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Personal recollections of Her Gracious Highness -Queen Elizabeth II
Hearing the announcement that HRH Queen Elizabeth II had died brought on such a sad feeling. But there was no surprise or sorrow. This was what I felt and to see whether there was a difference in the emotions as I thought there was, I went to Internet and got this answer “Sadness is a state of unhappiness while sorrow is a
sense of deep distress, disappointment, or sadness. Therefore it can be concluded that sorrow is a more intense form of sadness, which is the basic feeling of unhappiness.”
Of course I felt more than unhappiness and the sadness continued as I watched BBC detailing all the events that surrounded the last journey from Balmoral to Scotland and then to London and the several temporary resting places. There was also gladness that Prince Charles whom I always admired and even sided with in conversations during the turbulence of his marriage to Princess Diana, is now King Charles III.
Sightings of Princess Elizabeth
Reams have been written and said about the Queen, along with day long telecasts, and it will go on till even after her funeral with immense pageantry and centuries old traditions followed on Sept. 19, the funeral day. We older people have always had an interest in the British Royal Family and special regard with admiration and affection mixed for the queen. One fact that impressed us was the refusal of her parents to leave London, move to one of their country castles or send the two daughters away, due to the constant bombing by the Luftwaffe during WW II. No, they stayed in Buckingham Palace which once had a bomb exploding away from living quarters. The entire family visited bombed areas and commiserated with the people.
We followed her romance with a Greek prince who was near-adopted by Lord Louis Mountbatten who was resident in Peradeniya during the Japanese sector of WW II, and went riding in Udawattekelle as reported by an older brother. When we were teenagers, we lapped up info on her love for Philip, marriage, having children and Princess Margaret’s love relationships. We have seen TV repeats of her wedding many times over. I well remember watching her entire coronation in the Empire Cinema in Kandy. Also remembered with wry amusement is my little niece letting out a loud cry just as the Archbishop lifted the crown to place it on Elizabeth’s young head.
Pugnacious timing of the niece and consequent hassle as my brother carried her out! Sombre but to be admired was the scene seen many times later of the women of the royal family, heavily veiled, at the funeral of George VI. There was Queen Mary, mother of the monarch, his wife Queen Elizabeth (later the Queen Mother), his elder daughter, immediately succeeding him to be proclaimed Queen Elizabeth II, and still unmarried but flighty younger daughter, Margaret.
Incidentally, as shown on TV on Sunday September 10, the heir is proclaimed king/queen immediately at the death of the reigning British monarch. TV cameras for the first time entered St James Palace, close to Buckingham Palace for the formal pronouncement of the succession on the morning of Saturday September 10. So tradition-bound and dignified. The proclamation dates from the time of the Anglo Saxon rulers and the announcement made by the Privy Council dates from the death of Elizabeth 1 with kingship passing to James I.
The Queen’s life from the time she was post teenage was narrated in the Netflix-BBC film series The Crown. The production was approved by the Queen and claimed to be true. It revealed many incidents that the public was not privy to and traced her life from the time of Prince Philip asking King George VI for his elder daughter’s hand in marriage and the father extracting a promise that he, Philip, would always care for her and see to her well-being. Prince Philip fulfilled these promises very well; always two paces behind the Queen in public and her greatest support and only love. I tend to believe his death about a year and a half ago completely bereft her; her frailties came on after she had to live without him, though of course surrounded by carers and family.
It was said the Queen felt closest to her youngest son Edward and daughter-in-law Sophie – the Earl and Countess of Wessex, but her favourite was son Andrew who recently was relieved of all royal duties due to his shenanigans with Virginia Giuffe as accused by her, of sex when she was a teenager. However a commentator a couple of days ago mentioned that, of the second generation, Catherine – Kate, now Princess of Wales, seemed to genuinely care for her while grandson William appeared to be extra close to her.
