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Cancer victim and Mr. Vyrakkara
At Home – Part III
By Ransiri Menike Silva
When Peeping Tom’s room fell vacant it was snapped up by a terminally ill cancer patient from the South. She was not elderly like we were but it was inconvenient and weakening for her to travel to the cancer hospital in Maharagama on regular clinic days. It was rented out to her on grounds of compassion. As soon as the room fell vacant we all rushed in to examine it in detail. It was spacious and airy and we looked into every nook and cranny, bed and cupboards, tables and chairs to give our collective approval. The repairman, cleaners and painters moved in and when it was in sparkling order, it was decontaminated.
My new neighbour was sociable but quiet. She could not easily attend to tasks like visiting the local GP for minor ailments, going to the eye surgeon and the optician and such, because it tired her. We collectively found her our loyal trishaw man Ranjan, to be at her disposal whenever the need arose. He was kind and caring and readily cancelled already booked hires to accommodate her. One day he approached me privately and requested that I accompany her on these trips for he realised that she could not handle them on her own. She was very grateful when I offered my services as an escort and so I became an essential prop for her.
My presence helped her immensely. I would sometimes leave her in the vehicle with Ranjan standing by, to attend to the preliminaries and request special attention from the various establishments she visited, for their client, whose ‘disability’ I revealed. All unfailingly obliged. Both of us would be accommodated in comfortable seats, in an airy reception room, to be taken in only when our turn was announced. Often we would be taken in early, breaking the queue, after I had explained her condition to them. The optician, in particular, would wheel in a mobile unit for eye testing and choose a frame for her new spectacles.
I was amazed at the kindness displayed by our people, especially Ranjan, who, unrequested by me, would persuade other parked vehicle owners to give us room, help her in and out of the buildings and even hail passing mobile vendors to enable her to make her purchases directly from them. Observing all these, I realised how much more I could still learn from the average citizen. Ranjan always quoted a low fare for his services but I persuaded her to give him something extra, not only for his kindness but as she could afford to do so as well. She came from a well-to-do family, was not miserly and even shared food items, like fruits, with us.
When her family visited her, she told them all about my ‘services’ and they came over to offer me their appreciation and gratitude. During that meeting, I found out that her brothers and my cousins had studied together at one of the leading Buddhist Colleges in Galle. Her condition gradually deteriorated and she had to be warded at the cancer hospital. She passed away soon after, thankfully without pain. The family decided not to hold her funeral in the distant hometown but hold it at the cemetery near the hospital. Ranjan brought us a van in which we all travelled to attend the simple last rites. Our landlord organised a Bana and an alms-giving at the local temple on the seventh day to which we all contributed and attended in Ranjan’s van.
In the different ‘Homes’ I had resided in, there were rooms – single, sharing or small units for married couples. An unforgettable such couple was Mr Vyrakkara and his sick wife, who lived upstairs while I occupied a ground floor room. I had not seen her but he was constantly seen or heard, toting the ill repute he carried with him all along. As a ‘naki manamalaya’, his sexual adventures were common knowledge, related by the young pony-tailed trishaw man he regularly hired.
The couple were sort of ‘founding members’ and so accorded special privileges. Their unit, which had a sitting and dining area separated from the bedroom, was spacious. We all had our attached bathrooms. The wife was supposed to be truly elephantine, as the carers described her, due to some health issue, and had to be spoon-fed mashed food. Unwilling to totter the few steps to the washroom all her ablutionary needs had to be attended to in the room. As the husband found this disgusting he had her screened off by a curtain during these sessions. However, he had to attend to them if necessary at night because no maid was safe from his amorous advances.
But he, the wily fox, knew how to circumvent this. ‘Pony-tail’ revealed that he was very familiar with the ‘Red Light’ district of that area and knew every brothel. If he was in a ‘perky’ mood he would dismiss the vehicle and stay on as long as he desired. At other times he would hire a prostitute of his choice to visit him at ‘home’. She had to walk in during visiting hours, go up to the room, and unnoticed by his wife, hide under his bed. She had had prior warning to dine early. When all the day’s activity in the room was over another ‘show’ took over. Well aware of the institution’s daily schedule, she would get up at dawn and wait until the doors and gates were open to scoot out in semi-darkness. Single women strolling along the road at that unearthly hour was an indication of their profession and so she would proceed unmolested.
