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Malini – Forever in bloom
Langa dunuke malakai- dura manel malaki
Udawediya malaki- mal meda mal landaki….Malini was many exotic flowers in full bloom as revered by her many lovers on the screen. She was very much a Bandura in every sense. While scores of film-makers would keep wanting her over and over in their creations, thousands of Malini-fans would be forever ‘trapped’ in her alluring persona. It was not the historically predictable voluptuousness or sensuality in an actress which won Malini the love of an entire nation, but it was essentially her softness, tenderness which put her on a different pedestal.
BY RANDIMA ATTYGALLE
Clad in a pulsating orange sari, Malini Senehelatha Fonseka, the quintessential Queen of Sinhala cinema blended in perfect harmony with Nepenthes Malani-when a new cultivar of Nepenthes (Pitcher plant) or Bandura, as it is locally known, was named in her honour more than ten years ago.
The globally reputed leader in production and export of artificially propagated Nepenthes, Borneo Exotics, led by Robert Cantley and his partner Diana Williams, both British citizens, honoured Malini at an event which took place at the trade fair, Reflection of Sri Lanka, held parallel to Commonwealth Heads of Government Meeting (CHOGM) at Ape Gama in Battaramulla in November 2013. Two years earlier in 2011 Borneo Exotics had named their gold-medal winning exhibit after Oscar-winning actress Dame Helen Mirren at the Royal Horticulture Flower Show at Hampton Court Palace.
Robert Cantley (who first arrived here in 1997), would draw parallels with Dame Helen in whose name he launched Nepenthes Helen, and observe: “Since her debut in the early 60s, Ms. Fonseka’s contribution to the Sri Lankan cinema has been exceptional. So, I thought why not honour an iconic artiste whose cinematic journey span five decades.”
Malini – the exotic Bandura
Watching Malini lying amidst white roses as the nation bid her a teary farewell a few days ago, I look 12 years back when I was fortunate to have been privy to the momentous moment of her being immortalized beyond the world of cinema; in horticultural circles as well.
“I feel that I have blended with mother nature today,” Malini would say flashing her trademark smile which captivated several generations of Lankans. In her typical unassuming way and in her beautifully modulated ‘screen voice’, Malini would go on to remark: “naming a Bandura in my honour after 50 years in the film industry is not just a milestone in my life.
The gesture is also a tribute to the Sinhala cinema and its fans as much as a personal compliment to me.” She would recall a bright green Bandura from her childhood and add, “with its beauty comes its snaring nature, trapping insects which it digests in the pitchers, making bandura exotic in every sense.”
In the film Thushara, Sampath (Vijaya Kumaratunga) would raphsodize about the beauty of Thushara (Malini) : langa dunuke malakai- dura manel malaki
Udawediya malaki- mal meda mal landaki ….
Malini was many exotic flowers in full bloom as revered by her many lovers on the screen. She was very much a Bandura in every sense. While scores of film-makers would keep wanting her over and over in their creations, thousands of Malini-fans would be forever ‘trapped’ in her alluring persona. It was not the historically predictable voluptuousness or sensuality in an actress which won Malini the love of an entire nation, but it was essentially her softness, tenderness which put her on a different pedestal.
A woman of warmth
At her funeral which pulled crowds from near and far, it was this very tenderness which her fans celebrated through tears. Her middle-name ‘Senehelatha’ translating to ‘a woman of empathy and kindness’ further validated it and she lived up to it.
Her contemporaries, film-critics and many others who knew her would testify to this. As a young journalist when I first got the opportunity of talking to her many years ago, I personally experienced the kindness and warmth she radiated. Malini was a star in every sense but stardom hardly moved her.
When I recollect my first newspaper interview with Malini, questioning on what it meant to her to be dubbed as the ‘Queen of Sinhala cinema’, she would broadly smile and say: “people and cinema may have branded me as the queen, but personally I have never felt so big nor do I feel that way even now. I was very fortunate never to have felt that way because if it had gone too much to my head I would have never come this far.”
