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A Birthday Tribute: Lakshmi Dias Bandaranaike

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(Mrs. Felix Dias Bandaranaike)

“As unto the bow the cord is,
So unto the man is woman,
Though she bends him, she obeys him,
Though she draws him, yet she follows,
Useless each without the other!”
Henry Wordsworth Longfellow

As I ponder upon these words, it brings to my mind a spirited and devoted wife upon whom these words must resonate! She is the Matriarch Lakshmi Dias Bandaranaike the wife of the late Felix Dias Bandaranaike, a colossus in the history of Sri Lankan politics.

As Lakshmi is preparing to add yet another candle to her graceful ninety something years on earth that God has bestowed upon her to celebrate her purposeful life, I am reminded of her exceptional qualities as a devoted wife particularly on her birthday.

As my aunt and godmother, I have had the privilege to move closely with her and observe her for over half my life; the prowess and wisdom that she exudes to guide her own life with God’s grace is an example unto her loved ones. Her unshakeable Christian faith and values instilled by her loving parents, in particular her mother hailing from Rockhill Estate in Galle has heightened her empathy and unconditional love that she imparts to us through life’s diverse experiences she’d gained. And, likewise in the valuable contributions she’d made to society at large, in the many roles that she had to play. Her pragmatism in the approach to life and her stoicism in adversity are remarkable particularly after losing her beloved husband Felix as a relatively young wife.

Lakshmi and Felix were no strangers; playing harmless pranks whilst as students at Ladies’ College and Royal College respectively. And on one such occasion as Lakshmi hilariously recalls sending her principal, a hapless Miss Opie into a pirouette as she braced to protect her delirious brood from marauding ‘Big Match’ boys who had crashed into Ladies’ College premises! Well, it was no secret when it transpired that Felix was amongst the culprits that day! Lakshmi and Felix later met at Law College; their romance blossomed and they married in 1953.

And here she was ‘a wife with nimble fingers, Heart and hand that move together, feet that run on willing errands and far from an idle wife!’ Felix became a celebrated family man, a brilliant professional, quick witted, highly intelligent and an honourable politician, the kind that is a rare breed today. She fitted like a glove into his many roles in public and private life. And Lakshmi a Barrister herself gave up her practice to follow her husband’s vision. They travelled extensively and even to palaces of Kings and Queens and to the houses of Presidents but never lost the common touch.

In the evening of her life Lakshmi speaks of her gentle giant most lovingly and in those moments, one could capture that they were their starlight, moonlight and the firelight!

Happy Birthday and may God’s grace continue to be upon you!

Savitri de Alwis



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‘Ethir: Legendary high jumper’ – a response

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Ethir

by Thiagaraja Arasanayagam

I read with great interest the article, ‘Ethir: Legendary high jumper,’ in The Island newspaper of 22 April, 2024, not only for the information but the personal reaction I experienced when memories of the past came flowing back, memories of a young student at St Joseph’s College being trained at the jumping pit, and I, also a student, watching fascinated by the slim, tall figure sailing over the bar, and my English teacher, famous at this time as an Athletics coach putting this young fellow through his paces. I asked my teacher, “Sir, who is this fellow …?”

My teacher replied, ” Oh, this chap is from Jaffna. He has come here to be trained by me.”

Mr Anthony Abeysinghe taught me English in the Junior form and may have kindled my love for English literature and my aspiration to be a tenor in the future with his sudden outburst of an aria in the midst of an English class.

Mr Abeysinghe was the most wanted man especially as a coach. I remember many a contemporary of mine at St. Joseph’s College being referred to as “imported” athletes. Some of those who were trained by Mr Abeysinghe won Gold at the Public schools meet in Colombo. They included Ephron Fernandi ( sprinter), the Amarasekera Brothers from St Anne’s Kurunegala, (sprinters) and Felix Samarawickreme, who hailed from Kandy and established a new record of 61.8 seconds in the 440 yards.

So, it was this article which took me back in time. Ethir was in the Science block cut away from us Arts students. The day I encountered my English teacher training this hearty lad, I was happy to see yet another student deep in sports and studies.

