Life style
Career choice in the midst of a revolution
Confessions of a Global Gypsy
By Dr. Chandana (Chandi) Jayawardena DPhil Insurgency!
The 5th of April has been a bad day for Ceylon. On that day in 1942, the Japanese bombed Colombo. Exactly 29 years later, on the same day in 1971, an armed revolt was commenced by the Janatha Vimukthi Peramuna (JVP) against the Government of Ceylon. The JVP was successful in recruiting a force of around 10,000 full-time members. Most were students and unemployed youth from rural areas who felt that their economic interests had been neglected by the government. The JVP believed that the local police stations were the government’s key element of power. Therefore, they hoped to remove this presence of power and see the local populace rise up in their support to bring about a revolution.
I was 17-years old at that time, and was a grade 12 student at Ananda College in Colombo 10. For months, we felt the tension building, with police looking suspiciously at youth in their late teens, particularly those with facial hair like me. In the opinion of police, such youth were expressing their solidarity with the JVP and sympathy with the late Che Guevara (killed by CIA in 1967), who was a key inspiration to the JVP. At dawn on April 5, 1971, the Wellawaya police station came under attack and five police constables were killed by the JVP. With that fatal attack a bloody war commenced. All schools were closed indefinitely, curfews were in force, and a state of emergency was declared. That day my life changed, forever…
Army?
Throughout my 13 years from Kindergarten to grade 12, I was a very bad student at Ananda College. I declined to read any assigned texts, and devoutly ignored homework assignments. Therefore, my teachers were surprised when I passed the grade 10 Ordinary Level government examinations on my first attempt. I was good at sports and showed some leadership qualities. I practiced Judo at the central YMCA, and represented the school in Rugby Football. I was average in track and field events, but was elected by my peers as one of the four Athletic House Captains.
More importantly, I was a cadet and held the rank of Corporal. During my annual cadeting trips to army camps in Diyatalawa, I decided that I would join the Army as an officer cadet for a two-year training program when I turned 18. My career ambition was to then get promoted as a Second Lieutenant at age 20, with a long-term goal of eventually becoming a General in my early-40s. That was my dream, but it was shattered when my parents had a serious meeting with me during the height of the JVP insurgency. They told me that: “a career in the Army is now far too dangerous and we do not want our only son to die at war!”. That was the end of that discussion.
Choices
I was forced to choose another career. As my parents had doubts that I would be successful at grade 12 Advance Level government examinations to enter a university, they gave me three choices and wanted me to pick one. My father provided some pros and cons for all three choices:
Visual Arts – Just like my parents, I was good in drawing, painting, and sculpture. Therefore, one option for me was to do a three-year Diploma at Heywood Art School and build a career in visual arts. My father said: “No doubt that you will enjoy it, but we are not sure if you could make a comfortable living from art in a poor country!”
Trainee in a Company – My father had some good contacts with large companies, and said that: “I can find a junior trainee job for you where you will have to start at the bottom.”
Hospitality and Tourism – My father then said that: “Once the war ends, Tourism has the potential of becoming a key non-traditional industry in Ceylon, and those who earn a recognized qualification and join the industry at an early stage of this industry will have good opportunities to do well. There is a Hotel School in Colombo, run by European faculty, which offers a three-year diploma in Hotel and Catering Operations”.
At that time, I had enjoyed meeting a few foreigners and tourists by the Kinross Swimming & Life Saving Club in Wellawatte, where I used to jog and sea bathe with a few of my buddies from Bambalapitiya Flats, without our parent’s knowledge. Therefore, the opportunity to meet European faculty was interesting to me. Living in a hostel for three years and getting good and “free” food were also encouraging selling points from my father. I said: “OK, I will become a hotelier!”, without fully realizing what that notion, really entailed.
Challenges
I soon realized that I had a major challenge in joining the Ceylon Hotel School (CHS). At that time, we rarely spoke English at Ananda College. Therefore, I became very nervous when my father told me that the education at CHS would be conducted in English with French and German as mandatory subjects. Another challenge was that at 17-years, I was underage to join CHS. Once again, I thought about other options. After two weeks of fighting with JVP, the government regained control of all but a few remote areas of the island and the war ended in June of 1971. At that point, I attempted to convince my parents that my proposed Army career would be less dangerous than what they had predicted. I was unsuccessful in convincing them.
