Opinion
Sega Nagendra – A man of trust and humanity
Appreciation
Segarajasingham Nagendra, known as Sega, met the love of his life when they were both children. Eight years her senior, Sega was the playmate and bodyguard of his cousin Sarla Murugaser. Both were direct descendants of Sir Ponnamabalam Arunachalam, being this illustrious Ceylonese’ great-grandchildren down different lines.
As they grew up, the newly qualified driver, Sega, would give Sarla lifts home from school, borrowing his father’s Humber Hawk motorcar. She remembers him shouting at the other drivers as they cut in front, or perhaps he cut in behind. Judging Colombo’s random roadsters then as today is more a matter of opinion than fact.
Those days Sega and Sarla were just playmate cousins. Sega was schooled at St Joseph’s College, where he was an enthusiastic sportsman, while Sarla excelled as a sprinter at Ladies College. It was a few years after her leaving school that this tall skinny but extremely handsome young man was presented to Sarla as a suitor by her mother. As was often the case in those days, it was not so much the young man pursuing the young lady. Following ancient tradition, the young lady’s mother, Maheswary Murugaser, caught the young man. Having been close from a young age, neither the young man nor the young lady made any attempt to escape the chase, falling willingly into each other’s arms. For their honeymoon in 1969 Sega borrowed his father’s second motorcar, a Ford Anglia, driving the happy couple on a 1,500 km tour around Ceylon.
Sega’s parents, Dr. T. Nagendra and Annarpoorni, were content that their devoted son moved them from primary to secondary place in his affections, yielding precedence to his new bride. With his parents living close by in Rosmead Place, Sega would continue to visit them every day, possibly for the rest of their lives.
Sarla’s father T. Murugaser, a senior public servant and later businessman, who for a time managed the Sri Lanka Cricket Team, gave Sega a fatherly lecture. Sega was instructed to look after his daughter as carefully as he himself had done and to never move far away from him. Sega honoured both these promises. He treasured and cared for Sarla, as she treasured and cared for him. With her family home on Alexandra Place Colombo 7, the furthest the young couple moved was to a rented property, Rs 150 per month, on Gregory’s Road. This is on the opposite side of St. Bridget’s Convent. Not long after, they bought the property adjacent to Sarla’s parents’ in Alexandra Place. Here they lived the rest of their lives together. Here they brought up their two children, Kshirabdhi and Prashan, and welcomed their son-in-law Jekhan and their daughter-in-law Chameli. And they enjoyed their two grandsons Karnan and Suhit.
Sega commenced his career at Ford Rhodes & Thornton, later to become KPMG. After part-qualifying, Sega joined Carson Cumberbatch, one of Sri Lanka’s leading firms. Starting as a junior accounts executive earning Rs1,500 per month, he rose through the ranks in that company to become the Senior Director. As he moved into the corporate’s upper echelons, Sega became the resident general manager of Pegasus Reef, at the time a leading beach hotel.
He moved on from there to become the director in charge where Carson was the Sri Lanka agent for leading foreign products such as Michelin Tyres. He rose to become Carson’s Chief Accountant before he took on his favourite role as KLM Royal Dutch Airlines Director. His KLM role, which he held for almost 20 years, provided perks allowing him to travel extensively around the world on free first-class tickets, often taking Sarla and their two children to the USA, Europe and the Middle East. Marketing the KLM brand in Sri Lanka put him in the limelight he relished. Even though Sega himself was a teetotaler, he headed campaigns including the popular annual Oktoberfest beer festival. After he retired from Carson in 1997 Sega joined his dear friend Dion Jayasuriya to become Finance Director of CML Edwards, a company building roads and bridges across Sri Lanka. He eventually retired from CML Edwards in 2018. Until his dying day, Sega continued to be chairman and director of companies, including the technology company E-Futures where his son Prashan is CEO.
