Opinion
Memories of my Mother, Primrose
By S. Wijay-Wardner
Grief is the inevitable cost of love. However, the higher purpose of this material existence has to be the journey instead of the final destination. Living cannot be about focusing on the ‘tragic ending’ which will befall us all; as life is a beautiful, yet challenging – and enlightening – trip along the way.
The end of this journey for our beloved mother, Primrose Wijayawardhana, was marked by a resplendent sunlit morning as we said our final goodbyes in Grantham. Her wish was for a small and private cremation without much fuss, so that those living further away wouldn’t feel obligated to attend. It has now been three months since our mother’s passing, and there hasn’t been a day that we haven’t been reminded of her, or the impact she had on our lives. Grantham happened to be the area in which Isaac Newton was born. After the cremation, we paid a visit to Newton’s house, Woolsthorpe Manor, and upon seeing the famed apple tree it dawned on me: Newton sat under his apple tree contemplating the laws of Physics, similar to how the Buddha sat under the Bodhi tree contemplating the laws of Metaphysics, which fundamentally shaped my mother’s worldview.
Dr Primrose – as some called her – had cared for many patients during her decades’ long service as a medical doctor. She began her career in paediatrics, then became the physician at Sri Jayawardenapura University, before specialising in geriatrics. Her long and varied career encapsulated the lifespan of human existence – from children, to university students, to the elderly – and she was much loved by the patients she cared so deeply for.
As both of my parents were doctors, I’d always presumed that they’d met at medical school. But in a serendipitous conversation with my mother only days before her unexpected passing, I decided to ‘interview’ her (into my phone) about a variety of topics, including her music, her family and her personal history, and I found out that my parents actually met when they were much younger – and they grew closer over a shared love of music.
Fatefully, after all these years, we had begun to upload her music to YouTube only a few months prior her untimely passing. As Primrose Jayasinghe, my mother was an ‘A Grade’ Radio Ceylon recording artiste from a very young age. She’d met my father at their schools’ debating and Buddhist societies, long before they were qualified medical doctors in their own right, and certainly well before my father had gone on to become a household name in Sri Lanka (not only because of his expertise in cardiology, but as he also hosted a health-related show on television).
My father always greatly admired my mother’s musical talents, and she had asked him to help write lyrics to some songs she was working on for a radio programme. Despite being a musician myself, I had never realised that music itself was one of the reasons my sister and I had come into existence. I had learned songwriting intuitively by myself, but I knew I had inherited my melodic abilities from my mother, which eventually saw me have a few chart hits in the UK.
Another big part of my mother’s life was Buddhism. In fact, before she took to medicine, she’d considered becoming a Buddhist nun. (Funnily, my sister told me that, as a child, she had also thought about being ordained – showing that, in both my sister’s and my case, the apple did not fall far from the tree!) My mother had mentioned, to me and my sister on various occasions, that she had never planned on getting married or having any children. But then she and our father met, bonded over music, and the rest is history. Or, to put it in her words to me, just days before her passing: “I’ve realised that this was all meant to be”.
This fortuitous chat with my mother, has turned out to be such a source of consolation to me that I’ve been encouraging others to do the same: ask all the questions whilst you still can. Because when a loved one becomes a memory… memories become priceless treasures.
By intuition, I also happened to find myself addressing any lingering issues that she MAY have had a ‘heavy heart’ over… and I hope I managed to resolve those well. I thought to myself, just in case anything were to happen, I’ll do my best to convince her not to worry about us at all, and to not have any fear or regrets. I wanted to help her to be at peace, should that moment of transition come. How fortunate those instincts turned out to be.
Mum’s heart may have stopped beating, but she certainly did not die of a broken heart. She knew she was loved by us – and many others. But love itself leads to attachment… which my mother knew was a source of potential suffering. She was extremely devoted to Buddhist philosophy throughout her life, which really helped her perspective, particularly in what turned out to be her final days. In some ways, the ‘worst’ result for Buddhists isn’t so bad by others’ standards: being reborn. However, the ‘best’ result for Buddhists would be to escape the eternal cycles of life, death and rebirth. As all things must pass, suffering and death are seen as the inevitability of life, and the primary aim of Buddhism is the cessation of suffering… hence also my parents’ choice to be doctors.
