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DEALING WITH UNUSUAL CHALLENGES

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CONFESSIONS OF A GLOBAL GYPSY

By Dr. Chandana (Chandi) Jayawardena DPhil
President – Chandi J. Associates Inc. Consulting, Canada
Founder & Administrator – Global Hospitality Forum
chandij@sympatico.ca

Plans Working

Having commenced three semesters prior, my studies at the University of Colombo (UoC) to earn an Executive Diploma in Business Administration (EDBA) were working well as I had planned by mid-1983. Successful completion of the EDBA was a prerequisite for me to be accepted to the first batch of the world’s first master’s degree (M.Sc.) in International Hotel Management, at the University of Surrey (UoS) in the United Kingdom.

My plan was to pass all EDBA final examinations scheduled in late July and early August, 1983, and then proceed to UK before the M.Sc. commenced in September. I organized a study group of four like-minded students (an engineer, an accountant, a marketer and myself) from the EDBA program. We all worked hard and balanced busy professional and personal lives with our studies. Those days, I only needed an average of four hours of sleep to be rested enough to handle all my many tasks. All were set for success until the ugly head of racial violence in Sri Lanka rose again.

Black July of 1983

There had been growing tension between some groups of the Sinhalese and Tamil communities of Ceylon since 1956 when the then government of Ceylon, introduced the ‘Sinhala Only Act’ for political gain. The justification for this selfish act was what some Sinhalese leaders described as resolving a prolonging imbalance in the civil service and other professions. This was a result of the ‘Divide and Rule’ strategies of the British colonizers. There were ugly ethnic riots and disruptions in Sri Lanka in 1958, in 1977 and again in 1981.

A deadly ambush by a Tamil militant group – Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam (LTTE) on July 23, 1983, caused the death of 13 Sri Lanka Army soldiers. That triggered island-wide riots, initially orchestrated by some leading politicians, but soon becoming like the monster created by Frankenstein. The pogrom eventually escalated into mass violence with significant and shockingly high public participation. The Black July riots, which resulted in hundreds of deaths and the exodus of thousands of Tamils from the country, was among the darkest chapters in the contemporary history of Sri Lanka.

From Black July 1983, a bloody civil war continued in Sri Lanka for 26 years, costing the lives of over 57,000 in the battle fronts and by frequent terrorist suicide bombings. An Indian Prime Minister, a Sri Lankan President, and over a dozen key political leaders of Sri Lanka were assassinated by the LTTE. Thirteen years after that, on January 31, 1996, during the LTTE suicide bombing of the Central Bank of Sri Lanka killing 91 people, I nearly lost my life.

Plans Destroyed

Witnessing some deadly and totally cruel acts, where I lived in the Colombo District, I was deeply saddened, disappointed and disgusted. My personal plans were also destroyed. There was frequent civil unrest, states of emergency and curfews, (as Sri Lanka once again has been experiencing in the year 2022). UoC closed and examinations were postponed, indefinitely. I felt a large dark cloud over our heads, dooming Sri Lanka as well as my plans to progress in my chosen profession.

Eventually, when UoC announced the dates for delayed examinations, it was too late for me to get accepted into the M.Sc. program in UoS. The deadline for me to successfully complete the EDBA, and remit full fees to UoS was August 1983, as their program was scheduled to commence in UK by the end of September. According to the new schedule of UoC, the EDBA examinations were to end on October 20, with results taking another 30 days to be finalized!

There was no light at the end of the tunnel for me. My family suggested that I change my plans and join the second M.Sc. batch in 1984. I was defiant and determined to maintain my original goal. “If there is a will, there will be a way!” I told my family, and thought outside the box. I called Professor Bertram Bastianpillai, the UoC Dean in charge of the EDBA program at his home, and explained my dilemma. As a new mentor of mine, who was fond of me, he clearly knew of my ambitions, and was very supportive. However, as a Tamil gentleman, he was staying at home without going to UoC for safety reasons.

“Chandana, I would like to help you, but as my car is marked by thugs outside the university, I don’t want to drive to UoC from my house in Colombo-6.” Professor Bastianpillai told me. We then agreed for me to pick him up from his home and drive to UoC in my car. During our 15-minute drive, in spite of being worried about his safety, he was always encouraging me. He told me how much he enjoyed his days in UK during his Ph.D. studies at the University of London. He also told me how he worked as a porter at the Victoria train station in London, during his doctoral student days. In his office at UoC, he did something that most academic leaders won’t do.

