Excerpted from Chosen Ground: The Clara Motwani
Saga by Goolbai Gunasekera
Much of Father’s life was lived away from us. His work as Professor of Sociology both in India and the USA meant that his holiday times did not necessarily dovetail with ours. Mother was more inclined to take us wherever he was working, thus ensuring that vacation time was used as gainfully as possible in educationally guided travel.
The minute Father heard we were coming to India, he would acquire every brochure put out by the Tourist Department. He would then write to us telling us what (to him) were exciting ruins, dams, game reserves, palaces, heritage sites and such like destinations we would be visiting that vacation. Our holding agendas were as perfectly timed as a Bach Fugue.
We were expected to read up, and be thoroughly familiar with the background history of wherever Father decreed we would be going. We often wandered off the beaten track and since five-star hotels were not found dotting the Indian countryside at that time as they do today, much of our accommodation was terribly basic.
The result was that India was ‘done’ so well that we were familiar with much of that vast sub-continent, ranging from Kashmir to Kerala, and from Pondicherry to Calcutta. Our holidays were not pleasure trips. They were seriously educational, and I cannot say that we always enjoyed them.
Su, in particular, had a low tolerance of Father’s idiosyncrasies. She did not believe in keeping her thoughts to herself, unlike me, her far less confrontational elder sister.
“I see no reason to be damn uncomfortable just to see where the Buddha was born,” she complained, after one exceptionally dreary overnight stay near Bodh Gaya. It was all that was available. “I’m not a Buddhist.”
Father almost had apoplexy … a condition in which he often found himself when Su was around.
“You have been brought up as a Theosophist and all religions are to be considered worthy of respect, young lady,” he thundered. “One of the world’s greatest religious teachers hails from this place, and she turns up her silly American nose.”
That last remark needs explanation. Su was born in the USA and carried an American passport. Whenever she was being obstreperous (which was very often, in Father’s opinion) he disclaimed any genetic heritage: Su became Mother’s child. On the other hand, the year that Su won both English Literature and Sinhala Literature prizes in Grade Ten he crowed: “That clever, clever child. She gets her flair for languages from me, of course.”
He would then add modestly: “You know I speak, read and write Sindhi, Hindi, Urdu, Farsi and English as well as any native of those areas.” It was true. Father would often read poems to us in Urdu or Farsi, though we understood not a word. “The beauty of sound is enough,” he would say, continuing to bore us mightily.
At the time Father gained his PhD in Sociology, the subject was not being taught in Indian Universities. In embarking on a crusade to get Sociology included in the better Indian colleges, he enlisted his guardian’s help. Jamshed Mehta had a great deal of influence and he used it now to help his former ward. At the end of this chapter I reproduce the letter Jamshed received from Jawaharlal Nehru, just before Nehru became India’s first Prime Minister.
Father was caught up in the work of the Indian National Congress; and, like many academics, he submitted his proposals to the National Committee for Education. It is worth noting how early in the day the future leaders of India begin planning the education of their country.
Nehru kept his word. Sociology was included in the new curricula of many leading Indian Universities. Father was ecstatic. He embarked on a round of lectures intended to popularize the subject, and did his best to get either Su or me to offer sociology for our university degrees. Neither of us was even remotely interested in it. For this we blamed Father. He had an irritating habit of getting both of us to proof-read his books whenever he felt we had a free moment.
Wading through such exciting tomes as India: A Synthesis of Cultures or The Manu Dharmashastra, Su and I were pretty sick bf the whole topic. I read for a History Honours degree in Bombay, while she opted to do the Home Science course at Lady Irwin College in New Delhi.
Father died the year my daughter, Khulsum, started at my old College (Sophia College) in Bombay. All India Radio announced his passing and gave him credit for having brought sociology to India. It was a tribute Father would have appreciated above all others. He did not have the pleasure of knowing that sociology was Khulsum’s chosen field at that time, although she shifted focus when she transferred to the USA.
