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Two Outstanding Wives

We have just marked International Women’ Day with rallies, seminars and awards presentations, here and overseas. Coincidentally, in the last two days I watched Netflix films and was totally impressed all over again by the sacrificial commitment of women, and as a by-line, the acceptance of all that womanly giving by the two men concerned. The films seen were ‘The Theory of Everything’ – life of astronomer/physicist Stephen Hawking and ‘The Danish Girl’ about the sex change of pioneer . In both Eddie Redmayne starred as protagonist, but for me the shows were stolen by the wives – Jane Wilde Hawking played by Felicity Jones (British) nominated for Oscar for Best Actress in the film, and Gerda Wegener played stunningly as acknowledged, by Alicia Vikander (Swedish) winning the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress in 2015, and nominated for BAFTA in the same category, same film.
The true stories
Everyone knows Stephen William Hawking (Jan 8 1942 in Oxford – 14 March 2018 in Cambridge) CH CBE FRS FRSA, British theoretical physicist, cosmologist, and author who was director of research at the Centre for Theoretical Cosmology at the University of Cambridge at the time of his death.
In the 1960s, Cambridge University student and future physicist Stephen Hawking fell in love with fellow collegian Jane Wilde. At 21, Hawking learns that he has motor neuron disease. Jane marries him in 1965 in spite of his being already semi- handicapped and they have three children. With Jane completely supportive at his side, he begins an ambitious study of time, of which he has very little left, according to his doctor. (However he defiantly lived till age 76!) He and Jane overcame terrible odds and broke new ground in the fields of medicine and science.
Though completely wheelchair-confined, he was stymied in nothing from overseas travel to moving in a zero gravity capsule. Jane looked after him and the children for more than 15 years. Finding however her duties as carer to her husband and mother of three stressful, a nurse is hired and he falls in love with her – Elaine Mason. Jane and he divorce in 1995 after 30 years of marriage and he marries Elaine that same year. They divorce in 2006. Elaine was accused of physically and emotionally abusing Stephen and many considered her a gold digger in marrying him. His copious writing includes among several books the popular A Brief History of Time; Brief Answers to the Big Question which are readable to even non scientific readers.
The second life is that of Einer Magnus Andreas Wegener (1882- 1931). Born in the small fjord-side town of Vejle, Denmark, he was a precocious young boy. As a teenager, he traveled to Copenhagen to study art at the Royal Danish Academy of Fine Arts. He met Gerda Gottlieb and married her in 1904; the couple aged 22 and 19. While he painted landscapes and was acclaimed, she painted portraits and success came to her only when her Lili paintings were exhibited. She was a successful illustrator of fashion magazines.
Once when her model was late in arriving, Gerda got her husband to wear stockings and heels and pose. This nudged his inner ‘self’ and the urge to become a woman. Traveling through Europe the couple settled down in Paris in 1912 and Einar went to two famous surgeons seeking sex transformation. The first attempts failed but under pioneer Dr Warnekros in 1930-31, the operations were successful and thus emerged a beautiful woman who took the name of Lili Elbe, the surname after the river that flows through Dresden where the last sex reassignment was done. Lili lived openly, and officially as a woman for 20 years of her life, first with Gerda and then moving to live with a man. The King of Denmark nullified the marriage in 1930. She considered herself to be a woman and an old friend wanted to marry the new woman. The final operation to implant a uterus caused her to suffer heart paralysis just before her 49th birthday. The diary he/she kept was published as a book ‘Man into Woman’, under a pseudonym in 1933 in Danish and German. It was considered of pioneering help to future transgenders.
The films
The ‘Theory of Everything’ was adapted from the book written by Jane Hawking while ‘The Danish Girl’ was adapted from the biography of the same name written by David Ebershoff in 2000. The film of the former book was directed by James Marsh and Eddie Redmayne won the Academy Award for best actor in a leading role; a Golden Globe Award and a BAFTA Award. Felicity Jones was nominated for her role as Hawking’s first wife. ‘The Danish Girl’ was directed by Tom Hooper who won the director’s Academy for his film ‘The King’s Speech’. Redmayne, though criticized by some for acting a transgender, which role should have been played by an actual one it was said, received nomination for Academy Award for best actor – this unparalleled honour in consecutive years.