- Malini with Ravindra Randeniya in Aradhana
- Vijeya and Malini from a scene in Thushara
- With Gamini Fonseka in Awa soya adare
- With Tony Ranansinghe in Adarawanthayo
Stamp of femininity
American singer Dolly Parton once remarked, ‘If your actions create a legacy that inspires others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, then you are an excellent leader.” Our own Malini was all this and more. Beyond her cinematic feats which are well documented, Malini mirrored traits of a true leader which would inspire both women and men alike. She would exemplify the cornerstones of mentoring, empathy and above all, carving a path for several generations to charter.
As H.R. Jothipala would croon in the backdrop, koi yanne banda nalawala- lesi gamane inga solawala- pawena sulage wada mala wage in the Lenin Moraes film Edath Sooraya Adath Sooraya, Malani (playing Kanthi) would walk across the giant screen snubbing her co-star Gamini Fonseka’s advances, disguised as a young lad. Sporting a cap, a shirt and a shapeless pair of trousers, Malini’s sheer femininity cannot be concealed. She remained essentially a wada mala.
All time heart-throb Marylyn Monroe would once say. “Beauty and femininity are ageless and can’t be contrived, and glamour, although the manufacturers won’t like this, cannot be manufactured. Not real glamour; it’s based on femininity.’
Be it her iconic role as Irene in Nidhanaya, Helen in Bambaru Evith, Thushara or Susi to name a few, Malini’s feminine stamp was unmistakable. And this she achieved effortlessly in dissimilar roles from the lover, the matriarch (in Wekanda Walauwa) to the bikkuni (in Uppalawanna). Once in an interview, Malini would candidly admit that if she could turn back the clock, she would have played all of them once more. “However, some of them, I may have even played better,” she would look back.
Delicate beauty
Playing opposite Gamini Fonseka, Vijaya Kumaratunga, Tony Ranasinghe and Ravindra Randeniya- acclaimed as the ‘classical lovers’ of the Sinhala cinema, Malini would capture the imagination of a nation. Many women of the 60s and 70s- the golden era of the Lankan cinema, would have no doubt longed to be in her shoes at least for a day. Malini’s exquisite screen voice rendered her even more special. Her nuances in characterization were subtle. Her beauty was delicate.
Malini would once say: “In our heyday, we too would follow fashion trends, put make-up on, but we knew where to draw the line. By blindly following the so-called trends, you cannot maintain your image. Make-up and all the other externals are temporary, what is important is your strength of character.’ She walked the talk to her end. Despite her prolonged battle to regain her health, Malini remained strong in her will power.
In her career spanning nearly six decades, Malini acted in over 150 films, directed and produced some and even left her footprint on the mini-screen, proving her versatility and adaptability. Malini bridged generations exploring diverse media. “The test of real talent is the ability to capture an audience through different media,” she would once say and she was a living testimony to it.
A love like no other
Malini experienced the best and the worst in life. Although she was larger than life, Malini was very much human. Despite her failing health, the love she received from many, transcending social standing kept her flame burning until the end. “When you realise you are loved by thousands, that feeling itself has a lot of healing power,” she would reflect. At the felicitation ceremony which marked her 78th birthday a few weeks before her passing, Malini would tell a full-house, “I have come looking for love,” echoing the words of one of her best-known films Awa soya adare. Malini fired a nation’s imagination to dream as she would say, “artistes are essentially dream-makers.”
Watching Malini going on her final journey last Monday was an exemplification of renowned British actress Vivien Leigh’s words: ‘Dear Lord, I’m so grateful I’m still loved.’ Malini loved well she will forever be loved by a nation that will continue to hum the much-loved lyrics from the film Adare hithenawa dekkama:
Dese wiman dorin
Sihina ruwan thiren
Nikmi golu basin
Parewi rejina lesin
Oba piyamba gosin….
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Julie Chung’s graceful goodbye
Last chapter in Colombo
Elegant, articulate and amiable, U.S. Ambassador to Sri Lanka Julie Chung reaches the end of her term, with the quiet confidence of a woman who has shaped diplomacy across continents.
In this interview, she speaks with emotional clarity and stately restraint, offering insights shaped by memory, responsibility and a deep respect for the human stories behind public life.