The less said about Prince Harry and Meghan, the better. While the Queen was old and ailing, Meghan brought on a spate of gossip with her allegations against the Royal Family of colour consciousness in the interview with Oprah Winfrey. A TV announcer during this week mentioned Meghan’s ire was because their son was not permitted the title of Prince. No wonder when they forsook all duties as members of the royal family, parted from them to live in California, and even created bad blood between the brothers.
Crosses borne
Though one of the richest women (Rishi Sunak’s Indian wife – Infosys tycoon’s daughter – is said to be richer); and most respected and admired worldwide, much loved too by many from top to bottom; Queen Elizabeth had travails assailing her. She bore them well, came through triumphant but we are sure at a price. Basically a vulnerable woman though showing stoicism, she would have suffered internally and the worst of it, not able to show it. The stiff upper lip and never shed tears in public being a British rigid rule, as it were.
By her own admission in a speech made in London marking the 40th anniversary of her accession to the throne, 1992 was an ‘annus horribilis’ and “not a year on which I shall look back with undiluted pleasure.” The marriages of her two older sons and Princess Anne’s were on the rocks and gossiped about viciously, and a part of Windsor Castle she so loved, was burnt.
It is a well known fact that though she was devoted to her husband, Prince Philip, though devoted in return performing well his duties and courtesies as consort to a queen, once in a while strayed from the straight and narrow. The most infamous was depicted in the Netflix series The Crown. Philip was persuaded by his physiotherapist that he was under stress and invited for a weekend out. The Queen had planned they travel to Sandringham, but acquiesced. On Monday morning, Princess Margaret storms in with a newspaper carrying a large photograph. She said a back view was clearly Philip’s and in the picture was the infamous Christine Keeler. When Philip returned, the queen was cold and uncommunicative. He knelt beside her as she sat on a window sill and reminded her that he had kept the promise he made to her father. He held her hand and was reciprocated. Thus her greatness and considering duty first and family before personal emotions and disappointments.
The Queen in Sri Lanka
I well remember seeing her in Kandy during her 1953 visit when she resumed the tour to many countries interrupted by her father’s passing and her coronation in 1952. She traveled in an open car to the Maligawa and Assembly Hall; wonderfully beautiful in a bright yellow dress and a hat with yellow flowers. Also remember noticing how long Sir John Kotelawala, the PM, held her hand as she descended from her royal ship Britannica to the quay at the newly expanded Colombo Port.
I felt she felt she needed no helping hand to step on land and being held too long!
A tale told by a reliable source is that on that 1953 visit, the Queen, after her stay in the Polonnaruwa Resthouse was invited to climb Sigiriya. Going up to the frescoes, the wind was strong. The Queen never wore trousers in public, thus her skirt was blown by the wind. Sir John Kots who was directly behind the Queen shouted to official photographer Rienzie Wijeratne “Ganing bung pinthurayak!”
None of those, unfortunately and sadly, are alive today to contest that story. But many Sri Lankans have met and chatted to her. Leelananda and Rukmal de Silva narrate how during Ascot Week they would stand outside their flat in Windsor. The Queen, taking the direct route from the castle to the racecourse would pass them and bow to them, latterly smile and wave friendlily. They have met her at garden parties at Buck Palace and at Commonwealth meetings and conversed both formally and informally. ‘Charming and friendly’ is their summation of her.
I end with affection this sincere tribute to the Queen who gave Britain a second Elizabethan Era, with one of her many quoted sayings: “Grief is the price we pay for love.”
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Acid test emerges for US-EU ties
European Commission President Ursula von der Leyen addressing the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland on Tuesday put forward the EU’s viewpoint on current questions in international politics with a clarity, coherence and eloquence that was noteworthy. Essentially, she aimed to leave no one in doubt that a ‘new form of European independence’ had emerged and that European solidarity was at a peak.
These comments emerge against the backdrop of speculation in some international quarters that the Post-World War Two global political and economic order is unraveling. For example, if there was a general tacit presumption that US- Western European ties in particular were more or less rock-solid, that proposition apparently could no longer be taken for granted.
