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Three out of every four young Indians choose video dating to find love

BY S VENKAT NARAYAN,
Our Special Correspondent
NEW DELHI, October 1:More and more young Indians, even in small towns, are relying on dating apps to find love and companionship. They are choosing video calls over in-person dating to know each other. The surge in usage is especially strong outside metro cities, which now account for 70% of users of the dating apps such as Tinder, Bumble and TrulyMadly, company executives said.Cities such as Ahmedabad, Surat, Lucknow, Jaipur, Chandigarh and Patna are seeing a significant surge in usage, catching up with the country’s major cities.
With virtual dates becoming a norm, a substantial number of women are now becoming more vocal on dating platforms.Nearly 72% of users believe finding love online without meeting them in person is possible, the executives at dating apps said.
“The distinction between our online and offline world is blurring. As a result, the time spent online is on the rise,” said Shalini Singh, founder of Andwemet, a dating service for 25-plus single Indians that has seen its user-base triple annually in the past two years.
Singh said there is more trust in online platforms in the post-pandemic era, and people are willing to pay for the convenience of online dating.Usage in these cities has also been boosted with many moving to their hometowns from metros after the pandemic, she said. Dating apps are attracting affluent users even in small-town India.
According to Tinder’s Year in Swipe 2021, video dates have become a first-date staple for singletons, with mentions of ‘video call’ in Tinder bios growing by 52% globally.
Many Indians took to video dating on Tinder, where Hyderabad reigned supreme as the chattiest city, followed closely by Chennai and Bengaluru. Yet, young adults were also looking to make a connection with new people close to them for real-life hangouts with ‘nearby’ and ‘close by’, both increasing by 20% in Tinder bios globally, showing that real-world dating isn’t going out of fashion anytime soon.
“As we shift back to IRL (in real life) dating in 2022, the trends of last year are guiding the way India’s young adults navigate the world of dating, friends, connections and relationships,” said Papri Dev, senior director, APAC communications lead, Tinder Inc.
Snehil Khanor, co-founder and chief executive officer of TrulyMadly, said that most first dates are still on video, and if things work out, users plan an offline date.Sybil Shiddel, country manager for Gleeden, a platform designed for extramarital relationships, said during the pandemic, a large part of its user base found virtual exchanges satisfying.
“They were happy with having found companionship and that their online exchanges allowed them to unwind, laugh, flirt and sext without putting them at risk. Time spent on the app has tripled,” Shiddel said.
“In 2022, when the ghost of the pandemic is no longer lingering above our heads with the same strength as previous years, Indian users still spend an average of 3.5 hours chatting,” Shiddel said. Before March 2020, most Gleeden users came from Delhi, Bengaluru, Kolkata, Mumbai, Ahmedabad and Chennai.
During 2020, 2021 and the first part of 2022, the maximum traction was seen from Gurugram (currently the platform’s No. 5 city), Chandigarh, Kochi, Jaipur, Lucknow, Noida, Nagpur, Indore, Navi Mumbai, Burdwan, Howrah and Thane.
Agreeing that video calls are now a part of the screening process before an in-person date, Able Joseph, founder and CEO of dating app Aisle, said casual hook-ups may be on a slow decline. “Loneliness—coupled with a few years of uncertainty—has led to a certain sense of collective fatigue that’s developed in the Indian dating landscape. Singles are found moving away from the endless loop of swiping across dating platforms and are now looking for more substance in a relationship,” Joseph added.
Since the majority of the new users are signing up from smaller towns and cities, with limited matches in their location, they are looking online for suitable partners across the country, said Ravi Mittal, founder and CEO of dating service QuackQuack, which has seen an 11% jump in female users.Samarpita Samaddar, India communications director at Bumble, said the pandemic has made “more than half of us (62%)” realize that it’s okay to be alone for a while.
“People are consciously deciding to be single, with the majority of single people (54%) being more mindful and intentional in how and when they date,” she said.
A nationwide survey conducted in 2021 showed that after the second covid wave in India, emotional connection (60%) and kindness (55%) top the charts as being the most important to single Indians in dating, Samaddar said.
“Social good in terms of volunteering, donating to social causes (48%) especially rank high in preferences for millennials in India,” she added.
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President focuses on streamlining, integrating and developing the manufacturing sector for greater efficiency