Fortunately, my mother did not suffer in her last days. That would have been grotesquely unfair for someone who had been a doctor for almost all of her adult life. She loved her job and her patients loved her – the many cards, letters and gifts she received over the years are testament to that. My mother also strongly believed in karmic fate, which helped her to be at peace with whatever was to come her way. She knew she had done her best to prepare for the inevitable. She’d even travelled around Sri Lanka and the UK in the months and weeks prior to her passing, in order to visit family and lifelong friends.
Despite her diminutive stature, my mother was made of tough stuff. I only ever saw her cry once – and that was on my behalf, when I got injured as a child. She was mentally very strong, but she was equally kind and sensitive, and she got immense joy from being around the playful innocence of children and animals. She was also unique in that she would channel her inner child regularly. Both my sister and I will miss her silly voicemails to us – which, if heard by anyone else, would be assumed were from a little child, and not our wise philosopher of a mother! But that was her charm: she was one-of-a-kind; a very special person that we, and the world, were lucky to have.
However, we’ve still lost the lady who taught us to read, inspired us to have art exhibitions as children, encouraged us to follow our passions, and who loved us unconditionally – and nothing can replace that… or her.
At this time, as we mark three months since her passing, in another example of fate or providence, a newly-established temple in the UK – Hull Buddhist Centre, overseen by Venerable Anamaduwe Wimalajeeva – will be holding its first ever Katina Ceremony on that very day. Katina ceremonies were incredibly important to our mother, and she happened to have previously worked in Hull, and she also had a very good relationship with Ven. Wimalajeeva. So for this ceremony to fall on this exact day is especially serendipitous. We have therefore decided to co-sponsor the events of the day in her memory, and we shall reflect on our mother’s life with eternal love and thanks for all that she gave us, and everything she did for us. Our mother made us the people we are today, and for that my sister and I will always be grateful.
Opinion
Open letter to PUCSL on proposed electricity tariff revision
Although the Public Utilities Commission of Sri Lanka (PUCSL) has appropriately invited public consultation on the proposed electricity tariff revision from 27 February to 18 March, the online submission portal appears to contain a non-functioning submission tab. If this technical issue persists, it risks undermining the integrity and effectiveness of the entire consultation process. Consequently, I have chosen to present this letter openly for public consideration, including by the PUCSL.
Current geopolitical tensions in the Middle East underscore the urgent need for Sri Lanka to minimise its dependence on imported fossil fuels and prioritise the development of domestic renewable energy resources, including solar, hydro, and wind power. Such a transition is essential to securing a stable and independent energy supply. Regrettably, the Ceylon Electricity Board (CEB) appears to be moving in the opposite direction.
Promoting solar-powered electric vehicles supported by home-based renewable charging systems would strengthen national energy security and reduce pressure on imported fuel supplies. The fuel queues witnessed during periods of crisis, most notably in 2022, serve as a stark reminder of the risks associated with excessive dependence on external energy sources and the national anarchy that can follow.
As a small nation operating within a volatile global economy, Sri Lanka must remain as non-aligned and self-reliant as possible. Strengthening self-sufficiency in strategic sectors is critical to avoiding collateral damage amid escalating geopolitical rivalries among major powers. India has made steady progress along this path; Sri Lanka would be well-advised to do the same.
Raising electricity tariffs — a measure repeatedly adopted over the past decades to offset the high cost of fossil-fuel-based power generation — places an unfair burden on debt-ridden households and struggling businesses. Resorting once again to tariff increases, rather than addressing structural inefficiencies and fuel dependency, reflects a failure of long-term planning. The nation must instead pursue sustainable energy solutions that reduce costs over time.
As a debt-burdened country, Sri Lanka urgently requires pragmatic, forward-looking strategies that ease the pressure on citizens while strengthening resilience in times of geopolitical instability. Energy pricing is not a peripheral issue; it is a central pillar of economic stability and national security, demanding serious and immediate attention.
