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In person Stephani Siriwardena is a bubbly charming and delightful personality. She is a Sri Lankan Lebanese, a model and the winner of 2011 Miss Universe Pageant and represented Sri Lanka at Miss Asia Pacific 2013

A graduate of Concorde University in Canada, she has specialized in journalism and communication and is a talented singer and dancer. She is also the founder of the Stephanie Siriwardene Foundation.

by Zanita Careem

Do you think that one who desires to look glamorous should be the parameter of success?

“First of all it is important to understand that the “parameters of success” are not defined by you. Most times it is defined by society and what people expect of you within the structures society has created for itself.

Therefore it is more important for you to define your “parameters of satisfaction” based on what you know will make you happy and make you feel fulfilled in life. This way you take control of your narrative and are not endlessly running behind external validation.  Also realize that most times the definitions of the words “glamorous” and “beautiful” are defined by mass media . Set your own “parameters of satisfaction” and strive towards them”.

What do you think of Female Empowerment?

“I think every human being, regardless of which gender they are should feel and be empowered. This is the only way that they can reach their true potential and give their best to the world to make it a better, safer and happier place for all of us to live in.

I believe people harm others and themselves and are led into the world of crime when they feel disempowered, unheard, unseen, invalidated, helpless and desperate for change. We shouldn’t let systems that were created by archaic assumptions and definitions of a humans worth based on their gender, race, cast or creed lead any human towards that path. We need to get rid of systematic discrimination because every human being deserves to live a fulfilling life where they are empowered and have equal opportunity to make their dreams a reality thereby giving the best version of themselves to the world.

Do you think more support and strength should be given to women who share their experience of sexual harassment?

“I think support in all its forms, should be given to anyone who has been subject to any sort of harassment or abuse whether it is verbal, physical, emotional and/or sexual. Sometimes people are unable to share their stories of harassment and abuse for many different reasons. It is therefore our duty to create a safe space where people can share their stories when they are ready to do so and simultaneously create the necessary support systems that these individuals can lean on as they begin their journey towards healing.

What does ‘power’ mean to you?

“As it is said in every Spider-Man movie: “with great power comes great responsibility.” The reason that it is a very important line is because in its essence power is the ability to change or influence a situation and another individuals thoughts, feelings, circumstances and lives for the positive or negative. It is important that we exercise that power responsibly with respect to the other so that we don’t just use it selfishly to further our own needs and wants. Ideally we should only exercise power over anything for the individual and collective good of the person, people or situation we are exercising it on.

Have you ever been in a situation  where you were made to think that women and power were two incompatible  concepts?

‘Of course I have. I think living in a patriarchal world all females have experienced it in some form and at some point in their lives. The important thing however is to not accept that feeling of powerlessness and stand up for yourself. Stop giving away your innate power and work hard to develop yourself”

 Do you consider yourself a powerful woman?

“I think we are all powerful beyond measure as we are all made in God’s image. We just need to step into that power and own it.

The action or decision you are most proud of?

“That is a hard question but I think the decision I am most proud of is the one I took when I was a little girl of about 10 years old. I had just finished watching Shirley Temples movie “The little princess” and I was amazed with how regardless of her terrible circumstances and how mean everyone was to her she chose to be kind to everyone and behave like a “princess.” Even though no one gave her a crown, she lost her father and was poor and destitute she didn’t allow it to take away her beautiful, positive and kind personality. I decided that I wanted to do my best to emulate her and always be a princess too.



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Blending additional warmth to festive v season

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Pegasus Reef Hotel brought a refreshing twist to the festive season with its much awaited ‘Tropical Christmas’ themed holiday activities by lighting the Christmas Tree and welcoming Santa to the tropics a press release said. The celebrations provided a unique and joyful experience for the whole family, blending the traditional warmth of the festive season with the vibrancy of a tropical setting. The beautifully lit tropical Christmas tree set the tone for both an unforgettable evening and a magical holiday season for all. Guests enjoyed a host of activities including interactive elements for children, including surprise Christmas gifts and photo opportunities with Santa said the release.