A diplomat of distinction and a fashion icon in her own right, she embodies a modern elegance where intellect meets instinct and presence becomes power. She speaks of her time in Sri Lanka not as a posting, but as a chapter of memory, reflecting with grace on the experiences she will carry forward—memories woven with diplomacy, style and a deep affection for a place that became more than a destination.
As she says goodbye, Julie Chung carries with her not just memories but the very essence of the island: the warmth of its people, the quiet beauty of its moments, and a grace that will remain long after she has left. With an international career spanning Asia, Latin America, the Middle East and Washington D.C., she embodies modern diplomacy—polished, perceptive and quietly powerful. She leaves Colombo shaped by its people, moments and connections.
Q: Ambassador, as your tenure in Sri Lanka comes to a close, what moments during your posting stand out the most for you personally and professionally?
A: Celebrating the 75th anniversary of our bilateral relationship was a watershed moment and a time to reflect upon all that we’ve accomplished together- from maritime security partnerships to trade to youth engagement. Opening a beautiful, new U.S. Embassy building was also a highlight, a place where we could really come together and build a community, host our American Centre, and a physical symbol of our efforts to deepen our presence in Sri Lanka. A personal highlight was scuba diving at various wreck sites, including the Godawaya shipwreck from which artifacts were preserved through the U.S. Ambassadors Fund for Cultural Preservation, and marveling at the underwater heritage of Sri Lanka.
Q: How would you describe your overall experience living and working in Sri Lanka?
A: I’ve seen many challenges and difficulties that Sri Lanka has gone through during my tenure, but so much joy, resilience, and pride too. Sri Lankans are very proud of their tourism sites, foods, and cultural heritage- and rightfully so! I saw my role as a bridge builder between our two countries professionally, and I absorbed everything I could personally as well to delve into Sri Lankan culture. And the food–anyone who knows me knows that I have traversed the island trying and loving the amazing food here. From Jaffna crab to lamprais, I am going to go through serious spice withdrawal when I leave. My family enjoyed exploring so much of Sri Lanka with me, and even Martha, my dog loved her walks around Colombo!
- At the top of Pidurutalagala enjoying the amazing view of Sigiriya
Q What challenges did you face in strengthening US-Lanka relations and how were they overcome?
A: One of the challenges was to overcome misperceptions and misinformation about the United States and personal attacks on me. Holding this position invites a lot of attention and scrutiny, and I got my fair share of that while navigating through the public spotlight. I tried to share my personal stories, relay official positions clearly, and be authentic to the Sri Lankan public, not just as an ambassador but as a human being, a wife, and mother. I sought to engage directly with many communities across the island, not just government-to-government but truly people-to-people, speaking directly with farmers, entrepreneurs, students, speaking to them on my role and the United States role in Sri Lanka. It was not always easy, but I appreciated the candidness of everyone I met. As a Christian, it was also important for me to find places of worship to have fellowship which helped me stay faithful and resilient during the challenging times.
Q: Can you share an example of a cultural exchange, a people-to-people initiative that particularly resonated with you?
A: The return of the Peace Corps to Sri Lanka after a long hiatus was one of my proudest moments. I met young Americans willing to put in the work to learn Sinhala and Tamil, assimilate with local families, teach English at local schools—and in the process, learn from their students, too. It goes to the heart of what the Peace Corps was created to do–bringing Americans and communities together through service, learning, and shared understanding.
Q: Sri Lanka is known for its vibrant culture. Did your experience here influence your personal life or style?
A: I loved learning about the arts in Sri Lanka. I’ve attended the annual Kala Pola art fair where I could interact with both seasoned and up and coming artists and made a few purchases myself. I learned about Sri Lanka’s unique batik making culture and integrated various modern takes to batik design in clothes I wear. Our embassy community visited Sonali Dharmawardena’s batik workshop to learn first-hand about batik making and created a beautiful American flag artwork that hangs inside our embassy now.
- Selfie with Sri Lankan student basketball players during the U.S. Embassy sports envoy program
- Enjoying a cup of tea with fellow climbers at Sri Pada
- Diving at the Godawaya shipwreck which was conserved through U.S. support
Q: Who were your favourite designers or fashion experiences that stood out to you during your time here?