The Actor
Edward “Eddie” John David Redmayne (1982 -), the English actor with the superbly malleable face played both Hawking and Einar Wegener/Lili Elbe brilliantly. He was a paralysed physicist with a permanently averted face whose lips and eyes were expressive. His role in the second film was even harder – a sexually active husband turning into a woman and looking so like one. He is the recipient of , including an , a , and and . He began his professional acting career as a youth in before making his screen debut in 1998. He played famed Shakespeare characters on stage. In 2016, he began starring as Newt Scamander in the ‘Fantastic Beasts’ film series authored by J K Rowling. In 2020, Redmayne starred as in ‘’ which was very recently nominated for a BAFTA Award for Best Film.
Born on 6 January 1982 in to Patricia Burke who runs a , and Richard Redmayne, a businessman in , he has two siblings and two half siblings. His paternal great-grandfather was Sir (1865-1955), a civil and mining engineer. He attended , the same year as . In 2014 he married Hannah Bagshawe and they have a daughter and son. He was given the honour of Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) in the Queen’s honour list for services to drama.
Supremacy of two women
I started this article by mentioning a connection between the recently marked International Women’s Day and two films I watched on Netflix. The connection is the superior quality of the two wives in the two real life stories narrated in ‘The Theory of Everything’ and ‘The Polish Girl’; namely Jane Wilde Hawking (1944-) and Gerda Marie Fredrike Gottlieb Wegener (1886-1940).
The first outstanding quality was their dedication to their husbands, the love they showered on the two – handicapped in different ways. Their love turned to sacrificial giving and lasted through two betrayals of sorts. Stephen Hawking falls in love with his nurse after 30 years of marriage and leaves Jane for her. Gerda’s husband showed signs of wanting to dress as a woman and then leaves her to live with a man for the last couple of years when he was accepted as a woman. They went through immense stress, emotional upheaval, physical hardship, especially Jane who cared for her wheelchair-bound husband and three children. Gerda was with her husband through the several sex transforming operations and at the end was of solace and immense comfort when he died in the clinic he was recuperating in.
At first Jane Hawking subsumed her talent, her intellect, her ambition and love of knowledge to support and care for her husband whom she recognized early on to be genius. He was given two years to live, early in their marriage, but in all probability his living to 76 was due to her early care and inspiration and later his will and various interests and intellectualism taking over. Gerda owes her success as a portrait painter for the paintings she did of her husband as a girl – the Lily portraits.
You need to see the two films or read the biographies of these two inspiring women to fully recognize their true greatness through mainly their femininity. Jane Hawking completed her PhD just before her third child was born and continued teaching. She also wrote much besides her story of life with Hawking. When stressed with home duties, her mother suggested she sing in the church choir, she being Christian against Stephen’s atheism. The choir conductor was Jonathan Hellyer Jones who soon became a family friend. In 1997, Jane married him, She is recognized as a writer, speaker and mercifully, is still alive.
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Coping with Batalanda’s emergence to centre stage

by Jehan Perera
The Batalanda Commission report which goes into details of what happened during the JVP insurrection of 1987-89 has become the centre of public attention. The controversy has long been a point of contention and a reminder of the country’s troubled past and entrenched divisions that still exist. The events that occurred at Batalanda during the violent suppression of the JVP-led insurgency, remain a raw wound, as seen in the sudden resurfacing of the issue. The scars of violence and war still run deep. At a time when the country is grappling with pressing challenges ranging from economic recovery to social stability, there is a need to keep in focus the broader goal of unity for long-term peace and prosperity. But the ghosts of the past need also to be put to rest without continuing to haunt the present and future.
Grisly accounts of what transpired at Batalanda now fill the social media even in the Tamil media, though Tamils were not specifically targeted at that time. There was then a ceasefire between the government and LTTE. The Indo-Lanka Accord had just been signed and the LTTE were fighting the Indian peacekeeping army. The videos that are now circulating on social media would show the Tamil people that they were not the only ones at the receiving end of counter-terrorist measures. The Sinhalese were in danger then, as it was a rebellion of Sinhalese against the state. Sinhalese youth had to be especially careful.
It appears that former president Ranil Wickremesinghe was caught unprepared by the questions from a team from Al Jazeera television. The answers he gave, in which he downplayed the significance of the Batalanda Commission report have been viewed differently, depending on the perspective of the observer. He has also made a statement in which he has rejected the report. The report, which demands introspection, referred to events that had taken place 37 years earlier. But the ghosts of the past have returned. After the issue has come to the fore, there are many relatives and acquaintances of the victims from different backgrounds who are demanding justice and offering to come forward to give evidence of what they had witnessed. They need closure after so many years.
