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Does your style change as you age or do you stay the same? This is a great question as it’s multi-faceted and there are a number of changes you may experience as you move through your life that will have an impact on your style choices.  What you wear at 20 is not what you’re likely to be wearing at 70 – not just because fashions change.  But because you are not physically the person you were all those decades ago.

by Zanita Careem

There’s a misconception that aging and fashion don’t go well together. There is no denying that our looks change as we grow older.

As a legendary Hollywood costume designer once said “You can wear anything you want as fashion is not the frivolity it’s often made out to be. So forget age-appropriate dressing.

Throw out the rule there isn’t anything a woman can’t or shouldn’t wear after a certain age.

As our wardrobe grows and we learn what suits us, it’s vital not being struck in a fashion time warp that is ageing but so is wearing head to live designer clothing so called luxury brands are not.

Shirlene Chiba, a beauty queen of yesteryear and still an icon in fashion said “with an over saturated fashion market aimed more towards those in the younger age groups, confidence can be a great barrier when deciding what to wear. As I grew older, I asked my self why shouldn’t I wear this at my age?”

“As mature women we should be able to dress fashionably without worrying about our age”.

“I have travelled to many parts of the world and my beauty business has been the pinnacle of my success. I dress to reflect my true self rather than what someone else thinks I should look like. It’s me whom I will be seeing in the mirror and I want to feel happy with what I see”.

Shirlene says fashion is about confidence and expression. Fashion changes with time and our body a;so change. I was slim and nowwith age i have gained weight. I dress fashionably but with elegance.

Do you follow any trends

Shirlene said “I love peeking at the new trends in magazines and fashion shows and it is so exciting to see the creativity that has gone into the pieces. ‘I don’t follow fashion blindly, I try to inject some new ideas from the latest trends but I always want to be simple, and elegant. I already know what suits me.

In the past years, catwalk have seen greater diversity and models have been making names for themselves as fashion stars of the 60’s and 70’s.

For example the Versace catwalk in Milan is still starring the original supermodels like Naomi Campbell, Chrristy Turlington, Cindy Cawford and Clandra Schiffer, who in their 40’s and 50’s turned out to be super models and stole the shows.

Shirlene, still an icon of beauty said “all you need to look glamorous is that special something, that secret ingredient, which is style”.

We don’t need to go high end but sometimes there’s more fun in finding a vintage or second hand item to add a little oomph to you wardrobe and update your looks.

However, there is no denying that we do look different as we grow older. As a result some people fall out of love with fashion simply because they don’t know how to select the best dresses to highlight their changing features. Thankfully, now people of all ages are keen to have a beautiful wardrobe and want to dress elegantly!

Our teens and 20s are all about experimenting and trying on a whole range of different styles and trends. The best advise to be simple and elegant without following fashions blindly.giously, . You want your clothes to take the fabulous person within and be confident.

She says one doesn’t need to have the genes of a supermodel. All you need is that special something, that secret ingredient, that elegant style. Here’s how to get it. Find out what suits you – but never stop experimenting. What flatters you most? what makes you feel confident or the best version of yourself? That’s what you’re aiming for. And this will change. Roll with it.

Consider where your eye is drawn and why. what makes your heart skip a beat? Think about your fashion background – the era you grew up in, the things that influenced you. Was it a favourite overseas trip on which you were charmed by a place’s style signature?

The former beauty queen also said sometimes it’s a misconception that aging and fashion don’t go well together: that as we get older, somehow all our interest in looking and feeling our best disappears. Well, it doesn’t. while our tastes may change over time – at least, they do for many of us -, the fun and creativity of fashion and the importance of self-care never goes out of style.

However, there’s no denying that we do look different as we get older. As a result, many people fall out of love with fashion simply because they don’t know how to best dress to suit their changing features. Not only that but for years, older people were neglected by the fashion industry. We have to have a beautiful wardrobe at our disposal, but one that is truly tailored to their tastes.

After all, clothes should be about feeling good. ultimately, whatever you feel best in is the best look for you, no matter what your age said Shirlene.

Here are some tips you may find useful when it comes to dressing for any season.

Buy clothes that work together

One of the main mistakes anyone can make when buying clothes is purchasing them as individual pieces rather than considering whether they go together. This means we often have an overwhelming amount of nice separate pieces but a complete lack of cohesive outfits.

When you’re shopping, it’s vital to asses not just how much you like an item of clothing but also how well it will go with your other pieces. Alternatively, you can shop with your existing wardrobe in mind and find pieces that match with it. Another method is to pick quite neutral clothes which you can then spruce up with accessories such as jewellery or jackets. This really allows you to be creative and keeps things simple.