Established on 1 November 1969, the CEB was entrusted with the responsibility of generating and distributing electricity across the island while promoting social and economic development through the optimal use of national resources.
Recent developments suggest that the Ceylon Electricity Board has fallen short of these foundational objectives. Over the past two decades, electricity tariffs have been increased repeatedly under various justifications yet supply reliability has not consistently improved. The current proposed revision appears to perpetuate the same pattern: continued dependence on imported fossil fuels, directly contradicting the principle of optimally utilising national resources. This trajectory risks returning the country to recurring crises, including the prolonged fuel shortages and power cuts experienced in recent years.
Energy is not an ordinary commodity confined to a single sector; it affects every dimension of national life. High energy costs increase the cost of living by inflating expenses related to food production, transportation, manufacturing, and consumer goods. Ultimately, these costs are borne by citizens.
Moreover, elevated energy prices undermine national competitiveness by discouraging foreign investment and constraining local entrepreneurship, technological advancement, industrial expansion, and job creation. High-cost energy impedes national development.
Low-cost energy should therefore be formally adopted as a national policy objective. The CEB must adhere to its original mandate of optimising national resources for cost-effective electricity generation. Any deviation from this principle must be fully transparent and supported by clear, evidence-based justification.
Even in the sphere of renewable energy, concerns arise about the apparent preference for large-scale solar and battery storage projects that require substantial public funding. Previous claims of “grid instability” attributed to household rooftop solar generation were used to justify policy shifts. If electricity generated by rooftop solar during daylight hours was considered problematic, how would significantly larger solar installations differ in principle? Without systematic and transparent grid modernisation, such projects risk becoming costly stopgap measures rather than sustainable long-term solutions.
Poorly planned initiatives could once again expose the country to high delivery costs, reflected in elevated tariffs. They may also increase the risk of power disruptions due to battery limitations, spare-part shortages, infrastructure weaknesses, or maintenance failures. Sri Lanka has previously endured six- to ten-hour power outages, with severe economic and social consequences. The nation cannot afford a return to such instability.
It must also be recognised that rooftop solar installations, financed by homeowners — often through personal loans — have provided a crucial safety net for many families. By purchasing surplus energy from these “prosumers,” the system has functioned in a mutually beneficial manner for both households and the nation. Rather than discouraging decentralised generation, Sri Lanka should modernise its grid and meaningfully integrate citizen-led energy production. Short- and medium-term grid improvements could be facilitated through structured private-sector participation, including by prosumers themselves.
Globally, affordable energy underpins economic growth. Countries such as China, the United States, Norway, Brazil, and Canada have leveraged domestic energy resources to produce cost-effective power and accelerate development.
Sri Lanka must adopt a clear national policy centred on low-cost energy, fully utilising its natural endowments — solar, hydro, wind, and emerging technologies. Proposals prioritising imported fuels should be considered secondary and strictly transitional.
A nation that endures long queues for essential energy supplies cannot reasonably expect its citizens and businesses to remain productive and resilient. These realities are fundamentally incompatible.
Encouraging decentralised energy production would:
* Reduce the cost of living
* Improve national resilience
* Attract foreign investment
* Create employment
* Enhance export competitiveness
The people have entrusted the government with this responsibility. The time has come for a decisive, transparent, and forward-looking policy shift.
Chula Goonasekera
(cgoonase@sltnet.lk)
A concerned citizen
Opinion
Need for well-designed contracts and their implementation
The purchase of substandard coal using a faulty tendering process has become news lately. This enormous financial loss to the country indicates the urgent need for the Government to pass stronger contract laws and have their proper implementation in Sri Lanka by professionals. It is recommended that “Model” contracts need to be drawn up as typical examples and these made available to governmental departments who may need to enter into similar contracts. Do not ask a busy manager to design a contract, a legal document from scratch! Perhaps a whole department should be set up to monitor (police?) government and local government administration of contracts under English Contract Law and contracts under the United Nations Convention for International Sale of Goods (CISG). Perhaps now, it seems that anyone in government can draw up a contract and design it to suit his own whims and fancies!