The ‘naki manamalaya’ was also a boaster. He claimed that he had retired from the Army. I laughed when I heard this. How come they were not provided with appropriate accommodation by the forces? What were his Regiment and rank? He was not even aware of them. Gentle probing unearthed that he had been a civilian employed by the Army. As he was fluent in English he may have been a clerk or typist. On the other hand, he could have been a member of the working gang of labourers who were brought by the truckload to clean up gardens and attend to repairs both electrical and otherwise. They wore shorts and banians, came with mammoties and ekel brooms and worked until their mid-morning tea which was doled out from a delivery truck. At lunchtime, they stopped work, climbed into the waiting trucks and were taken back to camp. Looking at him from afar I would speculate on the possibility of him having once cleaned out my own cesspit!
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The challenge of keeping value-based politics alive
The current outbreak of anti-immigrant protests in Durban, South Africa is bound to have taken many a subscriber to value-based politics or political idealism quite by surprise. After all, this is evidence that despite the historic accomplishments of nation-builders of the stature of the late President Nelson Mandela it cannot be taken for granted that identity politics, including racism in its worst forms, is no more in South Africa.
At the time of this writing details are scarce on the substantive root causes of the protests but it could very well be that economic grievances, particularly on the part of the majority community in South Africa, are contributing considerably to the disaffection. Shrinking employment and material prospects are likely to figure majorly among the factors igniting the unrest.
Fortunately, the local authorities in Durban are losing no time in calling for peaceful co-existence among the relevant communities and are pointing to the vital importance of stepping-up national integration processes. Apparently, immigrants in sizable numbers from neighbouring countries are present in Durban. However, international TV footage of the protests quoted some local authorities as saying that the majority of the immigrants in some centres that housed them were not illegal migrants and had the documents that entitle them to be in Durban.
In the Durban protests the world has fresh proof of the socially divisive consequences of the gathering globe-wide economic disaffection, touched off particularly by the continuing crisis in West Asia. Going ahead, the world would need to brace for increasing identity-based unrest of the kind it is just witnessing in South Africa.
Considering that the material lot of ordinary people everywhere could only aggravate progressively, with the US and Iran showing no signs of negotiating an end to their confrontation any time soon, it will be left to the more democratic and progressive sections of the world community to initiate positive measures collectively to bring a measure of relief to the discontented.
The swiftness with which such relief will be provided would depend crucially on the importance those sections taking up these undertakings attach to value-based politics as opposed to Realpolitik of power politics.
Going by these yardsticks, Italy could be considered to be moving in the right direction. Recently Italy came to the fore in initiating the collective named, ‘Rome Coalition for Food Security and Access to Fertilizer’, which has as one of its aims the swift provision of fertilizer to economically weak African countries.
In a recent statement Italian Minister of Foreign Affairs and International Cooperation, Antonio Tajani, said that a principal aim of the project was to ensure that the farmers of Africa gained easy access to fertilizer, considering that food security is a growing concern among some of Africa’s economically vulnerable countries.
The statement went on to mention that some 30 countries hailing from the Mediterranean region, the Middle East, the Balkans as well as the FAO had been invited to join the coalition. The venture is far-seeing in that food security is main among the reasons for social discontent which in turn could degenerate into endemic political turmoil and bloodshed. Separatist violence and geographical fragmentation of countries wouldn’t be too far behind these developments, as Africa itself has often proved.
It is hoped that more G7 countries would take the cue from Italy and do what they could to ease the hardships of economically distressed countries, particularly of the global South. In these efforts they would need to break rank with the US, which is today brutally indifferent to the consequences of its policy of making ‘America First’, come what may.
Going by current developments, the Trump administration seems to be blithely oblivious to the wider, deleterious effects of its policy course in West Asia. Besides rendering Iran militarily and otherwise impotent nothing else seems to matter to Washington, as regards West Asia. This is policy short-sightedness of an extreme kind. After all, right now West Asia could be said to be sitting on the proverbial powder keg.
On the other hand, Iran is not giving the world the impression that it is doing anything constructive to get out of the policy straitjacket that it wove for itself decades ago. Rather than enter into a policy of ‘live and let live’ in relation to Israel in particular and initiate a process of reconciliation with the latter, it has chosen to operate within policy parameters that continue to damn Israel. This has put Israel always on the ‘defensive’ so to speak and prevented the opening up of space for meaningful dialogue.
