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Hospital experiences and fun time holidays with friends in the UK

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Hollymoor Hospital, Northfield

Excerpted from Memories that Linger: My journey in the world of disability
 by Padmani Mendis

A sharp recollection is of my first day at the Hollymoor Hospital, Northfield where I was to have contact with patients who had psychiatric conditions. A nurse led me from the entrance and paused to open a door to a sectioned off part of the hospital with a key. He then led me through a second locked door to a third. On entering what was obviously a lobby area of a ward, he led me directly to a patient who stood absolutely rigid and looked as if he were a statue. The nurse said to me, “This is your patient, Mr. Ex. I will be back for you in half an hour.” With that the nurse disappeared, locking the door behind him.

Now what was I to do? I was scared out of my wits. Gingerly I approached Mr. Ex and tried to have a conversation with him. But Mr. Ex would have none of it. We had learned that life was changing for patients with schizophrenia with the introduction of new medication. But it obviously had not reached Mr. Ex as yet. He would not respond to me. So I stood there for half an hour looking around me in great fear.

There were patients who were just walking to and fro, gesturing “madly”; others who would be moving their bodies in one direction or another, sometimes even turning round in circles; and plenty having conversations seemingly with themselves, conversing with emotion – laughing one moment, angry the next. And then there was one who would not take his eyes off me. I reminded myself, “don’t be silly. You have been told that none of the patients in this ward are violent. None get out of control. Just pull yourself together.” Those 30 minutes were the longest ever.

Happier times were to come during my stint at the Sorrento Maternity Hospital. Antenatal classes, preparing would-be mothers for natural childbirth were joyful; and postnatal physio with those who had just become mothers was rewarding. Catching time to observe the miracle of childbirth in the delivery room was sheer luck.

Similarly, two-weeks were spent at the Patshull Rehabilitation Centre. The Centre was located in Patshull Hall on the very large Patshull Estate. We were told that the house and estate dated back to the 18th century. Patshull Hall was now used to provide intensive rehabilitation to young men to make them ready to go back to the sports that they had come from.

Most of these muscular and burly hulks had had knee surgery. Torn cartilages while doing sports was common and had to be removed. As a student I was here to experience what intensive rehabilitation was; this was to be learned by joining the young men in such strenuous activities as playing football and walking and running many kilometres a day. I did not learn this through participation with them as I was expected to. Instead, I learned through observation.

Holiday Time was Fun Time

And in between all these periods of learning came holidays. Time for fun and a different kind of enjoyment. Let me share a few as they surface in my consciousness. A week in Aberdeen over the Scottish New Year or Hogmanay, was one of my earliest while studying in Birmingham. It was arranged as a group vacation by the British Council located in the city centre. The Scottish family that hosted me made me a part of their family from the time they met me. On New Year’s Eve, after a traditional dinner which had, of course, to include Haggis and Turnips, they took me ‘first footing”.

As we approached each house, I had to be at the front so that the hosting family would see me first. Why? Because seeing a dark face was a good omen! A toast of sherry was a must in each home visited. Very soon my head was turning around. I don’t recall how that night ended.

The next day we were at a gathering in the Town Hall, being hosted by the Mayor. Now, in our group were two Russians, a total novelty in the UK because Russians had just started stepping out. One of these two was particularly good looking with an attractive personality and was an instant hit. I was a novelty too in my colourful saree and brown skin. The two of us were soon paired off. We were standing on either side of the Mayor when called for, interviewed together and at the centre of photographs. This continued for the rest of our holiday. Now why do I remember that young man’s face so clearly as I write this? Where is he now at 85 years of age or thereabouts?

Then there was the week on the Norfolk Broads in the East of England. The summer vacation was coming to us at Belmont. Eight of us made plans for a holiday together on the water, on the Norfolk Broads – none of us had been to that part of England before. We booked a houseboat that would accommodate us all.

