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Forty years on when we think of times olden …

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by Nanda Pethiyagoda

Barring Committee Members who organized the event, it was much more than 40 years of remembering for many of the invitees and for a few, closer to double that number.

The event? Afternoon tea at the Galadari for Old Girls of Girls’ High School, Kandy, aged 75 and above, organized by the present committee of the KHS OGA (Colombo Branch) on Saturday November 12. Longevity sure is a given in Sri Lanka, judging by the smartly turned out women who gathered to enjoy a heavily subsidized tea. Subsidizing was the first generous consideration of the present Committee, apart of course from thinking up this gesture of graciousness to older members. Many more generosities followed; like arranging transport for those living in the suburbs of Colombo.

I remember at least four years ago Sylvia Wijekoon, now Prez of the Association, telling me she was very keen on having an afternoon gathering for the older Old Girls who miss out on evening fund raisers, dinner-dances and even annual picnics. My callous reply was: It’s their look-out. Why should you and the younger ones feel it’s your responsibility to give us an earlier, smaller and less ’loud’ party? But now here was Sylvia, with Covid restriction lifted, rounding up her most efficient and obliging Committee to organize an event for the over 75s.

Recollected was how thrilled with success we were when in the Committee a decade or two ago we collected two or three lakhs with our fund raisers. The Committees got more and more efficient and thus their collections were and are in the millions. The extent of financial assistance, refurbishment and new purchases donated to KHS, other schools in remote areas and hospitals is extremely vast. The mother school was gifted a fully equipped, large computer lab, chemistry lab, domestic science room; and the hostel and school toilets were made new. Innumerable scholarships, trophies and prizes were awarded to gifted students. Assistance has been given in the way of specialized equipment, furniture and linen to base hospitals and larger ones including the General Hospitals of Kandy, Kurunegala, Maharagama Cancer and Lady Ridgeway Children’s Hospital.

Evocative School Song

My title is the first line of the Kandy High school song. It continues thus, registering how we felt on Saturday: Mem’ry will picture our girlhood’s bright years

Forty years on in the dim distance golden,

Laughter still ringing, forgotten the tears.

Comments such as: My word, don’t tell me you are ninety! You look no older than 70.

You look just like you were in school, though not in the KHS white uniform with tie and badge.

Glam aney! You look super, just like when you were newly married. And to the young committee members: Don’t tell me you have grandchildren. When you said you wanted to ring your daughter-in-law I thought it was ma-in-law you meant. I just

cannot imagine you having a married son.

And so ‘the do-you-remembers’ went along with reminiscences of good and not so good teachers, pranks played and punishments received. The then H

hostelers could not stop retailing stories of Mama Kaule – much respected and with hindsight much appreciated – Hostel Matron.

Particularly poignant to me are the lines of the second verse of the school song

Meeting with zest our opponents at netball/Those were great matches we played on the pitch.

Greeting the goals scored with cheers that rang loudly/ Watching the passing with joy or with fears

Carmen de Zylva, my co-shoot in the First Netball Team way back when, is in Australia and another player in Kandy, temporarily back from living in London. Other team mates – dead or disappeared. I was a fourth former in the team: youngest, shortest and flat-of-chest and not moving much out of the goal area. We played a match in Badulla with our sister school over there, where Miss Allen, our beloved principal, was transferred when she returned from furlough in Ireland.

She got us down for a weekend. That day I was in full form and scored well and had honey poured in my ears with shouts of Well done Baby! Fine shooting, Baby! Disaster however followed soon after with losses in Kandy to Hillwood, Mahamaya and Kundasale Agriculture School, where we were routed. Principal Miss Grace Paul blamed the shooters roundly at Assembly. Carmen and I penned our resignations from the team only to be pooh poohed and sense dinned in by Games Teacher –Miss Paranagama.

Yes, remembered were:

Dancing and games and debates in the school hall/ These be the mem’ries that we’ll recall proudly,/ As we look back through the dim distant years. Debates were doubly exciting if Trinity or Kingswood constituted the opposing /proposing team.

