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Lankan woman secures asylum in New Zealand citing ex-girlfriend’s death threats

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A bisexual woman has been granted New Zealand asylum because she is afraid of her soldier ex-girlfriend in Sri Lanka who has threatened to shoot her mum and dog, says a report published by the NZ Herald yesterday.

The woman also fears being sent home and forced into a second arranged marriage because of her sexuality, she told a recent Immigration and Protection Tribunal hearing.

She told the hearing she began a clandestine teenage romance with her ex-girlfriend until her mum discovered them kissing in 2017.

Her “disgusted” parents then forced her into an arranged marriage with a man.

However, her girlfriend refused to accept their relationship had ended.

And – after growing up and joining the Sri Lankan army – the ex-girlfriend in 2021 forced her way into the woman’s parents’ house at gunpoint, accompanied by three army officers.

When told the woman was not home, the ex-girlfriend, only identified as A.A., became angry.

“A.A. pointed a gun at the mother’s chest and threatened to kill her … and also threatened to kill the family dog,” the tribunal was told.

The woman had earlier migrated to New Zealand, partly to escape her ex-girlfriend and partly to study, before seeking asylum.

Her first application for asylum was rejected and so she appealed to the Immigration and Protection Tribunal for another hearing.

The tribunal presiding member Larissa Wakim said that in hearing the appeal she had to decide whether the woman’s story was credible and whether the woman faced genuine risk of harm if sent back to Sri Lanka.

Wakim heard how the woman, only identified as J.F., grew up in a rural Sri Lankan town in the 1990s where she met A.A. when they were 11 years old.

The woman said she had been a bookworm, timid and never talked back.

A.A., on the other hand, was “confident, athletic and decisive”. A.A. was “always happy to argue” and could become angry and controlling over who J.F. was friends with.

Their relationship became intimate at 16, with J.F. later going on to study computer programming and A.A. joining the Sri Lankan army.

They continued their relationship but kept it a secret because they worried it was considered culturally unacceptable in their community.

But in 2017, J.F.’s mum saw them kissing.

Her mum also gave evidence to the tribunal and recounted how at that moment “she felt disgusted, sad, betrayed and worried because, in Sri Lanka, it was unacceptable and illegal to have lesbian relationships”.

The parents forced J.F. to stop seeing A.A., made her change her phone number and destroyed most of the photos of the girls together.

The parents next decided to “resolve the problem” by marrying their daughter to a man her father knew through his work, the mum told the tribunal.

But soon after A.A. drove to the family’s home and demanded J.F. be given to her, the mum said.

“A.A. behaved like a man, scolding the parents, and threatening to kill them and [J.F.],” the mum said.

A.A. then began to do slow drive-bys of the family home in her army vehicle.

Everyone became afraid of her, with J.F.’s parents moving to a rented house in a new town in 2018 to try to get away, but A.A. quickly tracked them down.

In 2021, the family celebrated the birthday of J.F’s brother at the rented home.

But A.A. showed up in her army vehicle with three army friends, thinking J.F. would be there.

Demanding to be let in, A.A. said she would shoot the home’s gate down if it wasn’t opened.

Once inside, she searched everywhere but couldn’t find J.F. Becoming enraged she threatened to shoot J.F. and her mum.

J.F.’s mum told the tribunal the moment was terrifying and that she still takes fright at the memory of it.

J.F. wasn’t there at the time because she had migrated to New Zealand in 2018 at the suggestion of the family of her husband, identified as B.B.

She said she had endured abuse and non-consensual sex as part of the marriage and agreed to go ahead to New Zealand on a student visa.

However, B.B. was not able to secure a visa to New Zealand to follow her.

By 2021, B.B. sought a divorce. He had also been hiding from A.A. and said that living apart and being unable to go to New Zealand had become too much.

In New Zealand, J.F. had troubles with her studies and dropped out. However, she now worked six days a week in a retail job.

She told the tribunal she sent one-quarter of her week’s earnings to help support her family because her dad had not had substantive work since 2017.

A medical expert also presented evidence that J.F. had bad anxiety and a major depressive disorder because of her circumstances.