MORE POLARISATION
The public reaction to the airing of the Al Jazeera television programme is a reminder that atrocities that have taken place cannot be easily buried. The government has tabled the Batalanda Commission report in parliament and hold a two-day debate on it. The two days were to be consecutive but now the government has decided to space them out over two months. There is reason to be concerned about what transpires in the debate. The atrocities that took place during the JVP insurrection involved multiple parties. Batalanda was not the only interrogation site or the only torture chamber. There were many others. Former president Ranil Wickremesinghe was not the only prominent protagonist in the events that transpired at that time.
The atrocities of the late 1980s were not confined to one location, nor were they the responsibility of a single individual or group. The JVP engaged in many atrocities and human rights violations. In addition to members of the former government and military who engaged in counter-terrorism operations there were also other groups that engaged both in self-defence and mayhem. These included members of left political parties who were targeted by the JVP and who formed their own para-military groups. Some of the leaders went on to become ministers in succeeding governments and even represented Sri Lanka at international human rights forums. Even members of the present government will not be able to escape the fallout of the debate over the Batalanda Commission report.
If the debate becomes a battleground for assigning blame rather than seeking solutions, it could have far-reaching consequences for Sri Lanka’s social and political stability. Economic recovery, governance reform, and development require stability and cooperation. The present storm caused by the Batalanda Commission report, and the prospects for increased polarisation and hatred do not bode well for the country. Rather than engaging in potentially divisive debates that could lead to further entrenchment of opposing narratives, Sri Lanka would be better served by a structured and impartial approach to truth-seeking and reconciliation.
NATIONAL HEALING
Earlier this month at the UN Human Rights Council in Geneva, the government rejected the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights assertion that the external evidence gathering unit would continue to collect evidence on human rights violations in Sri Lanka. This evidence gathering unit has a mandate to collect information on a wide range of human rights violations including intimidation and killings of journalists but with a focus on the human rights violations and war crimes during the course of the LTTE war and especially at its end. The government’s position has been that it is determined to deal with human rights challenges including reconciliation through domestic processes.
Addressing the High-Level Segment of the 58th Regular Session of the United Nations Human Rights Council (UNHRC) in Geneva in February this year, Foreign Minister Vijitha Herath said: “The contours of a truth and reconciliation framework, will be further discussed with the broadest possible cross section of stakeholders, before operationalisation to ensure a process that has the trust of all Sri Lankans. Our aim is to make the domestic mechanisms credible and sound within the constitutional framework. This will include strengthening the work towards a truth and reconciliation commission empowered to investigate acts of violence caused by racism and religious extremism that give rise to tensions within Sri Lankan society.”
The concept of a truth and reconciliation commission was first broached in 2015 by then prime minister Ranil Wickremesinghe’s government. In 2019 after winning the presidential elections, former president Gotabaya Rajapaksa too saw merit in the idea, but neither of these two leaders had the commitment to ensure that the process was completed. Promoting reconciliation in Sri Lanka among divergent political actors with violent political pasts requires a multi-faceted approach that blends political, social, and psychological strategies.
Given the country’s complex history of armed conflict, ethnic tensions, and political polarisation, the process must be carefully designed to build trust, address grievances, and create a shared vision for the future. A truth and reconciliation process as outlined in Geneva by the government, which has teeth in it for both punishment and amnesty, can give the country the time and space in which to uncover the painful truths and the path to national healing.
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Challenging hierarchy? Student grievance mechanisms at state universities

Our universities are characterized by hierarchies. They manifest in formal and informal ways, reinforcing power asymmetries based on class, ethnicity and gender, and placing inordinate authority in those with higher status. In medicine, a ‘hidden curriculum’ orients undergraduates to hierarchies from their early days in training, placing professors over lecturers, ‘clinical’ over ‘non-clinical’ teachers, consultants over medical officers, and so on. While hierarchies are needed at universities (and hospitals) to streamline decision-making, dysfunctional hierarchies create unhealthy learning environments and a culture of fear that discourages students from asking questions and voicing concerns. They also legitimize mistreatment, humiliation, bullying, and other abuses of power. A few months ago, when I invited a medical student to participate in a session on ragging and harassment for incoming students, she asked me (quoted with permission), “What’s the point of doing a programme like that if ragging happens in official level by teachers with everyone knowing, Madam?” Her question led me to explore the avenues available at state universities for undergraduates to counter abuses of power by teachers and university administrations.
