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Face-masks making fashion statements in weddings

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by Zanita Careem

The novel Coronavirus has ended lives and upended lives, with many cases of Covid-19 being reported around the world each day. Among the considerations people have to face during this pandemic is whether or not to get married, and, if so, how and what to do. For couples who decide to get married- the question is whether they have to cancel their original ceremony plans, and new ones, or are now feeling the time is right, or necessary, for marriage – following the advice of healthcare professionals.

Wearing protective face masks and social distancing have now become commonplace not just in daily life, but during more rare, special occasions like weddings.

The world changed in the span of a few months due to the deadly virus and so have weddings. Couples across the world had to cancel/postpone weddings due to the unexpected pandemic and now with normalcy returning to some extent with strict regulations in place, the weddings are back, not to the extent as before. But the rules of the game have changed and earlier the maximum number of guests, allowed were not be more than 100, but now the number of guests have increased to 300 in Sri Lanka according to some of the Five star hotel officials. So, while the parents of the would-be-brides and grooms, getting busy cutting down or cancelling wedding plans or guest lists, the brides and bridegrooms are picking up their last minutes accessorieslike decorating face masks, a new trend in weddings now.

Are face masks the new wedding accessories? Earlier it was flowers, glitter and glamour. The ‘Sunday Island’ spoke to some of the leading bridal designers, make up artist, they were convinced about the usage of masks for brides to be.

Yes, said Aslam Hussein, a bridal couturiere from Geebees Designer Boutique, known for his unique creations in bridal attire said “I did a pretty bride recently and she wore a beautiful mask to complement her bridal attire.

He said “The face masks are for their own safety,they should not be hesitant to wear the masks. Most of the brides I did during this season, prefer to wear glittering masks with sequins,lace,and other accessories, matching their bridal outfit. Now masks for brides have become a fashion statement said Aslam.

Ramani Fernando, makeup artist and hairstylist, for several years said ” The masks, have become part of their wedding trousseau. The brides are convinced when you tell them to wear the masks, it is for their own safety and potential danger of the virus. With the masks ‘ I always keep the make up of the brides to the minimum and they are happy about it” Weddings, earlier were big and extravagant events, involving a large guests lists and years of planning, but now weddings however are made simple in the era of social distancing and pandemic, she pointed out. She said the glittering masks are beautiful, but this should not be a permanant feature.

Ramzi Rahaman, popular for bridal dressing was happy to dress brides with masks. It is a hindrance to do the make-up but now the brides give in to my request. “I designed a bejewelled mask for a recent bride to match her classic off white silk gown. The bride looked radiant and beautiful. he said. True, shields and masks, are the new wedding accessories, these are the rules and regulations of the Health Ministry. The bridegroom too sported a mask along with his suit. He maintained masks are the new fashion statements. This is the new normal at least for a while, it’s best to best embrace the new change with a smile said Ramzi.

The rules for marriage in 2020 is changing, not only in Sri Lanka but in many countries too. Banning gatherings altogether even with eased restrictions, make dream weddings impossible for some couples.

Some couples to get around the restrictions, the pair decides to bring forward their marriage without a banquet or any large guests. Others, still manage to invite guests, but virtually, without any paraphernalia and the lockdown things have changed these designers.

This is exactly what some of the brides have to say about face masks “We have to follow the health rules and regulations, we respect the authorities and abide by it.”

Talking about weddings in other countries, they have made the face maskscompulsory. In New York, for instance, the governor made it legal for couples to hold online weddings as Covid-19 continued to spread around the world.

For example taking vows in parking lots to holding ceremonies by video conference, couples are finding innovative ways to get married. In UK most weddings have been cancelled or postponed during the height of the pandemic. But still the couples kept the ball rolling with the new trend of wearing the masks and shields. In certain parts of India, the usual throng of wedding guests had been replaced by an audience of mobile phones and tables streaming live wedding ceremonies to distant family and friends. Some wedding and receptions took place via video calls.

