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Tribute to Jennifer Latiff
“The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It’s the caring that she lovingly gives; the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.”
Audrey Hepburn wrote this paragraph which is so very true of Jennifer Amaraskera Latiff who died two days ago of a cancer that kept her away from her friends, even before the later lockdowns were enforced.
She is mourned by so many: her sister Marie, son Yohan and daughter Suan; Yohan’s children and in-laws; and of course Kandy High School Old Girls of all ages.
Jenny, as we shortened her name to, was much younger than I, a schoolmate, but we were great friends. Her father being the parish priest of the historic St Paul’s Church very near the Dalada Maligawa, she attended Girls’ High School, Kandy, from Baby Class to AL. I chatted just now with one of her classmates – Kamini Jayasekera. Her expression of Jenny being a lovely person had the ‘lovely’ drawn out, accompanied by a quiet sob. Mayanthi Kulatunge Jayakody informing KHS OGA (Colombo Branch) members of Jenny’s death wrote: “Above all, she was a wonderful and lovable lady who touched the heart of anybody who she came across. She will be dearly missed at all our future events.” Obviously when the President Sylvia Wijekoon rang me, her voice indicated shed tears.
Yes, Jennifer was a truly wonderful woman, so genteel and soft spoken, so concerned about others. About eight of us Old Girls of KHS of all ages from 90s down to 40s would meet for lunch and birthdays in one home or another. We loved gossiping and often even maligning –politicians mostly. Not Jenny to utter a word of gossip or blame. She did not reprimand us. No, she would listen and smile, but it was totally alien to her to run people down.
Our small group went on trips together, one being a very memorable stay in Nuwara Eliya. One room in the row of rooms we occupied at the Golf Club was occupied by a political VIP who often kept his door open. Many were the irrepressible giggles and tall tales. No comment from Lady Jenny. On our outstation forays, while we wore rubber slippers and had our hair awry, Jenny always wore shoes, a neat skirt and modest blouse with her short hair very much in place. She was an excellent tripper, readily agreeing to plans made and consenting to any likely changes. She was fun too, making us laugh at her asides, never malicious, but spicy.
Life of service
Jennifer served Ceylon Tobacco Company for long in a secretarial position and was approved and liked by all. She then moved to being secretary to Mr Merril Fernando at Dilmah around 15 years ago. At the tail end of her stay, a friend said, she started on Mr Fernando’s biography. However she had to abandon it as she fell ill.
Most noteworthy and remarkable was her dedication and service to the Colombo Branch of the KHS OGA. She must have served in it for well over 25 years, being a committee member when Hema Jayasinghe followed by her sister Chitra Abeyaratne were Presidents. We worked together – Jenny and I and friends in our small group – in the OGA Colombo Branch. Jenny served two terms as Secretary, two as President and was from 2018 to 2020 Patron of the Association. She was a patron who attended every committee meeting, not called for but time sacrificed to better serve.
It has been mentioned that Jennifer was ever ready to help others. I quote one instance. An Old Girl, much older than Jenny, needed a lift to events. Jennifer would always pick her up and drop her back home, even when she was holding the post of Secretary or President and in spite of wanting to be one of the first at the venue. When this person became somewhat disabled, Jennifer did more for her. She would bring her and her helper and lead the former solicitously to her seat. Jenny’s car and she as driver were always at hand for those who needed lifts.
Jennifer will be sorely missed by so many. Our group lunches and KHS OGA events will not be the same without Jenny’s presence. But that is life and partings have to be accepted. Thinking of her, the phrase ‘She walks in beauty’ kept going through my mind. Hence I quote many lines from George Gordon Byron’s poem with that phrase as title.
“She walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that’s best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes;
And on that cheek and o’er that brow,
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent.”