It would have delighted him to know that one of his books was recommended to her class as a reference book: Khulsum very much enjoyed telling her professor that the author, Dr. Motwani, was her grandfather. With her Sri Lankan surname, it was unlikely that any connection would normally have been made. But as I said earlier, life moves in circles and my grand-daughter, Tahire, is now doing a degree- in Sociology at St. Lawrence University in New York. She quotes Father as a reference in her work there. Would that he knew.
As a parent, Father would be considered to have been too remote and uninvolved, if judged by today’s criteria of good parenting. He was distant both physically and emotionally. He probably liked us well enough, but we never felt he really loved us. Su and I would discuss this. As said before, we came to the conclusion that the only person Father ever really loved and communicated with was Mother. With her, he was concerned and caring, although it cannot be said that he was an easy husband.
She understood him. But adding to the distance between Father and his offspring was the earlier mentioned fact that he was (inevitably) on a lecture tour at the time of our birth. Ergo, we never really bonded at any stage. If consulted, Mother would have probably put down his inability to show much affection to a lonely childhood, which was probably the case.
Father was a dedicated member of the Masonic Society. It grieved him greatly when the secrets of Masonic ritual became public. He rarely used his Masonic links to further himself, but just once he was tempted. Macmillan’s in Britain had rejected one of his books for printing, as the quota for serious texts that year had been filled. Father wrote to Mr. Harold Macmillan, then Prime Minister of England. In his letter he included a Masonic phrase. His book was accepted.
When fulfilling a two-year lecturing contract in Kansas at Wichita University, Father spoke glowingly of the fabulous collection of silver donated to the Masonic lodge by older members there. Naturally he was a visiting Mason for the duration of his Kansas stint.
When India gained Independence, Father was offered a diplomatic appointment in the newly formed Foreign Office. It would have meant our moving to South Africa where Sir Benegal Rama Rau was being sent as High Commissioner. Putting an academic like Father into a job requiring tact and charm was not one of Nehru’s better ideas. Seeing someone else’s point of view had never been my sire’s forte: he usually felt he was right about everything.
Father knew his own weakness. He turned down the offer, much to Mother’s relief (and Jamshed’s great disappointment), although her personal charm might have done much to mitigate Father’s belligerency.
In his later years, Father paid fewer visits to the US. He had travelled so much that he once told me he used to have nightmares about missing flights and being left in airports. His lecture tours were almost whistle-stop affairs. Sometimes he was just in time to catch a plane for his next engagement. This was specially so in the USA, when bookings of visiting lecturers tended to run very close together.
Father made a distinguished figure in his kurta coat and Nehru cap: a handsome man who kept his youthful appearance with daily Yoga exercises and (he claimed) his vegetarian diet. Father daily stood on his head with no support whatsoever until the age of seventy-five. I was lost in admiration, while Su would acidly ask why anyone would need to do something so patently silly. Fortunately she never dared say this in Father’s presence.
Father had many well-known men and women of letters among his close friends. One of them was Pearl Buck. We read all her books, and were forbidden to ever allow the autographed copies out of our home library. Others were philosophers and sages, such as Jiddu Krishnamurti and George Santayana. I wish now that I had kept Father’s letters. I do not know what happened to them, for he died in the Theosophical Society in Adyar, Chennai, and I did not ask for his personal effects to be forwarded to me. In fact, it never occurred to me how valuable such letters would have been today.
Ananda Bhawan Allahabad, July 10, 1940
Shri Jamshed Nusserwanjee Machimiani Road,
I have your letter of July 6th with, the pamphlets “Sociology” by Dr. Motwani. I entirely agree with you that sociology as a subject should be included in the curriculum of Indian Universities. I am forwarding this pamphlets to the Secretary of the General Education Sub-Committee of the National Planning Committee.
Brown lives matter, too
By Basab Dasgupta
The most disruptive and divisive series of events that I have seen during my life in the US was what happened after George Floyd’s death while in police custody in Minnesota in 2020.Widespread protests and violence, destruction of businesses, surge of Black Lives Matter (BLM) movement, attack on police officers, call to defund the police which in turn led to an increase in criminal activities in big cities, burning of American flags all continued for months. It turned the clock back decades as far as the racial harmony between blacks and whites was concerned.
