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Walking down aisle of success

by Zanita Careem
Nelum is a self-motivated individual, marked by her single-minded quest for success and achievement.She is breaking stereotypes with her talent, and inspiring countless women. Nelum’s strong determination to be independent, influenced her to be an entrepreneur. A fashion icon, who makes statements in any outfit at any place.
Nelum Haththella is the founder and editor of “Brides Of Sri Lanka” magazine, the premier bridal and wedding magazine is Sri Lanka. A graduate of Edith Cowan University, Australia with a Bachelor’s degree in Communications and IT, Nelum started exploring her many talents from a very young age.
As the daughter of film producer Florence Haththella, she acted in films and teledramas as a child and moved on to modeling for TV commercials. At the same time she also explored her writing skills and won Young Writer of the Year in 1995 for her poetry. Soon after graduating, she got married to Viraj Rajapakse, a pilot and moved to the Maldives, where she worked as a manager for an IT and software development firm.
05Upon returning to Sri Lanka for her confinement, she completed a Diploma in HR and soon after formed her publishing company and hence the birth of Brides Of Sri Lanka, HealthWise and Mangalyaa. She proved her excellent entrepreneurial skills she inherited from her mother when she won Woman Entrepreneur of the Year in 2015, in the medium business category.
With such accolades, this inspiring lady is still continuing her explorations of talents and is now using her spare time to share her passion for food and travel via Food & Travel Escapades by Nel – a Youtube channel and social media blog. She uses this platform to share her exquisite recipes, food reviews, travel destinations with videos and photos.
How did your business come into being
I founded my company in December 2006 with the website www.bridesofsrilanka.com which was designed to bridge the gap between Wedding Planning and Technology. At the time, the use of the World Wide Web for planning a wedding was novel to Sri Lanka, but was widely embraced by young tech savvy couples. They found the features of my website to be time saving and extremely useful; especially the prospective brides and grooms living overseas. Then six month later, I decided to release a printed version of the website in a magazine form (Brides Of Sri Lanka magazine), which too became a favorite among brides and grooms. And ever since, we’ve been growing and now are proudly onboard Sri Lankan Airlines, is the media partner for reputed wedding expos in Sri Lanka and overseas and the two-time Gold Winner at the Sri Lanka Print Awards (2019 & 2020). We are also the only wedding magazine available for worldwide readership on all digital media platforms including Magzter, Online, Android & iOS Apps.
A few years ago, we also released Mangalyaa, a wedding magazine to satiate the Sinhala readership.
What has been the best and hardest thing about being an entrepreneur
There best things would be how I am able to create job opportunities to many and empower them with my expertise and knowledge, how am I able to aspire many youngsters to follow their dreams and venture into businesses and mostly importantly how I am able to be a part of the success story of my clients who are our advertisers.
The hardest thing would be to decide when to take a break, as you can get quite addicted to doing what you love.
Your passion and advise to young entrepreneurs
My passion is to be of help to others. My advice to young entrepreneurs is to start business with innovative ideas and products which makes you unique and indispensable. As a youngster, it is very easy to get carried away with what your heart believes in and overrule what your head tells you, but if you whole-heartedly believe in your business model, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Be persistent, resilient and take every hurdle as a learning experience. You are the only one standing your way to success!
Can woman have it all? Share your takes on this
Of course a woman can have it all! The biggest mistake most people make is think that being a woman is a disadvantage to becoming successful – on the contrary, women by nature are gifted with far more better characteristic such as endurance, resilience, tolerance, empathy and ability to multi-task, to name a few. Woman or man, having it all totally depends on how badly you want to have it all and what you are going to do about it.
What do think of women in sri lanka how do you think it can be better
I think of Sri Lankan women are extraordinary creatures – especially if you look at our history, we’ve had some remarkable women. We’ve had the first woman prime minister and president in the world; so we really can’t say women are oppressed or lack social representation in this country. If we stand our ground for what what we believe in, we are definitely heard. Sadly, however, I feel women in this country don’t maximize their potential due to various reasons. Most often they end their careers to prioritize family soon after marriage making them depend on their husbands for financial support. And funnily enough, most often it is women who encourage women to do this and make them feel that it is a woman’s duty to give up their dreams and careers for the family’s sake. The duty of maintaining the wellbeing of the family has to borne by both husband and wife, not wife alone. As long as we don’t change the mindset of people to treat a woman as an equal in marriage, we will not develop as a nation! We need to empower our daughters with education and financial independence. It is only then a woman can live with her head held high and never have the reason to feel inferior to any!