J.F.’s mum also expressed fears for her daughter in Sri Lanka saying she would be vulnerable without a husband and may find it hard to get a job.

Ultimately, Wakim decided J.F.’s account had been credible, due to her giving consistent and straightforward evidence ever since first making her refugee claim.

Her story was also corroborated by other people and a medical expert, Wakim said.

Wakim believed A.A. posed a threat to J.F. and that the Sri Lankan police had already been shown as unwilling to protect J.F.’s family.

She also believed J.F. was at real risk of being forced into another arranged marriage with a man due to her personality of being unable to resist her parents’ demands.

And once in such a relationship she would be more vulnerable to abuse such as non-consensual sex, Wakim said.

She said J.F. had a right not to be forced to conceal her bisexuality or be forced into refraining from having intimate relationships to avoid persecution.The tribunal consequently found J.F. is a refugee and entitled to protection in New Zealand.



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Construction and Concrete waste recycling centre opened in Ekala under the Clean Sri Lanka programme

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A recycling centre for the management of construction and demolition (C&D) waste, established in line with the Clean Sri Lanka national programme, was declared open this morning (08) at the Ekala Industrial Zone.

The Clean Sri Lanka Secretariat has allocated Rs. 200 million for this project. Established within the precast yard premises belonging to the State Engineering Corporation under the Ministry of Housing, Construction and Water Supply, the project marks a significant step towards a sustainable environmental transformation in Sri Lanka’s construction sector.

Globally, the construction industry accounts for 40% of total waste generation and 25% of carbon emissions. In Sri Lanka, nearly 300 tonnes of such waste are collected daily from the Western Province alone.

Until now, the indiscriminate disposal of such debris has contributed to soil pollution, water contamination and increased flood risks. Under this project, however, such waste will be transformed into valuable raw materials through modern technology. This initiative is expected to minimise the depletion of natural resources while significantly reducing construction costs.

The centre, which is being operated with the full involvement of the State Engineering Corporation, has been provided with machinery and land valued at Rs. 350 million. In addition to the recycling plant, which has a capacity of 200 metric tonnes per hour, a modern laboratory and an administrative building have also been constructed. Under the “Clean Sri Lanka” programme, Rs. 200 million has been allocated for the project, of which Rs. 150 million has already been released.

There are also plans to expand research activities in the future by engaging engineering faculties of State universities in the programme. The support and contribution of all construction contractors and stakeholders are expected in building a circular economy within the construction sector while safeguarding natural resources for future generations.

Minister of Housing, Construction and Water Supply Dr Susil Ranasinghe, Deputy Minister of Environment Anton Jayakody, Deputy Minister of Housing, Construction and Water Supply T.B. Sarath, Deputy Minister of Labour Mahinda Jayasinghe, Member of Parliament Najith Indika, Additional Secretary to the President at the Clean Sri Lanka Secretariat S.P.C. Sugeeshwara, Additional Director General of the Clean Sri Lanka Secretariat Kapila Senarath, Director (Environmental) of the Clean Sri Lanka Secretariat Anjula Premarathna, Chairman of the State Engineering Corporation Engineer Neranjan Fernando and Deputy General Manager of the State Engineering Corporation Charuka Hettiarachchi, along with several others, were present at the occasion.

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President of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam pays floral tribute to the Ho Chi Minh Statue

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President of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam and General Secretary of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of Vietnam, To Lam, who is on a State visit to Sri Lanka at the invitation of President Anura Kumara Dissanayake, paid floral tribute this morning (08) to the statue of Ho Chi Minh situated within the premises of the Colombo Public Library.

Upon arriving at the Colombo Public Library, President To Lam was warmly received by President Anura Kumara Dissanayake, while a group of children holding the national flags of both countries stood along the route to welcome the Vietnamese President.

Following the floral tribute to the Ho Chi Minh statue, President To Lam also viewed a collection of paintings created by schoolchildren.

Thereafter, the Vietnamese President attended the ceremony marking the commencement of the expansion of the “Vietnam–Ho Chi Minh Space” located at the Colombo Public Library, where he also viewed a collection of historical photographs on display.

