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Lawyers for a larger cause
Sisters-at-Law, the free legal service supporting survivors of domestic and gender-based violence marks three years of yeoman silent service this month. Its founder Marini de Livera recaps its journey while urging more women lawyers to become change-makers.
by Randima Attygalle
“I have realized more and more that the right to access justice is a privilege enjoyed by the rich and the affluent of our society. Law is something that is discussed by the elite in air-conditioned offices and never reaches out to the communities. The poor and the down-trodden have no one to advise them when facing oppression and injustice. The Law is beyond their reach,” observes human rights lawyer Marini de Livera, the founder and the Chairperson of Sisters-at-Law, a free legal service supporting survivors of domestic and gender-based violence. De Livera’s efforts have been honoured with Commonwealth Points of Light Award in 2020 and Women of
Courage (2019) from the US Department of State.
This former Chairperson of the National Child Protection Authority (NCPA) remarks that to bring about change, social justice and make the country and the world a happier place, there is no need to hold a top Government position or be highly connected. All that’s needed is “imagination, a vast amount of energy and unlimited passion.” As a legal academic De Livera saw the futility of Human Rights education within the confines of a classroom. “Without actually experiencing and listening to the stories of survivors, it is impossible to be an instrument of change and find solutions to problems that plague society, especially Human Rights violations. Thus, Sisters-at-Law (SAL) was born in August, 2018 to create awareness about the laws and policies relating to Human Rights and to promote activism through forms of art,” says the human rights trainer (for the army, police, public officials, and grassroots level leaders) who has also been a member of the Steering Committee on the Rehabilitation of Child Soldiers, the Prisons Reform Committee, and the National Committee on Women. De Livera also chaired the committee that drafted the amendments to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act.
During the three years since its inception, SAL had represented survivors of violence in a number of pro bono cases from the Magistrate’s Court to the Supreme Court says its founder. Referrals are made by the courts and the Police to SAL which not only provides free legal representation but also empowers survivors. Located in Battaramulla within her legal chambers, D

e Livera has provided SAL with an inviting atmosphere where victims of violence can unwind, have a hot drink or a warm meal and decide on how they should proceed.
Filling the need for long term support for survivors, SAL has expanded to offer educational programmes, skills training and income generating activities beyond lodging facilities. Guided by people-centric and strength-focused principles, once a girl or a woman is admitted to a SAL’s shelter, she is asked what her dream is and a ‘Care Plan’ is prepared for each to realize her dream aligned with SAL’s belief that all girls and women deserve an opportunity to find their voice and potential while being able to live a dignified, peaceful and a happy life. “Based on the Care Plan we allocate funding by raising our own funds and also appoint a ‘Care Manager’ who ensures that all steps in the Care Plan are adhered to and the Senior Management reviews the Care Plan,” explains De Livera.
Largely self-funded, SAL finds it challenging to sustain its activities. “Initially we had two shelters, one in Colombo and the other in Galle. Due to lack of funds, we were forced to close down the Galle shelter,” says De Livera. A woman whose road has never been easy, she calls herself ‘unstoppable’ and is in the process of setting up SAL’s own dress making business to help more women and girls in need. A gifted artist and a Licentiate teacher in Speech and Drama from Trinity College London, De Livera uses art as a therapeutic means of healing and empowering survivors. She has her own street theatre group, with her own bird mascot Bindoo that travels around the country performing plays related to human rights issues.
Although the Prevention of the Domestic Violence Act of 2005 speaks of the need for shelters for victims of violence, there is still a dearth of them in the country, notes De Livera. Such shelters should not however be ‘prison-like’ unhappy places but ‘peaceful and safe heavens’ where survivors could take informed decisions relating to their future and train and empower themselves to function on their own, contribute to society and become productive citizen, she adds. Networking with members from the medical profession, religious leaders, psychologists and clinicians, educators, business sector etc. is imperative to build a support system for the survivors, observes SAL’s founder.