Don’t overbuy

Most of us have probably been guilty of this at one time or another. Over the years, you end up accumulating a small mountain of clothes: none of which goes together, and none of it being particularly exciting. This is even more likely as we get older that mountain gets bigger and bigger and bigger.

Imagine what it would be if you look at all the time and money you have spent on clothes you didn’t really want and instead only bought pieces that you feel really great in. This doesn’t necessarily mean you need to spend more on clothes Don’t be afraid to give unwanted clothes away.

Remember that overflowing closet is difficult to manage. Decluttering is a great way of getting everything organized, which can make choosing what to wear so much easier.

Comfort is often ignored in the fashion world, but the fact remains that it is a very important factor.

Getting older doesn’t mean you have to miss out on enjoyable and meaningful activities. So be creative, wear whatever makes you happy, and yes, have fun with it said Shirlene.



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Celebration of unity and tradition at Iftar dinner

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In a grand celebration of unity and tradition, Cinnamon Lakeside Colombo hosted an exclusive and elegant Iftar dinner at the prestigious King’s Court. This remarkable evening, hosted by Nazoomi Azhar, General Manager of Cinnamon Lakeside Colombo, brought together a distinguished gathering of ambassadors, key figures, top corporate executives, and esteemed members of the media.

The event showcased a spectacular array of culinary delights, with a highlight being the masterpieces crafted by renowned Pakistani Chef Riaz Bhatti. His exquisite creations, alongside an extensive selection of traditional and contemporary delicacies of Pakistani dishes, left guests in awe of the lavish spread and exceptional flavors.

Among the standout dishes of the evening were the rich and aromatic Mutton Raghni Josh, the flavorful Mutton Shahi Qorma, and the perfectly spiced Peshawari Beef Chapli Kabab. Guests also delighted in the Lahori Chicken Tikka Boti and the indulgent Chicken Peshawari Karahi, which added a taste of authenticity to the menu. The Iftar spread was further complemented by traditional desserts such as Gulab Jamun, Shahi Tukda, and Ras Malai, providing a sweet ending to the feast.

The atmosphere was one of warmth and hospitality, reflecting the spirit of Ramadan while offering a truly memorable experience. Guests were highly impressed with the impeccable service and the thoughtfully curated menu, making this Iftar dinner a standout occasion in Colombo’s social calendar.

Cinnamon Lakeside Colombo, under the leadership of Nazoomi Azhar, continues to set the benchmark for luxury hospitality, delivering unforgettable experiences through its commitment to excellence.

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Women -building blocks in shaping history of Turkiye

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The Deputy Chief of Mission, First Secretary and Commercial Counsellor namely M/s Merve Gozde , Imren Kaygisiz and Gamze Erean

In the Republic of Turkiye women have been one of the building blocks in shaping Turkiye for centuries. However, especially since the founding of the Republic, Turkiye has been one of the leading countries in the world, especially in terms of the political visibility of women. Women were given the right to vote long before women were given political rights in many democratic and modern countries.

Turkish women are known for their unwavering determination and resilience. They exhibit remarkable dedication and courage in pursuing their goals and challenge injustice. Their hard work and perseverence contribute to their advancement of society. These statements were expressed by the Deputy Chief of Mission of Turkiye M/S Merve Goozde Otlu at the residence of the Turkish Ambassador in Sri Lanka, on the occasion of the International Women’s Day.

This day is also important for Turkish women, who have played a vital role in shaping Turkish society, from the early days of our Republic to the present said the Deputy Chief of Mission. In her speech she also pointed out that the founder of the Republic, Mustafia Kemal Ataturk, has an important place in the hearts of all Turkish people, but his visionary leadership for women’s rights are especially precious for all women of Turkiye.

Some of the guests

She explained “Ataturk strongly believed in women’s equality and emphasized that a modern and progressive society could only be achieved if women had equal opportunities as men’’

“Women were encouraged to participate in all areas of life, including education, work life and politics. One of the most remarkable steps Ataturk took was granting women the right to vote and as early as 1930, women were able to run for office at the local elections and in 1934 women were granted this right long before many other countries (One year after that, there were already 18 women MPs). When we look at Turkish history, we see countless inspiring women who have shaped our country, playing crucial roles achieving many milestones. These women have proved that Turkish women could achieve greatness in any field from science to business, from arts to sports, if given the opportunity, she remarked.

Turkish women have also made a significant contribution to diplomacy, a field often seen as male-dominated, she remarked.