The act of getting married was a a big business. In Sri Lanka weddings were grand affairs, each weddings help support a whole variety of photographers, florists and musicians and others. International destination weddings have also stopped at least for a while.

Turkey allowed marriage after several months of banning them, because of the virus, but a protective mask was made obligatory for the brides as well as for the guests.

In Philippines couples married at a mass wedding event in masks but less chic.

For wealthy Sri Lankans’ weddings usually last four days and involve a large gathering. But now, weddings in Lanka are done on a smaller scale.

The ban on weddings in Sri Lanka has been lifted, guests lists have now increased to 300, the law now stated grooms may not kiss the bride – a least not in public quoted Reuters. Greeting each other should be done without any touching said the report.

A wedding of this style will be a new feature – at least for a while,Isn’t it best to embrace this new change, till the pandemic is over, for the benefit of the country at large , asserts these designers and even couples.

Well this is exactly what brides and grooms are following on their D-day, to wear the masks as part of their wedding attire and follow social distance in style.

 



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Meet the author rewriting the rules of children’s fiction

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Representation matters:

By Ifham Nizam

“There are no books written about pirates with prosthetic limbs, sporting blades, or racing wheelchairs—that is, until now,” says award-winning international children’s author Jann Weeratunga, whose Polly’s Piralympics series is challenging conventional ideas about who gets to be the hero in children’s literature.

For Weeratunga, representation is not simply about placing a disabled character somewhere in a story. It is about putting that character at the centre—leading, competing, winning, making friends, overcoming challenges and, most importantly, having adventures on their own terms.

Her books are designed not merely to be read, but to be experienced. Through interactive pages, children can colour, draw, write and respond to the stories, leaving something of themselves behind as they explore themes, ranging from disability and bullying to friendship, resilience and family.

At the heart of her growing literary brand is Polly’s Piralympics, a series in which disability is not presented as a limitation, but as part of a character’s identity and adventure.

The inspiration came from an unexpected moment during the closing speech of the 2012 London Paralympic Games by Sir Philip Craven. He recalled a young boy looking at an illustration of a pirate with an eye patch, a hook, a parrot and a wooden leg.

When his mother asked who the figure was, the boy replied that because the man had only one leg, “he must be an Olympian.”

The story moved Weeratunga deeply.

That moment of innocent perception—where disability was associated with sporting achievement rather than limitation—sparked the idea of Polly and her extraordinary Piralympic world.

In the series, Polly, a bird-napped African parrot, finds herself bullied in a Scottish pet shop before being rescued by Captain Hake. Their shared one-eyed view of the world becomes the beginning of an unusual friendship. Captain Hake teaches Polly the ways of a pirate, while Polly creates the Fellowship of Pirates and the Pirates Paralympics.

Soon, pirates from around the world are competing in events ranging from three-legged races and climb-the-rigging gymnastics to walk-the-plank diving and even a MasterChef competition.

It is an imaginative world, but behind the humour and adventure lies a serious message about inclusion and leadership.

Weeratunga recalls one school visit that brought home to her exactly why the books mattered.

A student with a prosthetic leg embraced her and said: “Thank you for writing these books for me, Auntie.”

The words left her overwhelmed.

“That was why I had written these books,” Weeratunga reflects.

Her journey towards becoming an author, however, began long before Polly sailed into the world of children’s fiction.

Earlier in her life, Weeratunga was a Scout Leader in the UK, where volunteering became a way of life. She subsequently spent a decade in Sri Lanka, falling in love not only with a Sri Lankan, but with the country itself.

After her husband died just four years into their marriage, she joined five other women to establish a small school in Senarathwela to teach English to those who wanted to learn. Many of her pupils, subsequently, found employment at the newly opened Victoria Golf Course.

When she returned to Sri Lanka in 2025 and revisited the village and golf course, she found a landscape transformed by new roads, homes, shops and businesses. But the people she had taught remained.