With so many magazines around what is that thing which separates your magazine from others
Novelty and the use of modern technologies from graphic design, pre-press to printing. Over the years I think we’ve mastered it to the point our printer won Gold twice consecutively at the Sri Lanka Print Awards for Brides Of Sri Lanka magazine in 2019 and 2020 in the magazine and periodicals category. We’ve always been trendsetters and kept ourselves far ahead of competition, because our challenge has always been to better ourselves from where we are.
Why a bridal magazine?
A wedding in Sri Lanka is a greatly celebrated milestone in one’s life. And I know the dilemmas I faced as a young bride when I was planning my own wedding many years ago. Wedding planning period is a very trying time for a young girl as she is new to the whole experience and is caught in a web of opinions of parents, relatives, friends and wedding professionals. I wanted the best information resource for such young brides where they are guided to choose the most unique ideas and best vendors to plan their most memorable day. And with our international exposure, I am able to showcase the great talents we have in Sri Lanka to the rest of the world, making our island nation the best wedding destination.
Your husband’s role in supporting you
Right after God, he’s my go-to for advice, support and help. Being the youngest of four, I was very strictly raised by my mother who was a young window. I always say I earned my freedom the day I got married. Viraj and I started our courtship at a very young age and he’s become my best friend. He extremely supportive and believes in everything I do and that has given me the utmost freedom to do take up any challenge or risk without fear. It is very important to find a life partner who embarks on life’s journey, not in front of you or behind you, but right next to you, holding your hand along the way.
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Polished to Perfection

Girdling the globe with his exquisite jewellery dating back to the turn of the last century was N.D.H Abdul Caffoor. Making his country proud at several international exhibitions, Abdul Caffoor’s gems and jewellery have even decorated the crowned heads of England, Belgium, Spain and Rumania. His establishment has braved many business challenges for over 130 years. We travelled back in time to delve into the character of this trendsetting Lankan whose 150th birth anniversary falls this year.
BY RANDIMA ATTYGALLE
‘Except on Friday- when he goes to the mosque and locks his business, Abdul Caffoor, wearing his fez, stands at the door to welcome customers himself. He invites you in, offers you a seat and spreads out before you not one at a time nor by the meager twos or threes, but by the handful, such jewels as you have read of in the Arabian Nights Entertainments…’ writes Frances Kayes in her article Coral Strands published in Good Housekeeping (1926) giving a tourist’s eye-view of a visit to the establishment of Abdul Caffoor as cited by Asiff Hussein in the book- The Great Days of Colombo (pg 255).
Endorsing his late grandfather Abdul Caffoor’s principles which he never compromised, his grandson Hussein Caffoor, Director- N.D.H Abdul Caffoor (Pvt) Ltd. shares with us today an anecdote: “One day a customer had walked into grandfather’s store to purchase some goods of immense value. However, it had been very close to the mosque time on Friday and he urged one of my uncles who was assisting him in the store to quickly close the doors despite the customer hinting that he was to do a huge transaction. As my uncle would recollect, grandfather had said that if he wished to do so, he had to wait until his return from the mosque and to my uncle’s surprise he found the customer waiting for them for nearly two hours!”
One of the custodians of the N.D.H Abdul Caffoor (Pvt) Ltd today, Hussein Caffoor describes his late grandfather as a “head strong man of integrity and character.” Although not privileged to have ever met his grandfather at the time of his death on November 1, 1948, Hussein relives his ancestor through the stories of his father Rafi (the youngest son of Abdul Caffoor), his uncles and the enduring legacy he had left behind. Having joined the business in 1979, Hussein is joined by his two cousins Iqbal and Zubair Caffoor in keeping their legendary grandfather’s legacy alive.
Building a business empire
On April 8, 1875, Noordeen Hajiar Abdul Ghaffoor (later known as Caffoor) was born to a well reputed Moor family in Grandpass, Colombo. He was affectionately called ‘NDH’. As grandson Hussein tells us today, NDH whose father was a shroff at the Colombo Municipality, often interacted with British officers including leading businessmen. “This exposed his sons to the world of business and particularly my grandfather who had a strong sense of business from a very young age. With a silver coin given by his maternal uncle, he had bought a couple of ivory fans and sold them for a profit. He would also board large passenger ships that docked at the Colombo harbour with his uncle who was a successful gem merchant at that time.” NDH first learnt the ropes of the gem business, having apprenticed under his uncle. At 19-years of age, he went on to set up his own jewellery shop at the Bristol Hotel Building on York Street.