Remembered Mrs, Jonklaas’ ballet on the front grounds with us seniors draped in off one shoulder, pastel shaded chiffon Grecian dresses and one half of the three circles having to lie down and lift legs high!! There was an unofficial audience along a drive running parallel to the netball grounds, invaded that day by boys!

And on Saturday, notwithstanding age or rheumy legs, many moved to the space in the Galadari hall and tripped the light fantastic. I have always thought how graceful and enchanting a woman in a sari draped Kandyan style looks on the dance floor moving her bum modestly and holding her head high with its long hair in konde or other fashion. So this Saturday we had the oldest Old Girl Evelyn Samarajiva on the dance floor along with sari clad Manel Dissa and Ira Gops having retained their demure mode of moving to music.

Chatting of the past was often stopped by Patron, Ranjini Seneviratne, organizer of games, She had us join in competitions, one being group singing with her talented son managing the music. Choice of songs was left to each table group. Prof Lalitha Mendis – ex Dean/Faculty of Medicine and once acting VC, Colombo University, requested a song about an Australian woman. Music maestro had not heard of it. The Professor was not to be denied. She got a mike and belted solo a limerick-like song about an Aussie woman’s top and bottom. A mildly risqué song well sung, doubly us in peals of laughter.

Generous gestures

Mentioned earlier were two acts of consideration and kindness introduced that day. Others followed. At the reception desk each Oldie’s wrist was encircled with a lovely bracelet of gold hued, decorative beads. Finger food and sweets were scrumptious and served to each with tea or coffee, so no toddling to buffet tables. Each table had a Committee member to help matters move smoothly; you only had to stand to have a young beauty approach you asking whether you wished a washroom visit and she would help you along.

And so the evening came to an end with the much loved School Song sung lustily. Thank you was voiced on behalf of all present to Sylvia, Ranjini and the Committee with heartfelt appreciation for a superb evening of togetherness, fellowship and sheer fun and laughter – sure fire preventives of Alzhiemer’s.

When we look back and forgetfully wonder

What we were like in our work and our play.

Then, it may be there will often come o’er us

Glimpses of notes like the catch of a song;

Visions of girlhood shall float then before us

Echoes of dreamland shall bear them along.



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Africa gaining ground in intra-regional cooperation

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Dignitaries meet and greet at the recent 38th African Union Summit.

At a time when the US is veering towards a policy of international isolation, it augurs well for international growth that Africa is emanating signs of stepping up intra-continental cooperation. Above all, Africa is in the process of proving that she could ‘stand-alone’ and be relatively autonomous in her ground-breaking growth drive.

Of course such epochal developments should not be construed as meaning that Africa would sooner rather than later be rid of the socio-political and economic bottlenecks that have been dogging her at heel for decades. What they mean is that she is managing these problems in a consistently constructive fashion currently.

We in South Asia in particular need to take note of these developments. This is mainly in view of the fact that SAARC is non-functional. It is not ‘dead’, as a former President of Sri Lanka tried to have us believe, but its virtual paralytic state at present should have discerning sections in the region concerned. It is robust regional cooperation in the fields that matter that helps a country in its growth and development and if SAARC is dysfunctional this is a serious setback for Sri Lanka and the region.

Closer integration into BIMSTEC and ASEAN is certainly desirable but if governments are having Sri Lanka’s best interests at heart it is primarily to the SAARC region that they need to look. For instance, how Sri Lanka is hoping to further its growth prospects by not factoring in stepped-up and positive economic interaction with India and Pakistan, for example, is incomprehensible.

There is a strong regional dimension to any country’s economic growth and unless the relevant regional cooperative mechanisms are rendered operational, the desired level of national development could not be achieved in full. Hence the need to render SAARC fully operational once again.

However, unless and until governments of the region realize the urgency of meeting the above challenge, SAARC would remain in a state inertia. The pressing need is visionary political leadership at the regional level. Right now this is seriously lacking.