A I’ve loved admiring and showcasing so many talented local designers here, who also became my close friends. I consider them artists more than designers because it really is artistry and it comes from their hearts, reflecting who they are as individuals. Sonali Dharmawardhana, Charini Suriyage, Darshi Keerthisena, Kamil Hewavitharana, and Sammani Pathiranagama have been some of my favorites! I leave with a very full suitcase and I can’t wait to share my love of Sri Lankan design with Americans.
Q How did participating in Sri Lanka’s cultural and social events help in strengthening diplomatic relationships?
A Diplomacy is not just about having official meetings but diving into a country’s culture and personality; it provides us a deeper understanding and at the same time offers an opportunity to share the immense richness of American culture as well. When we invited our sports diplomacy ambassadors and arts envoys to come to Sri Lanka, it created avenues for more people-to-people connections. Every conversation I had, every trip I took, and every photo I snapped created that tapestry that led to my love for Sri Lanka. I took part in Sri Lanka’s social and cultural events while also creating opportunities for others to engage with American arts and culture.
Q: Were there moments in Colombo’s social scene that brought you joy or surprise?
A: I really enjoyed attending the Royal Thomian cricket match! It was my first ever cricket match and was so exciting to see the fans, the festive mood, and I joined along with the dancing, too. It was nice to see people from all walks of life and political factions come together in such a way for the love of the game.
Q: What memory of Sri Lanka will you carry with you forever?
A: One memory I will always carry with me is how Sri Lankans came together to support one another during the tragic period following Cyclone Ditwah. I was deeply moved by the compassion and solidarity shown at the community level. When we were able to offer $2 million in humanitarian aid and bring two C130 airplanes to deliver supplies, it really made me proud. Personally taking part in some of those flights and talking to the military forces and local communities was memorable. As a diplomat, I believe it’s important we get involved hands-on and not just watch from afar. Seeing Americans and Sri Lankans working side by side, physically unloading goods off of our planes was a powerful reminder that in difficult moments, our partnership is strongest, and that the friendship between our two countries is built on ordinary people and shared values.
Q: If you could relive one day of your tenure here, which day would it be and why?
A: It would be to climb back up to the peak of Sri Pada again with my husband and see the sun rising above the mountains and the shadows of the temple, and take in the natural glory of that moment in such a special cultural place. It was not just the natural beauty, but the friendliness of the pilgrims and fellow climbers who encouraged each other, even me, as I took on that climb. Moments along the journey—sharing a cup of tea or listening to someone’s story—kept me energized.
Q: What are the strongest impressions of Sri Lanka that you will take back with you?
A: Sri Lanka is such a diverse island- from its landscape and tourism sites to its religions, ethnicities, and cuisines. I say this often, it is a magical island that bursts with passion, energy, and a richness that makes every part of the country feel distinct yet deeply connected. I travelled throughout Sri Lanka, by boats, cars, planes, and trains – the sounds, smells, and beauty will stay with me forever.
Q: How would you describe the spirit of the Sri Lankan people to friends and colleagues abroad?
A: The spirit of Sri Lankans is definitely something I’ve come to learn about and admire so much – it goes beyond resilience during tough periods and is reflected in the humor and creativity of its people and traditions. That can be seen through the arts, literature, and even political cartoons. The Sri Lankan people are amazing and have given me memories that will last a lifetime. I am grateful for my time here and will carry it with me always.
By Zanita Careem ✍️
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Gilded glamour at Grand Kandyan
The Grand Kandyan transformed into a sanctuary of elegance this past New Year’s Eve, hosting a spectacular gala dinner dance that seamlessly blended tradition with high-energy celebration.
From the moment guests arrived, they were swept into a world of luxury. The hotel and ballroom were meticulously decorated, setting a festive tone that promised an unforgettable night. The evening commenced with a sophisticated cocktail hour in the lobby, where guests mingled before being ushered into the majestic Royal Peacock Ballroom for the main event.
A Symphony of Black and Gold
The ballroom was a sight to behold, draped in a striking theme of black and gold. The color palette exuded sophistication, providing a glittering backdrop for the night’s festivities.