What can undergrads do?
The University Grants Commission (UGC) and all state universities have established mechanisms for reporting complaints of ragging and sexual and gender-based violence (SGBV). The UGC’s online portal entertains complaints on “all forms of ragging; sexual harassment; sexual or gender based violence; threats and intimidation; bullying; and harassment.” Complaint procedures for ragging and SGBV are described in detail on the websites of each university, as well as the websites of some faculties. Students may also take any complaints directly to the Dean, student counsellors, academic advisors/mentors, and teachers. In addition, many faculties have portals to submit online complaints on ragging and harassment, while others rely on informal mechanisms, like complaint boxes, to protect anonymity. While these systems are used by students to some extent, rarely do they function as checks and balances against abuses of power by teachers and others at the pinnacle of the university hierarchy.
Anyone who works at a state university would know that students (and the university community more broadly) have very little confidence in existing complaint and grievance procedures. While the minority of incidents that get reported may make it to the inquiry stage, the complaints are often withdrawn under threat and intimidation from the authorities or simply brushed under the carpet. More recently, certain universities and faculties have worked towards establishing formal student grievance procedures outside the SGBV/ragging reporting systems.
Newer grievance mechanisms
Sabaragamuwa University appears to be the only university with a university-wide policy for grievance redressal. The protocol described in the standard operating procedure (SOP) requires that students submit their complaint in writing to the Dean or Deputy Senior Student Counsellor of the relevant faculty. On receiving a complaint, a Committee will be set up by the Dean/Deputy Senior Student Counsellor to conduct an inquiry. The Committee will comprise five senior staff members, including “two independent members (one representing another department, and one may represent the Gender Equity and Equality Cell of the Faculty where relevant)…” The SOP further states that “any student can oppose to have his/her mentor and/or any faculty member to be in the five-person team handling his/her issue.” However, this information is available only to the discerning student who is able to navigate the university’s complex website, hit the Centre for Quality Assurance tab, view the list of documents and click ‘best practices’.
Several faculties of medicine appear to have introduced grievance mechanisms. The Grievance Committee of the Faculty of Medicine, Colombo, considers complaints regarding “a decision or action that is perceived to adversely affect the grievant in her or his professional academic capacity.” The procedure requires that students submit the grievance in writing to the Dean. The Committee comprises “persons who are not current employees of the Faculty of Medicine” and the complainant may request the presence of a member of the Medical Students’ Welfare Society. The Faculty of Medicine, Ruhuna, implements a grievance policy that is more expansive in scope, covering concerns related to “organizational changes in the teaching and learning environment, decisions by academic staff members affecting individuals or groups of students, changes in the content or structure of academic programmes, changes in the nature and quality of teaching and assessment, supervision of students undertaking research projects, authorship and intellectual property, [and the] quality of student services and access to university facilities and resources.” While the policy notes that incidents related to harassment, discrimination and bullying, come under the jurisdiction of the university’s SGBV policy, it does not entertain complaints about examinations. The medical faculty of the University of Sri Jayewardenepura (SJP), has an online grievance system that investigates complaints related to “any physical, psychological, academic or any other problem related to the University life”. The system commits to maintaining confidentiality, pledging that “information will not be divulged to members outside the Student Grievances Committee without the student’s permission.”
Gaps in existing systems
The university-wide SGBV/ragging reporting system could be used to address harassment and intimidation of all kinds. Sadly, however, undergraduates appear to be unaware of these possibilities or reluctant to use them. It is unclear as to whether the newer grievance mechanisms at universities and faculties have managed to achieve the desired outcome. Are they used by students and do they lead to constructive changes in the learning environment or do they simply exist to tick the check box of quality assurance? None of the websites report on the number of cases investigated or the kinds of redressal measures taken. If these mechanisms are to be used by students, they must fulfill certain basic requirements.
First and foremost, all students and staff must be made aware of existing grievance mechanisms. Policies and procedures cannot simply be included under a tab buried in the faculty/university website, but need to be placed front and centre. Students should know what steps the institution will take to ensure confidentiality and how those who come forward, including witnesses, will be protected. They should be confident that swift action will be taken when any breaches of confidentiality occur. Inquiries need to be conducted without delay and complainants kept informed of the actions taken. All in all, universities and/or faculties must commit to ensuring integrity and fairness in the grievance process.