The Colombo harbour was the nucleus of all NDH’s business dealings. He was one of the few merchants who received exclusive permission to board ships in to sell gems and jewellery. He set up his own offices right across the harbour adjoining the St. Peter’s Church, (bordering the Grand Oriental Hotel) and moving there from the Bristol Building. “My grandfather had a cordial relationship with the church, so much so the church authorities agreed to sell their properties adjoining the church to him. He couldn’t have got a better place for business than No 40 Church Street where those disembarking could directly see his gems and jewels,” says Hussein.
NDH didn’t stop at that point. He went onto expand his business empire by building the iconic Ghaffoor Building which was completed by 1915. The four-storey wedged-shaped building with a striking dome, located on the corner of the present Sir Baron Jayathilaka Mawatha and Leyden Bastian Street in Colombo Fort not only changed the skyline of Colombo but also became a game-changer in business in the island’s commercial capital.
Ghaffoor Building
Hussein, sharing the tale behind the uphill task of erecting the edifice by his grandfather says: “the entire block where the Ghaffoor Building stands today had been part of the Beira Lake then. Under the Lake Development Scheme reclamation work was done (Reclamation Rd nearby holds testimony to this) and as part of development, buildings were put up. I’m told by my father and uncles that due to water seeping in, no contractor came forward to erect the Ghaffoor Building until Walker Sons and Company took up the challenge.”
Describing it as ‘one of the largest and finest structures in Colombo’, Allister Macmillan in his Seaports of India and Ceylon (1928) goes onto note that NDHs’ ‘splendid jewellery emporium is located there.’ Macmillan further documents that, ‘Ceylon is famous for its precious stones and these are displayed in Mr. Gaffoor’s premises in great variety ranging from raw uncut jewels as they are found in the earth to polished gems worth a king’s ransom.’ Gazetted as a protected monument in 2000, the historical Ghaffoor Building which housed many eminent local and international business establishments from time to time is now a property of the Urban Development Authority.
International reputation
By the age of 26, NDH’s growing romance with gems and jewellery had reached dizzying heights locally and in other continents. In 1901 he was was invited to display his finest pearls, rubies, sapphires and other jewellery art to the Prince and Princess of Wales at the Kandy Pavilion during their Royal visit. Just two years later in 1903, he exhibited at the St Louis Exhibition, USA. Then again, he had a stall at the All Ceylon Exhibition in 1912, and the British Empire Exhibition in 1924. In 1925 he was present at the Wembley Exhibition where Her Majesty Queen Mary visited his stall and took a keen personal interest in the exquisite gems and jewellery he displayed. His final exhibition was at the Philadelphia Sesquicentennial Exposition in 1926, where he was awarded the Grand Prize for the biggest collection of gems ever displayed in the USA. His precious articles were sought by some of world’s richest men who specialized in antiquity including Harry Winston who was dubbed as ‘King of Diamonds’.
Interestingly, Abdul Ghaffoor or NDH eventually came to be known as Abdul Caffoor as the British found ‘Ghaffoor’ hard to articulate. “Subsequently, all his businesses were registered under the name Abdul Caffoor and today the business goes as N.D.H Abdul Caffoor (Pvt) Ltd,” explains grandson Hussein. A great enthusiast of the British architectural tradition, NDH got down British engineers and architects to design not only his offices but also his private bungalows. The Gem Museum he established at his Church Steet offices in 1929 was designed by the well known British architectural firm Edwards Reid and Begg. Several of his personal properties which are now occupied by his descendants around Green Path (present Anagarika Dharmapala Mw) and Ananda Coomaraswamy Mw mirror the British tradition. What he chose as his Kollupitiya residence- ‘Icicle Hall’ was no exception. Originally believed to have been a residence of Chief Justice Sir Alfred George Lascelles before NDH occupied it, this grand property was subsequently sold and became Siri Kotha or the headquarters of the UNP during Prime Minister Sir John Kotelawala’s time.
The York Building on Chatham Street which houses N.D.H Abdul Caffoor Jewellers today is another impressive building built by its founder. The present offices of the jewellery store had originally been a textile shop known as Ghaffoor’s says Hussein.
An ardent horse rider, Abdul Caffoor taught all his sons to ride. “I’m told that he had his stables on present Dharmapala Mawatha. His eldest son Falil was a great polo player and he used to ride on Galle Face green with Prime Minister D.S Senanayake. Apparently on the fateful day the Premier fell off his horse, it had been Uncle Falil who had been the first informant of the tragedy,” recollects Hussein.