We made plans to get there and soon we were off. Joyce, Gerry, Gill and Jackie decided they would hitch-hike their way there. Barbara, Mahin and I took the train – we were not used to asking strangers for a ride. Lyda was driven there by her boyfriend Lew who came back later to collect her. The four on the road were lucky with their thumbs and had good rides so all eight of us arrived at the houseboat more or less together.

The next day we were lazing around on deck wondering how we could get around the Broads. Our houseboat was moored. We could not afford a motorised one. But not for long did we have to wonder. Soon enough, alongside came a boat on which were four happy and loud young men. They saw a group of young women on another boat and knew their holiday was made. It turned out later that they were cameramen for the BBC.

They were soon enough on board our boat. And soon enough too they had more or less paired off with our native friends. We had our ride on the waterways for the rest of the week. The boys took us around and we provided their food. Scrabble and other board games while sailing during the day; in the evenings it would be a drink at the pub nearby and a sing song or charades at night. A good arrangement and one that made for an exceptional holiday, sailing the waterways.

Later, the eight of us would have a caravan holiday together at Beer in Devon on the south coast. Yet another way of life and another experience. One fun memory was the eight of us hitching a ride to the city of Exeter on the south-east tip of England. A farmer and his truck on their way to Exeter was kind to us, stopping to take us all the way. Mahin and I had the privilege of riding in the front seat on account of being elders. The other six had to perch themselves on the bales of straw being carried by the farmer to the fair in town. Rather precarious, but safe.

One year, Mahin, Jen and I went to Guernsey on the Channel Isles. We wanted a restful holiday. After getting off the boat, we walked around for a while and found a hotel to suit us. To save money we booked a room for three; Mahin and Jen shared a bed while I had one to myself. We would spend our days walking around the island and on its beaches, sitting down occasionally at a café for a coffee and to watch the passers-by. One day we went to the island of Sark. No motorised vehicles are allowed on Sark. We hired a horse cart for the day and were driven to all the hot spots of Sark. We did not see the Dame of Sark who at that time made many of the decisions that had to be made about her island.

Another day we took the boat to Herm and collected sea shells on the beautiful beach. We lay on that beach in the sun. When we got up to leave I held my forearm against Jen’s. She said “Oh Padi, you have got a tan. I didn’t think you could.” After that whenever my friends sat in the sun, I would always find a shady spot to lie in. It was a quiet week and we were back at Belmont refreshed.

Space for a last memorable holiday. This one was in the Scilly Isles off Exeter at the south-east corner of England to where as I said we had hitched a ride. This too was arranged by the British Council. I felt safe going on holidays arranged by them when I had decided to go alone. The isles only export was flowers and this attracted me.

What I am left with are memories of unending fields of flowers. Fields of yellow daffodils, of white and of yellow narcissi, and of tulips in their myriad of colours. Memories of staying with the only dentist serving the islands and his lovely wife; a young, warm and generous couple. They took me to see the flowers close at hand, to see them being plucked, packed and made ready for their journey to many parts of Europe. Their destiny.

To Their Homes with Friends

As I look back on those holiday memories, they come merged with the joyous visits to the homes of the many friends who took me to meet their families. Elizabeth took me to her home on a farm near Warwick for a weekend. The long drive was lined with apple trees all covered with white blossom. So was the area around the house covered with similar trees. Mrs. Surman and Elizabeth took me out the next day. We passed their horses grazing in the meadow. They lifted their heads in greeting when they heard the motor and tossed their tails to say hello.

Mrs. Surman stopped her car at our destination, way out on a country road. “Look, Padi,” she said. I turned my head only to see a sheet of blue. And just then that blue sheet swayed gently in the breeze that blew over it, as if to wave at me. “Oh, bluebells,” I said. She replied, “Yes, this is a Bluebell Wood.”

On another weekend, Jen took me home to West Kirby in Cheshire to meet her father, Vicar McTear, her mother and two younger sisters. Gill took me to meet her father Colonel Brysson, her mother and young sisters in Liverpool. Jan took me to meet her family to Shrewsbury in Shropshire. Beryl took me home to spend an evening with her family not far away in Walsall, Birmingham. Her parents were green grocers and they lived above their shop. I came away with a generous bag full of plums and apricots, and later as it turned out, chicken pox. A special gift from her young brother.