On the occasion, Chief Librarian of the Public Library, Mrs Varuni Gangabadarachchi, briefed those present on the architectural plans prepared for the renovation and expansion project of the Ho Chi Minh Space. A donation of US$50,000 for the project was also presented to the Mayor of Colombo, Mrs Vraie Cally Balthazaar, by  Nguyen Huu Nghia, Member of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of Vietnam and Auditor General of the State Audit Office of Vietnam.

Minister of Environment, Dr Dhammika Patabendi, Mayor of Colombo Mrs Vraie Cally Balthazaar, Deputy Mayor Hemantha Werakoon and several others were also present at the occasion.

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Urgent reforms needed to eradicate drug menace, says President

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President Anura Kumara Dissanayake has instructed officials to swiftly introduce all necessary reforms, including amendments to existing laws, in order to eliminate the drug menace from the country.

The President issued these instructions while attending the meeting of the “Ratama Ekata” National Steering Council convened on Thursday (07) morning at the Presidential Secretariat to discuss efforts aimed at eradicating the drug menace.

He also directed the relevant authorities to take all necessary steps to expedite the process of destroying seized narcotics as quickly as possible under proper legal procedures, thereby preventing them from re-entering society and to accelerate the process of punishing offenders.

The President emphasised the need to speed up this process in order to build public confidence, as well as the confidence of the teams engaged in operations, noting that the successful implementation of the “Ratama Ekata” national initiative would thereby be strengthened through collective participation.

The progress of anti-narcotics operations carried out under the “Ratama Ekata” national initiative, including raids and arrests, was extensively reviewed at the meeting. Officials pointed out that raids related to narcotics had increased by 80% since the launch of the programme.

Since the launch of the “Ratama Ekata” national operation on 30 October 2025, authorities have seized 5,437.457 kilogrammes of cannabis, 1,936.325 kilogrammes of heroin, 1,991.414 kilogrammes of crystal methamphetamine (“ice”), 271.724 kilogrammes of cocaine, 1,574,895 narcotic pills, and 629,988 illicit cigarettes. A total of 168,460 suspects have also been arrested in connection with these offences.

The current progress of the legal amendments required to eradicate the narcotics menace from the country was reviewed at the meeting, and it was noted that steps had been taken to submit the Rehabilitation (Amendment) Bill No. 54 of 2007 to the Cabinet in due course. Discussions were also held regarding the rehabilitation process, the strategies that could be adopted in that regard, and the measures taken to develop related facilities.

It was further revealed that, at Divisional Secretariat level, 25 families most severely affected by narcotics in each division had been selected for attitude development programmes. The President stressed the importance of implementing all such programmes through local religious centres.

The President also made clear that anti-drug awareness programmes should not merely be limited to conducting awareness campaigns, but should include continuous follow-up to assess whether the message had been properly communicated to society and to monitor progress. He highlighted the importance of maintaining this mechanism continuously with the involvement of religious leaders, including members of the Maha Sangha in the respective areas.

The President also inquired into measures being taken to establish a separate court for narcotics-related cases, expedite the receipt of Government Analyst reports, and accelerate the filing of cases.

He also stressed the urgent need for a rapid programme to expedite legal proceedings and rehabilitation processes concerning inmates imprisoned for narcotics-related offences, in order to ease prison overcrowding.

The Inspector General of Police also briefed the meeting on investigations and the current status relating to Buddhist monks who were recently arrested in connection with narcotics offences.

The President was further briefed on the progress of programmes jointly implemented by the Ministry of Education and the Women and Children’s Bureau to curb organised efforts to draw schoolchildren into narcotics use. He was also informed about community-based programmes planned in conjunction with the International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking, which falls on 26 June.

Among those present at the meeting were the Anunayaka Theros of the Malwathu and Asgiri Chapters, senior clergy representing several Buddhist Nikayas, Christian priests, Hindu Kurukkals, Muslim religious leaders, senior government officials including Secretary to the President Dr Nandika Sanath Kumanayake, ministry secretaries, senior tri-forces commanders, Inspector General of Police Priyantha Weerasooriya, heads of relevant institutions, senior security officials, and representatives of the “Ratama Ekata” National Steering Council.

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