His urgent fax to UoS, stated: “Chandana Jayawardena is one of our best students. Given the unfortunate current situation in Sri Lanka, the University of Colombo was compelled to postpone all examinations for ten weeks. This means that Mr. Jayawardena will be late by a month to join your program. Judging from his outstanding performance during the mid-term examinations and projects, I have no doubt that Mr. Jayawardena will do well at the final examinations in the Executive Diploma in Business Administration programme. He is determined to catch up the studies of the missed month, at the University of Surrey, within a few days of his arrival in the United Kingdom.” Purely based on that unprecedented vouching expressed in his fax, I was admitted to the M.Sc. program in UK, one month late, pending the EDBA results. Thank you, Professor Bastianpillai. RIP!

All In for the Future

Although, UoS, allowed me to join the M.Sc. program one month late, they included a strict condition. When UoC finalized the grades for the EDBA program, I was required to pass all courses above average. UoS letter of acceptance clearly indicated that; otherwise, I would be removed from the M.Sc. program. In that scenario, I would have lost financially (university fees, two air tickets for my wife and me, rent in UK, etc.) as well as, my reputation. Nonetheless I gambled and took a chance.

After converting all of my savings from mediocre Sri Lankan salaries over the previous nine years to pay my university fees in Sterling Pounds, I was still short. To bridge the gap, I sold my old car and took a loan from my father-in-law. My wife left her job in Colombo, and we were prepared to throw everything into the effort. As the spouse of a full-time international student in UK, my wife was authorized to work full time. The British High Commission in Colombo informed me that I too could work part-time. We planned our UK living budget, based on the assumption that we would find work in London, easily and quickly. We were willing to do any type of work. Although, we were a little nervous to be totally out of our comfort zone, we were optimistic and liked the challenge. We reckoned that unless we try, we would never make it.

Advice by Four Mentors

Throughout my career, I was fortunate to have excellent mentors. In 1983, prior to my departure to UK, four of them gave me some useful advice.Pearl Heenatigala, Director/Principal of the Ceylon Hotel School (CHS), thanked me for my service as a Senior Lecturer of CHS. After saying goodbye, she surprised me with some parting words. “Chandana, after you complete your masters, why don’t you re-join CHS as the Vice Principal?” We agreed to keep in touch.

Professor Bertram Bastianpillai advised me to join a Ph.D. Program soon after completing the M.Sc., while focusing on an academic career in a university. “There are no hoteliers with doctoral degrees in the world, outside of the USA, and you will do well with such a qualification.” He planted a seed in my mind.

Stefan Pfeiffer, the German national who was named the hotel opening General Manager of the Galadari Meridien Hotel contacted me, before my departure from Sri Lanka. I knew him when he was the General Manager of Hotel Lanka Oberoi in the late 1970s. He returned to Sri Lanka during the pre-opening year of the Galadari, the only hotel in Sri Lanka to open with 500 five-star rooms. Although I never worked with him, he was keen that after my studies in UK, I join the Galadari. We agreed to keep in touch. When I returned to Sri Lanka, he offered me a middle management position at the Galadari which I did not accept. Eventually, I joined his team as a senior manager and worked with him for a short period of time in 1986.

Malin Hapugoda (Hapu), then the General Manager/Director for Ceylon Holiday Resorts Limited, and a former boss of mine, called me the day before I left Sri Lanka. “Chandana, when will you be back in Sri Lanka?” he asked. When I told him that I may be back within two years, he made an open-ended offer to me. “The new Coral Gardens Hotel will be opened in 1985 with 156 rooms. I would like you to open this four-star hotel as the Manager. The job is yours. Call me when you return.” I was most grateful to Hapu for such an offer.

Considering Options for the Future

I was very pleased with the offers and suggestions from my mentors. However, I wanted to keep my options open without committing to anything concrete. I also wanted to find useful part-time employment during my graduate studies in UK, which was the most important next step to have a positive cash flow while in UK. I was hoping to explore opportunities with the world’s largest hotel and catering company at that time, Trust House Forte Hotels in UK, where I worked as a Management Trainee in 1979.

Just before my departure to UK, I heard that Taj Hotels of India recently acquired two hotels in London. Taj group had just opened a five-star hotel in Colombo – Taj Samudra. I immediately asked for an appointment to meet the General Manager of this hotel, and managed to meet with an Indian national, Yezdi Kathrak, who was the Resident Manager of Taj Samudra. He was very helpful, and gave me a letter of introduction to the General Manager of Baily’s Hotel in London, then owned and managed by the Taj Hotels. That letter resulted in securing my first part-time job in London, in 1983.