Rosemarie Mapp took me home to meet her farmer father and her mother. And her young brother who would one day inherit that huge farm. Like at Elizabeth’s farm, this too was plentiful with apple trees. This time they were laden with fruit. I told Mrs. Mapp that I loved apples. I had never seen an apple-laden tree before and had always wanted to pick one straight off for a bite. Could I please do that?

And so it went on and on. They all gave me beautiful memories to live with.

Overcoming Loneliness

On certain days when I was still at Woodlands, I would have a day off while my friends would all be working. Such days were often lonely. I had to get out somewhere to get rid of that feeling. Many a day I spent walking in the parks and around town. On many other days, I would take the short train ride to Stratford-on-Avon and reflect on the Bard. How could one man have produced all that brilliant writing? I would at times repeat to myself, “Friends, Romans, Countryman…” and “Is this a dagger I see before me? Come, let me clutch thee…” as my brothers had taught me when I was still quite young.

When it was the season, I would go straight to the theatre and buy a ticket for the afternoon matinee to be performed by the Royal Shakespeare Company. What was on stage did not matter, they could all be enjoyed. I would next buy myself a sandwich and a packet of crisps and sit by the River Avon watching the swans swim by. Until it was time to go to the theatre for the performance.

One particular lonely day I thought I had to do something different. So I dressed in my Sunday best – in a soft Dacca cotton in peacock blue, put my hair up, wore my heels and took the bus to the Birmingham Zoo way across on the side of town. I was not alone for long. As I was strolling around, I noticed that an elderly couple was looking my way. They appeared to be talking about me. The gentleman had a complicated looking camera hung around his neck.

Then they had decided. They came up to speak to me. It appeared that he was a professional photographer. He was on an assignment for Kodak, testing a new colour film. Could he take some photographs of me with which his film could be tested? Yes of course he could. We spent the rest of the day together. When it was time to go our separate ways, he took down my address and said he would send me some photos. Which he did. And I sent them to my mother.



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People’s mandate and judicial legitimacy

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BASL public forum held last Saturday

Sri Lanka is witnessing the dismantling of the culture of impunity that dominated public life for decades. This is happening through the courts, police investigations and legal process. It is not an easy task and requires strong leadership as it is generating strong resistance. The ongoing revelations about the nexus between politicians, including those at the highest levels, and criminal networks show that the government’s electoral mandate with regard to corruption and crime is now being translated into action through the legal system. The vote of the people at the last national elections was for a corruption free country and an end to the climate of impunity that had prevailed for decades. They voted for a system change that would replace impunity with accountability under the rule of law. They expected those who had looted the country and brought it to the point of bankruptcy to be held accountable through the due process of law.

The cases that are being investigated by the police, in tandem with the Attorney General’s Department, and adjudicated by the judiciary are based on hard evidence. Much of the evidence that is now receiving publicity had been available several years ago and had even entered the legal process. In the past those cases failed to reach fruition. Investigations lost momentum, prosecutions failed to marshal the available evidence and many cases were dismissed, some on technical grounds. Between 2019 and 2024, a total of 102 cases were withdrawn from the courts by the government authorities. The public knew, or strongly believed, that corruption and serious crimes had taken place. The inability to establish wrongdoing before a court of law and hold those responsible accountable created a climate in which political power appeared to provide protection from legal accountability.

A countrywide study titled Factors Guiding Voter Preference in Elections in Sri Lanka was commissioned by the National Peace Council prior to the 2024 elections under the European Union funded project Active Citizens for Elections and Democracy and conducted by researchers Dr Mahesh Senanayake and Ms Crishni Silva of the University of Colombo. It found overwhelming public support for accountability and good governance. While 93 percent of respondents identified resolving the economic crisis as their foremost electoral concern, an equally striking 83 percent said they prioritised candidates committed to fighting corruption. The mandate given to the government can, therefore, be interpreted to mean to restore integrity to public life and end the long standing culture of impunity.