Sega was an outstanding networker aided by Sarla who was every bit his equal in this sphere. Together they made the perfect partnership, sometimes attending several dinners in a day, maintaining strong relations with friends and influencers in Colombo. Sega was a past chairman/president of the Sri Lanka chapters of the Skal Club, the Pacific Asia Travel Association, and the Chartered Management Institute. He chaired the Sri Lanka Pakistan and the Sri Lanka Benelux Business Councils. In 2015 he became Chairman of perhaps Sri Lanka’s most prestigious association, The Colombo Club.
Every human enjoys happiness and suffers tragedy. Sega was a leading businessman, director and chairman of many companies, patron and trustee of temples and associations. He was highly respected as an honourable man who would do his utmost to see fair play. His relationship with his wife was one of the best I have ever seen. However, his greatest tragedy was losing his daughter, who suffered from pulmonary fibrosis and passed away in London in 2013 at 40 years of age, leaving her 16-year-old son and husband. For the remaining nine years of his life, this tragedy remained with him. He was her hero, she was his angel.
At Sega’s funeral, I was told by many what I already knew. That he
was a very good man. That he was a people’s person. I can personally attest he would greet the office peon as sincerely and kindly as he would an ambassador.
Sega passed away suddenly of a heart attack. He and Sarla had recently spent Christmas in England, visiting his grandson Karnan and fiancée Ellie at their new home in Folkestone. Just a month before they had visited me in Jaffna, the town of their ancestors. Sega had the good fortune to make these important reconnections before he was taken.
The world lost one of its gentlemen. I believe, by his example, others who knew him have learned to become gentlemen and gentlewomen.
JEKHAN ARULIAH
Son-in-law
Opinion
Why so unbuddhist?
Hardly a week goes by, when someone in this country does not preach to us about the great, long lasting and noble nature of the culture of the Sinhala Buddhist people. Some Sundays, it is a Catholic priest that sings the virtues of Buddhist culture. Some eminent university professor, not necessarily Buddhist, almost weekly in this newspaper, extols the superiority of Buddhist values in our society. Some 70 percent of the population in this society, at Census, claim that they are Buddhist in religion. They are all capped by that loud statement in dhammacakka pavattana sutta, commonly believed to have been spoken by the Buddha to his five colleagues, when all of them were seeking release from unsatisfactory state of being:
‘….jati pi dukkha jara pi dukkha maranam pi dukkham yam pi…. sankittena…. ‘
If birth (‘jati’) is a matter of sorrow, why celebrate birth? Not just about 2,600 years ago but today, in distant port city Colombo? Why gaba perahara to celebrate conception? Why do bhikkhu, most prominent in this community, celebrate their 75th birthday on a grand scale? A commentator reported that the Buddha said (…ayam antima jati natthi idani punabbhavo – this is my last birth and there shall be no rebirth). They should rather contemplate on jati pi dukkha and anicca (subject to change) and seek nibbana, as they invariably admonish their listeners (savaka) to do several times a week. (Incidentally, Buddhists acquire knowledge by listening to bhanaka. Hence savaka and bhanaka.) The incongruity of bhikkhu who preach jati pi duklkha and then go to celebrate their 65th birthday is thunderous.
For all this, we are one of the most violent societies in the world: during the first 15 days of this year (2026), there has been more one murder a day, and just yesterday (13 February) a youngish lawyer and his wife were gunned down as they shopped in the neighbourhood of the Headquarters of the army. In 2022, the government of this country declared to the rest of the world that it could not pay back debt it owed to the rest of the world, mostly because those that governed us plundered the wealth of the governed. For more than two decades now, it has been a public secret that politicians, bureaucrats, policemen and school teachers, in varying degrees of culpability, plunder the wealth of people in this country. We have that information on the authority of a former President of the Republic. Politicians who held the highest level of responsibility in government, all Buddhist, not only plundered the wealth of its citizens but also transferred that wealth overseas for exclusive use by themselves and their progeny and the temporary use of the host nation. So much for the admonition, ‘raja bhavatu dhammiko’ (may the king-rulers- be righteous). It is not uncommon for politicians anywhere to lie occasionally but ours speak the truth only more parsimoniously than they spend the wealth they plundered from the public. The language spoken in parliament is so foul (parusa vaca) that galleries are closed to the public lest school children adopt that ‘unparliamentary’ language, ironically spoken in parliament. If someone parses the spoken and written word in our society, there is every likelihood that he would find that rumour (pisuna vaca) is the currency of the realm. Radio, television and electronic media have only created massive markets for lies (musa vada), rumour (pisuna vaca), foul language (parusa vaca) and idle chatter (samppampalapa). To assure yourself that this is true, listen, if you can bear with it, newscasts on television, sit in the gallery of Parliament or even read some latterday novels. There generally was much beauty in what Wickremasinghe, Munidasa, Tennakone, G. B. Senanayake, Sarachchandra and Amarasekara wrote. All that beauty has been buried with them. A vile pidgin thrives.