“The village is unrecognisable, with new roads, homes, shops and businesses, but my dear pupils were still there as Caddies, Caddy Master and Golf Pro. I was so proud of them,” she says.

Her connection with Sri Lanka deepened further during one of the country’s darkest moments.

On Boxing Day 2005, while holidaying in the UK with her recently widowed mother, Weeratunga was woken by the words: “Something terrible has happened in Sri Lanka.”

She rushed to the television and witnessed the devastating aftermath of the Indian Ocean tsunami.

That very day, she established a non-profit organisation to raise funds and take relief to Sri Lanka. With support from local McDonald’s franchises, schools in Ferndown, the Mayor of Ferndown, freight companies and her friend Mr Wijekoon, a local Grama Niladhari, she helped rebuild lives in Arugam Bay.

The experience was hands-on and deeply personal. A family’s home had been swept away, and days were spent persuading surfers to help construct a future for her adopted family.

A Montessori was established on the hill, within the Buddhist temple grounds, while evenings were spent crafting, building and working with a small but effective generator.

Meals of rice and curry, prepared by the family’s sisters, using provisions donated from Senarathwela, brought the long days to a close.

When Weeratunga returned to the family, in 2025, she was able to see how far they had come.

Jann Weeratunga

Today, living in South Africa, she continues to draw inspiration from the landscape around her.

“Travelling—it leaves you speechless and then turns you into a storyteller,” she says, echoing the famous words attributed to Ibn Battuta.

And storytelling has become her way of opening conversations with a new generation.

While Polly’s Piralympics remains the flagship of her children’s publishing brand, Weeratunga’s wider collection explores a range of issues that matter to children and parents.

Terry and the Bully gives children practical and empowering ways to stand up for themselves, transforming a difficult subject into a story through which young readers can explore courage and self-confidence.

In Evie Visiting Grandma, children encounter the sensitive experience of visiting a loved one who now lives in a residential home. Rather than avoiding a potentially difficult subject, the story gently opens the door to conversations about ageing, family and change.

Terry the Toucane explores another universal childhood experience—the challenge and beauty of being different. Its central message is simple: being different should never prevent us from developing deep and lasting friendships.

Then there is Captain Bluebird, a resilient and entertaining adventure exploring what happens when Captain Bluebird receives a brand-new ship.

Across the collection, Weeratunga combines entertainment with meaningful life lessons, while her interactive approach gives children an opportunity to become participants rather than passive readers.

They can colour illustrations, draw pictures and respond to pages, making each reading experience personal.

That approach also gives the books an added value for parents and educators. They can become conversation starters—helping adults discuss subjects that children may find difficult to raise directly.

For Weeratunga, this is part of the larger purpose of her work.

Her books seek to fill a gap in children’s literature where diverse characters are not simply included for the sake of inclusion, but are given agency, personality and leadership.

In Polly’s Piralympics, disabled characters are not watching from the sidelines. They are the stars.

They lead.

They compete.

They win.

They champion their own adventures.

And that, ultimately, is the brand Weeratunga is building: children’s stories in which every child can find a place, a voice and perhaps even a little courage to become the hero of their own story.

Representation matters.

For young readers in Sri Lanka, Weeratunga’s books are now available through Sarasavi Bookshop, Vijitha Yapa Bookshop, M. D. Gunasena and Expo Graphics, Battaramulla.

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An evening where hearts sang as one

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Rajiv and Clan kept the evening alive with their vibrant music

By Zanita Careem

Music, laughter and a generous spirit filled Raflfles Hotel Colombo as Heart to Heart sing along brought together a vibrant gathering for an evening of melody, friendship and giving. The elegant ballroom reverberated with familiar lyrics as guests joined in, sang along and simply let their hair down. Adding to the infections atmosphere was the talented Rajiv and Clan, whose lively performance kept the energy soaring and had the gathering singing to some much loved favourites.