Different Approach

Today, it can be seen that the police, the Commission to Investigate Allegations of Bribery or Corruption, the Attorney General’s Department and the judiciary are approaching matters of impunity in respect of corruption and crime in a manner that is markedly different from the past. Several persons who formerly occupied high office have now been subjected to due legal process and, in a number of cases, convicted after judicial scrutiny at different levels of the court system. This is an important difference from earlier years when cases involving politically prominent persons frequently failed to proceed or collapsed before reaching their conclusion. The strength of the present accountability process lies not only in the convictions that have been secured but also in the growing public confidence that no one is above the law. It is in this context that reports of a government proposal to extend by two years the retirement age of judges of the Supreme Court and the Court of Appeal have generated support from those who wish to see the present accountability process continue and opposition from those who see it as an attempt to influence the judiciary.

Many countries have increased judicial retirement ages in recognition of longer life expectancy and the value of retaining experienced judges. This has not only been limited to the judiciary but also the academia and the public service. However, the controversy in Sri Lanka is due to the context and as the proposal for an extension of the period of service of judges of the superior courts comes at a time when the courts are hearing politically significant corruption and criminal cases. The Bar Association of Sri Lanka has taken the lead in questioning the proposed constitutional amendment. The BASL has stated that it “notes with grave concern” reports that the government is considering increasing the retirement age of judges of the Supreme Court and the Court of Appeal. It has warned that extending the tenure of sitting judges at this point of time is likely to be viewed by the public as an attempt to interfere with the independence of the judiciary.

The main issue raised by the BASL is therefore one of preserving public confidence in the administration of justice. A discussion organised by the BASL also highlighted that this issue has implications beyond Sri Lanka. Representatives of the Commonwealth Lawyers Association and LAWASIA acknowledged that many countries have increased the retirement age of judges in recognition of greater life expectancy and the value of retaining experienced judges. Their concern was not with increasing the retirement age itself but with changing the tenure of sitting judges while politically significant corruption cases are before the courts. In such circumstances, even well intentioned reform could create a public perception that the judiciary is being influenced to take forward the government’s mandate in a partisan manner.

Maintain Confidence

The challenge before the government is to preserve two equally important objectives. The first is to continue implementing the people’s mandate to hold the corrupt and those responsible for grave crimes accountable before the law. The second is to ensure that nothing is done which could diminish public confidence in the independence and impartiality of the judiciary that is entrusted with carrying out that responsibility. The strength of the present accountability process lies in the confidence it has generated among the public that investigations, prosecutions and judicial decisions are being made according to law as in the convictions that have been secured. Sri Lanka has come a long way from the days when politically sensitive cases rarely reached a successful conclusion. It would be unfortunate if doubts regarding the independence of the judiciary were to overshadow what has otherwise been a significant institutional achievement.

In the face of the concerns expressed by the BASL, opposition political parties and international legal organisations, it would be prudent for the government to widen the discussion on the proposed amendment. If there is a compelling case to increase the retirement age of judges of the superior courts, that case should be placed before the public and parliament and debated openly. Such a constitutional amendment should not rest solely on the government’s parliamentary majority, even if it has the numbers to secure its passage. Simply utilising the numbers that the government on its own to make changes to the constitution will not increase its legitimacy or credibility. Those values will be strengthened if they were preceded by public consultation and supported across party lines in Parliament. Bipartisan political support can be expected from those in the opposition, of whom there are many, who have shown an inclination to practice responsible politics in the national interest.

The people voted not only to change a government but to change a system. They expected those who abused public trust to be held accountable through institutions that commanded public confidence. That expectation is beginning to be fulfilled. It should not be placed at risk by constitutional change that lacks broad public acceptance. If the government believes there is a compelling case to extend the retirement age of the judges of the superior courts, it should first make that case to the people and seek bipartisan support in Parliament with those in the opposition who are also sincere about anti-corruption and good governance. The challenge is to protect the independence of the judiciary while ensuring that no one is above the law. Overcoming this challenge is the surest way to make Sri Lanka’s transition from a culture of impunity to one of accountability a lasting one.

by Jehan Perera

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Intelligence-led governance: the strategic path to a sovereign nation

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In an increasingly volatile and interconnected world, the strength of a nation is no longer determined solely by the size of its military, the abundance of its natural resources, or the growth of its economy.