Kanchana Rajapakse from embassy

For decades, Turkish women have been representing our country with strength and determination on the global stage. The first woman diplomat Mrs. Adile Ayda was recruited in 1932, while Ambassador Filiz Dinemen is the first woman Ambassador of Turkiye, assigned to the Hague in 1982.

Women representation has been increasing in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, constituting almost 40% of the Ministry.

It is a personal honour for me to serve in a country like Sri Lanka, which gave the world the first female Prime Minister in history, Sirimavo Bandaranaike, she said with pride.

Her leadership showed that women can take on the highest responsibility and be a driving force not just for women but for the whole society.

The contribution of women in Turkiye in the field of Science and Technology is far reaching. She said in Turkiye, a prominent scientist who worked for NASA, whose research was instrumental in the legendary 1962 Apollo mission. She is Dihlhan Eryunt, was the recipient of the NASA Appolo Achievement Awards she said with pride.

The First Secretary, Imren Kaygisiz said Turkish women who have contributed to the development of the country and thier enduring impact on society who are still continuing to inspire strength,resilience and success of women

The Commercial Counsellor M/s Gamze Erc an also paid tribute to the founder of Modern Republic of Turkiye, Mustafa Kemal Ataturk who gave importance to education of Turkish women and leader believed that development of a nation depends on a strong education foundation.

The evening had all the trappings of glamour followed by high tea.

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Sri Lanka showing strong commitment to gender equality

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Spectacular dance recital dazzled the audience

The Embassy of the Republic of Indonesia in sri Lanka hosted the International Women’s Day ceremony at thier residence.

Ambassador of Indonesia Dwi Gustina Tobing invited a large gathering of invitees including the Minister of Women and Child Affairs Saroja Savithri Paulraj who was the Chief Guest. CBL Group Managing Director Sheamalee Wickramasighe, popular musician Umaria Sinhawansa and Stephanie Siriwardena also addressed the gathering. The ambassador looking elegant was busy welcoming the guests at her residence.

An evening of camaraderie, glitz and glamour. The event featured an insightful session aimed to empower women, and served as a tribute to the commitment of women who has contributed immensely. The ambassador in her speech said by celebrating the achievements of women and amplifying their voices, we pave the way for a more inclusive and equitable society, where gender does not hinder opportunity but enriches collective experiences. Here is an excerpt from the ambassador’s speech.

A warm welcome to all of you. It is an honour to host this reception in commemoration of International Women’s Day 2025.

She said ” This year’s theme, “Accelerate Action”, is a powerful call to all of us. It underscores that equality cannot wait, and that all sectors of society must work together to speed up progress in women’s rights and empowerment.”

Around the world, we have seen tremendous strides toward gender equality in politics, economics, and social spheres. Women are increasingly taking up leadership roles, contributing to economic growth, and shaping the future of our societies.

In Indonesia, we are proud of the progress we have made in advancing women’s participation. She said

She reiterated that 127 women were elected to parliament, making up 22.1% of the seats—the highest in our post-reform history. However, this is still below our target of 30%, which means there is room for improvement.

Our new cabinet includes 14 women, both as ministers and deputy ministers, demonstrating our commitment to gender-inclusive governance.

Ambassador welcoming Chief Guest Minister of Women and Child Affairs

Beyond politics, women are the backbone of Indonesia’s economy. Micro, Small, and Medium Enterprises (MSMEs) contribute over 60% to the national GDP, and 64.5% of these businesses are managed by women.

Additionally, Indonesia ranks among the top four countries globally for female business leaders

She pointed out Sri Lanka, too, has made significant strides in women’s empowerment. When I met with Minister Saroja Savithri Paulraj last week, we discussed the progress Sri Lanka has made in increasing women’s representation in politics and the economy. From women entrepreneurs driving economic growth to initiatives supporting women in leadership, Sri Lanka is showing a strong commitment to gender equality.

Many countries have made progress in advancing women’s empowerment, yet, despite this progress, we must recognize that challenges remain. Women still face barriers to equal pay, leadership opportunities, financial inclusion, and social mobility. Gender-based violence, discrimination, and unequal access to resources continue to hinder the advancement of women in many parts of the world.

This is why collaboration is crucial. By sharing experiences, policies, and best practices, we can accelerate meaningful action to bridge the gender gap.

We must continue working together, fostering partnerships that empower women economically and socially. Indonesia is committed to strengthening collaboration with Sri Lanka and other nations to create more opportunities for women, recognizing their immense importance. Invitees were able to enjoy authentic Indonesian delicacies specially curated by the Ambassador herself.

By Zanita Careem

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