For instance, while US President Donald Trump is on record that he would bring Greenland under US administrative control even by using force against any opposition, if necessary, the EU Commission President was forthright that the EU stood for Greenland’s continued sovereignty and independence.
In fact at the time of writing, small military contingents from France, Germany, Sweden, Norway and the Netherlands are reportedly already in Greenland’s capital of Nook for what are described as limited reconnaissance operations. Such moves acquire added importance in view of a further comment by von der Leyen to the effect that the EU would be acting ‘in full solidarity with Greenland and Denmark’; the latter being the current governing entity of Greenland.
It is also of note that the EU Commission President went on to say that the ‘EU has an unwavering commitment to UK’s independence.’ The immediate backdrop to this observation was a UK decision to hand over administrative control over the strategically important Indian Ocean island of Diego Garcia to Mauritius in the face of opposition by the Trump administration. That is, European unity in the face of present controversial moves by the US with regard to Greenland and other matters of contention is an unshakable ‘given’.
It is probably the fact that some prominent EU members, who also hold membership of NATO, are firmly behind the EU in its current stand-offs with the US that is prompting the view that the Post-World War Two order is beginning to unravel. This is, however, a matter for the future. It will be in the interests of the contending quarters concerned and probably the world to ensure that the present tensions do not degenerate into an armed confrontation which would have implications for world peace.
However, it is quite some time since the Post-World War Two order began to face challenges. Observers need to take their minds back to the Balkan crisis and the subsequent US invasions of Afghanistan and Iraq in the immediate Post-Cold War years, for example, to trace the basic historic contours of how the challenges emerged. In the above developments the seeds of global ‘disorder’ were sown.
Such ‘disorder’ was further aggravated by the Russian invasion of Ukraine four years ago. Now it may seem that the world is reaping the proverbial whirlwind. It is relevant to also note that the EU Commission President was on record as pledging to extend material and financial support to Ukraine in its travails.
Currently, the international law and order situation is such that sections of the world cannot be faulted for seeing the Post World War Two international order as relentlessly unraveling, as it were. It will be in the interests of all concerned for negotiated solutions to be found to these global tangles. In fact von der Leyen has committed the EU to finding diplomatic solutions to the issues at hand, including the US-inspired tariff-related squabbles.
Given the apparent helplessness of the UN system, a pre-World War Two situation seems to be unfolding, with those states wielding the most armed might trying to mould international power relations in their favour. In the lead-up to the Second World War, the Hitlerian regime in Germany invaded unopposed one Eastern European country after another as the League of Nations stood idly by. World War Two was the result of the Allied Powers finally jerking themselves out of their complacency and taking on Germany and its allies in a full-blown world war.
However, unlike in the late thirties of the last century, the seeming number one aggressor, which is the US this time around, is not going unchallenged. The EU which has within its fold the foremost of Western democracies has done well to indicate to the US that its power games in Europe are not going unmonitored and unchecked. If the US’ designs to take control of Greenland and Denmark, for instance, are not defeated the world could very well be having on its hands, sooner rather than later, a pre-World War Two type situation.
Ironically, it is the ‘World’s Mightiest Democracy’ which is today allowing itself to be seen as the prime aggressor in the present round of global tensions. In the current confrontations, democratic opinion the world over is obliged to back the EU, since it has emerged as the principal opponent of the US, which is allowing itself to be seen as a fascist power.
Hopefully sane counsel would prevail among the chief antagonists in the present standoff growing, once again, out of uncontainable territorial ambitions. The EU is obliged to lead from the front in resolving the current crisis by diplomatic means since a region-wide armed conflict, for instance, could lead to unbearable ill-consequences for the world.
It does not follow that the UN has no role to play currently. Given the existing power realities within the UN Security Council, the UN cannot be faulted for coming to be seen as helpless in the face of the present tensions. However, it will need to continue with and build on its worldwide development activities since the global South in particular needs them very badly.