My First Good Bye to Sri Lanka

Between 1979 and 1982, doing five overseas trips covering 20 countries was fun. My departure from Sri Lanka in 1983, however, was very different. We were leaving our birth country for a longer period of time, without any clear plans to return after a couple of years. The civil war that had started in Sri Lanka, made the uncertainty greater. Peace and stability are essential prerequisites for tourism and for those who are employees in this global industry.

In the early 1980s, we led a very busy life, professionally and socially. Therefore, my good bye round included, meetings with an unusually large number of people. I said good bye to members of the family, my students, work colleagues at CHS, fellow students of UoC and the Tourist Guide Lecturer program, business associates of Streamline Services (Pvt.) Ltd., where I was a director, my clients whom I served as a consultant, fellow office bearers of the Ceylon Hotel School Graduates Association, TV commercial producers and fellow national Judokas. On October 22, 1983, we left Sri Lanka after an emotional roller coaster.



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A landslide in the Central Province

Message from Malaiyaha Tamil community to govt:

Insights from SSA Cyclone Ditwah Survey

When climate disasters strike, they don’t affect everyone equally. Marginalised communities typically face worse outcomes, and Cyclone Ditwah is no exception. Especially in a context where normalcy is far from “normal”, the idea of returning to normalcy or restoring a life of normalcy makes very little sense.

The island-wide survey (https://ssalanka.org/reports/) conducted by the Social Scientists’ Association (SSA), between early to mid-January on Cyclone Ditwah shows stark regional disparities in how satisfied or dissatisfied people were with the government’s response. While national satisfaction levels were relatively high in most provinces, the Central Province tells a different story.

Only 35.2% of Central Province residents reported that they were satisfied with early warning and evacuation measures, compared to 52.2% nationally. The gap continues across every measure: just 52.9% were satisfied with immediate rescue and emergency response, compared with the national figure of 74.6%. Satisfaction with relief distribution in the Central Province is 51.9% while the national figure stands at 73.1%. The figures for restoration of water, electricity, and roads are at a low 45.9% in the central province compared to the 70.9% in national figures. Similarly, the satisfaction level for recovery and rebuilding support is 48.7% in the Central Province, while the national figure is 67.0%.

A deeper analysis of the SSA data on public perceptions reveals something important: these lower satisfaction rates came primarily from the Malaiyaha Tamil population. Their experience differed not just from other provinces, but also from other ethnic groups living in the Central Province itself.

The Malaiyaha Tamil community’s vulnerability didn’t start with the cyclone. Their vulnerability is a historically and structurally pre-determined process of exclusion and marginalisation. Brought to Sri Lanka during British rule to work for the empire’s plantation economies, they have faced long-term economic exploitation and have repeatedly been denied access to state support and social welfare systems. Most estate residents still live in ‘line rooms’ and have no rights to the land they cultivate and live on. The community continues to be governed by an outdated estate management system that acts as a barrier to accessing public and municipal services such as road repair, water, electricity and other basic infrastructures available to other citizens.

As far as access to improved water sources is concerned, the Sri Lanka Demographic Health Survey (2016) shows that 57% of estate sector households don’t have access to improved water sources, while more than 90% of households in urban and rural areas do. With regard to the level of poverty, as the Department of Census and Statistics (2019) data reveals, the estate sector where most Malaiyaha Tamils live had a poverty headcount index of 33.8%; more than double the national rate of 14.3%. These statistics highlight key indicators of the systemic discrimination faced by the Malaiyaha Tamil community.

Some crucial observations from the SSA data collectors who enumerated responses from estate residents in the survey reveal the specific challenges faced by the Malaiyaha Tamils, particularly in their efforts to seek state support for compensation and reconstruction.

First, the Central Province experienced not just flooding but also the highest number of landslides in the island. As a result, some residents in the region lost entire homes, access roadways, and other basic infrastructures. The loss of lives, livelihoods and land was at a higher intensity compared to the provinces not located in the hills. Most importantly, the Malaiyaha Tamil community’s pre-existing grievances made them even more vulnerable and the government’s job of reparation and restitution more complex.