I must confess that I failed to be too sympathetic towards this movement. I strongly felt that the need for law enforcement is one of our top-most priorities and statistically speaking, there would be more black arrests because crimes are rampant in pre-dominantly black neighbourhoods. I thought that the police officer Derek Chauvin was doing his job in his effort to subdue George Floyd a known criminal with a long rap sheet. Yes, he might have used excessive force but that may have been explained by the situation. Even black conservative commentators like Candace Owens were critical of all the anti-establishment activities.
As part of my dislike for the BLM movement, I was intensely against all woke activism including football player Colin Köpenick’s refusal to stand during national anthems, Hollywood’s encouragement to make more racially inclusive movies featuring more black actors, Joe Biden’s choice for Vice President and Supreme Court judge nominee, combination of BLM with LGBTQ+ movements under the rainbow flag and the entire mantra of “diversity and inclusivity”.
My views changed almost overnight a few days ago when I heard the news of a 23-year-old graduate student, Jaahnavi Kandula of Indian origin, being run over by a police car in Seattle while crossing the street. The accident happened on 23 January 2023, but the video from the bodycam of a police officer was just released. The car was being driven by Kevin Dave who was on an emergency call and driving at 74 mph in a zone with 25 mph speed limit.
There was a photograph of the girl so cute, so innocent, so full of optimism for a bright future; she was going to graduate in December. Tears came to my eyes thinking of my own daughter at that age and the heartbreak of the girl’s parents.
It was shocking and horrific, but such tragic accidents do happen every day in America, and I could shrug it off as another act of God that I would never understand. However, the worst part was the comment of one of the police officers. It was reported that a police officer Daniel Auderer, who happens to be the vice president of the Seattle Police Officers’ Guild, laughed at the incident and made comments like “It’s a regular person”, “there is not much value to her life”, “just write a check for $11000” during a call to Mike Solan, the president of the guild. This was all caught on the body cam video.
I could not believe what I was reading and went to YouTube to see if the video had been posted. Sure enough, I found multiple clips, each containing the comments and laughter. It was not some mumbling and giggling; comments were loud and clear.
The chilling part was the laughter. It was evil, it was as if Satan himself was laughing. It was sickening. Equally shocking was what happened after the incident was brought to the attention of superiors. Daniel reportedly confessed to making those comments but explained away his reaction by claiming that he was laughing not at the dead girl but at how the lawyers would now jump into action arguing about “value of life”. Nothing happened to the officers, not even a suspension for a few days.
The decision was that there was no need to hold Kevin guilty or initiate a criminal investigation. Despite a suspicion that Kevin was under the influence of drugs, Daniel vindicated him by lying on his behalf that he was travelling at 50 mph, a manageable speed for a trained driver, and he was not impaired the so-called “blue wall of silence”.
Daniel was obviously stupid to minimize the value of this girl’s life. I am sure that he did not know that the current President of India is a woman in a country which also elected a woman prime minister in the largest democratic country almost 60 years ago. He does not know that some of the most important positions in the world today are held by Indian women, such as the Assistant Director General of WHO and chief economist of IMF. He probably did not know how to distinguish a woman of Indian origin from other women of colour.
He could not have any appreciation for a young woman coming here for higher studies leaving her family behind so that she could get a good job and help her family live a better life.
As I started to digest the whole episode, it gradually dawned on me. This police officer may not be an isolated example. Many of the other 600,000+ policemen probably share a similar background and attitude. Daniel is a bully, a racist, an uneducated person and brazen enough to openly make such statements because he is used to making such comments.
This is perhaps not surprising. Who wants to be a policeman? Clearly, he must be physically fit and strong. He cannot be well-educated because then he would have chosen a different profession. Who else would want to risk his life every day? He must be a bully because his job is to track down criminals. He is a racist because he has seen in his job that there are more people of colour who are arrested for suspicion of a crime. He probably grew up in an equally uneducated and unsophisticated family environment. We probably only get people like him to join the force.