A great philanthropist
Abdul Caffoor married Ummu Nafeesa and together they had five sons and three daughters. As much as he was known for his achievements in the business world, he was also known for his piety and philanthropy. He was a great benefactor of numerous religious and educational institutions including the Deaf and Blind School (then known as the Deaf and Dumb School) in Ratmalana, Zahira College Colombo, Child Protection Society and many notable mosques. “His commitment to religious and other institutions transcending religious and ethnic divisions was remarkable. My grandfather was such a visionary who believed in the Sri Lankan identity. This was reflected in all his international dealings including coveted exhibitions at which he kept the Lankan flag flying high. He was also an unassuming man who did not want his left hand to know what his right did,” says his grandson.
Visionary Lankan
Ceylon Daily News
of November 2, 1948 reported on his death: ‘Mr. N.D.H Abdul Caffoor, the well-known gem merchant of Ceylon died at his residence ‘Icicle Hall’ Kollupitiya yesterday. The funeral will take place at the Maradana Mosque this morning. Mr. Caffoor started his business in 1894 and it was sheer merit that brought him success. At his own expense he took part in a series of world exhibitions which, while increasing his own reputation, brought publicity to the island.’
In 1993, the government honoured this trendsetting Lankan with a stamp belonging to the National Heroes series, having previously named a street in Kollupitiya ‘Abdul Ghaffoor Mawatha’.
Sir Henry Moore, Governor General in his tribute to this visionary published in the Ceylon Muslim League Senate, November 1, 1953 wrote: ‘Wherever he travelled, he maintained the highest traditions of business and promoted the best interests of Ceylon; but despite his great business acumen and the wealth he acquired by its exercise, he personally eschewed the luxuries of life and lived simply according the devout Muslim tradition.’
(Pic credit: Sujatha Jayaratne, Abdul Caffoor family archives)
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Yoland’s identity in fashion

Spring 2025 Yoland collection is modelled by Ushani Wijeratne.
By Zanita Careem
Yoland Aluvihare is a legend and an icon in local batik landscape. Her unique rise to fame is indeed a truly amazing journey.! An astute and determined businesswoman, she designs to empower women,making them enchance the features of the wearer but never outshine them.
A household name in Sri Lanka, Yoland’s reputation has always crossed the seas and was invited by fashion fairs all over the globe to showcase her unique form of art and design. The business spirit in her saw the opening of her own retail outlet called the Yoland Collection which became the number one boutique store in Sri Lanka. “I always believe to be truly unique and create something special , I follow my own instincts and create something I love and are proud of”says Yoland. Her label Yoland collection covers the full spectrum of fashion from silk sarees, kaftans, scarves, dresses and neckties which never fails to attract customers. Yoland’s designs reflect those values in a contemporary style, something that we could wear always,appreciate,and stands the test of time.
Her signature style is immediately recognisable and sets her apart from others.
I am also committed to |Made in Sri Lanka” adage and her mission is to re -invigorate domestic manufacturing and create an offering of distinguished silhouettes for the women who values quality and local craftsmanship.Her clientele is impressive and boasts of socialites and the glitterati not only from Sri Lanka but also from abroad. Her collections have graced fashion runways in Italy, Germany, Pakistan, Australia, France, Switzerland, Singapore and Japan amongst many more.
For her efforts she was been rewarded with several accolades both locally and internationally. At the Fashion Asia Awards in China a few years she won ‘Asia’s Top Fashionable Selling Brand of the Year’ and more recently won the Commonwealth Women Entrepreneur of the Year Her journey is a testament to her ambition, creativity and a relentless pursuit of excellence. Her elegance and persona I guess pushed her own cloth line.
She was always blessed with the intuition to know what women wanted to wear at a particular moment in their lives but also what women wanted to wear to make an impact. From colourful tradional pieces to contemporary fashion , her silhouettes reflect vibrant colours, and rich cultural heritage.
Yoland’s daughter Nisa Aluwihara has taken her over the mantle of her mother’s business.. Nisa,versatile and innovative has taken “The brand ‘Yoland Collection’ to the international design world. Nisa has been inspired by her mother’s creativity. “The entrepreneurial spirit in me was inherited from my mother ” says Nisa. Embracing the multi faceted exposure during her childhood, Nisa lends her intrinsic love for batiks and fashion into thier homegrown business with passion. Ushani Wijeratne Rambukwella, an expert in IT business science and environmental studies has now joined Yoland to pursue her passion in designing. Poised, confident and with a strong of sense of style, beautiful Ushani said, I’m really excited to be part of Yoland Collection. She is ready to step inside the fabulous world of Yoland’s batik world .