Urging young women lawyers to be change-makers, De Livera also says that they need more role models. “They also need to be sensitized and at SAL we make it happen in our own little way. We hope to train a pool of legal experts in all fields who can also represent the marginalized in court.” She reiterates that women lawyers need to be proactive to ensure that the concept ‘Women’s Rights are Human Rights’ become a reality. “Sri Lanka signed the CEDAW Convention in 1981. Yet to date no domestic law has been passed by our Parliament incorporating Women’s Human Rights enshrined in CEDAW into Sri Lankan Law. Women lawyers should advocate and lobby for law reform.” The Assistance to and Protection of Victims of Crime and Witnesses Act which was passed in 2015 provides for compensation to victims of a crime. However, the Victims’ Authority does not have a Fund to be used for this purpose, charges De Livera who goes on to remark that women lawyers should be trained to identify these issues and agitate for their realization.

Making a case for girls and women whose abuse is rampant and whose only option should not be to become a domestic worker, the activist lawyer calls fellow women to rally around to empower them at grassroot level. “There are graduates employed at every Divisional Secretariat. They function as representatives of all Cabinet Ministers in the capacity of Child Protection Officers, Women Development Officers and Probation Officers. In certain parts of the country these officers have prepare a document known as a ‘child vulnerability card’ that assesses the danger every child is exposed to.”

She also maintains that schools should work with the NCPA and the Probation Department and detect and track if school drop-outs are trafficked to Colombo and other cities by unscrupulous agents to earn money out of them. “Systems are already in place – it is only a matter of implementing them. Women lawyers in this country can be the driving force to advocate for the implementation of policies and laws,” concludes De Livera.
If you wish to support or rally around
Sisters-at-Law, write to helpsistersatlaw@gmail.com
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Elegant threads of tradition: Darshi Batik at Sheraton
As the Colombo skyline softens into golden hour “Sundown with Buddhi Batiks “at Sheraton Colombo unfolded as a seamless blend of heritage and contemporary elegance – an experience that felt both intimate and visually striking.
The evening drew a crowd that reflected the very essence of the brand it celebrated refined, creative and deeply connected with flowing silhouettes, to cultural and the quiet hum of conversation over curated cocktails.
Buddhi Batiks with Darshi Keerthisena is a label celebrated for transforming Sri Lankan batik into modern, wearable art. Her story telling through fabric where each piece reflected craftsmanship, culture, and a contemporary design language. The collection leaned into effortless elegance, resort ready kaftans, structured yet fluid dresses and statement pieces that moved as beautifully as they look. The atmosphere was electrifying. Guest sipped on delicated curated cocktails as soft music hummed in the background, creating an ambience that felt both exclusive and deeply relaxed.
More than aesthetics, Buddhi Batiks tells stores. Each motif, each gradation of colour carried a sense of place and memory.
Buddhi Batiks is proof that fashion can honour heritage without compromising on glamour, with every brush stroke of wax and every hand dyed.
The event, aptly named Sundown, was an ode to the timeless elegance of Sri Lankan craftsmanship, seamless fabrics woven into contemporary silhouettes that speak to a global sensibility.
The collection by Buddhi Batiks drew inspiration from Sri Lanka’s natural landscape, from the shimmering coastlines to the lush inland jungle, translated into vivid patterns and textures on display.
- High Commissioner of Indonesia in Sri Lanka- Dewi Gustina Tobing
- Every fold tells a story
The brand celebrated Sri Lankan’s rich artistic legacy while embracing a global fashion vision.
There are designers who wear fashion and then there are designers who live fashion, Darshi Keerthisena, creative director and CEO of Buddhi Batiks, belongs to the latter. She hasn’t merely followed a family tradition. She has reimagined it, transforming Sri Lankan batiks from a cultural craft into a globally resonant fashion statement. Under Dharshi’s leadership, Buddhi Batiks has evolved far beyond traditional cotton saris. She has introduced silk, geogette and satin as canvasses for Batik, infusing pieces with contemporary silhouettes and subtle, sophisticated colour stories that appeal to international design sensibilities. Her innovations have taken batik onto global platforms.
Darshi’s innovation isn’t only stylistic, it is ethical. She has championed sustainable practises, such as digital printing on recycled textiles and eco friendly dyes, while keeping handmade batik at the heart of the brand.