May Jennifer receive all she would desire, and deserve, after her death, which death we sorely mourn
Nanda Pethiyagoda
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The challenge of keeping value-based politics alive
The current outbreak of anti-immigrant protests in Durban, South Africa is bound to have taken many a subscriber to value-based politics or political idealism quite by surprise. After all, this is evidence that despite the historic accomplishments of nation-builders of the stature of the late President Nelson Mandela it cannot be taken for granted that identity politics, including racism in its worst forms, is no more in South Africa.
At the time of this writing details are scarce on the substantive root causes of the protests but it could very well be that economic grievances, particularly on the part of the majority community in South Africa, are contributing considerably to the disaffection. Shrinking employment and material prospects are likely to figure majorly among the factors igniting the unrest.
Fortunately, the local authorities in Durban are losing no time in calling for peaceful co-existence among the relevant communities and are pointing to the vital importance of stepping-up national integration processes. Apparently, immigrants in sizable numbers from neighbouring countries are present in Durban. However, international TV footage of the protests quoted some local authorities as saying that the majority of the immigrants in some centres that housed them were not illegal migrants and had the documents that entitle them to be in Durban.
In the Durban protests the world has fresh proof of the socially divisive consequences of the gathering globe-wide economic disaffection, touched off particularly by the continuing crisis in West Asia. Going ahead, the world would need to brace for increasing identity-based unrest of the kind it is just witnessing in South Africa.
Considering that the material lot of ordinary people everywhere could only aggravate progressively, with the US and Iran showing no signs of negotiating an end to their confrontation any time soon, it will be left to the more democratic and progressive sections of the world community to initiate positive measures collectively to bring a measure of relief to the discontented.
The swiftness with which such relief will be provided would depend crucially on the importance those sections taking up these undertakings attach to value-based politics as opposed to Realpolitik of power politics.
Going by these yardsticks, Italy could be considered to be moving in the right direction. Recently Italy came to the fore in initiating the collective named, ‘Rome Coalition for Food Security and Access to Fertilizer’, which has as one of its aims the swift provision of fertilizer to economically weak African countries.
In a recent statement Italian Minister of Foreign Affairs and International Cooperation, Antonio Tajani, said that a principal aim of the project was to ensure that the farmers of Africa gained easy access to fertilizer, considering that food security is a growing concern among some of Africa’s economically vulnerable countries.
The statement went on to mention that some 30 countries hailing from the Mediterranean region, the Middle East, the Balkans as well as the FAO had been invited to join the coalition. The venture is far-seeing in that food security is main among the reasons for social discontent which in turn could degenerate into endemic political turmoil and bloodshed. Separatist violence and geographical fragmentation of countries wouldn’t be too far behind these developments, as Africa itself has often proved.
It is hoped that more G7 countries would take the cue from Italy and do what they could to ease the hardships of economically distressed countries, particularly of the global South. In these efforts they would need to break rank with the US, which is today brutally indifferent to the consequences of its policy of making ‘America First’, come what may.
Going by current developments, the Trump administration seems to be blithely oblivious to the wider, deleterious effects of its policy course in West Asia. Besides rendering Iran militarily and otherwise impotent nothing else seems to matter to Washington, as regards West Asia. This is policy short-sightedness of an extreme kind. After all, right now West Asia could be said to be sitting on the proverbial powder keg.
On the other hand, Iran is not giving the world the impression that it is doing anything constructive to get out of the policy straitjacket that it wove for itself decades ago. Rather than enter into a policy of ‘live and let live’ in relation to Israel in particular and initiate a process of reconciliation with the latter, it has chosen to operate within policy parameters that continue to damn Israel. This has put Israel always on the ‘defensive’ so to speak and prevented the opening up of space for meaningful dialogue.
That said, Israel is obliged to explore the possibilities of entering into a negotiatory process with the Arab-Islamic world that could lead to a de-escalation of tensions and bloodshed. It cannot continue to look at its neighbours through lenses that distort them as archetypal enemies who should be ‘wiped off completely from the face of the earth.’