I eventually applied to CHS. As I was not sure if I would do well at my first-ever interview, my father did a series of mock interviews in English, at home. I learned English words such as “cutlery”, “crockery”, and “wine” for the first time during my interview preparation. Despite this, I did terribly at the interview. There were hundreds of applicants for 28 vacancies, and I doubted that I would be chosen. During that time in Ceylon, many things happened based on “political pull” rather than the true merits of applicants. Most of the applicants to CHS were from influential families. Therefore, I was surprised when I received a letter confirming that I had been accepted to CHS. We did not talk about it, but I was convinced that my father “did the needful” to get me chosen!
Shock!
I was still not out of the woods. I had to practice a lot and improve my English before the first day at CHS. When my father finally accompanied me to the CHS hostel in Steuart Place, Colombo 3 (where SLTDA and SLITHM are located, now) on Sunday, October 10, 1971, I was in for a rude shock. Instead of a warm welcome by the second-year and third-year students, a horrible week-long ragging (initiation ritual or hazing) was awaiting the batch of 28 new students. Soon after the parents left, the ragging began.
The freshers were told that they could not address senior students by their names unless they added the words “Lord Veteran” to their names, as a mark of respect. Similarly, freshers were strictly prohibited from mentioning their own names without adding the words “Fresher F***er”. For an example, I had to introduce myself, repeatedly throughout the first week, as: “Fresher F***er Chandana Jayawardena”.
(The writer is President – Chandi J. Associates Inc. Consulting, Canada
Founder & Administrator – Global Hospitality Forum
chandij@sympatico.ca )
Some more challenges followed over my memorable and eventful three years at CHS. More, next week…
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Thilini Kumari brings fame and name to Sri Lanka
Thilini Kumari Shehara , who represented Sri Lanka won the first place at the prestigious Miss International 2024 beauty pageant held in Indonesia at the scenic Island of Bali.
She competed with many contestants from 20 counties around the world. Known for her acting prowess Thilini has been the winner of many beauty pageants, in Sri Lanka. Hailing from Kandy, Pilimatalawe, she holds a degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Kelaniya. She has a string of many qualifications and now she reads for her PhD in Philosophy in Education.
Thilini Kumari’s journey from clinching the many prestigious titles, her illustrious career today is nothing short of inspiring. Through her hard work dedication and unwavering faith, she has carved a path that has not only defined her success but has also inspired countless others.
In this interview, she reflects on the highlights and challenges that have shaped her remarkable journey. An actress, TV star and a brand ambassadors for several prestigious brands. Thilini was also the winner of Miss Tourism in 2024.
A multifaceted personality Thilini, worked hard to lose weight, get in shape, improve her speech and build confidence.
With her mesmerizing and impeccable sense of style, Thilini never let the limelight define her.
When asked about her , Thilini said she will continue with her studies but will use her platform to advocate numerous social causes and programmes on women’s empowerment. Her dignified presence and strong moral compass have made her an enduring icon of compassion and determination
This sizzling beauty with brains stunned the audience in an stunning evening gown for the national dress parade.
An old girl of Mahamaya Central College, she is a beauty with brain. She is very much grateful to SriLankan Airlines for sponsoring an air ticket to Indonesia.
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Road to Give 2024- global movement for local impact
We’re thrilled to announce the return of Marriott’s Road to Give! Now in its 10th year, this initiative brings together associates, guests, and well-wishers from across the Asia Pacific to move for a greater cause said a press release.
Weligama Bay Marriott Resort & Spa, supports SOS Children’s Village in Galle through a special walk and beach run. Join us as we raise funds to enrich the lives of these deserving children said a release.
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ADIEU GALADARI
The Galadari Hotel hosted a cocktail bidding adieu to its successful 40 years in the industry as the hotel, hopes to come back under its new brand name Radisson Blue Galadari.
The grand cocktail was hosted by the General Manager Sampath Siriwardene was a way of saying ‘Thank You’ to all those who patronized the hotel and all those who contributed towards the hotel over the years. There was glitz, glamour and an unforgettable experience for those who were present.
The guests saw a vibrant champagne and wine reception combined with delicious canapies and live entertainment by popular violinist Roger Menez.While the grand décor of the spacious ballroom adorned with regal chandeliers and other ornate props were undeniably captivating, it was the heart felt speech made by the General Manager Sampath Siriwardena that truly stole the evening.
The invitees present included guests, business partners and members of the media. The hotel which is currently undergoing renovations was established in October 1984, under the name Galadari Meridian for a period of 11 years. The property then took the brand name Marriot for a further period of two years to thereafter becoming a stand-alone property for the longest period of 27 years.
After the renovations are completed the hotel hopes to create new waves in the hospitality industry. Complete with its new identity Radisson Blu Galadari will offer a better and promising era that will dawn for the property.
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