Although the fatuous chatter of politicians about financial and educational hubs in this country have wafted away leaving a foul smell, it has not taken long for this society to graduate into a narcotics hub. In 1975, there was the occasional ganja user and he was a marginal figure who in the evenings, faded into the dusk. Fifty years later, narcotics users are kingpins of crime, financiers and close friends of leading politicians and otherwise shakers and movers. Distilleries are among the most profitable enterprises and leading tax payers and defaulters in the country (Tax default 8 billion rupees as of 2026). There was at least one distillery owner who was a leading politician and a powerful minister in a long ruling government. Politicians in public office recruited and maintained the loyalty to the party by issuing recruits lucrative bar licences. Alcoholic drinks (sura pana) are a libation offered freely to gods that hold sway over voters. There are innuendos that strong men, not wholly lay, are not immune from seeking pleasures in alcohol. It is well known that many celibate religious leaders wallow in comfort on intricately carved ebony or satin wood furniture, on uccasayana, mahasayana, wearing robes made of comforting silk. They do not quite observe the precept to avoid seeking excessive pleasures (kamasukhallikanuyogo). These simple rules of ethical behaviour laid down in panca sila are so commonly denied in the everyday life of Buddhists in this country, that one wonders what guides them in that arduous journey, in samsara. I heard on TV a senior bhikkhu say that bhikkhu sangha strives to raise persons disciplined by panca sila. Evidently, they have failed.
So, it transpires that there is one Buddhism in the books and another in practice. Inquiries into the Buddhist writings are mainly the work of historians and into religion in practice, the work of sociologists and anthropologists. Many books have been written and many, many more speeches (bana) delivered on the religion in the books. However, very, very little is known about the religion daily practised. Yes, there are a few books and papers written in English by cultural anthropologists. Perhaps we know more about yakku natanava, yakun natanava than we know about Buddhism is practised in this country. There was an event in Colombo where some archaeological findings, identified as dhatu (relics), were exhibited. Festivals of that nature and on a grander scale are a monthly regular feature of popular Buddhism. How do they fit in with the religion in the books? Or does that not matter? Never the twain shall meet.
by Usvatte-aratchi
Opinion
Hippocratic oath and GMOA
Almost all government members of the GMOA (the Government Medical Officers’ Association). Before joining the GMOA Doctors must obtain registration with Sri Lanka Medical Council (SLMC) to practice medicine. This registration is obtained after completing the medical studies in Sri Lanka and completing internship.
The SLMC conducts an Examination for Registration to Practise Medicine in Sri Lanka (ERPM) – (Formerly Act 16 in conjunction with the University Grants Commission (UGC), which the foreign graduates must pass. Then only they can obtain registration with SLMC.
When obtaining registration there are a few steps to follow on the as stated in the “
GUIDELINES ON ETHICAL CONDUCT FOR MEDICAL & DENTAL PRACTITIONERS REGISTERED WITH THE SRI LANKA MEDICAL COUNCIL” This was approved in July 2009, and I believe is current at the time of writing this note. To practice medicine, one must obtain registration with the SLMC and complete the oath formality. For those interested in reading it on the web, the reference is as follows.
https://slmc.gov.lk/images/PDF_Main_Site/EthicalConduct2021-12.pdf
I checked this document to find the Hippocratic Oath details. They are noted on page 5. The pages 6 & 7 provide the draft oath form that every Doctor must complete with his/her details. Oath must be administered by
the Registrar/Asst. Registrar/President/ Vice President or Designated Member of the Sri Lanka Medical Council and signed by the Doctor.