Her career has been marked by accolades and awards Dharshi’s vision for batik is expansive. She sees it not just on runaway gowns or resort wear, but translated into interiors, accessories and everyday life, capable of transcending borders while keeping the soul of Sri Lankan artisan’s heritage alive.
Sheraton Colombo Sri Lanka’s most prestigious 5-star hotels with Paul Sun, General Manager and his dedicated team, [played a key role and the hotel’s assistance went beyond providing a venue, it was a seamless blend of hospitality, event management and creative support.
By Zanita Careem
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Farzana redefining power and purpose for women
Farzana Baduel stands as a powerful voice in global communication and a passionate advocate for women’s empowerment making her perspective especially relevant on International Women’s Day. As CEO of Curzon PR,in UK she has built a career defined by influence, resilience and purpose championing the advancement of women’s leadership.
(Q) How would you describe the role of women in the UK today and how does it compare to women’s role in Sri Lanka?
(A) Women in the UK today hold positions of real influence across politics, business, media, academia and the creative industries. There are strong legal protections around equality and conversations about gender parity have become mainstream. But equality in law does not always translate to equality in lived experience, particularly when it comes to pay gaps, the weight of childcare, and who actually occupies the most senior positions.
Sri Lanka presents a genuinely fascinating paradox. It elected the world’s first female Prime Minister in 1960, yet many women still face structural and cultural constraints, especially outside urban centres. What strikes me about Sri Lankan women is their extraordinary resilience and entrepreneurial spirit, often demonstrated within more traditional frameworks. That combination of ambition and adaptability is something I find deeply impressive.
Both countries are progressing. But both still have considerable work to do.
(Q) Are there areas where UK women face challenges that Sri Lankan women may not, or vice versa?
(A) In the UK, one of the most persistent challenges is what I would describe as the double burden: professional ambition sitting alongside disproportionate domestic responsibility. There is also the very modern pressure of digital culture, the weight of image, comparison, online abuse and public scrutiny that affects women in ways men rarely experience to the same degree.
In Sri Lanka, the challenges tend to be more structural. Economic instability, limited access to opportunity in rural areas, and in some cases stronger social conservatism around gender roles all shape what is possible for women. And yet extended family networks in Sri Lanka can offer something many women in the UK genuinely lack: built in childcare, intergenerational support, a community that holds you.
The pressures differ. But the underlying theme is remarkably consistent. Women everywhere are negotiating expectations that men are simply not asked to meet.
(Q) How do you define what it means to be a woman today, and have there been moments where your gender shaped your opportunities or challenges?
(A) To me, being a woman today means navigating complexity with strength. It means holding ambition and empathy in the same space without apologising for either. It means being commercially sharp and emotionally intelligent. Above all, it means resilience.
There have certainly been moments in my career where being a woman changed the dynamic in a room, particularly in senior advisory spaces involving government or corporate leadership. Early on, I sometimes had to prove competence before being taken seriously. Over time I came to understand that credibility does not come from changing who you are. It comes from deep expertise and calm authority.
Gender shapes experience. But it does not have to define potential.
(Q) How can women lift each other up in workplaces, communities and society at large?
(A) By being genuinely generous with opportunity. Sponsorship matters far more than mentorship. It is powerful when senior women actively advocate for other women in rooms those women are not in. That kind of invisible advocacy changes careers.
By rejecting scarcity thinking. There is not only one seat at the table.
And by modelling integrity. When women support each other publicly and privately, it does not just help individuals. It changes workplace cultures entirely.
(Q) Do you believe women are getting enough representation in leadership roles? If not, what needs to change?
(A) Progress has been made. But representation at the very top, in boardrooms and in global political leadership, remains deeply uneven. And the solution is not simply about recruiting more women. It is about changing the systems they are recruited into: flexible leadership structures, normalised parental leave for both men and women, transparent promotion criteria, and zero tolerance for the kind of subtle bias that is so easy to dismiss but so corrosive over time.
Representation is not about optics. It is about influence. Those are not the same thing.
(Q) What societal expectations or stereotypes have you personally encountered as a woman?
(A) The most persistent one is the idea that women must choose between warmth and authority, that being decisive risks being labelled difficult. Men are rarely subjected to that framing. A decisive man is simply a leader.