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Hilton Sri Lanka to celebrate the month of love with memorable experiences

Hilton properties in Sri Lanka are set to spark the love between partners with enticing and exclusive packages said a press release.
Hilton Sri Lanka invites couples to celebrate love in grandeur this Valentine’s season with an array of exclusive and thoughtfully curated experiences across its properties. Whether indulging in an elegant city retreat or escaping to a serene hideaway, Hilton promises a romantic celebration unlike any other.
Hilton Colombo
From 5 to 16 February, the hotel lobby will host an exciting competition for couples. Participants can enter the contest by capturing a photo with the stunning centerpiece and sharing it on Facebook or Instagram along with the location tag and the mention of Hilton Colombo (@hiltoncolombo). Lucky winners will receive weekend stays at Hilton Yala Resort, DoubleTree by Hilton Weerawila Rajawarna Resort, and Hilton Colombo.
On 14 February, the Lotus Lawn sets the stage for an opulent Valentine’s dinner under the stars. Priced at Rs. 138,888 nett per couple, this enchanting evening includes a five-course gourmet meal, a bottle of Champagne, a rose for every lady, private butler service, round-trip transfers, a photo backdrop for cherished memories, and live entertainment by the Gustav Mahler Orchestra of Sri Lanka.
For those starting the day on a romantic note, Graze Kitchen offers a delightful breakfast, featuring an array of morning favourites in an elegant setting. Additionally, guests can indulge in a lavish lunch buffet featuring Valentine’s themed mocktails or an exquisite dinner buffet featuring Valentine’s themed cocktails and mocktails.
The first 100 ladies making an online reservation for dinner at Graze Kitchen will receive a set of branded perfume vials courtesy of Exclusive Lines.
L.A.B. presents a Valentine’s High Tea from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm complete with a curated high tea platter, a choice of cocktail or mocktail, and live entertainment by Switch. The first 50 ladies making an online reservation will also receive branded perfume vials.
SunsetBlu transforms into a vibrant celebration hub on 14 and 15 February from 5:00 pm onwards, featuring couples’ contests and beverage specials. Guests can also indulge in an exclusive one-for-one cocktail offer from the bar’s specially curated Valentine’s cocktail menu, making for an evening of romance and revelry. Coldsweat will provide live entertainment on 14 February and OIC on 15 February alongside the resident DJs, ensuring an unforgettable musical experience for all guests.
Hilton Colombo Residences
On 14 February, Flow presents a decadent Valentine’s dinner buffet from 7:00 pm to 10:30 pm, featuring an indulgent selection of gourmet dishes, live entertainment, and a complimentary box of chocolates for each table. Signature delicacies include Salmon Gravlax, Beef Wellington, Seafood Paella, Red Velvet Cake with Cheese Frosting, and Hazelnut Chocolate Mousse.
DoubleTree by Hilton Weerawila Rajawarna Resort
Overlooking the picturesque Weerawila Lake, the resort offers an intimate deck-side dinner on 14 February featuring a 15-minute foot massage, a themed welcome beverage, a bouquet of roses, a five-course menu, a bottle of sparkling or table wine, and live entertainment.
Couples seeking a magical garden setting can opt for a Gazebo dinner inclusive of a BBQ fusion menu, a welcome beverage, a rose for every lady, and live entertainment.
Seafood lovers can indulge in a gourmet experience at Redshank, where an exclusive five-course seafood dinner, complemented by a themed welcome beverage, a rose, and live entertainment.
As the evening unfolds, couples will have the magical opportunity to release a sky lantern together, watching it ascend into the starry night—symbolizing their love, hopes, and dreams soaring into the heavens.
For a serene afternoon, Turnstone offers a Valentine’s High Tea from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm a featuring an array of sweet and savory delights against the stunning backdrop of the setting sun over Weerawila Lake.
Hilton Yala Resort
Set against the breathtaking wilderness of the Yala National Park, Hilton Yala Resort presents an opulent honeymoon package with two nights on a full-board basis. This romantic escape includes a choice of Premium Suites or Premium Pool Villas, elegant bed décor, a bottle of sparkling wine, exclusive
turn-down amenities, a complimentary 30-minute spa therapy, and a 15% discount on a ‘Lanthaaruma’ dining experience. Early check-in and late checkout are subject to availability.
For a memorable dining experience, Lanthaaruma offers a poolside seven-course degustation dinner for two starting at USD 200, featuring live entertainment and a bottle of Prosecco. Alternatively, couples can indulge in a Beach Bush BBQ experience starting at USD 300, including a romantic beach walk, a bottle of Champagne, and live entertainment. Limited tables are available for both experiences.
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