It would seem inappropriate and misleading at first blush to attempt to draw comparisons between the vast continent of Africa and the South Asian region in view of the latter’s comparative geographical smallness, but this is more so why Africa’s present exercises in intra-continental cooperation need to be positivey assessed. If Africa could be making some headway in intra-regional cooperation, given her ‘Giant’ status and her seeming unmanageability as a collectivity, why can’t South Asia, a comparatively physically small region? ‘This is the Question’.

While the above and connected matters of importance for regional growth need to be seriously studied by political leaders and policymakers of South Asia, they would be acting in the regional interest by taking a leaf or two out of Africa’s book of cooperative growth and development.

All watchers of international development should feel compelled to take a hard, discerning look at the 38th African Union (AU) Summit held in Addis Ababa, beginning February 15th this year. Interestingly, the Summit theme was, ‘Justice for Africans and People of African Descent through Reparations.’

Coincidentally, erstwhile Namibian leader Dr. Sam Nujoma passed away on the eve of the Summit. Nujoma was perhaps the last of those prominent leaders from Africa who doggedly championed the cause of the libration of his country and of the continent from the shackles of colonialism. More leaders of his ilk are required by the South in general and Africa in particular.

While the acquiring of ‘reparations’ for colonialism’s ravages could prove a very long-gestation project, it is vitally important for Africa and other regions that came under colonial control to keep the issue constantly in focus.

Meanwhile, Africa’s gains in economic cooperation under the AU need to be studied appreciatively by the South and other regions in their interests. Some of the achievements of the AU under the aegis of the African Development Bank (ADB), as outlined by outgoing president of the Bank, Dr. Akinwumi A. Adesina at the Summit were: ‘515 million African lives were transformed over the past decade, including 231 million women, 127 million people gained access to better services in terms of health, 61 million people gained access to clean water, 33 million people benefited from improved sanitation, 46 million people gained access to ICT services, 25 million people gained access to electricity.’

Reports said that the Summit also, among other things, adopted the ‘African Financing Stability Mechanism’. Under this arrangement, $20 billion in debt refinancing will be provided for African nations. This will happen alongside the adoption of the ‘Strategic Framework on Key Actions to Achieve Inclusive Growth and Sustainable Development in Africa Report’.

The Report outlines key actions for Africa to ‘Achieve and sustain an annual growth rate of at least 7% of GDP over the next 5 decades.’

The above are a few aims that the AU intends to achieve going forward for the whole of Africa. But they are sufficient evidence of the current effectiveness of the collective organization. We see here a notable example in South-South cooperation which is a dire need today in the developing world.

South-South cooperation is the way to go particularly in consideration of the US’ current policy of virtually ridding itself of the past policy of helping the South by way of development assistance. Instead of bemoaning the fact that institutions, such as USAID, will be almost no more, the South would do well to take a hard look at Africa’s success stories in helping itself with little or no external assistance.

The discontinuation of US assistance needs to be seen as the proverbial ‘blessing in disguise’ by the South. Here is an opportunity for the Southern hemisphere to finally rid itself of those neo-colonial umbilical binds that have been preventing it from achieving genuine national liberation.

To be sure, the South is not going to meet with spectacular success by adopting the African model in the near term. But if the model is doggedly persisted with by enlightened governments of the South some success is certain to accure to the hitherto ‘Wretched of the Earth’, going forward.

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Mrs. World Tshego Gaelae …doing it differently

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While most of our pageant winners get involved in frivolous activities, during their reign, the 40th Mrs. World pageant winner, Tshego Gaelae, from South Africa, is keen to bring into the spotlight her country’s potential.

Before her departure for the Mrs. World pageant, held in Las Vegas, in the USA, in January, the Lawyer, Entrepreneur, Model and Digital Creator, said:

“I’m so excited to be sent not only as a delegate but a representative of those hopeful hearts that always want to see South Africa’s potential shine and win. I stand on the shoulders of icons, world champions, the Queens that have gone ahead of me, and of the world leaders that continue to ensure our global participation and impact.