A meeting between President Anura Kumara Disanayake and officials of the Ministry of Industry and Entrepreneurship Development was held today (14) at the Presidential Secretariat.
Discussions focused on enhancing the efficiency, integration and development of the manufacturing sector to strengthen the national economy, as well as addressing the challenges associated with these efforts.
Key topics included government-led initial investments and proper regulation to empower small and medium-scale entrepreneurs, the establishment of local small-scale industries within investment zones and challenges related to business loans faced by small and medium-scale enterprises.
The President directed officials to expedite the release of lands allocated to the Ministry of Industry that have not been released so far.
Further discussions were held on maintaining and regulating import restrictions to strengthen local industries, prioritizing local suppliers in construction industry procurement and resolving issues in the gem and jewellery sector to ensure its full contribution to the national economy.
The President also instructed officials to swiftly implement tax exemptions for tourists to boost the gem and jewelry industry.
Minister of Industry and Entrepreneurship Development Sunil Handunnetti, Deputy Minister of Industry and Entrepreneurship Development Chathuranga Abeysinghe, Secretary to the President Dr. Nandika Sanath Kumanayake, Secretary to the Ministry of Industry and Entrepreneurship Development Thilaka Jayasundara and several other ministry officials attended the meeting.
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Massive TN fishing fleet poaching in SL waters: Only India’s Central Govt. can halt it – Minister Chandrasekar

By Shamindra Ferdinando
Fisheries, Aquatic and Ocean Resources Minister Ramalingam Chandrasekar yesterday (13) emphasised that only the Central Government of India could prevent the Tamil Nadu fishing fleet from poaching in Sri Lankan waters.
The Minister said that the Central Government of India in consultation with Tamil Nadu should without further delay deploy the Indian Navy and Coast Guard to prevent large-scale organised crossing of the Indo-Lanka maritime boundary.
The JVPer said so when The Island asked him what he intended to do to curb poaching and the destructive fishing practice known as bottom trawling practised by the Tamil Nadu fishing fleet in our waters. “Our Navy and Coast Guard regularly conduct operations in the northern waters to deter the TN fishing fleet. But only India got the wherewithal to stop this menace,” Chandrasekar said.
Responding to another query, the lawmaker stressed that the NPP government would not hesitate to take a firm stand on the issue. “We believe that India should prevent TN fishing fleet from crossing the maritime boundary,” Minister Chandrasekar said, adding that during his interactions with relevant Indian authorities and diplomatic staff, including High Commissioner Santosh Jha, he had taken up the issue.
The Minister said that he had explained the difficulties experienced by the northern fishing community due to the Indian fishers stealing their catch, when Charles Callanan, Director, UNOPS South Asia paid a courtesy call on him recently. They may not intervene or comment on this matter but there was no harm in briefing them of the actual situation on the northern seas, the Minister said.
The people of the northern and eastern regions, too, overwhelmingly voted for the NPP, the lawmaker said, adding that therefore the problems faced by the northern and eastern fishers should be addressed.
Minister Chandrasekar said that President Anura Kumara Dissanayake had, during his three-day official visit to New Delhi in January, raised the issue at the highest level.
Asked whether he was aware of the protests that had been directed at Tamil National Alliance (TNA) leader S. Sritharan, MP, over his recent visit to see Tamil Nadu fishermen held at the Jaffna prison, Minister Chandrasekar said an NPP lawmaker too visited them. “We never sought media coverage for our visit to Jaffna prison,” Minister Chandrasekar said, adding that the government was determined to push for tangible solutions for recurring issues.
Acknowledging that various interested parties both here and in India sought political mileage at the expense of poaching by the Tamil Nadu fishing fleet, Minister Chandrasekar said that Sri Lanka had no option but to continue naval operations to deter encroachments.
Quoting northern fishers, Minister Chandrasekar alleged that at the rate Tamil Nadu fishing fleet stole Sri Lanka’s fisheries resources nothing would remain in 15 to 20 years’ time. The minister appreciated the efforts made by the navy to protect the interests of Sri Lankan fishermen.
Tamil Nadu poaching can be an issue at the forthcoming Local Government polls. There had been several incidents involving the navy and Tamil Nadu fishing vessels during the past couple of years. One incident claimed the life of a Special Boat Squadron man while two Indian fishers were shot and wounded in another. The second incident prompted India to summon Sri Lanka’s Acting HC in New Delhi to the Foreign Office where a warning was issued over the incident.
Minister Chandrasekar said that India should take meaningful measures to stop illegal fishing, thereby avoiding unnecessary incidents. The minister acknowledged that in spite of quite a number of arrests over the years, the Tamil Nadu fishing fleet seemed bent on continuing with the lucrative practice.
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