In other words, the need is urgent for Realpolitik to give way to value-based politicks. Italy is beginning to prove that the latter approach could be pursued with some success. May be the EU and the UK could throw their weight behind these initiatives as well and establish that international politics could be refashioned on the basis of humane, civilized norms. The UN would need to be fully supportive of these moves and prove an organizational nucleus of the operations that follow.
In fact the time is ripe for people of conscience to collectively stand up on the side of peace and say ‘No’ to war and violence. Organizations such as the ICRC, the WHO and Medicines Sans Frontiers have already taken up this call. Referring to the widespread destruction of health facilities and their dehumanizing results these organizations have said, among other things, that ‘This is not a failure of the law. It is a failure of political will.’
True, ‘failure of political will’ among those powers that matter accounts for the runaway, uncontrollable nature of war and destruction in contemporary times, but more fundamentally it is a failure of the human conscience. It could very well be that the phenomenal levels to which violence and war have been unleashed today have had the effect of deadening consciences. This is a matter for urgent study and wide discussion.
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Vesak celebrations … with Cuteefly
I would describe Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka as innovative and creative, and she operates under the name of Cuteefly.
Indunil always comes up with something novel to celebrate special occasions, and she does it with candles … and that’s her profession.
She was in the spotlight when she created a happening scene, with candles, for Christmas, Sinhala and Tamil New Year, and Valentine’s Day.
As lanterns light up Sri Lanka for Vesak, the Colombo-based candle maker is quietly turning wax and wick into little pieces of the festival.

Candles reflecting Vesak themes
Her candles reflect Vesak themes – light, peace, remembrance, giving, etc., to enable you to fill your Vesak celebration with devotion and beauty.
Among her Vesak creations is a lotus-shaped soy candle, scented with sandalwood, lavender, etc., meant to burn during this Vesak Poya Day.

Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka: Customers
praise her for her creativity
These handcrafted Vesak candles are perfect for offering at the temple, she says.
What makes her creations so novel is that they come in different shapes, scents, themes, and all are handmade.
What’s more, her customers have heaped praise on her for her creativity.
According to Indunil, her creations are perfect as a thoughtful gift … to bring beauty, unity, and light into every moment.
Says Indunil: “Our beautifully handcrafted Unity candles are designed with premium detail and love, making them perfect for celebrations, gifts, and meaningful occasions.”
Cuteefly, says Indunil, is available online.
Readers could contact Indunil on 0778506066 for more details.
He Facebook Page is: Cuteefly.

Handmade with love
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Dark Spots …
Yes, dark spots do crop up on the skin, especially with sun exposure and, of course, as the skin ages.
However, these tips should be of immense benefit to those who are faced with dark spots.
* Lemon and Honey Glow Mask:
You will need 01 teaspoon lemon juice and 01 teaspoon honey.
Mix the lemon juice and honey well and then apply this mixture, only on the dark spots.
Leave for 10–15 minutes and then rinse with cool water.
Benefits:
Lemon helps brighten pigmentation.
Honey moisturises and heals skin.
Gives a natural glow.
* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:
All you need is fresh aloe vera gel.
Apply the gel apply on dark spots, before going to bed.
Leave overnight and wash in the morning.
Benefits:
Reduces acne marks and pigmentation.
Soothes irritated skin.
Helps skin repair naturally.
* Turmeric and Yoghurt Paste:
You will need 01 teaspoon yoghurt and a pinch of turmeric
Mix the yoghurt and turmeric into a smooth paste and apply on affected areas.
Leave for 15 minutes and then wash gently with lukewarm water.
Benefits:
Turmeric brightens skin naturally.
Yoghurt removes dead skin cells.
Helps fade dark spots gradually.
Use these packs 02-03 times a week as results are generally seen over time.
You can also try this out: Mix a ripe papaya into a smooth paste and apply to the face, or directly on to the dark spots. Leave for 15-20 minutes and then wash with lukewarm water.
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