That said, Israel is obliged to explore the possibilities of entering into a negotiatory process with the Arab-Islamic world that could lead to a de-escalation of tensions and bloodshed. It cannot continue to look at its neighbours through lenses that distort them as archetypal enemies who should be ‘wiped off completely from the face of the earth.’
In other words, the need is urgent for Realpolitik to give way to value-based politicks. Italy is beginning to prove that the latter approach could be pursued with some success. May be the EU and the UK could throw their weight behind these initiatives as well and establish that international politics could be refashioned on the basis of humane, civilized norms. The UN would need to be fully supportive of these moves and prove an organizational nucleus of the operations that follow.
In fact the time is ripe for people of conscience to collectively stand up on the side of peace and say ‘No’ to war and violence. Organizations such as the ICRC, the WHO and Medicines Sans Frontiers have already taken up this call. Referring to the widespread destruction of health facilities and their dehumanizing results these organizations have said, among other things, that ‘This is not a failure of the law. It is a failure of political will.’
True, ‘failure of political will’ among those powers that matter accounts for the runaway, uncontrollable nature of war and destruction in contemporary times, but more fundamentally it is a failure of the human conscience. It could very well be that the phenomenal levels to which violence and war have been unleashed today have had the effect of deadening consciences. This is a matter for urgent study and wide discussion.
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Vesak celebrations … with Cuteefly
I would describe Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka as innovative and creative, and she operates under the name of Cuteefly.
Indunil always comes up with something novel to celebrate special occasions, and she does it with candles … and that’s her profession.
She was in the spotlight when she created a happening scene, with candles, for Christmas, Sinhala and Tamil New Year, and Valentine’s Day.
As lanterns light up Sri Lanka for Vesak, the Colombo-based candle maker is quietly turning wax and wick into little pieces of the festival.

Candles reflecting Vesak themes
Her candles reflect Vesak themes – light, peace, remembrance, giving, etc., to enable you to fill your Vesak celebration with devotion and beauty.
Among her Vesak creations is a lotus-shaped soy candle, scented with sandalwood, lavender, etc., meant to burn during this Vesak Poya Day.

Indunil Kaushalya Dissanayaka: Customers
praise her for her creativity
These handcrafted Vesak candles are perfect for offering at the temple, she says.
What makes her creations so novel is that they come in different shapes, scents, themes, and all are handmade.
What’s more, her customers have heaped praise on her for her creativity.
According to Indunil, her creations are perfect as a thoughtful gift … to bring beauty, unity, and light into every moment.
Says Indunil: “Our beautifully handcrafted Unity candles are designed with premium detail and love, making them perfect for celebrations, gifts, and meaningful occasions.”
Cuteefly, says Indunil, is available online.
Readers could contact Indunil on 0778506066 for more details.
He Facebook Page is: Cuteefly.

Handmade with love
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Dark Spots …
Yes, dark spots do crop up on the skin, especially with sun exposure and, of course, as the skin ages.
However, these tips should be of immense benefit to those who are faced with dark spots.
* Lemon and Honey Glow Mask:
You will need 01 teaspoon lemon juice and 01 teaspoon honey.
Mix the lemon juice and honey well and then apply this mixture, only on the dark spots.
Leave for 10–15 minutes and then rinse with cool water.
Benefits:
Lemon helps brighten pigmentation.
Honey moisturises and heals skin.
Gives a natural glow.
* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:
All you need is fresh aloe vera gel.
Apply the gel apply on dark spots, before going to bed.
Leave overnight and wash in the morning.
Benefits:
Reduces acne marks and pigmentation.
Soothes irritated skin.
Helps skin repair naturally.
* Turmeric and Yoghurt Paste:
You will need 01 teaspoon yoghurt and a pinch of turmeric
Mix the yoghurt and turmeric into a smooth paste and apply on affected areas.
Leave for 15 minutes and then wash gently with lukewarm water.
Benefits:
Turmeric brightens skin naturally.
Yoghurt removes dead skin cells.
Helps fade dark spots gradually.
Use these packs 02-03 times a week as results are generally seen over time.
You can also try this out: Mix a ripe papaya into a smooth paste and apply to the face, or directly on to the dark spots. Leave for 15-20 minutes and then wash with lukewarm water.
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