Second, the independence of inquiries must be guaranteed. Some universities/faculties have SOPs that require the inclusion of ‘independent’ members in grievance committees—members who are currently non-faculty, academics from other faculties and/or student representatives. Whether the inclusion of non-faculty members would be sufficient to safeguard independence is questionable in fields like medicine where there is a tendency to cover up professional misconduct at all levels. Permitting complainants to have a say in the makeup of the inquiry committee may help to increase confidence in the system. It may be advisable for inquiries to be handled by ombudspersons or others who do not have a stake in the outcome, rather than by academic staff who are part of the university hierarchy.
Third, grievance mechanisms must address the very real possibility of retaliation from university administrations and teachers. The TOR of the Faculty of Medicine, University of Ruhuna, states that the Committee must ensure “students do not suffer any victimization or discrimination as a result of raising complaints or grievances,” but provides no guidance on how this might be accomplished. Any grievance mechanism must address what recourse to action complainants (and witnesses) have in the event of retaliation. At present, there are no regulations in place to ensure that persons alleged of misconduct are not involved in examination procedures. Neither do universities provide any guarantee that complainants’ academic/employment prospects will not be compromised by coming forward. This is especially concerning in medicine where practical assessments of clinical skills and interview-based examinations (viva) are common, and those at higher rank are usually trainers at the postgraduate level.
Going forward
Student grievance mechanisms provide a structured process for students to voice concerns and seek redress when they feel they have been treated unfairly or unjustly by university staff or policies. The mechanisms currently in place at state universities appear to be weak and insufficient. The UGC could call for universities to participate in a consultative process aimed at developing a policy on handling student grievances in ways that promote fairness in academic matters, faculty conduct, and administration at state universities. While such a policy could foster supportive learning environments, build trust between university administrations and students, and protect students from bullying, intimidation and harassment, it must be accompanied by efforts to address and undo dysfunctional hierarchies within our universities.
(Ramya Kumar is attached to the Department of Community and Family Medicine, Faculty of Medicine, University of Jaffna.)
Kuppi is a politics and pedagogy happening on the margins of the lecture hall that parodies, subverts, and simultaneously reaffirms social hierarchies.
By Ramya Kumar
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Big scene for Suzi… at oktoberfest

The months literally keep flying and, before long, we will be celebrating Oktoberfest.
In our scene, Oktoberfest is looked forward to by many and the five-star venues, especially, create the ideal kind of atmosphere for the celebration of this event, held in late September and early October.
Suzi Croner, who was in town last month (February), is already contracted to do the Oktoberfest scene at a popular five-star venue, in the city.
She says she will be performing six consecutive nights, from 23rd to 28th September, along with a band from Germany.

Suzi’s scene in Switzerland
According to Suzi, the organisers have indicated that they are looking forward to welcoming around 1,500 Oktoberfest enthusiasts on all six days the festivities are held.
“I’m really looking forward to doing the needful, especially with a German band, and I know, for sure, it’s going to be awesome.”
In fact, Suzi, of the band Friends’ fame, and now based in Switzerland, indicated that she never expected to come to her land of birth for the second time, this year.
“After my trip to Sri Lanka, in February, I thought I would check things out again next year, but I’m so happy that I don’t have to wait that long to see my fans, music lovers and friends for the second time, in 2025.”
Suzi spent 11 amazing days in Sri Lanka, in February, performing six nights at a five-star venue in Colombo, in addition to doing the ‘Country & Western Nite’ scene, at the Ramada, and an unscheduled performance, as well.

Suzi Croner: Colombo here I come…in September
Her next much-looked-forward to event is ‘Country Night,’ Down Under.
It will be her second appearance at this ‘Country Night’ dance and music lovers, in Melbourne, in particular, are waiting eagerly to give Suzi a rousing welcome.
Suzi’s bubbly personality has made her a hit wherever she performs.
In her hometown of Spreitenbach, in Switzerland, she is a big draw-card at many local events.
Suzi was the frontline vocalist for the group Friends, decades ago, and this outfit, too, had a huge following in the local scene, with a fan club that had over 1,500 members.
The band was based abroad and travelled to Sri Lanka, during the festive season, to keep their fans entertained, and it was, invariably, a full house for all their performances in the scene here.
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