The centre piece of the festivities was Santa who made a grand entrance to the event having escaped the cold of the North Pole, to spread the joys of Christmas to young and old in a warm tropical setting. This added to the ambience and brought out that true festive spirit. Tropical-inspired cocktails were available along with delicious food to offer additional flavour to the celebrations.

Commenting on the celebrations, Renuke Coswatte, General Manager of Pegasus Reef Hotel said, “Our Christmas celebrations have always been highly anticipated and has set the tone for the season. This year, by giving festive traditions a tropical twist, we were able to provide our guests, their friends and families a truly unforgettable start to the holiday season. From ‘Santa’s Welcome Party’ coupled with the ‘Tropical Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony’ and with what we have in store in December, the celebrations will truly be unforgettable.”

Pegasus Reef Hotel has garnered a reputation for hosting exciting festive events over the years, making it a top choice for year-end parties for all. So much so, that the hotels Christmas festivities are eagerly anticipated throughout the year. This year’s ‘Tropical Christmas’ celebration was an ideal opportunity for families, couples and friends to celebrate the season in a warm and inviting setting, that features activities for all.

Lighting of the Christmas Tree and Santa’s welcome party brought the magic of ‘Tropical Christmas’ to life blending traditional holiday festivities added with tropical charm. Pegasus Reef Hotel warmly invites everyone to join in the upcoming seasonal celebrations and create cherished family memories that will last a lifetime.

For more information on future events, contact Pegasus Reef Hotel on 0112049600, follow them on social media at facebook.com/Pegasusreefwattala or www.instagram.com/pegasusreef_wattala and visit their website at www.pegasusreefhotel.com.

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Tis the season to sparkle and shine

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This festive season, step into a world of allure at Taj Samudra Colombo, where the spirit of Christmas is brought to life with joy, celebration, and heartwarming experiences said a press release.In the words of Kris Kringle from A Miracle on 34th Street, “Christmas isn’t just a day; it’s a frame of mind.” At Taj Samudra, we embrace this philosophy with a delightful array of offerings designed to spread joy and festive cheer to our guests throughout the season said the release.

From gourmet hampers to festive family dinners, the Christmas carvery market, and the iconic Christmas goodies hut, our kitchen team has created a magical atmosphere for guests to enjoy, share, and celebrate this season of giving.

Luxury Seasonal Hampers and Wine

This Christmas, Taj Samudra offers the ultimate luxury gift experience with customized seasonal hampers. Choose from a selection of premium wines, Champagne, sparkling wines, and exclusive beverages, along with Christmas cakes, puddings, festival chocolates, cheese, seasonal cookies, and more. Curated to perfection, these hampers are the ideal way to indulge your loved ones with festive joy.

Christmas Carvery Counter

Indulge in the flavors of the season at our Christmas Carvery Counter, featuring a homemade charcuterie station brimming with delicious offerings. Enjoy lamb salami, beef salami, smoked lamb, honey ham, chicken cold cut, smoked seer, chicken liver pate and a variety of other delectable treats, perfect for gathering and sharing with friends and family.

Christmas goodies hut at the lobby

Visit the delightful Christmas goodies hut in our lobby, a stunning display of handpicked seasonal treats created by our award-winning chefs. The Goodies Hut, open daily from 10:00 am to 9.00 pm, offers an array of beautifully decorated seasonal goodies and carefully selected gift items—ideal for gifting or enjoying yourself.

Christmas eve celebrations

On the eve of Christmas, join us for a traditional Christmas eve dinner buffet at Ports of Call, where festive delicacies, live action stations, and mouthwatering desserts await. Santa will make a special appearance to delight the young and the young-at-heart. Additionally, enjoy a festive à la carte lunch and dinner at Golden Dragon, Navratna, and YUMI, our stylish Japanese resto-bar.

