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BE KIND!
Be Kind was the watchword of the successful handling of the Covid-19 onslaught on Aotearoa – NZ and the lockdown that contributed in no small measure to that success. The people of this society had to be reminded to be kind as they are (particularly the Pakeha or white people) largely disconnected from their families and live self-centred and even selfish lives. They don’t really stay in touch with their “Whanau” or extended family as in the Maori word for it. Thinking out this in a Sri Lankan context brought back first-hand experiences of what I had seen and done in the Pearl, in the past.
I know of people who took their workmates from the Tamil community home in their personal vehicles (the bosses’ were not willing to risk the company vehicles!) through rampaging mobs, during that terrible day in July 1983. Others visited refugee camps a few days later and took their Tamil friends home to their houses and sheltered them. Of course, so many people simply took affected people in during the riots and when the mobs were looting their houses. During the 1989 JVP uprising, a person I know risked life limb and his precious 4wd vehicle to transport food and salaries to a national park that would have ceased to exist if that trip had not happened. All those of you who enjoy (what is left of) Yala National park, take heed! Some of those people have passed on and others departed the land, they have no “Desha” titles to show for what they did and if they could see some holders of these state awards, I am sure they would reject them, should they have even been offered!
Lending spare vehicles to friends in need during family bereavements and other difficult circumstances. “Lending” money with absolutely no intention of ever getting it back to friends in need even though the lender was not that rich either but simply because the friend’s need was greater, was all “par for the course” in those days. One tended to anticipate a friend’s need and offer help before it was actually asked for and thereby spare his friend the embarrassment of having to ask. I wonder if that happens now. Think about it esteemed reader, have you ever done such a thing? If you have, kudos to you, if you haven’t why not? Surely there have been friends who needed help. Surely those extra cars parked in your garages and gathering dust can help someone to get to a course and develop some new skills or take someone’s child or parent to the hospital. Or earn some redundant worker a living by serving as an Uber cab.
I have benefited from holidays in five-star resorts, trips abroad and memorable experiences (with air tickets thrown in) by friends and relations who wanted to help me through difficult times or had the generosity to invite me to join them for family celebrations. They have got nothing in return, this I admit with embarrassment!! I am eternally grateful and above all I thank them for opening my mind to a way of thinking that encompassed helping others in need.
One point I wish to make is, all the people I know who have done these things, are from the BOOMER generation, born in the 1950s and ’60s. Not from the younger generations who seem to think that they have the right to rule the country now. This is one of the reasons why I think they are not fit to rule. They have not made personal sacrifices and gone out of their way to help people in need. I’m sure some of them have but I have yet to meet one! They haven’t been KIND from a position of being in want for themselves. Certainly, some sons of millionaires may have done some philanthropy, but has it been spontaneous, has it been before they were asked or told to do it? If so “good on them” and it would be nice to hear of it. Just think of it if you ever read this piece and have done such things, simply thinking of it gives you a warm glow all over, doesn’t it? That is the true reward of kindness!
One of the reasons why I left my beloved Pearl, was that I got sick of listening to “businessmen” at cocktail parties boasting on how they exploit their workers and get them to work horrendous hours for less and less money! This type of conversation together with the latest racket and plan to break the law had taken over from the “intelligent” conversation and friendly banter that I had grown up with within the houses of my parent’s and their friends. I am glad to say that those standards have been reintroduced into our lives in Aotearoa and “talking shop” (which incidentally means talking business and not talking nonsense as it is now construed to mean in SL) is banned. In fact, I know parents who have had to stop their children who try to put business deals through during gathering of their friends! I guess most of you younger generation would wonder what was wrong with that….I rest my case.
Even in Aotearoa- NZ, I know of Sri Lankans who make up food parcels, cooked at home, and walk the cold, dreary, and not too safe streets of the inner city, in winter, to distribute them to homeless people who are sheltering in doorways and abandoned buildings. These people are not rich by any means, but they feel for their fellow beings, and they do what they can to help. These are not habits and behaviour’s learned in NZ, these are brought from our own land and inculcated in us by our culture and heritage. Are we still doing those things in the land that was once the Pearl of the Indian Ocean? I know we are at least some of us but shouldn’t more of us teach ourselves to be kind.
The answer to the terrible woes we face in the Pearl has no solutions except within ourselves. We need to be KIND to those around us and to ourselves. We need to empower the people around us and teach them to think for themselves and to grow themselves and our beloved motherland. Grow beyond petty party politics and out of the clutches of corrupt politicians. Learn to choose leaders from KIND, educated, and cultured people, who we can look up to for guidance. People who have proper motives and long-term objectives for the betterment of the country. Can you think of five current politicians who can fit this bill?