Early warnings hadn’t reached many areas. Some data collectors said they themselves never heard any warnings in estate areas, while others mentioned that early warnings were issued but didn’t reach some segments of the community. According to the resident data collectors, the police announcements reached only as far as the sections where they were able to drive their vehicles to, and there were many estate roads that were not motorable. When warnings did filter through to remote locations, they often came by word of mouth and information was distorted along the way. Once the disaster hit, things got worse: roads were blocked, electricity went out, mobile networks failed and people were cut off completely.

Emergency response was slow. Blocked roads meant people could not get to hospitals when they needed urgent care, including pregnant mothers. The difficult terrain and poor road conditions meant rescue teams took much longer to reach affected areas than in other regions.

Relief supplies didn’t reach everyone. The Grama Niladhari divisions in these areas are huge and hard to navigate, making it difficult for Grama Niladharis to reach all places as urgently as needed. Relief workers distributed supplies where vehicles could go, which meant accessible areas got help while remote communities were left out.

Some people didn’t even try to go to safety centres or evacuation shelters set up in local schools because the facilities there were already so poor. The perceptions of people who did go to safety centres, as shown in the provincial data, reveal that satisfaction was low compared to other affected regions of the country. Less than half were satisfied with space and facilities (42.1%) or security and protection (45.0%). Satisfaction was even lower for assistance with lost or damaged documentation (17.9%) and information and support for compensation applications (28.2%). Only 22.5% were satisfied with medical care and health services below most other affected regions.

Restoring services proved nearly impossible in some areas. Road access was the biggest problem. The condition of the roads was already poor even before the cyclone, and some still haven’t been cleared. Recovery is especially difficult because there’s no decent baseline infrastructure to restore, hence you can’t bring roads and other public facilities back to a “good” condition when they were never good, even before the disaster.

Water systems faced their own complications. Many households get water from natural sources or small community projects, and not the centralised state system. These sources are often in the middle of the disaster zone and therefore got contaminated during the floods and landslides.

Long-term recovery remains stalled. Without basic infrastructure, areas that are still hard to reach keep struggling to get the support they need for rebuilding.

Taken together, what do these testaments mean? Disaster response can’t be the same for everyone. The Malaiyaha Tamil community has been double marginalised because they were already living with structural inequalities such as poor infrastructure, geographic isolation, and inadequate services which have been exacerbated by Cyclone Ditwah. An effective and fair disaster response needs to account for these underlying vulnerabilities. It requires interventions tailored to the historical, economic, and infrastructural realities that marginalized communities face every day. On top of that, it highlights the importance of dealing with climate disasters, given the fact that vulnerable communities could face more devastating impacts compared to others.

(Shashik Silva is a researcher with the Social Scientists’ Association of Sri Lanka)

by Shashik Silva ✍️

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Crucial test for religious and ethnic harmony in Bangladesh

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A political protest that led to governmental change in Bangladesh mid last year. (photograph: imago)

Will the Bangladesh parliamentary election bring into being a government that will ensure ethnic and religious harmony in the country? This is the poser on the lips of peace-loving sections in Bangladesh and a principal concern of those outside who mean the country well.

The apprehensions are mainly on the part of religious and ethnic minorities. The parliamentary poll of February 12th is expected to bring into existence a government headed by the Bangladesh Nationalist Party (BNP) and the Islamist oriented Jamaat-e-Islami party and this is where the rub is. If these parties win, will it be a case of Bangladesh sliding in the direction of a theocracy or a state where majoritarian chauvinism thrives?

Chief of the Jamaat, Shafiqur Rahman, who was interviewed by sections of the international media recently said that there is no need for minority groups in Bangladesh to have the above fears. He assured, essentially, that the state that will come into being will be equable and inclusive. May it be so, is likely to be the wish of those who cherish a tension-free Bangladesh.

The party that could have posed a challenge to the above parties, the Awami League Party of former Prime Minister Hasina Wased, is out of the running on account of a suspension that was imposed on it by the authorities and the mentioned majoritarian-oriented parties are expected to have it easy at the polls.

A positive that has emerged against the backdrop of the poll is that most ordinary people in Bangladesh, be they Muslim or Hindu, are for communal and religious harmony and it is hoped that this sentiment will strongly prevail, going ahead. Interestingly, most of them were of the view, when interviewed, that it was the politicians who sowed the seeds of discord in the country and this viewpoint is widely shared by publics all over the region in respect of the politicians of their countries.

Some sections of the Jamaat party were of the view that matters with regard to the orientation of governance are best left to the incoming parliament to decide on but such opinions will be cold comfort for minority groups. If the parliamentary majority comes to consist of hard line Islamists, for instance, there is nothing to prevent the country from going in for theocratic governance. Consequently, minority group fears over their safety and protection cannot be prevented from spreading.