Christmas Day Festivities

Celebrate Christmas Day with a traditional festive lunch at Ports of Call, featuring all-time favorites such as succulent turkey and a wide selection of Christmas specialties. Our Executive Chef Sajesh Nair and his kitchen brigade will craft the perfect Christmas spread to satisfy every craving.

The said experience an unforgettable musical evening with The Traveleer Sound Duo from Budapest

The release said The lattice lobby lounge for an unforgettable musical experience with The Traveler Sound Duo from Budapest, Hungary. Known for their captivating performances, this talented duo brings a diverse repertoire that spans pop, rock, jazz, and more, offering something for every music lover. Catch them live every Tuesday to Sunday from 7:00 pm to 10:30 pm and enjoy their soulful melodies and dynamic sound in the heart of our vibrant atmosphere. They will also be performing during our renowned Sunday Brunch at Ports of Call, adding the perfect soundtrack to your delightful dining experience.

Unwind and Celebrate at YUMI Japanese Resto Bar and Poolside – Daily Happy Hour from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm

This holiday season, experience the magic of Christmas at Taj Samudra Colombo, where every corner of the hotel radiates the joy and warmth of the festive season.

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Hot Red looks for Christmas

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Christmas is here and we are eager to begin the celebrations. Everything about December is breathtaking and spectacular, with the rapid shift in the weather and the increasing camaraderie. The cherry on top is the excitement of the New Year itself! The joyous month of the New Year and Christmas is filled with delicious delicacies, elegant decorations, lovely attire, and joyful vibes everywhere. Dressing up for Christmas in warm and fashionable red outfits is something we all love. However, if you are still confused about your Christmas attire, don’t worry, we are here to rescue you. When it comes to fashion and style, no one can do it better than our Bollywood queens. Here are some red-hot looks from our fav Bollywood divas to inspire your Christmas outfits.

Kiara Advani is a true fashionista who can pull off any look. While co-ord sets are among the season’s hottest fashions. In a red-coordinated ensemble, Kiara is offering fashion advice to everyone. Her ensemble is the ultimate Christmas attire since it perfectly combines sexiness and elegance. She is wearing a bustier crop top and a high-rise skirt that accentuate her physique. Bronze bangles and earrings completed Kiara Advani’s outfit as accessories. With this attire, you’ll definitely steal the show.

Huma’s red formal outfit serves as the ideal Christmas dress inspiration for you if you are not a fan of fancy attire and prefer a sleek and refined look. Whether it’s a casual gathering or a formal function, pantsuits look great on any occasion. In addition to being fashionable, it will also keep you warm. She looks great with a full-sleeved crimson jacket with a wide horizontal white stripe at the bust and straight-fit ankle leggings. For the best appearance, pair it with stud earrings and minimal makeup. Sara is a diva and she is slaying fashion goals in her little red dress with white frills.

If you wish to grab all the attention at the Christmas party then take cues from Sara and choose a red hot bodycon thigh-high slit little dress. Pair it up with a matching red jacket for the glam look and you will be ready to rock the Christmas party.

Among all the divas, Rakul Preet Singh is one of the most fashionable. The actress always dresses well, whether it’s in a gorgeous gown, party attire, or just something that’s too ethnic. Her red corset-style dress is stunning and a must-have for your Christmas wardrobe. It has an off-the-shoulder design, full sleeves, and a fitting nature. To get the glam look, wear it with pointed shoes and diamond drop earrings.

Talking about fashion and style and not mentioning Deepika Padukone is not fair. The queen of Bollywood looks amazing no matter what she wears. If you are tired of wearing dresses and gowns and want to try something different, her vibrant red power suit that exudes boss-woman energy is the ideal outfit inspiration. Her quirky bralette, which had a crisscross neckline, was polished off with a layer of preppy flair thanks to the oversized blazer’s design.

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