Taking charge of the evening’s proceedings was the charismatic Javed Bongso, whose expert compering kept the energy high. The musical heartbeat of the night was provided by the popular band Lunu Dehi, whose infectious performance immediately filled the dance floor. As the night progressed, DJ Harsha took over the decks, keeping the crowd moving with a seamless mix of floor-fillers.
Prizes and Pageantry
The gala was punctuated by moments of excitement and engagement. Beyond the music, guests participated in:
Multiple Raffle Draws: Featuring a variety of high-value prizes.
Interactive Games: Engaging the audience and adding a touch of playful competition.
Grand Giveaways: Ensuring many guests walked away with more than just memories.
A highlight of the evening was the prestigious crowning of the “Grand Kandyan Queen,” a moment of true pageantry that added a layer of classic glamour to the night’s program.
A Culinary Masterpiece
No celebration at The Grand Kandyan would be complete without a culinary showcase. Guests were treated to a lavish international buffet, specifically decorated for the occasion.
A Global Family Celebration
The Grand Kandyan hotel General Manager, . Thusith Samaraweera, remarked on how wonderful it was to see a vibrant mixture of local and foreign guests coming together. He noted that seeing everyone ushering in the New Year alongside the “Grand Kandyan family” was the perfect embodiment of the hotel’s spirit of hospitality.
The night concluded as a resounding success, marking the start of 2026 with style, spirit, and community.
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“Best International Hotel for Weddings” at Travel+Leisure India’s Best Awards 2025
Jetwing Saman Villas, part of Jetwing Luxury Reserves, has been awarded “Best International Hotel for Weddings” at the 14th edition of Travel+Leisure India & South Asia’s Best Awards, held on December 16, 2025, in New Delhi. This prestigious accolade celebrates the resort’s exceptional ability to create unforgettable wedding experiences, placing Sri Lanka firmly on the global map as a leading destination for romance.
The annual India’s Best Awards, driven by reader votes, honours excellence across the travel spectrum, from hotels and destinations to wellness retreats and culinary experiences. This year’s theme, “Passports to Possibility,” highlighted the transformative power of travel and brought together global hospitality leaders for an evening of recognition and inspiration.
Perched on a dramatic cliff overlooking the Indian Ocean, the 27-suite resort is Sri Lanka’s pioneering luxury boutique hotel and a haven for intimate celebrations. The property offers one of the most unique settings on the island: a garden on a rock surrounded by nothing but incredible ocean views. From pre-wedding rituals to gourmet receptions, the property specializes in intimate weddings that feel truly exclusive and deeply personal. Beyond the ceremony, Jetwing Saman Villas doubles as an idyllic honeymoon retreat, offering luxurious private-pool suites, indulgent spa rituals, and romantic dining experiences under starlit skies, making it the perfect beginning to a lifelong journey together.
“We are truly honoured to bring this recognition to Sri Lanka,” said Hashan Cooray, Director of Marketing and Development at Jetwing Hotels. “As the country’s first and leading boutique hotel, this award reinforces Sri Lanka’s true potential as a premier destination for romance and weddings.”
Farrel Blom, General Manager of Jetwing Saman Villas, added, “Weddings are deeply personal, and for us, it’s never just about one evening, but it’s about creating an experience that feels like home. Many couples stay with us for several days, allowing us to be part of their story. Seeing them return for holidays and hearing their heartfelt feedback is the greatest reward.”
With a legacy spanning over half a century in the tourism industry, Jetwing Hotels has established itself as a pioneer in curating unique experiences and offering the best of legendary Sri Lankan hospitality, with the values of passion, humility, tenacity, and the spirit of family being at its core. As a family-owned brand, Jetwing Hotels continues to be a leading advocate for sustainability and responsible tourism, with ongoing initiatives focused on community upliftment, environmental conservation, and resource efficiency. With over 35 properties across the island, the brand’s diverse portfolio includes a range of Luxury Reserves, Premium Hotels, Select Hotels, and Essentials, each offering a unique perspective on Sri Lanka’s rich cultural heritage and natural beauty.
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