Therefore, we come back to the question of just and fair governance and whether Bangladesh’s future rulers could ensure these essential conditions of democratic rule. The latter, it is hoped, will be sufficiently perceptive to ascertain that a Bangladesh rife with religious and ethnic tensions, and therefore unstable, would not be in the interests of Bangladesh and those of the region’s countries.

Unfortunately, politicians region-wide fall for the lure of ethnic, religious and linguistic chauvinism. This happens even in the case of politicians who claim to be democratic in orientation. This fate even befell Bangladesh’s Awami League Party, which claims to be democratic and socialist in general outlook.

We have it on the authority of Taslima Nasrin in her ground-breaking novel, ‘Lajja’, that the Awami Party was not of any substantial help to Bangladesh’s Hindus, for example, when violence was unleashed on them by sections of the majority community. In fact some elements in the Awami Party were found to be siding with the Hindus’ murderous persecutors. Such are the temptations of hard line majoritarianism.

In Sri Lanka’s past numerous have been the occasions when even self-professed Leftists and their parties have conveniently fallen in line with Southern nationalist groups with self-interest in mind. The present NPP government in Sri Lanka has been waxing lyrical about fostering national reconciliation and harmony but it is yet to prove its worthiness on this score in practice. The NPP government remains untested material.

As a first step towards national reconciliation it is hoped that Sri Lanka’s present rulers would learn the Tamil language and address the people of the North and East of the country in Tamil and not Sinhala, which most Tamil-speaking people do not understand. We earnestly await official language reforms which afford to Tamil the dignity it deserves.

An acid test awaits Bangladesh as well on the nation-building front. Not only must all forms of chauvinism be shunned by the incoming rulers but a secular, truly democratic Bangladesh awaits being licked into shape. All identity barriers among people need to be abolished and it is this process that is referred to as nation-building.

On the foreign policy frontier, a task of foremost importance for Bangladesh is the need to build bridges of amity with India. If pragmatism is to rule the roost in foreign policy formulation, Bangladesh would place priority to the overcoming of this challenge. The repatriation to Bangladesh of ex-Prime Minister Hasina could emerge as a steep hurdle to bilateral accord but sagacious diplomacy must be used by Bangladesh to get over the problem.

A reply to N.A. de S. Amaratunga

A response has been penned by N.A. de S. Amaratunga (please see p5 of ‘The Island’ of February 6th) to a previous column by me on ‘ India shaping-up as a Swing State’, published in this newspaper on January 29th , but I remain firmly convinced that India remains a foremost democracy and a Swing State in the making.

If the countries of South Asia are to effectively manage ‘murderous terrorism’, particularly of the separatist kind, then they would do well to adopt to the best of their ability a system of government that provides for power decentralization from the centre to the provinces or periphery, as the case may be. This system has stood India in good stead and ought to prove effective in all other states that have fears of disintegration.

Moreover, power decentralization ensures that all communities within a country enjoy some self-governing rights within an overall unitary governance framework. Such power-sharing is a hallmark of democratic governance.

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Celebrating Valentine’s Day …

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Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love, romance, and affection, and this is how some of our well-known personalities plan to celebrate Valentine’s Day – 14th February:

Merlina Fernando (Singer)

Yes, it’s a special day for lovers all over the world and it’s even more special to me because 14th February is the birthday of my husband Suresh, who’s the lead guitarist of my band Mission.

We have planned to celebrate Valentine’s Day and his Birthday together and it will be a wonderful night as always.

We will be having our fans and close friends, on that night, with their loved ones at Highso – City Max hotel Dubai, from 9.00 pm onwards.

Lorensz Francke (Elvis Tribute Artiste)

On Valentine’s Day I will be performing a live concert at a Wealthy Senior Home for Men and Women, and their families will be attending, as well.

I will be performing live with romantic, iconic love songs and my song list would include ‘Can’t Help falling in Love’, ‘Love Me Tender’, ‘Burning Love’, ‘Are You Lonesome Tonight’, ‘The Wonder of You’ and ‘’It’s Now or Never’ to name a few.

To make Valentine’s Day extra special I will give the Home folks red satin scarfs.

Emma Shanaya (Singer)

I plan on spending the day of love with my girls, especially my best friend. I don’t have a romantic Valentine this year but I am thrilled to spend it with the girl that loves me through and through. I’ll be in Colombo and look forward to go to a cute cafe and spend some quality time with my childhood best friend Zulha.