I suggest here models of typical contracts, useable for different cases are made available for anyone or any department required to enter into a contract to enable them, or at least assist them to first formulate, and draw up an effective contract which must have certain important clauses. Contract administrators and supervisors need to be well trained, motivated and independent in order to administer Government contracts as the law of Sri Lanka should demand.
Contract Management
In the West, mutually agreed contracts are considered legal agreements enforceable by law under a given jurisdiction. There is the initiator of the contract named the Owner and a Main Contractor who agrees to implement the work for a price consideration, and who may delegate part, or all of the work to sub-contractors.
Contracts must provide all the information required by a contractor to complete the work. Contract clauses must incorporate all foreseeable eventualities. For example, the acceptance, as agreed and signed between the contacting parties by the supplier or lead contractor, needs to have clauses that allow for design changes (change orders), additional time and the formulation of related costs and profit accordingly. Such ‘in progress’ changes have procedures which are given in clauses dealing with ‘change orders’ which require assessing the cost of the change order implementation. Change order management may best be done by a firm of Quantity Surveyors.
The main contractor agrees with the owner to supply labour, materials and specialist equipment to fulfil the terms of the agreement or contract for a price. Special tax concessions, customs clearances and other legal requirements can fall on the shoulders of the Owner, or as negotiated from the outset. All these matters need to be clarified from the outset of any contract.
Time is of the essence. The time value of money is always at the forefront of the contract manager’s mind. The work is usually expected to be carried out to a time frame set by the owner. Therefore, the implementation of an agreement should be set in an agreed time frame with easily defined milestones marking progress and marking when appropriate payments become due.
Of course, contract administrators must make payments only when the work is verified as satisfactorily completed at each of previously agreed stages of the contract. Usually, there are time limitations, with penalties for time overruns. Owners want their goods delivered on time and to meet all contractual specifications on quality and performance. There should be clauses stipulating quality and quantity guarantees and guarantees of remedial repairs, continuing service agreements to be settled before an official handover and signing on completion of a contract. Final payment should be withheld until the guarantee period has expired. Preparing for these events needs computers, foresight and experience.
Small contracts are usually managed by the owner, but large, multimillion dollar contracts may be administered by an independent organisation. A contract is enforceable by law, with stated financial penalties for failures to abide by the terms of the contract, but all is subject to “Force Majeure.” This is when progress of the work is seriously impeded or impossible due to events totally outside the control of the Subcontractor.
Contract implementation is a large area, well catered for by laws in the English language. This letter can only raise questions about the quality of contract administration in Sri Lanka. Unfortunately, so few legislators have sufficient knowledge of English, resulting in loopholes allowing manipulation which may result in Sri Lankan public having to pay through the nose, pay dearly for incompetent practice.
I can suggest these improvements, but my actual experience is that all my letters, in English, to officialdom go unanswered and ignored.
Roger. O. Smith
Opinion
Sri Lanka Cricket needs a bitter pill
A systemic diagnosis of a fading legacy
The outcome of the 2026 T20 World Cup, coupled with the trajectory of the sport in recent years, provides harrowing evidence that Sri Lankan cricket is suffering from a terminal malignancy.The Doomsday clock for Sri Lankan cricket has not just started ticking—it has reached its final hour.
Therefore this note is written to call the attention of the cricketing elite who love the sport.
The current state of affairs suggests a pathology so deep-seated that conventional remedies—be it revolving-door coaching changes or fleeting, opportunistic victories—can no longer arrest its spread.
What we are witnessing is not a mere slump in form or a temporary lapse in rhythm; it is a profound systemic collapse that threatens the very foundation of our national pastime.
The Illusion of Recovery: The “Sanath Factor” as Palliative Care:
Since late 2024, the appointment of Sanath Jayasuriya as Head Coach injected a much-needed surge of adrenaline into the national side.
Statistically, the highlights were historic: a first ODI series win against India in 27 years, a Test victory at The Oval after a decade, and a clinical 2-0 whitewash of New Zealand.