If so, I would like to hear those names, because I am sorry, but I cannot!
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Stage set for heightening East-West tensions
Domestic political compulsions rather than those stemming from foreign policy considerations probably account for South Korean President Yoon Suk Yeol’s decision to clamp ‘emergency martial law’ on his country but recent developments in the East Asian theatre could very well have impacted the decision as well. For instance, a few thousand North Korean soldiers are reportedly in the Ukraine, fighting alongside Russian state troops.
Thus has the Cold War atmosphere in the region heightened greatly besides aggravating already strained relations between the two Koreas. Regardless of which set of factors has mattered more to the South Korean President, there is no disputing that increasing moves on the part of North Korea in the external policy sphere, that could be seen as hostile by the South, have progressively driven South and North Korea apart over the past few years.
Reports of inducting North Korean troops into the Ukraine to help in fighting President Putin’s war, if substantiated, raise the spectre of heightening proxy wars which were a defining feature of the Cold War confrontation between the US and the USSR. Accordingly, considering that South Korea has been a firm ally of the US in the post-World War Two international order, the commentator cannot be faulted for observing that as far as East Asia is concerned we are, to some extent, having a replay of Cold War politics. But as to whether external threat perceptions have mattered decisively in the South Korean President’s decision, only the future would fully tell.
Meanwhile, if US President-elect Donald Trump’s recent pronouncements are anything to go by, the world in the next few months would be an increasingly tense place to live in. ‘There will be hell to pay if captives in the Gaza are not released’, he reportedly fierily warned recently in the lead up to his installation as President on January 20th, 2025.
However, Trump has not indicated which group of captives he has in mind when he bellows in this fashion: Is it the Israeli hostages held by Hamas, the Palestinian captives in the hands of the Israeli state or both? Besides, what means would he be adopting to meet these ends; military or diplomatic? Thus, the world is kept in ‘the dark’ as to the true import of the President-elect’s words.
If Trump intends to help free the captives by diplomatic means, he would need to exercise considerable pressure on the Netanyahu regime in the process. Is he prepared to do this in the face of the possibility of earning the disfavor of pro-Netanyahu and staunchly pro-Israeli sections at home? Would he be prepared to compromise traditional US policy on Israel in these efforts? These and many more matters remain open questions at the moment.
On the other hand, a decision by the incoming Trump administration to deal with the issue militarily would in all probability prove disastrous for the US. Such moves would be met with fierce resistance by Palestinian militant groups and their foreign backers and pave the way for a prolonged military quagmire in the region for the US. Moreover, the Middle East conflict would be further compounded and we would see a vast escalation in anti-US sentiment in particularly the South.
Besides, the US would not be having the backing of China and Russia in its efforts to resolve the hostage crisis militarily. The West has thus far not prevailed over Russia and China on a number of contemporary issues relating to international law and order in the UN Security Council and the commentator cannot see an overcoming of these divisions in the foreseeable future. The issues pertaining to Ukraine are cases in point. As a result, the world would need to come to terms with the possibility that it would be having international instability on its hands indefinitely.
The US President-elect’s recent statements on matters relating to international economic policy are added proof that, going forward, the world is likely to be an increasingly unstable place to live in. There is, for instance, Trump’s threat that he would be clamping a 100 percent tariff increase on goods and services coming into the US from countries that are seen as attempting to divert from the US dollar in world trade. This is seen as an oblique reference to the perceived threat emanating from the BRICS countries to the US’s dominant position in the international economy.
If Trump’s words are taken at face value, the inference is inescapable that the stage is also being set for renewed trade wars between the US and China in particular. Such battles bode ill for the rest of the world since US-origin products and services would, generally, prove more costly for it. Besides, Chinese exports to the world would come at exorbitant prices, to consider just two possible consequences of these trade wars.
The South, in particular, would be badly hit in such trade strife. The developing world could opt for closer economic links in these circumstances with the BRICS grouping but such ventures are of a long term duration, if at all they prove feasible. In the short and medium terms, there could be no relief for the South. Moreover, the BRICS is yet to consolidate fully into a predominant economic grouping that could face-off with the West.
As pointed out in this column often, the safest course for the South at present is for the latter to strengthen intra-group solidarity in the economic and political spheres. It would need to ensure that it would not come under the suzerainty of either the East or the West. The empowerment of their peoples should be the uppermost consideration for the political and economic decision makers of the South. It would be simplistic to assume that the latter aim could be arrived at through mere formal alignments with the major powers and their alliances.