The UN needs to strive in the latter directions more than ever before since multi-billionaires are now in the seats of power in the principle state of the global North, the US. As the charity Oxfam has pointed out, such financially all-powerful persons and allied institutions are multiplying virtually incalculably. It follows from these realities that the poor of the world would suffer continuous neglect. The UN would need to redouble its efforts to help these needy sections before widespread poverty leads to hemispheric discontent.
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Brighten up your skin …
Hi! This week I’ve come up with tips to brighten up your skin.
* Turmeric and Yoghurt Face Pack:
You will need 01 teaspoon of turmeric powder and 02 tablespoons of fresh yoghurt.
Mix the turmeric and yoghurt into a smooth paste and apply evenly on clean skin. Leave it for 15–20 minutes and then rinse with lukewarm water
Benefits:
Reduces pigmentation, brightens dull skin and fights acne-causing bacteria.
* Lemon and Honey Glow Pack:
Mix 01teaspoon lemon juice and 01 tablespoon honey and apply it gently to the face. Leave for 10–15 minutes and then wash off with cool water.
Benefits:
Lightens dark spots, improves skin tone and deeply moisturises. By the way, use only 01–02 times a week and avoid sun exposure after use.
* Aloe Vera Gel Treatment:
All you need is fresh aloe vera gel which you can extract from an aloe leaf. Apply a thin layer, before bedtime, leave it overnight, and then wash face in the morning.
Benefits:
Repairs damaged skin, lightens pigmentation and adds natural glow.
* Rice Flour and Milk Scrub:
You will need 01 tablespoon rice flour and 02 tablespoons fresh milk.
Mix the rice flour and milk into a thick paste and then massage gently in circular motions. Leave for 10 minutes and then rinse with water.
Benefits:
Removes dead skin cells, improves complexion, and smoothens skin.
* Tomato Pulp Mask:
Apply the tomato pulp directly, leave for 15 minutes, and then rinse with cool water
Benefits:
Controls excess oil, reduces tan, and brightens skin naturally.
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Shooting for the stars …
That’s precisely what 25-year-old Hansana Balasuriya has in mind – shooting for the stars – when she was selected to represent Sri Lanka on the international stage at Miss Intercontinental 2025, in Sahl Hasheesh, Egypt.
The grand finale is next Thursday, 29th January, and Hansana is all geared up to make her presence felt in a big way.
Her journey is a testament to her fearless spirit and multifaceted talents … yes, her life is a whirlwind of passion, purpose, and pageantry.
Raised in a family of water babies (Director of The Deep End and Glory Swim Shop), Hansana’s love affair with swimming began in childhood and then she branched out to master the “art of 8 limbs” as a Muay Thai fighter, nailed Karate and Kickboxing (3-time black belt holder), and even threw herself into athletics (literally!), especially throwing events, and netball, as well.
A proud Bishop’s College alumna, Hansana’s leadership skills also shone bright as Senior Choir Leader.
She earned a BA (Hons) in Business Administration from Esoft Metropolitan University, and then the world became her playground.
Before long, modelling and pageantry also came into her scene.
She says she took to part-time modelling, as a hobby, and that led to pageants, grabbing 2nd Runner-up titles at Miss Nature Queen and Miss World Sri Lanka 2025.
When she’s not ruling the stage, or pool, Hansana’s belting tunes with Soul Sounds, Sri Lanka’s largest female ensemble.
What’s more, her artistry extends to drawing, and she loves hitting the open road for long drives, she says.
This water warrior is also on a mission – as Founder of Wave of Safety,
Hansana happens to be the youngest Executive Committee Member of the Sri Lanka Aquatic Sports Union (SLASU) and, as founder of Wave of Safety, she’s spreading water safety awareness and saving lives.
Today is Hansana’s ninth day in Egypt and the itinerary for today, says National Director for Sri Lanka, Brian Kerkoven, is ‘Jeep Safari and Sunset at the Desert.’
And … the all-important day at Miss Intercontinental 2025 is next Thursday, 29th January.
Well, good luck to Hansana.
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