The policemen in this country supposedly go through regular sensitivity training on race-related issues and how to be objective. Clearly expense for such training is being wasted in Seattle.
I immediately thought of the BLM movement. Suddenly, I understood the rage and frustration of all the African American people joining the movement. I can now believe that the black folks are indeed stopped in much larg-er proportion than their white counterparts for minor offenses. I now believe that police have a very low assessment of their lives. I now believe in stories of police abuse and brutality.
I do not know how the Indian government or the Indian American community will react to this incident. I read headlines like “Biden Administration has promised swift action” and numerous comments expressing outrage and disgust below every YouTube post. Some are demanding “accountability”, but what does it mean? Should the police officer be fired? Should he be tried in a court of law like Derek? Should the police union be dismantled? Indians are peaceful people; they are not going to protest at the State capitol or burn police cars. I suspect that nothing will happen to Kevin or Daniel and the incident will gradually be forgotten.
What can I do? Should I join the BLM movement and encourage its leaders to generalize the name “BLM” to include Brown lives matter? I am sure that Mexicans will join in that effort. Should I say, “Enough with America” and go back to India? Should I organize a protest in front of a local police station? (The Statesman/ANN)
Today I just write to release my anger and to see if “a pen is mightier than a sword”.
(The writer, a physicist who worked in industry and academia, is a Bengali settled in America.)
Politicos junketing while ordinaries are sinking in COL mire
There was a pall of silence over who accompanied our President to the Big Apple for the Big Meeting of the United Nations. Hence our curiosity was roused, minds scratched around for news. Cassandra WhatsApped a good friend of hers now living in California and asked her whether she knew who accompanied our Prez.
We thought in these hard times only the very essential and relevant to the occasion VIPs would be taken along: a lean contingent would be Prez Wckremesinghe’s orders. Cassandra hurried to her computer and googled. Plenty on President Ranil Wickremasinghe’s address to the UN General Assembly on 21 Sept., which was on the theme, “Rebuilding trust and reigniting solidarity and its relevance to Sri Lanka’s recent challenges.” Reading many articles Cass gathered that Prez RW had dealt with the country’s economic and other travails; global geopolitical landscape; climate action taken and to be taken; carbon reduction et al in his address at UNGA.
It was stated in one article that the Prez was accompanied by Minister of Foreign Affairs Ali Sabry, Secretary to the President E M S B Ekanayake, Foreign Secretary Aruni Wijewardena and other senior officials of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. So, she rested her mind that no extraneous hangers-on had accompanied the Prez.
Then came a newspaper write up that MPs Rohitha Abeygunewardena and Mahindananda Aluthgamage were in the contingent – stalwarts of the SLPP. What use were they in the context of the topics on which the Prez made his UN address? Were they experts on any issues that would have been discussed at side meetings? Experts on economics, geopolitical matters, climate change, balance of world power? NO! It seemed to be a pure (or rather impure) peace-making gesture and to keep quiet two demanders for Cabinet positions.
Sops to Cerberus in the way of a plane ride to and from, and a stay in one of the more expensive hotels in the Big Apple? Can you believe that the MPs and two die-hard Pohottu MPs and previous ministers want a joy ride and will do anything to get one? Also, that we poor Sri Lankans, suffering such slings and arrows of bad fortune in a bankrupt country with soaring prices to be paid for even the water we drink, food we so niggardly eat and electricity we so sparingly use have paid for these two to junket? We have to fork out taxes, even those with nothing to show as assets. And where does a huge amount of this collected money go? To pay for pleasure junkets for those we feel have no right to go to the UN General Assembly.
When Mahinda Rajapaksa was the President, he would take a huge group of persons who in the majority were completely redundant and of no use at all to these UN General Assembly annual gatherings. A worker in the UN in New York commented that most of those who went along dispersed soon after they had landed, in a fleet of cars hired for the visit, making a vehicle-hiring Sri Lankan in the US rich. Most of them were not even present when the Sri Lankan president made his address.