However, a data-driven autopsy reveals that these will be “palliative” successes rather than a cure.
Under Jayasuriya’s tenure, the team maintained a win rate of approximately 50 percent (29 wins in 60 matches).
While analysts optimistically labeled this a “transitional phase,” the recent T20 series against England and Pakistan exposed the raw truth: in high-pressure “crunch” moments, the team’s performance metrics—specifically Strike Rate (SR) and Fielding Efficiency—regress to amateur levels.
We are not transitioning; we are stagnating in a professional abyss.
The Scientific Gap:
Why India and Australia Lead
The disparity between Sri Lanka and global giants such as the BCCI and Cricket Australia (CA) is now rooted in High-Performance Science and Algorithmic Management.
Predictive Analytics & Biometrics
In Australia, fast bowlers utilise wearable sensors to monitor workload and biomechanical stress.
AI models analyse this data to predict stress fractures before they occur.
Sri Lanka, conversely, continues to cycle through injured pacemen with no predictive oversight.
Virtual Reality (VR) Training
While Australian batters use VR to simulate the trajectories of elite global bowlers, Sri Lankan players remain tethered to traditional net sessions on deteriorating domestic tracks.
Data-Driven Talent Identification:
India’s “transmission system” utilises automated data analysis across thousands of domestic matches to identify players who thrive under specific pressure indices.
In Sri Lanka, 85 percent of national talent still originates from just four districts—a statistical failure in talent scouting and geographic expansion.
Infrastructure vs. Intellect:
A Misallocation of Capital
Sri Lanka Cricket (SLC) boasts massive reserves, yet its investment strategy is fundamentally flawed.
Capital is funneled into “bricks and mortar”—grand stadiums and administrative buildings—rather than the human capital of the sport.
We build colosseums but fail to train the gladiators.
The domestic structure remains a “spin trap.”
By producing “rank turners” to suit club politics, we have effectively de-skilled our batters against elite pace and rendered our spinners ineffective on the flat, true wickets required for international success.
The Leadership Deficit:
A Failure of Succession Planning
The crisis of leadership post-Sangakkara and Mahela is a byproduct of poor “Succession Science.”
Australia maintains a “Culture of Continuity,” backing leadership even through lean periods to ensure stability.
India employs a rigid “Succession Roadmap,” ensuring the next generation is integrated into the system long before the veterans depart.
In contrast, SLC operates on a “carousel of convenience,” changing captains and coaches to distract from administrative failures.
This lack of imaginative management stems from a low literacy in modern Sports Governance.
From a philosophical perspective, our established cricketing traditions have failed to absorb the antithesis of the modern, hyper-professionalized global game.
As a result, a truly modern Sri Lankan brand of cricket has failed to materialise.
Instead, we are trapped in what is called a “Static Synthesis,” where the administration clings to the glories of 1996 and 2014 as a shield against the necessity of change.
This is not a transition; it is a refusal to evolve
We are witnessing the alienation of the sport from its people, where the “Master” (the administration) has become detached from the “Slave” (the grassroots talent and the fans).
The Verdict:
A National Emergency
The “cancer” in Sri Lankan cricket is a trifecta of political interference, irrational management, and a refusal to embrace the Fourth Industrial Revolution (AI, VR, and Big Data).
As someone who contributed to the formation of the Sri Lankan Professional Cricketers’ Association, I see the current trajectory as a betrayal of the players’ potential and the nation’s heritage.
Sri Lanka Cricket does not need another “review committee” or a new coach to act as a human shield for the board.
It needs a “Bitter Pill”—an aggressive, independent restructuring that prioritises scientific professionalisation over cronyism.
Without this, our cricket will remain at the bottom of the well, looking up at a world that has moved light-years ahead.
Shiral Lakthilaka
LLB, LLM/MA
Attorney-at-Law
Former Advisor to H.E. the President of Sri Lanka
Former Member of the Western Provincial Council
Executive Committee member of the Asian Social Democratic Political Parities
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