There is also the expectation that women should balance everything effortlessly, as though the juggle should be invisible. The reality is that balance is dynamic, often imperfect, and occasionally held together by nothing more than determination and strong coffee.
(Q) What challenges do women face in accessing healthcare or support, and how can society improve this?
(A) Even in developed countries, women’s health is frequently under researched and under prioritised, particularly around reproductive health, menopause and mental health. This is not a niche issue. It affects half the population.
Improvement requires sustained investment in research, workplace policies that recognise women’s health realities, and a collective willingness to remove the stigma that still clings to these conversations. Health is not a private inconvenience. It is a public priority.
(Q) Do you feel women are encouraged enough to pursue their passions alongside family and work responsibilities?
(A) The encouragement exists in rhetoric. The practical support frequently does not. True encouragement requires structural foundation: affordable childcare, flexible working arrangements, and a cultural acceptance that ambition in women is not selfish. It is not something that requires justification.
Women should never feel they must apologise for aspiration.
(Q) How do media portrayals of women impact society’s perception of them?
(A) Media shapes norms in ways we often do not notice until we look back. When women are portrayed primarily through the lens of appearance, domestic roles or conflict narratives, it quietly narrows the public imagination about what leadership looks like.
When media platforms showcase women as thinkers, strategists, innovators and policymakers, something opens up, especially for young girls who are watching and deciding, consciously or not, what is possible for them. Representation shapes expectation. That is not a small thing.
(Q) What changes would you most like to see for women in the next decade?
(A) Economic parity, not just participation. Greater support for women entrepreneurs. More women shaping foreign policy and global governance. A healthier and kinder public discourse online.
But most importantly, I would like to see confidence. Young women growing up without internalised limits, without the quiet voice that tells them to take up less space. That, more than any policy change, is what transforms the next generation.
(Q) And finally, how do you define what it means to be a woman today?
(A) To be a woman today is to stand fully in your capability without shrinking for anyone’s comfort. It is to embrace both strength and compassion, not as opposites but as complements. It is to define yourself rather than accept the definitions others impose upon you.
And perhaps most importantly, it is to leave the path a little wider for the women who come after you.
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From Hanoi to Colombo: Women leading change across borders
Grace, resilience and quiet determination define the women of both Vietnam and Sri Lanka, two nations bound not only by rich cultural heritage, but by the enduring strength of their women. As the world marked International Women’s Day, the interview with the Vietnamese Ambassador in Sri Lanka offers a compelling lens into how tradition and modernity intervine to shape the lives of women across these societies Women in Vietnam and Sri Lanka continue to redifine their roles, balancing family, career and ambition with remarkable pause. While their journeys were shaped by distinct histories and cultural naunces there is a shared narrative of perseverance, adaptability and progress. In this interview the envoy reflects on these parallels and contrasts, offering insight into the evolving status of women. The challenges, they face and the inspiring strides being made towards equality.
Q How would you describe the role of women in Vietnam compared to Sri Lankan women?
A Women in Vietnam and Sri Lanka share many important similarities. In both societies, women are known for their diligence, resilience, and strong sense of responsibility toward family and community. Having experienced periods of war, conflict, and economic hardship, women in both countries deeply understand the values of sacrifice, solidarity, and perseverance. They often carry multiple roles at the same time—caregivers, income earners, and community supporters. In both countries, there has been an increasingly active participation of women in the workforce, including trade, manufacturing, SMEs, as well as in the leadership. It is meaningful to recognize these shared qualities that quietly but steadily contribute to social stability and national development.
Q From your personal experience, what defines a modern woman in your country?
A From my personal experience, a modern woman is someone who strives for balance rather than choosing between roles. She values education, independence, and self-development, while remaining deeply committed to her family and social responsibilities. She is confident, adaptable, and increasingly comfortable using technology and global networks. At the same time, she respects cultural values and traditions, selecting what is meaningful rather than rejecting them entirely. Modern women today are not defined only by career success, but by their ability to manage multiple responsibilities with empathy, resilience, and purpose.
Q Have you seen a significant change in women’s roles over the past decade?