“Thank you everyone for the support so far!”

A coke and a smile…with Sprite Cucumber her pick

Referring to the interview for the position of Mrs. World, Gaelae said: “We get to bring our most authentic self to advocate for the causes we want to advance through the most prestigious platform that is the Mrs World Pageant. What an honour to have such experienced judges who care to hear about what I want to achieve.”

The lead up to the prestigious Mrs. World event was doubly exciting for Gaelae as she got the opportunity to display not only her country’s creations but also check out certain nostalgic venues.

“We received the honour of being at the Elvis penthouse suite, at the Westgate Vegas! The space is spectacularly filled with iconic and historic presence, fit for the king that was Elvis Presley.”

The Mrs World participants spent an evening honouring Victoria’s Voice Foundation and Gaelae’s gift to the Foundation was a canvas shirt with President Nelson Mandela’s face printed on it. The shirt can either be worn or displayed in a frame, and Gaelae says she is so glad to have had the opportunity to present a piece of her beloved South Africa.”

The bangles she gifted to all the participants at the Mrs. World pageant

Gaelae went on to say: “I always joke about being Zulu in my past life, but on a serious note, I love the Zulu Culture so much, that I gifted my Mrs. World Pageant Sisters some beautiful bangles.”

They also visited the special Coca-Cola Store in Vegas, and got to taste some interesting flavours. And Gaelae’s pick … “Sprite Cucumber definitely wins for me.”

Mrs. World enthusiastically said that one of the biggest gifts she received out of her Mrs South Africa journey was that of sisterhood, “and it’s so amazing to come to the Mrs. World pageant and find it once again,” she went on to say.

“My roommate was the gorgeous Ishadi Amanda from Sri Lanka! We bonded with no delay, and laughed till we cried! I was literally paired with a sister from another mother.”

Tshego Gaelae also had a special comment to make regarding the article we published about her in The Island of 6th February, 2025.

“Thank you so much for the beautiful article and coverage.”

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Activate all that is good for your skin

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Hi! This week, too, I’m giving you some easy to prepare tips to help you achieve all that is good for your skin.

 * Cucumber and Lemon:

Mix equal parts cucumber and lemon juice and apply the mixture on your face (avoiding eyes). Allow it to sit for 10 minutes and then rinse it off. This natural face beauty tip will brighten your skin tone and lighten blemishes, if used on a regular basis. The best aspect is that it is appropriate for all skin types!

*  Tomatoes:

Scoop up the pulp of one tomato and apply it evenly on your face. Allow it to dry for 15 minutes before washing it off with warm water … to reveal a naturally radiant skin.

*  Green Tea:

After steeping green tea in hot water for about 05 minutes, allow the tea to cool. Transfer the tea to a spray bottle and spray, in short bursts, or place a little amount onto a cotton pad and pat on your face after thoroughly cleaning it.

Chilled Tea Bags:

A chilled black or green tea bag does wonders for your skin. This natural face beauty technique may rapidly reduce puffiness around the eyes, making them appear brighter and more alert. Place the tea bags on your eyelids and relax for 05 to 15 minutes while they perform their magic.

Honey:

Applying a small amount of honey to your face every day is an excellent approach to getting healthy, bright skin. Honey’s absorbing properties draw out pollutants from skin pores and help completely cleanse your skin. Honey’s antibacterial effects heal and prevent acne. Honey’s antimicrobial qualities soothe skin irritation and protect skin from bacterial infections. Honey, has remarkable moisturising effects and is also a terrific relief for dry skin.

* Coffee:

Exfoliating on a regular basis improves the appearance of your skin, making it look younger and healthier. For those who enjoy coffee, a homemade coffee scrub is all the weekly nourishment your skin requires. Coffee’s anti-inflammatory qualities minimize redness, irritation, and acne. All you need to do is mix freshly ground coffee beans, coconut oil, and brown sugar to your desired consistency in a bowl. Massage gently in circular strokes over your face, then rinse with warm water. After using an exfoliant, always moisturise.

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