At least, they could have helped to reduce the mass of empty seats in the UN Assembly hall. Thus, it was surmised that he was repaying his catchers for being loyal to him – at our expense. No dissent, whether loud or soft, then. No one dared question why or wherefores. No one wanted to be taken on a white van ride; or worse, taken on the final journey. Cassandra must add here that a couple of brave women journos did speak up.
And to think there was a replay of this junketing in 2023, though reduced, under a Prez who understands well the plight the country is in and the need to save every rupee of government money. However, junketing was offered at the country’s expense. And by order of Prez RW. The two mentioned are very rich politicians.
Cassandra experienced a happening that showed her how wary people are now, and untrusting. It is a natural outcome of the type of person the Sri Lankan is thought to be in these much-changed times. Do you remember when even in Middle East airports the Sri Lankan passport was treated with utter disdain and suspicion? Cass recalls that en route to Britain she had her passport and other Sri Lankan travellers’ passports confiscated on entry to the airport in Dubai and handed back only when the plane was re-boarding. She squirmed with embarrassment and resentment, but realised it was all because Sri Lankans had behaved shamefully dishonest and thus all Sri Lankans were branded untrustworthy.
Cass bought some tickets to enjoy a singing and dancing of Julius Caesar. The thousands she gave the young girl were found to be short. Saying she would get the balance from her driver, she instinctively took the tickets and was about to step out when she noticed the consternation of the box office girl. Suspicion, she realised, that she would not return. Cass apologised, placed the tickets on the counter, went out to get the Rs 500 needed and then, retrieving her tickets, commented it was so sad that the young one could not trust this old dame. She assured her it was no fault of hers; she was doing her duty, but people nowadays had killed the trust that was a given in years gone by. Even an absolutely honest and honourable person, grey-haired maybe and dignified, is treated with suspicion. What a sad state of affairs! But we ourselves are to blame since cheating and dishonesty are strong features of the present-day islanders of the Pearl of the Indian Ocean.
Use heart, know heart
By Dr Mohan Jayatilake Consultant Cardiologist
Every year on the 29th of September, World Heart day is observed to raise awareness about cardiovascular disease (CVD), which is heart diseases and strokes. As heart diseases are a leading cause of death in the world people must be educated about them and the timely prevention to achieve this goal. World Heart day commenced in 1999 through the joint efforts of World Health Organization (WHO) and the World Heart Federation (WHF).
The theme of the World Heart Day 2023 is “Use Heart, Know Heart” emphasizing the importance of healthcare worldwide. This year’s campaign focuses on the essential step of knowing your heart first. The World Heart Federation has created this day to raise awareness about cardiovascular diseases.
The key message of World Heart Day this year aims to encourage people to look after themselves, others and nature as well. Putting a coordinated effort to improve ones’ own lifestyle and diet and motivating others to do the same can lead to a reduced number of CVD cases.
Heart diseases and strokes are the worlds’ leading cause of death claiming 17.9 million lives every year. According to WHO statistics 82% of deaths coming in from low and middle income countries are due to lack of resources.
Since a healthy heart is the gateway to a healthy life it is important to ensure the health of your heart. With the growing number of heart patients worldwide it has become a cause of concern since of late.The day is observed by organising events worldwide to make people aware about the warning signs of heart disease so that people can take steps accordingly to avoid this disease.
Together with members of WHF spread the news that at least 80% of premature deaths from heart disease and strokes could be avoided if main risk factors such as heavy smoking, unhealthy diet, reduced physical activity (sedentary lifestyle), stressful lifestyle, psychological issues, hypertension, diabetic and heavy alcoholism are controlled. Being obese and overweight, BMI (Body Mass Index) more than 25, is found to be one of the main risk factors that may harm your heart. Air pollution also can lead to coronary artery disease and stroke, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and lung cancer as short term and long term effects.
Fortunately now we have almost come out of COVID 19 pandemic which caused more vulnerable patients having severe cardiovascular events.