Keeping the evening moving with plenty of wit and warmth was the compere Mirzab Sherifdeen who ensured there was never a dull moment between the music, laughter and spontaneous sing-along moments, Guests were also treated to prizes galore adding an extra element of excitement to an already festive evening. There was cheers as winners stepped forward to collect their prizes, while friends and families aplauded and celebrated every winning moment.

Yet beneath all the sparkle was the meaningful purpose of Heart to Heart Trust Fund, founded by Dr. Rajitha Y de Silva and Dr. Ruwan Ekanayake, bringing people together in support of a cause built on compassion and care.

The dedications and the volunteering was evident throughout the evening with their commitment adding a special warmth to this special event.

Adding to the evening’s indulgence was a sumptous spread of cuisine by the Raffles, Hotel with an enticing selectiom that kept guests happily returning for more. From savoury favourites to tempting desserts, the food complemented the festive mood perfectly.

As the final song faded and the evening drew to a close, there was a quiet sense of gratitude. Behind the music, laughter, prizs and beautiful memories was a cause built as compassion, a cause that has continued to touch lives through the dedication of Dr. Rajitha de Silva and everyone who has stood beside him in the journey of Heart to Heart.

And as guests left Raffles Hotel with the last melodies still lingering in the air the most beautiful note of the evening remained – the sound of hearts earning for hearts. At the very heart of Hearts to Heart is Dr. Rajitha whose compassion has become the soul of the initiative. Dr. Rajitha’s work reminds us that medicine is not only about repairing what is broken. It is about giving people the courage to believe in tomorrow. And perhaps that is the greatest gift he offers. This spirit was beautifully reflected throughout the evening.It was a beautiful evening of music, friendship and generosity, with every contribution going towards a worthy cause- keeping alive a legacy built one one simple but powerful belief that every heart deserves a chance to beat on.

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Taste of Ceylon leaves a lasting flavour

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The scene at Taste of Ceylon

Taste of Ceylon opened its doors at Beira Kitchen, Courtyard by Marriott Colombo, on September 3rd; a festival of Southern, Central, Uva and Northern regional food, brought together on one table.

Four Regions, One Unforgettable Table

Each night, guests moved between four distinct culinary worlds. From the South came the deep, coconut-rich flavours of malu abulthiyal and Negombo pork curry with pineapple, alongside a lively fish polla roti action station. The Central province brought Kandalama lake fish, black octopus curry and carrot kalupol; dishes rooted in the region’s lakes and forests. Uva’s table leaned rustic and warming, with village chicken stew, prawn curry with murunga, and a coconut pittu drawing steady queues. And from the North came bold, unmistakable flavours of Jaffna crab curry, Jaffna mutton curry, and a dosai action station that quickly became one of the evening’s most talked-about corners.

Layered around the four regional stations was a spread that told its own story of Sri Lankan hospitality, from belimal herbal welcome drinks and a bread corner stretching from curry leaves rolls to kurakkan viyana rolls, to a dessert corner where watalappan, wood-apple coconut wandu and king coconut jelly sat alongside a full spread of traditional Sri Lankan sweets like kokis, athirasa and aluwa.

What the guests had to say

The feedback on opening night carried a common thread: guests were struck by just how different each region’s food tasted, side by side, on the same table. What could easily have blurred into “just Sri Lankan food” instead came through as four distinct culinary identities; the fire of the North, the coastal warmth of the South, the earthiness of the Central hills, and the rustic comfort of Uva, each unmistakably its own.

A Word from the team

Reflecting on the festival, the team at Courtyard by Marriott Colombo shared that Taste of Ceylon was designed from the start to be more than a menu. It was meant to be an experience guests could travel through, one region at a time, without leaving Beira Kitchen. Judging by the response over the four nights, that’s exactly how it landed.

There were many rave reviews and as the Taste of Ceylon experience at Beira Lake drew to a close, the flavours, aromas and vibrant spirit of Sri Lanka lingered on.

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