In an increasingly volatile and interconnected world, the strength of a nation is no longer determined solely by the size of its military, the abundance of its natural resources, or the growth of its economy. The true measure of national strength lies in the resilience of its institutions, the confidence of its people, the effectiveness of its governance, and its ability to anticipate and respond to emerging challenges before they become national crises.

The twenty-first century has introduced a security landscape that is far more complex than ever before. Nations today confront not only conventional military threats but also terrorism, organised crime, cyber-attacks, economic instability, disinformation, climate change, pandemics, energy insecurity, irregular migration, financial crimes, and geopolitical competition. These challenges are interconnected and demand integrated responses rather than isolated solutions.

To navigate this evolving environment successfully, every nation requires a shared strategic vision supported by strong institutions working in harmony. At the centre of this vision should be a modern, professional, and intelligence-led system of governance that enables informed decision-making, protects democratic values, and promotes sustainable national development.

A Shared Strategic Vision

Every successful nation should aspire towards a common national vision:

A Sovereign Nation Happy People Peaceful Society Prosperous Economy A Respected Global Partner

These are not independent aspirations but interconnected national outcomes. Achieving them requires every State institution to work collectively under a common strategic framework rather than as isolated entities pursuing individual objectives.

A sovereign nation is one that possesses not only secure borders but also strong institutions, economic resilience, social cohesion, and the confidence to make independent national decisions. Sovereignty today extends beyond territorial integrity to include economic security, cyber resilience, energy security, food security, environmental sustainability, and protection against external influence.

Good Governance: The Cornerstone

The foundation of every successful nation is good governance.

Transparency, accountability, integrity, professionalism, and efficient public administration create an environment where citizens trust their institutions and investors have confidence in the country’s future. Corruption, political interference, inefficiency, and weak institutions undermine national resilience and weaken sovereignty from within.

Good governance is not merely an administrative principle; it is a national security imperative.

When public institutions function efficiently, public services improve, economic opportunities expand, and social grievances diminish. This reduces vulnerabilities that extremist groups, organised criminals, and foreign actors often exploit.

The Rule of Law and Judicial Independence

An independent judiciary is one of the strongest pillars of democracy.

Justice must be administered impartially and without fear or favour. Citizens must have confidence that the law applies equally to everyone, regardless of social status or political influence.

Judicial independence strengthens public confidence, attracts foreign investment, and reinforces national stability. Investors are more likely to invest in countries where contracts are enforceable, disputes are resolved fairly, and property rights are protected.

Likewise, professional law enforcement agencies play a vital role in safeguarding public order. Intelligence-led policing, supported by modern investigative techniques, community engagement, and technological innovation, enables law enforcement to prevent crime rather than merely react to it.

Human Rights: A Strategic Asset

There is often a misconception that national security and human rights exist in opposition. In reality, they reinforce one another.

Respect for human dignity, equality before the law, freedom of expression, religious freedom, and constitutional rights strengthens national unity and social cohesion. Citizens who trust their institutions are more willing to cooperate with authorities, report suspicious activities, and participate in community safety initiatives.

Communities become the first line of defence against extremism, organised crime, and social unrest when mutual trust exists between citizens and the State.

Human rights should therefore be viewed not as obstacles to security but as essential components of sustainable national security.

Intelligence: The Strategic Nerve Centre

At the heart of modern governance lies an effective national intelligence network.

Traditionally, intelligence was associated primarily with military operations and counter-terrorism. Today, its responsibilities extend much further.

Modern intelligence supports political leadership by providing timely, accurate, objective, and actionable information that enables informed decision-making. It anticipates threats, identifies opportunities, and supports strategic planning across all sectors of government.