Now I wish to quote the details of the oath.
I solemnly pledge myself to dedicate my life to the service of humanity;
The health of my patient will be my primary consideration and I will not use my profession for exploitation and abuse of my patient;
I will practice my profession with conscience, dignity, integrity and honesty;
I will respect the secrets which are confided in me, even after the patient has died;
I will give to my teachers the respect and gratitude, which is their due;
I will maintain by all the means in my power, the honour and noble traditions of the medical profession;
I will not permit considerations of religion, nationality, race, party politics, caste or social standing to intervene between my duty and my patient;
I wish to ask the GMOA officials, when they engage in strike action, whether they still comply with the oath or violate any part of the oath that even they themselves have taken when they obtained registration from the SLMC to practise medicine.
Hemal Perera
Opinion
Where nature dared judges hid
Dr. Lesego the Surgical Registrar from Lesotho who did the on-call shift with me that night in the sleepy London hospital said a lot more than what I wrote last time. I did not want to weaken the thrust of the last narrative which was a bellyful for the legal fraternity of south east Asia and Africa.
Lesego begins, voice steady and reflective, “You know… he said, in my father’s case, the land next to Maseru mayor’s sunflower oil mill was prime land. The mayor wanted it. My father refused to sell. That refusal set the stage for everything that followed.
Two families lived there under my dad’s kindness. First was a middle-aged man, whose descendants still remain. The other was an old destitute woman. My father gave her timber, wattle, cement, Cadjan, everything free, to build her hut. She lived peacefully for two years. Then having reconciled with her once estranged daughter wanted to leave.
She came to my father asking for money for the house. He said: ‘I gave you everything free. You lived there for two years completely free and benefitting from the produce too. And now you ask for money? Not a cent.’ In hindsight, that refusal was harsh. It opened the door for plunderers. The old lady ‘sold’ the hut to Pule, the mayor’s decoy. Soon, Pule and his fellow compatriots, were to chase my father away while he was supervising the harvesting of sunflowers.
My father went to court in September 1962, naming Thasoema, the mayor, his Chief clerk, and the trespassers as respondents. The injunction faltered for want of an affidavit, and under a degree of compulsion by the judge and the attending lawyers, my father agreed to an interim settlement of giving away the aggressors total possession with the proviso that they would pay the damages once the court culminates the case in his favour. This was the only practical alternative to sharing the possession with the adversaries.
From the very beginning, the dismissals and flimsy rulings bore the fingerprints of extra‑judicial mayoral influence. Judges leaned on technicalities, not justice. They hid behind minutiae.
Then nature intervened. Thasoema, the mayor, hale and hearty, died suddenly of what looked like choking on coconut sap which later turned out to be a heart attack. His son Teboho inherited the case. Months later, the Chief clerk also died of a massive heart attack, and his son took his place. Even Teboho, the mayor’s young son of 30 years died, during a routine appendectomy, when the breathing tube was wrongly placed in his gullet.
About fifteen years into the case, another blow fell. A 45‑year‑old judge, who had ruled that ‘prescription was obvious at a glance, while adverse possession was being contested in court all the time, died within weeks of his judgment, struck down by a massive heart attack.
After that, the case dragged on for decades, yo‑yoing between district and appeal courts. Judges no longer died untimely deaths, but the rulings continued to twist and delay. My father’s deeds were clear: the land bought by his brother in 1933, sold to him in 1936, uninterrupted possession for 26 years. Yet the courts delayed, twisted, and denied.
Finally, in 2006, the District Court ruled in his favour embodying every detail why it was delivering such a judgement. It was a comprehensive judgement which covered all areas in question. In 2015, the Appeal Court confirmed it, his job being easy because of the depth the DC judge had gone in to. But in October 2024, the Supreme Court gave an outrageously insane judgment against him. How? I do not know. I hope the judge is in good health, my friend said sarcastically.
Lesego paused, his voice heavy with irony “Where nature dared, judges hid. And that is the truth of my father’s case.”
Dr.M.M.Janapriya
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