This article was also very close to my heart because I was also born in 1934 in a remote village of Navaly and having spent the war years in that village. We never wore shoes in Navaly and all our athletes were unaware of what at St Joseph’s referred to as “spikes”. I remember telling my English teacher “Sir, we never wore shoes in Jaffna,” when he stood by the pit and muttered, “Time we get this fellow a pair.”

I studied in a school in the adjacent village of Manipay, when I was seven years old. My brothers and I had a tall, lanky fellow as a friend who lived next to our house. He was a high jumper who won the Jaffna schools circuit meet title. He went to Colombo for the Public schools meet where he was uncomfortable as he wore no spikes, while all the other competitors were well equipped. All the other students at the Public schools meet wore pants and colourful blazers, carrying the school flag held aloft proudly.

It was time for the parade of the Athletic teams of all the schools. The announcer kept calling the teams to assemble for the parade and so they were all there except this one man from my village. “Manipay Hindu College, calling team, Manipay Hindu, for the third time. Assemble for the parade.” The young fellow was embarrassed, overwhelmed by the colour and splendour that he pulled out the flag from the pole and thrust it in his pocket as he heard the pleading, “Manipay Hindu where are you?”

The young fellow who wouldn’t join the parade was the young six-footer, Arunakulasingham, the champion high jumper, who despite all the advantages the other athletes had, won the high jump title barefooted and sailing over the bar to the shock of all those well-equipped athletes.

My memory goes back to other incidents which go to show that nothing is beyond achievement. This article speaks of mud houses and Palmyra leaf roofs, they were the most suitable for extreme warm days in Navaly.

The last incident that comes to my mind is when I was a student at St Joseph’s College my mother accosted me as I returned from school saying, ” Don’t go to your room I have given it to someone.”

“Who is this fellow?” I asked my mother.

My mother said that he was a young athlete from Jaffna who had come to participate in the Public schools meet with his school team. He turned out to be the son of Ramasamy, who worked for our family in Navaly.

This article on Ethir evoked very pleasant and nostalgic memories of him as well as my teacher who was his trainer Anthony Abeysinghe. I was so glad to observe him practising high jump. He was a quiet and unassuming boy.

I am thankful to the writers of this article for remembering this outstanding and quiet Josephian who came all the way to Colombo from Jaffna near my village of Navaly to represent the country and to bring fame and recognition to this island.

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Duty-free vehicle permits for MPs

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The Island recently carried a photo of how people were travelling to work in an overcrowded train after celebrating the New Year. People travel in trains clinging on to doors and windows, standing in between carriages and sitting on the roofs of congested trains.

Then on the same page there was a report about MPs being impatient because of the delay in issuing duty-free vehicle permits to them. The MPs have asked for a duty-free vehicle worth Rs 20 million each and said that it is not possible for them to carry out their duties without new vehicles. However, it is an open secret that most of the vehicles of Ministers and MPs are used by their families.

Time was when we had parliamentarians who used public transport and loved mingling with the people, understood their problems and were unassuming. The late Minister Dahanayake travelled by bus from Galle to Colombo. After getting defeated as Prime Minister, he returned home in a bus. Now, defeated politicians leave Temple Trees by helicopter!

Minister Wanninayake travelled from Kurunegala to Colombo by train and Minister M. D. Banda travelled from Polgahawela to Colombo daily by train. There were also others who used public transport and today in some countries like Sweden politicians use public transport or ride bicycles. When Tony Blair was PM, his wife travelled to work by bus or train. But our MPs ride bicycles only to gain media attention when fuel prices increase.

Dr. P. A. Samaraweera 

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KD Somadasa’s contribution to Hugh Nevill’s work

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I am disappointed that Tom Peterson’s article on the Hugh Nevill Collection (Features, 21 Apr) did not refer to the part played by K D Somadasa.

Mr Somadasa, who was a researcher at the British Museum and the British Library, spent about 20 years meticulously cataloguing the 2,224 papers in the Collection which were published in seven outstanding volumes in the 1980s and 1990s.

For example, Volume 3 is a compendium of Sinhalese ritualistic poetry with descriptions of palm leaf manuscripts and summaries of 19 volumes of bound paper manuscripts containing texts of two major cycles of ritualistic legends, fully indexed. Mr Somadasa’s invaluable services to all who wish to research the Hugh Nevill Collection should be recognized.

Dr R P Fernando
19 Danetree Close,
Epsom, UK.

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