An effective intelligence system should be:

*  Predictive rather than reactive.

*  Preventive rather than investigative alone.

*  Integrated rather than fragmented.

*  Technology-driven rather than paper-based.

*  People-centred rather than institution-centred.

Artificial intelligence, big data analytics, cyber intelligence, financial intelligence, geospatial intelligence, satellite imagery, behavioural analysis, digital forensics, and open-source intelligence are transforming the intelligence profession worldwide.

Countries that fail to modernise their intelligence capabilities risk strategic surprise and reduced competitiveness in an increasingly data-driven world.

Intelligence Beyond National Security

Modern intelligence should no longer be confined to counter-terrorism or espionage.

Its role should extend to supporting national development through the protection of critical infrastructure, monitoring economic trends, securing supply chains, safeguarding maritime interests, protecting natural resources, and assessing climate-related risks.

Intelligence should assist policymakers in areas such as:

*  Economic planning

*  Public health preparedness

*  Disaster risk reduction

*  Cybersecurity

*  Energy security

*  Food security

*  Environmental protection

*  Artificial intelligence governance

*  Foreign policy

*  Investment protection

An intelligence-led government anticipates future challenges instead of merely responding after crises emerge.

Whole-of-Government Cooperation

One of the greatest weaknesses in many developing nations is institutional fragmentation.

Government agencies often collect valuable information independently but fail to share it effectively. This creates duplication, delays, and missed opportunities.

A National Intelligence Fusion Centre should integrate information from intelligence services, police, armed forces, immigration, customs, financial intelligence units, cyber security agencies, disaster management authorities, health services, and environmental agencies.

Such integration provides decision-makers with a comprehensive national picture and significantly improves crisis management and strategic planning.

Economic Prosperity Through Security

Economic development depends fundamentally upon stability.

Foreign investors seek countries where governance is predictable, corruption is controlled, contracts are enforceable, infrastructure is secure, and political stability is maintained.

An effective intelligence system quietly protects these conditions by identifying threats to investment, monitoring organised crime, preventing financial fraud, protecting critical infrastructure, and safeguarding strategic industries.

Security and economic development are therefore mutually reinforcing.

Investment creates employment.

Employment reduces poverty.

Reduced poverty strengthens social stability.

Social stability reinforces national security.

International Partnerships

No nation can successfully confront modern threats alone.

Transnational organised crime, cybercrime, narcotics trafficking, terrorism, money laundering, illegal migration, and environmental crimes operate across borders.

Regional and global intelligence cooperation has therefore become indispensable.

Information sharing, joint investigations, coordinated maritime surveillance, and collaborative cyber defence significantly enhance national capabilities while strengthening diplomatic relationships.

Strong intelligence supports effective diplomacy.

Effective diplomacy enhances trade, investment, tourism, education, and technological cooperation.

Ultimately, international confidence contributes directly to national prosperity.

The Relationship Between National Stakeholders

National success depends upon collaboration among all stakeholders.

Government provides leadership and policy direction.

The judiciary safeguards justice.

Law enforcement protects public safety.

The intelligence community provides foresight and early warning.

Civil society strengthens social cohesion.

Educational institutions develop future leaders.

The private sector generates investment and innovation.

International partners facilitate trade, cooperation, and knowledge sharing.

Citizens themselves remain the most important stakeholders.

When these institutions operate with mutual trust, shared objectives, and effective coordination, they create a resilient State capable of responding confidently to both domestic and international challenges.

The Strategic Path Forward

Every nation requires a long-term vision rather than short-term political agendas.

That vision should place national interest above partisan interests and institutional collaboration above bureaucratic competition.

The pathway is straightforward:

Good Governance Independent Judiciary Professional Law Enforcement Protection of Human Rights Effective National Intelligence Network Political Stability Investor Confidence Economic Growth Foreign Direct Investment Peaceful Society Happy People A Sovereign Nation

This strategic chain demonstrates that sovereignty is not achieved through military strength alone. It is the cumulative outcome of good governance, justice, intelligence, economic resilience, and public confidence.