JAYASRI

Emma-and-Maneeka

This Valentine’s Day the band JAYASRI we will be really busy; in the morning we will be landing in Sri Lanka, after our Oman Tour; then in the afternoon we are invited as Chief Guests at our Maris Stella College Sports Meet, Negombo, and late night we will be with LineOne band live in Karandeniya Open Air Down South. Everywhere we will be sharing LOVE with the mass crowds.

Kay Jay (Singer)

I will stay at home and cook a lovely meal for lunch, watch some movies, together with Sanjaya, and, maybe we go out for dinner and have a lovely time. Come to think of it, every day is Valentine’s Day for me with Sanjaya Alles.

Maneka Liyanage (Beauty Tips)

On this special day, I celebrate love by spending meaningful time with the people I cherish. I prepare food with love and share meals together, because food made with love brings hearts closer. I enjoy my leisure time with them — talking, laughing, sharing stories, understanding each other, and creating beautiful memories. My wish for this Valentine’s Day is a world without fighting — a world where we love one another like our own beloved, where we do not hurt others, even through a single word or action. Let us choose kindness, patience, and understanding in everything we do.

Janaka Palapathwala (Singer)

Janaka

Valentine’s Day should not be the only day we speak about love.

From the moment we are born into this world, we seek love, first through the very drop of our mother’s milk, then through the boundless care of our Mother and Father, and the embrace of family.

Love is everywhere. All living beings, even plants, respond in affection when they are loved.

As we grow, we learn to love, and to be loved. One day, that love inspires us to build a new family of our own.

Love has no beginning and no end. It flows through every stage of life, timeless, endless, and eternal.

Natasha Rathnayake (Singer)

We don’t have any special plans for Valentine’s Day. When you’ve been in love with the same person for over 25 years, you realise that love isn’t a performance reserved for one calendar date. My husband and I have never been big on public displays, or grand gestures, on 14th February. Our love is expressed quietly and consistently, in ordinary, uncelebrated moments.

With time, you learn that love isn’t about proving anything to the world or buying into a commercialised idea of romance—flowers that wilt, sweets that spike blood sugar, and gifts that impress briefly but add little real value. In today’s society, marketing often pushes the idea that love is proven by how much money you spend, and that buying things is treated as a sign of commitment.

Real love doesn’t need reminders or price tags. It lives in showing up every day, choosing each other on unromantic days, and nurturing the relationship intentionally and without an audience.

This isn’t a judgment on those who enjoy celebrating Valentine’s Day. It’s simply a personal choice.

Melloney Dassanayake (Miss Universe Sri Lanka 2024)

I truly believe it’s beautiful to have a day specially dedicated to love. But, for me, Valentine’s Day goes far beyond romantic love alone. It celebrates every form of love we hold close to our hearts: the love for family, friends, and that one special person who makes life brighter. While 14th February gives us a moment to pause and celebrate, I always remind myself that love should never be limited to just one day. Every single day should feel like Valentine’s Day – constant reminder to the people we love that they are never alone, that they are valued, and that they matter.

I’m incredibly blessed because, for me, every day feels like Valentine’s Day. My special person makes sure of that through the smallest gestures, the quiet moments, and the simple reminders that love lives in the details. He shows me that it’s the little things that count, and that love doesn’t need grand stages to feel extraordinary. This Valentine’s Day, perfection would be something intimate and meaningful: a cozy picnic in our home garden, surrounded by nature, laughter, and warmth, followed by an abstract drawing session where we let our creativity flow freely. To me, that’s what love is – simple, soulful, expressive, and deeply personal. When love is real, every ordinary moment becomes magical.

Noshin De Silva (Actress)

Valentine’s Day is one of my favourite holidays! I love the décor, the hearts everywhere, the pinks and reds, heart-shaped chocolates, and roses all around. But honestly, I believe every day can be Valentine’s Day.

It doesn’t have to be just about romantic love. It’s a chance to celebrate love in all its forms with friends, family, or even by taking a little time for yourself.

Whether you’re spending the day with someone special or enjoying your own company, it’s a reminder to appreciate meaningful connections, show kindness, and lead with love every day.

And yes, I’m fully on theme this year with heart nail art and heart mehendi design!

Wishing everyone a very happy Valentine’s Day, but, remember, love yourself first, and don’t forget to treat yourself.

Sending my love to all of you.

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