A Yes, there have been noticeable and positive changes over the past decade. More women are pursuing higher education, entering diverse professional fields, and participating actively in economic and social life. Attitudes toward women’s leadership and decision-making roles have gradually improved, especially among younger generations. At the same time, women continue to shoulder major responsibilities within the family. This dual role has become more visible and more openly discussed. While challenges remain, the growing recognition of women’s contributions—both at work and at home—reflects a meaningful shift toward a more inclusive understanding of development.
Q Women in Vietnam are often visible in trade and entrepreneurship. How does this compare with Sri Lanka?
A Women in both Vietnam and Sri Lanka demonstrate a strong entrepreneurial spirit, particularly in trade, services, and family-based businesses. Many women engage in economic activities not only for personal ambition, but also to support their families and contribute to their communities. In both countries, women entrepreneurs are known for their adaptability, hard work, and practical approach to business. While the scale and sectors may differ, the underlying motivation and resilience are remarkably similar. With better access to finance, markets, and mentoring, women in both societies have great potential to further expand their entrepreneurial impact.
Q Do you think society equally values women’s economic contributions in both countries?
A Societal recognition of women’s economic contributions has improved, but full equality has not yet been achieved in either country. Women’s income is increasingly important for household stability, yet their unpaid care work often remains invisible. Professional success is respected, but women are still expected to prioritize family responsibilities. This creates pressure to constantly balance multiple roles. It is important to acknowledge that true equality means valuing both paid and unpaid work, and creating supportive environments that allow women to contribute economically without compromising their well-being or family life.
Q Vietnam has relatively strong female participation in governance. What drives this? Why is female representation still low in Sri Lanka?
A Both Vietnam and Sri Lanka recognize the importance of women’s participation in governance, and both have many capable women leaders. Differences in representation are largely shaped by institutional structures and political culture rather than women’s ability or commitment. Where supportive frameworks, mentoring, and clear pathways exist, women are more likely to enter public leadership.
In Sri Lanka, many talented women also serve their communities in different ways, though public roles can be more demanding to combine with family responsibilities. Creating more supportive and flexible pathways can help more women step forward and share their perspectives, enriching decision-making and social cohesion.
Q What are the most pressing issues women still face today?
A One of the most pressing challenges women face today is achieving a healthy balance between work, family responsibilities, and personal life. Women continue to carry a disproportionate share of caregiving and household duties, even when they are fully engaged in professional work. Gender inequality in wages, leadership opportunities, and decision-making persists. Social expectations often require women to excel in all areas simultaneously, creating emotional and physical strain. Addressing these issues requires not only policy support—such as childcare and flexible work—but also cultural change that encourages shared responsibility and mutual respect.
Q Do globalization and social media help accelerate gender equality?
A Globalization and social media can play a positive role in accelerating gender equality by expanding access to information, markets, and role models. They allow women to connect, learn, and express their voices beyond traditional boundaries. Many women entrepreneurs and professionals have benefited from digital platforms. However, these tools also bring challenges, including online harassment and unrealistic social pressures. Their impact depends on how responsibly they are used and supported. When combined with education, digital literacy, and safeguards, globalization and social media can become powerful tools for women’s empowerment.
Q How do you see the future of women evolving in the next 10 years?
A Over the next decade, I expect women to play an even more visible role in leadership, entrepreneurship, and innovation. Flexible work models and digital technologies will help more women participate in the economy while managing family responsibilities. Younger generations are already embracing more balanced views on gender roles and shared caregiving. While challenges will remain, especially in achieving true equality, the overall direction is positive. With sustained support from institutions, families, and society, women’s contributions will continue to shape more inclusive and resilient communities.
Q What can Sri Lanka learn from Vietnam in terms of empowering women economically?
A Sri Lanka can draw useful lessons from Vietnam’s emphasis on integrating women into value chains, supporting small businesses, and linking skills training with market access. Practical support—such as simplified procedures, access to finance, and business networks—helps women move from informal activities to sustainable enterprises. Equally important is recognizing women’s economic roles publicly and socially. Empowerment is most effective when economic opportunity is combined with family support and social respect. These shared principles are especially meaningful and highlight when celebrated International Women’s Day on 8 March.
By Zanita Careem
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