The future belongs to nations that can anticipate change, adapt rapidly, and make informed strategic decisions. Intelligence must therefore evolve from being viewed solely as a security function to becoming a central pillar of national governance and development.

A modern intelligence network should serve as the strategic nervous system of the State—connecting governance with justice, justice with security, security with economic prosperity, and prosperity with international respect.

A sovereign nation is ultimately one where institutions are trusted, citizens are protected, rights are respected, opportunities are created, and decisions are guided by knowledge rather than assumption. When all stakeholders work in harmony under a shared strategic vision, the result is a nation that is secure, prosperous, peaceful, and respected on the global stage.

The challenge before every developing nation is therefore not simply to strengthen its security apparatus but to embrace Intelligence-Led Governance as a national philosophy—one that integrates good governance, rule of law, human rights, innovation, and strategic foresight into a unified framework for sustainable national development. Such a vision will not only safeguard sovereignty but also ensure that future generations inherit a nation defined by stability, prosperity, and enduring peace

By Mahil Dole, SSP (Rtd.)

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The perfect victim: How institutions respond

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Nils Christie

It has been almost two months since the judgement of Abeyasinghe v Tilakaratne and others by the Supreme Court. Since then, I have often been asked a simple question, which I, too, have asked myself. “Has anything actually changed?” My answer is both yes and no. Judgements can uphold the law, direct institutions and clarify principles. But they cannot, by themselves, change cultures.

I shall take the liberty of writing this piece because, in the weeks following the judgment, I have found myself reflecting less on the outcome of the case and more on what it reveals about our institutions. Yet institutions do not change simply because a court has spoken. They change only when they are willing to question long-held assumptions, reflect honestly on their procedures and practices, learn from their shortcomings and act decisively to foster a culture that places accountability at its centre.

The myth of the perfect victim

One such assumption is about the conduct of the Ideal or Perfect victim. The concept of the “ideal victim” was first articulated by the Norwegian criminologist Nils Christie in 1986. Interestingly, Christie was not concerned with identifying those most likely to become victims of crime. Instead, his question was who is most readily recognised and accepted by society as a “real” victim? Society is often more willing to extend sympathy and credibility to victims who fit a particular stereotype. According to Christie, the “ideal victim” is someone perceived to be weak and vulnerable, engaged in a respectable activity, in a place where they have every right to be, harmed by someone clearly viewed as “big” or “bad,” and, importantly, a stranger rather than someone they know. These characteristics continue to influence how victims are perceived today. Although we may not consciously apply such criteria, they often shape our instinctive judgments about who deserves to be believed.

In the context of sexual violence within universities, the assumptions surrounding the ideal victim quickly begin to unravel. Power relationships within universities are often complex, and professional relationships may have existed before the misconduct. The alleged perpetrator may not be a stranger but a lecturer, supervisor, colleague, or fellow student. The complainant may continue interacting with the alleged perpetrator because academic progression or employment leaves little choice. When a victim does not fit the mould of the “perfect victim,” attention shifts away from the conduct of the alleged perpetrator and towards the conduct of the complainant.

What should be kept in mind is that victims respond to trauma differently. Some report immediately; many do not. Some become emotional; others appear composed. Some resign from their workplace, while others continue to work because they have no realistic alternative or because they wish to confront the violence head on. Some preserve every piece of evidence; others delete messages simply because they cannot bear to see them again. Yet these perfectly human responses are often interpreted as reasons to doubt credibility.

Universities provide a particularly complex setting for this phenomenon. Most complainants do not initially seek justice. More often, they simply want the harassment to stop so that they can continue their education or employment in an environment where they feel safe. Sometimes victims make anonymous complaints, not because they wish to avoid accountability, but because anonymity provides the only sense of security they have. During preliminary inquiries/ fact finding processes, confidentiality can often be maintained. However, if the matter proceeds to a formal disciplinary process, complainants are usually required to reveal their identities. It is at this point that many decide not to proceed further, not because the harassment did not occur, but because the personal cost of pursuing justice becomes overwhelming.