While we are witnessing trends in global politics at present that are similar to those that arose in the immediate post World War Two decades, in that they are suggestive of Cold War politics to a degree, the current international situation should also be seen as far more complex and unpredictable than the world of those times. Consequently, going forward, the developing world would need the services of perceptive political leaders and economists, besides other relevant personnel.
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National Costume or Most Creative Costume?
That’s the subject being discussed at the moment, and for good reasons, as well.
When one talks about National Costume the reference is obviously to clothing that represents a country’s culture, history, and people. It can also reflect a country’s industry, beauty, and character.
National costumes, traditionally worn by people from a particular country, especially on special occasions, or for formal ceremonies, can be a source of national pride and can provide clues about a country’s heritage, geography, and history.
However, the National Costume section, in these beauty pageants, for both men and women, has given a new meaning to this attire, and many are of the opinion that it would be appropriate to rename this section as Most Creative Costume.
According to Google, the usage of the term ‘costume’ is more limited to unusual or out-of-date clothing and attire intended to evoke a change in identity, such as theatrical, Halloween, and mascot costumes…and, I would add, a fancy dress parade or, in our part of the world, perhaps even a devil dancing ceremony!
And the weight of some of these costumes, where even the contestant finds it difficult to move about freely, trying to keep the headgear and other accessories from falling apart, does take its toll on the wearer, and it happened at the recent Mr. World 2024 contest held in Vietnam, when Vietnam’s representative collapsed backstage and required assistance from his team to remove the costume he was wearing for the National Costume segment.
What’s more, beauty pageants are popping up like mushrooms here and quite a few of them are unheard-of. What a waste of money, time and energy.
I’ve also been told that some of the local winners have to fork out quite a tidy sum to go for the international event.
I believe local beauty pageants should have some level of centralization and coordination, laws, regulations and industry standards.
Of course, there are local pageants that are well organised, and done in a very professional way, and kudos to the people responsible for such pageants.
What also caught my attention, on social media, was a visual referring to child modelling.
Kids need to be in school, LEARNING, and not being groomed, at this tender age, to be a model.
What are the Education authorities doing, and also the Ministry of Women and Child Affairs, and the National Child Protection Authority?
Let’s hope the new setup will move into action before it’s…yes, what comes to mind is the late Desmond Kelly’s ‘Too Late for Regrets.’
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Eye, Neck and Hand Wrinkles
I had a good response from readers to my Beauty Tips column, last week, dealing with Fine Lines and Wrinkles.
With my readers in mind, I thought this week, too, I should tackle this wrinkle problem.
The following natural methods could help reduce Wrinkles Around the Neck…
* Olive Oil:
Olive oil is rich in antioxidants and vitamin E that can help reduce the appearance of wrinkles on the neck. Massage a small amount of olive oil into your neck before bed and leave it on overnight.
* Lemon Juice:
Lemon juice is a natural astringent that can help tighten the skin on your neck and reduce the appearance of wrinkles. Mix equal parts lemon juice and water and apply to your neck with a cotton ball. Leave on for 10 minutes before rinsing off.
* Honey:
Honey is a natural humectant that can help keep your skin hydrated and reduce wrinkles on the neck. Apply a thin layer of honey to your neck and leave on for 15-20 minutes before rinsing off.
This is for those concerned about Wrinkles Around the Eyes…
* Cucumber: Cucumber is a natural anti-inflammatory that can help reduce the appearance of wrinkles around the eyes. Cut a cucumber into slices and place them over your closed eyes for 15-20 minutes.
* Green Tea Bags:
Green tea is rich in antioxidants that can help reduce wrinkles around the eyes. Simply steep a couple of green tea bags in hot water, let them cool, and then place them over your closed eyes for 15-20 minutes.
* Almond Oil: Almond oil is rich in vitamins A and E that can help reduce wrinkles around the eyes. Simply apply a small amount of almond oil to the skin around your eyes before bed and leave it on overnight.
And this is for Wrinkles on the Hands…
* Sugar:
Sugar is a natural exfoliant that can help reduce wrinkles on the hands. Mix equal parts sugar and olive oil and massage into your hands for 2-3 minutes. Rinse off with warm water.
* Banana:
Banana is rich in potassium, vitamins A and E that can help reduce wrinkles on the hands. Mash up a banana and apply it to your hands, leave it on for 15-20 minutes before rinsing off.
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