Events of the World Heart Day 2023
There are numerous events at the national and international level promoted by WHF. They disseminate information and hold discussions of various heart ailments at different platforms. Some of them like posters, podcasts and forums are quite popular. The day is marked by providing free fitness check-ups, fundraises, walks, runs, concerts and sporting events. All such events encourage people to stay active and be aware of their health.
Global leaders recognise the urgency to give priority to prevention and control of heart diseases and other non-communicable diseases (NCD).Which include cancer, diabetic, and chronic lung diseases.
How to contribute to observance of the event on World Heart Day
By undergoing heart health check at a center near you.
By managing your weight and keeping BMI index under control with less than 25.
By trying to stay active through different physical activities
By attending seminars to learn about different life saving activities like CPR
By attending fitness lectures and lessons of healthy living
According to this year theme also, use your heart for the betterment of others’ heart, by taking following steps to reduce the burden of heart disease. Stop smoking – Cigarette smokers are 2 to 4 times more prone to get heart diseases and strokes than non-smokers. Passive smoking inside the house will also harm your own heart and your family health, causing cardiovascular disease.
Avoid alcohol – Stressful conditions in life can lead to use of alcohol and smoking. Meditation, yoga, music or involvement with any other aesthetic will help to minimize stress and to move away from alcohol.
Healthy diet at home
Limit saturated fats and trans fats
Limit salt and sugar intake
Consume plenty of fruits and vegetables
Unhealthy diet is one of the main causes of obesity, diabetic and cardiovascular diseases. Rapid urbanisation, changing lifestyle and easy access of fast food have made the dietary pattern unhealthy.
Animal products mainly beef, pork and poultry with skin, mutton, lard, butter, cheese carry lot of saturated fats. Avoid having trans fats which are in baked, processed and fried food items, certain margarines and spreads. Take lean meats, poultry without skin, low fat dairy products, fish and nuts with vegetable oil in moderation.
Adults should do at least 150 minutes of moderately intensive physical activity or at least 75 minutes of high intensive physical activity per week. Families should limit the amount of time spent in front of TV or continuous reading to less than 2 hours a day in a seated position. Exercises should be a regular part of life.
World is now facing visible epidemic of obesity. It affects your cardiovascular health and also affect your wellbeing.To lose weight, do regular exercises, have healthy diet, cut down starch and sugar and alcohol. Have plenty of fruits and vegetables.
Psychological health can affect your cardio vascular health. Regular exercise and practice relaxation, reading, being with friends and family, adequate sleep, various hobbies maintain the positive attitude towards stress free life.
Know your numbers
Visit your doctor or health care professional, check your blood pressure regularly and take steps to control it and take regular medication.Know your cholesterol- high cholesterol is another factor for cardiovascular disease. Check regularly and control with dietary measures and medication. Know your blood sugar- Diabetic is another major factor for cardiovascular disease. Diet control, medication and professional advice required to control it.
Know your warning signs
To know the symptoms of CVD will help your survival because earlier the treatment better the chances of survival. Chest pain of tightening or burning in nature with pain radiating down the upper limbs or to the neck and jaw or back, associated with sweating and nausea are your warning signs.
Sudden weakness of limbs, slurring of speech, deviation of mouth, double vision could be due to a stroke. Knowing these symptoms and seeking urgent medical attention allow you to get treatment early to prevent life threatening complications.
Take your medicine regularly and correctly
If you are already diagnosed with heart disease or with stroke, taking your medication regularly will reduce another similar episode in future.
Breast feeding and lifelong health
Breast feeding is the best form of nutrition for newborn and infants according to WHO. Increasing public awareness is important. Infants who are breastfed tend to have lower cholesterol and blood pressure as well as lower rates of obesity.
Both undernourished and over nourished early in life can increase the risk of developing cardio vascular diseases. Maternal obesity during pregnancy has been associated with obesity in children which also increase the cardiovascular disease risk.
As always our emphasis will be on improving heart health across all nations in adult male and female as well as children. By adopting lifestyle changes, people all over the world can have longer and better lives through the prevention and control of heart disease and stroke. This was highlighted on this most important day to persuade people on maintain a healthy lifestyle.
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