Perhaps this should prompt us to ask a different question. Instead of asking why anonymous complaints exist or why complainants don’t come forward (sooner), should we not ask why so many complainants feel unsafe engaging with the institutional process?

The subject of scrutiny

When survivors do come forward, they frequently encounter another familiar phenomenon, victim blaming.

“Why didn’t you complain earlier?”

“Why didn’t you go to the police?”

“If you were sexually harassed, why are you still working there?”

“Why did you continue interacting with him?”

“The reason this happened is because you showed positivity towards him.”

“There is no smoke without fire.”

Although these questions appear different, they have something in common. They all examine the behaviour of the complainant. Very few begin by asking why the alleged perpetrator behaved in the way described. The familiar proverb, “There is no smoke without fire,” is often used to suggest that the complainant must have done something to invite the misconduct. Yet perhaps we have misunderstood where the fire lies. The fire is not the complainant’s behaviour. The fire is the conduct of the alleged perpetrator. The complaint is the smoke that finally becomes visible.

These responses also reveal another contradiction. If a victim complains immediately, some might question their motives. If they delay, the delay becomes the issue. If they resign, they may be described as unstable or unable to cope. If they remain in employment, their continued presence is taken as evidence that the misconduct could not have been serious or that it never had happened. If they show emotion, they risk being dismissed as irrational. If they remain composed, they may be accused of exaggerating. In truth, there is often no version of events in which a complainant can satisfy every expectation placed upon them. If our systems only work for the “perfect victim,” then they were never truly designed for victims at all.

The silence that speaks

The recent judgment also prompted me to reflect on another aspect of institutional culture, silence. Within academia, even discussing judgments concerning one’s own institution may be framed as bringing the institution into disrepute. Such framing places academics in an impossible position. Those who speak are sometimes portrayed as being disloyal or as failing to respect the institution they serve. Yet genuine respect for an institution should not require silence in the face of injustice. Universities are places that encourage academic freedom, critical inquiry, evidence-based reasoning, and intellectual debate. They should, therefore, be places where uncomfortable conversations are not avoided but embraced.

The relative silence surrounding the judgment in academia raises important questions. Does silence reflect satisfaction that justice has been served? Does it reflect concern about damaging the reputation of one’s university? Does it reflect uncertainty about whether difficult institutional conversations are welcome? Or does it reflect a real or perceived fear of professional consequences for speaking openly? These are questions that deserve thoughtful reflection.

Post judgement reflections

At the same time, my experience in the weeks following the judgment has also been one of hope. Individuals who have experienced different forms of abuse have quietly come forward to share their own stories with me. Some have sought legal advice. Others have simply wanted someone to listen. Their experiences remind me that judgments do more than resolve disputes between parties. They send messages to those who have remained silent, that seeking justice remains possible. Perhaps that is one answer to the question I posed at the beginning of this article. Has anything actually changed? For some victims, I believe the answer is yes. A judgement can restore hope and encourage those who had previously felt that their voices would never be heard.

Yet judgments alone cannot erase trauma, restore lost years, or undo the personal and professional consequences that many victims endure. Courts can interpret the law, but they cannot, by themselves, transform institutional culture. Culture changes only when institutions and university communities are willing to learn from judgments rather than merely comply with them. It changes when realities of power imbalances are recognised, when credibility is assessed through evidence rather than stereotypes, and when the question “Why did the victim not come forward sooner?” is replaced with “What conditions made it so difficult for the victim to come forward?” Ultimately, the true value of a judgement lies not only in the orders it makes, but also in the conversations it inspires and the institutional self-reflection it demands. Whether anything truly changes will not depend on the judgement itself, but on whether institutions have the courage to learn from them.

(Udari Abeyasinghe is attached to the Faculty of Dental Sciences at the University of Peradeniya)

Kuppi is a politics and pedagogy happening on the margins of the lecture hall that parodies, subverts, and simultaneously reaffirms social hierarchies.

by Udari Abeyasinghe

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