surprise to those who had seen them function. And yet it was not known widely. When Lakshman Kadirgamar was Foreign Minister of Sri Lanka, he sent my husband together with a few others to observe Pakistani Foreign Policy think tanks and to learn their modus operandi. The group returned impressed. The only surprise perhaps has been its overtaking of India, a great regional power, in global conflict resolution. India has been conspicuously silent, and has had no role in these important initiatives.
Exceptional Global Diplomacy
The Pakistani diplomatic initiatives taken when all seemed lost, and sustained against all odds have offered the world a valuable interlocutor in conflict resolution, and their place in global diplomacy is now acknowledged. The MoU between the United States and Iran is called the “Islamabad Memorandum of Understanding”. Analysts have said that this initiative is significant for the fact that unlike the JCPOA, regional actors rather than extra-regional ones have been made stakeholders, therefore has a considerable probability of success.
This is a significant achievement of no small measure, because Iran and the United States have been hostile for decades. In the only high-level meeting since 1979 between the two countries which took place recently in Islamabad, Pakistan has managed the process with remarkable patience, confidence and faith, to bring it along to a place of hope. According to Pakistan TV, at the end of the Lucerne meeting, JD Vance praised Pakistan’s role in bringing the US and Iran together to the negotiating table, calling PM Sharif and Field Marshal Munir, his best friends in the region. He had also said “We love Pakistan”.
Considering what Pakistan had actually attempted and succeeded in doing, this is remarkable. It has been able to by-pass the decade’s old propaganda against Iran as an existential threat in the region, especially to Israel, which was an established position in US policy circles. Consider the context: Trita Parsi, Executive Vice President of the Quincy Institute based in Washington revealed in an interview with Tucker Carlson that Israel has been pushing the narrative of Iran as an existential threat to their country for decades with success, while not believing it themselves within Israel. He said when he did his PhD on the subject, he interviewed several top officials including those in intelligence services in Israel, and found that rather than the irrational, destabilizing, suicidal actor they were portraying Iran as, successfully, to US policy circles, they believed the opposite, and regarded their adversary as a cautious calculating, rational actor. ().
JD Vance’s optimistic framing of the Lucerne discussions as a historic opportunity to transform the Middle-Eastern region for long term, sustainable peace is a testament to Pakistan‘s expert navigation of the diplomatic Hormuz Strait where a number of intractable issues had no safe passage, but are now freed for discussion.
With the dedication, expertise and diplomatic skills that the mediators have shown, the on-going process

itself may be considered a victory. The new development in this round of negotiations, that of active engagement of regional countries, may yet help protect the process, and assist in the complex navigation required to circumvent the mines that may be placed in its way.
by Sanja de Silva Jayatilleka
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